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Mrs Mbotiwe, I can see that you are deeply troubled, and the way you are relating this also one can gather the fact that you are not feeling well.  And the way you relate this story one gets affected, you know.  It does impact even us.  It would be a wonderful thing that you consult some psychologist so that you may be healed, because you need some healing.  Where was your husband when all this took place?  How is his health faring?  