MRS BEECH
Well, I mean my kids were in the Rhodesian forces when they left school.   You know you can live with a war if you know how to handle it.   I lived with it pretty well I think and Robert was a soldier from 17 and he used to say to me, mom I wish I could leave the Army for you and dad.  And I said to him, Robert if your day is going to be a bullet, that must be the way it goes, because that is where you belong.   And in a way he was quite happy with that arrangement.
 So I was not paranoid about all this carrying on.  You know, I am not new to the game.