MS DITHEBE
As far as reconciliation is concerned myselfas a deceased's wife I cannot forgive the killer or the murdererbecause he could not forgive my husband for what he had done. To show that he apologised he bought two quarts for him but thatnever meant a thing.   Based on that I sit here because I heardthat he asked for amnesty.  I would not lie because I would notforgive him.  If my husband was here I would not be strugglingas I am at the moment.  My child would have the warmth of havinga father.  He does not have the love of a father of which he couldhave had would his father be living at this time.