ZINAKILE ASYIA
It's true.  I was a mother, I was a father.  At the time I had a girlfriend that I am still seeing now.  She was pregnant.  She was on full term.  It was difficult, because she had to come and stay with us in a dilapidated house.  I then tried to refurbish the house so that my mother could come back.  I was doing all this so that when my mother gets out of jail, there would be a positive change at home.  Even the state missionary I did not want to show them that they had beaten us at their game.  I needed a positive change.