TESTIMONY_GIVER:
  I do see that my wife has been shattered.  She is suffering from depression.  When you have a son you always have the hope that your son will maintain you when you grow old.  Now with girls, girls get married and they move away from home.  Now she had a hope that she had a son who would look after her after she has got her pension.  Probably Thubelihle could be working by now and he would be maintaining his family.  Maybe I could also lean on him, he could also help me in many ways.  As you know that when we grow old we do put our trust, as well as our hope, in our sons.  If the Truth Commission could help me.  I still have other children who are still very young.  He could have probably put them through schooling, or university.