TESTIMONY_GIVER:
  When we arrived there I stayed.  We slept with her.  The next day she told me she was leaving and I asked her as to where was she going.  She said I must stay there, and she said she wasn't staying in her house, and I asked her where was she staying.  She told me she was staying at her father's house and she said the reason she is staying at her father's house is because her mother was sick and she's helping her.  So I asked her why is she leaving her children and go and nurse her mother.  Why can't she take her mother and bring her down here.  Then I realised that it was going to be difficult for me to stay there alone without her in her house.  