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My children and I were at home watching videos and my husband had gone to the High Gate for the first time.  One o'clock came and the children had gone to bed so I went to bed.  I was fast asleep when I heard banging on my door so I got up thinking it was my husband who had lost his key.  I opened the door and saw my husband's friend who had gone with him to the High Gate and he asked if he could come in.  I opened up and we went through to the lounge and sat down.  I knew something was wrong.  He said to me Dave is gone and I didn't understand and when he said Dave is dead I apparently fainted.  When I came around he told me what had happened.  He said they were sitting having a drink and their backs were facing the door.  They heard like fire crackers and apparently my husband still said someone is happy they are shooting fire crackers.  Just then they burst in and started shooting.  My husband saved my friend's life because he was sitting next to her and he pushed her down on the floor and that's when he was shot.  He died instantly.
 For two weeks I was on tranquilisers and I didn't know what was going on.  People came to see me but I cannot remember who came.  From then on we suffered.  I lost my car because I could not afford to pay it as my husband used to pay it.  I couldn't afford the rent so I had to sell some of my furniture and move in with my father who had a small house.  My children suffered at school.  Their marks were down as they were out of school for two weeks and they are still very bitter.