CHAIRPERSON
Can we just keep a moment's silence please because we are dealing with things that are very, very deep.  It isn't easy as we all know, to ask for forgiveness and it's also not easy to forgive but we are people who know that, that when someone cannot be forgiven there is no future.  If a husband and wife quarrel and they don't one of them say I am sorry and the other says I forgive, the relationship is in jeopardy.  We have been given an example by our president and by many other people. 
 Many of you, all of you who have suffered have said, those who have come up here have said, who came to tell what happened, to ask for forgiveness and to forgive.  But it is not easy and we don't, we mustn't pretend it is easy but this is what we are about, if our country is going to survive.