JEAN DU PLESSIS
At that time, as I said, we began to debate on political issues. At a stage I became alienated from my friends, because I couldn't communicate with them on a youthful level.  And then in about '83, my father moved to Durban and then I went to stay with my mother for about six months.  My mother committed suicide and for a few months I then went to live with my grandmother and then I moved to join my father in Durban.