MR COETZER
This is once again a difficult question.  I do not think that every single person actually has shown true remorse and I want to repeat, if you only go as far, if people can only bring themselves so far as to show remorse and if people want to also continue to forgive because remorse and forgiveness must go hand in hand.  If you show remorse then this automatically almost brings about forgiveness.  It is my prayer that those people who were victims and those people who were perpetrators, that there will be true remorse to take a part in the process of  reconciliation.