MS GOBODO-MADIKIZELA
Thank you - Madodomzi it seems you've taken an amazing responsibility and commitment to look after your wife's brother's son.  It is not very common, but especially when the mother is still alive.  But what it points to also just as a side line is the price that many woman finds themselves in, to have to choose between their children and a partner, to be forced to even be forced to make the choice.
And the fact that you have taken on this responsibility so amazingly and we have obviously commitments is something that is very special.  It's very difficult for us again to be dealing with yet another case of death, no idea who killed the person, no knowledge of how the person died, at least on papers and in the form of a death certificate.
But what strikes me about what you've been relating to us, is how the family was assured of a respectable way of informing them of the death of their son and brother. Many of the other cases discovered in the most unbelievable ways of the death of their sons, on TV to be sent up and down by police, to walk the streets of Cape Town trying to find where their kids are.
But you protected the family, you carried the burden of the pain yourself alone drove back with your wife and mother-in-law back to the township and to figure out how to tell them.  But most importantly to carry the message of your brother-in-law, his request for you to keep his son.  I think that's a very important task you have and I am amazed at the way you've carried it.  I'll ask you a question, do you remember the name of the prosecutor in the case of - in the inquest of your - of your brother-in-law.