NYAMEKA GONIWE
Okay.  I guess I have to be stronger for them and they draw that strength from me.  If necessary I try and protect them against exposure, against many other things, and I think they have coped quite well.  Again I'm saying this in a superficial manner.  Maybe I'm not that observant, but as a mother, I think they are stronger and they will grow up strong individuals as well, in spite of the fact that they don't have a father.  And one other thing which I need to say, with my son, it's really good to have a family, good to have Cradock, to go to Cradock over holidays and of course those are models, his models, so he insists to go to Cradock and he loves it.  Of course the family doesn't want him to go anywhere, so they always demand that he goes to Cradock, which has helped quite a lot.