COMMISSIONER
As time passed, however, I realised that this would negate everything that my brother stood for, his ideal of a non-racial, non-sexist, democratic South Africa.  I grew to realise that hate is a boomerang that circles back and hurts you.  The turning point came when I read in Martin Luther King's book called Strength to Love.  Now, I cannot remember the exact words used in the book, but it goes something like this,