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  At times we would talk about it, but we wouldn't delve into the nitty-gritty of what happened, because it actually made the situation soar and the atmosphere quite tense.   My husband would say I am alive and I appreciate the fact that you are also alive, so we must just forget about the matter and put it to rest.   So, we sort of avoided talking about the situation.   And whenever we talk about this, his attacks would start, because he is sickly.   He doesn't really look as if he is perfectly normal.   I don't know what happened to him, he is a totally changed man.   He doesn't talk, he just keeps quiet most of the time.   Then when a third person comes in, we start talking and at times we even become surprised at ourselves, because when we are together it is as if there is nobody in the house, we always keep quiet, and when the third person comes in it is only then that we talk.