CARL CASTELING BOTHA
From your perspective yes, but just remember I also have a family.  I have heard what you have said with regard to my involvement meaning that I must have had a choice to do it or not.  I exercised the choice to do it but I did not foresee that I would have to bear this pain and inconvenience.  I believed in the hierarchy that brainwashed us.  I grew up within a milieu where the apartheid dispensation was the order of the day and perhaps you should incorporate that background.