JEAN DU PLESSIS
A while ago after I saw Mrs Grobbelaar testifying at the Truth and Reconciliation Commission, I felt such empathy for - I saw the pain she was going through, the pain of losing a son, and I felt terribly responsible for his death.  Because I was the leader of the organisation and I recruited him to work for the organisation.  I then wrote a letter to her in which I apologised to her and asked for her forgiveness and I tried to support her in her hour of need.  Yesterday I had the opportunity to hand the letter to her.  She did not receive it very well yesterday and this morning she came to me and put her arms round me and told me that she forgave me.