TESTIMONY_GIVER:
  I lost two children but there're three in all but the other one it had nothing to do with human rights violations.  I'm going to talk about Vusi and Khulekane.  I do have a husband but since this happened we have separated to such an extent that I don't even know his whereabouts but I'm staying with my children at home.  We don't have any contact with him.   You husband, when this happened were you staying with him?   ---   Yes, we were staying with him and he used to come back on holidays and give us money to buy groceries.  We had a wonderful relationship.  At times we would write letters to him asking him to give us money to buy some groceries.  But we haven't had any contact from him.  We are suffering as a family. 