LINDILE WATSON KOLISI
I still remember who they are.  It was shortly after I had buried my wife and I was still grieving the loss of my wife.  While I was sitting there with the priest, somebody came to call me.  They were a, they were not too keen to tell me, because I was still grieving and I went to them and said, look, tell me what is it and they said, look, we hate to be the bearers of bad news especially in your grief and the priest said, look, let us pray.  We prayed and prayed and I looked around and I was very anxious and they said, Mr Kolisi, your wife is deceased, you have a son by the name Sipho and I said, yes, what is wrong with my son.  They said, please do not get too upset and I asked for a glass of water and then they informed me that my son was also dead.  I cried out, oh my God, why did you not rather take me first so that I did not even know where he was buried.  The priest consoled me and said you are a Christian, you are born again and you have to be strong and I said to him that this, it was quite apparent that this child died while my wife was still alive.  I said that I realised that this child who had died while my wife was still alive ...