MR DLAMINI
21A/7 involved in the struggle.  He was very much active, but when he came back he was just very disturbed.  He used to stay at different people's places.  He wasn't working.  He didn't even have food.  Comrades would give him food here and he would sleep at different places from day to day, and he didn't have a home.  He used to come where I was living.  He would just stay for a short time.  He would say, "Sisi, I don't want you to be involved or implicated and I don't want them to destroy your home here.  So I will just come and visit you and not stay for a long time".  That's how he used to come and have short visits with me and eventually he got a job.  He worked for this trade union, but he was complaining about how he was working and I said to him, "Okay, since you want to fix things you also want to build your own home now, and our father is no more" - our father died in 1989 - he died on the 15th December.  Because he heard about the death of his wife, he just got a heart attack and a stroke and he became very sickly until he died.  While he was still working there, he had this girlfriend he was in love with.  They used to come together at my home and they didn't stay there, they would just visit me for a short while and go.  On the 20th January - it was a Saturday - there was a telephone in the morning, before half past seven.  This girl phoned.  She said, "There is terrible news.  Your brother is no more".  I just cried.  I didn't know what to do and I just put down the telephone.  I was very confused.  I didn't know.  Our father died and Nje after a month just died but now I was all on my own and I didn't even have money.  This girl phoned again.  She said, "What should we do?"  I said to her, "Let us meet in town.