NIMROD MBEWU MTHEMBU
It was on Saturday.  We attended a ceremony.  It is a ceremony where the father of a girl makes a feast to say thank you to his daughter for behaving herself during her teens until she grew up.  It is also, in someway, to tell his daughter that she is now old enough to have a boyfriend.  I was with my friend Mthembu who was wearing an IFP t-shirt.  As we were dancing there, we heard someone mentioning the word "uklova" which is a derogatory word referring to IFP supporters.  We ignore this because it was not directed specifically at a certain person.  After dancing outside, we went into the kraal of our host.  It is customary that the dancing usually takes place outside before people get into the host's kraal to eat and drink.