MR MALAN
Take your time, have some water and only when you feel better you can continue. Please relax. Mrs Montshiva, it is going to be very, very difficult, we understand that we can never even for ourselves understand how difficult it is to relate to us your experience and the loss of your children.  So really, we in our loss at being able to understand, are quite relaxed to wait for you.  If you don't feel up to it, tell us so and take your time.  If you at any stage feel that you would rather not continue at this stage and come back later, or really not continue at all, we have your full statement.  We would appreciate your sharing your experiences with us, but we do not want to pressurise you. If you are ready to continue you may do so.  But I want to repeat, at any stage if you don't feel up to it, just say so to us and we will excuse you and if you would feel up to it, recall you at a later stage.  But you may continue, if you feel so.