MR BODE
Major Mbatha, you must also respect the wishes of the family and as to how they may feel about the loss of their own son and not so much of how other people may evaluate such a loss.  It is my specific instructions from the parents whom are present at this hearing, to ask you officially in public here and now to apologise for your action that led to the death of their son.  Are you willing to do so, yes or no?