SANDISWA MKHONTO
After the death of my husband my life never stabilised.  My husband 
was everything to me, he did everything for me.  His death was never a pleasant thing to 
me, today I don't have a husband, my child doesn't have a father, I have to answer many 
questions.  Some of the questions I cannot answer.  Today he asks me this question, 
tomorrow the next.  Today I don't have a husband, my son doesn't have a father, the 
family has lost.