TONI LILLIAN MAZWAI
I told him that in our area nobody is invited to a funeral.  They just go there of their own free will.  What should I do and what should I say to those who had come on their own? They just kept quiet.  They said to the Reverend who was next to me, that he was the only person who could do the ceremony and they insisted that there should be no speeches, no freedom songs, nothing.