TESTIMONY_GIVER:
  I went back to Umlazi, I met Mr Ngubane and we got married.   We went to ... (inaudible) ..., that's where we got married.   Policemen used to come there, I don't know who showed them where I was, but they used to come and harass me there.   and my mother-in-law was still there, she was still alive and she as scared that what kind of a daughter-in-law whom police are always after her.   Is she a criminal or what?  And I could sense that the love they had for me went down because they didn't trust me that well.   I was staying in their house, it wasn't my husband's house but it was at her home, his mother's house.   We left that place, we went and built our own place.   Policemen also followed us.    After a while I think I got confused.   I think I was confused and at that time even my husband was now having a negative attitude towards me now, things were not well between us, because he was - I think he was now tired of being harassed by police and busy running away from police, because of me.   One day my husband wasn't there and when he came back ... (intervention)