Confessing your love to a girl could seem scary. But it’s really easy! Use these tips to warm her up the right way and avoid getting rejected!
If you’re not sure how to ask a girl out, you have no reason to feel silly about it.
Every guy’s been there at least once in their lives!
Sometimes, it takes a risky plunge to master an art.
And all of us have to start somewhere, don’t we?
Sometimes, you may not realize it yourself that you’re falling for a girl, and almost always, it may be a good friend of yours.
Do you confess your love to her and risk severing ties with her because of the awkwardness the confession could create, or should you just clam up and watch her as she’s whisked away by another smooth talker?
Friends fall in love with each other all the time.
Sometimes, it’s a little crush that’s soon forgotten.
And at other times, friends hook up or have a fling that eventually ends.
And in the worst case scenario, the guy hides his feelings for this friend, until the point where she starts dating a new guy.
And then, he barges up to her, and tells her that he really loves her and has always loved her, and wants her to love him!
She’s never known that you like her or desire her, and now out of the blue, you expect her to drop her new found love and start dating a guy she’s only seen as a friend for all these months or years?
Really, does that even sound right to you?
If there’s one piece of advice you really need, it’s this. Don’t be brash and reckless and say things in the heat of the moment when you want to confess your love to a girl, and more importantly, don’t wait forever and expect things to just magically fall into place because you love a girl and don’t have the balls to fess up!
If you want to confess your love to a girl, let her know what’s on your mind. But at the same time, don’t tell her anything about it!
Confused? Well, just use these five easy steps, and you’ll see just how amazingly easy it can be to make a girl fall in love with you even before you ask her out.
#5 Text her and get naughty. If you’ve completed the first few steps here, the girl you like would probably really like you too. But just to make sure she likes you a lot in a more-than-just-friends kind of way, warm your way up and start texting her late at night. You could start off by texting late in the evenings, and work your way to texts in bed within a few days.
The biggest deterrent for guys when it comes to confessing their love is the fear of rejection. But think of it this way, the worst a girl could say is ‘no’. By not telling a girl how you feel, you’re only making yourself feel miserable. And what would you do if another guy starts making a move on this girl you like?
You need to remember that the worst thing a girl could say is no. Of course, it’ll hurt. But it’s still way better than clinging on to a mad hope that she may see just how much you love her someday.
By using these steps here, you can avoid the risk of rejection because you’re making her fall for you even before you tell her you like her. But whatever the reason may be, don’t ever let the fear of rejection hold you back from expressing your feelings. You’ll always regret hiding the truth from her.
#1 The old romantic way. Just say it. The next time you’re sitting next to her, tell her about a great new place that’s opened up or a new movie that’s releasing the next weekend, and ask her if she’d like to go out with you.
#2 Over the phone. If you’re a shy guy, perhaps the phone would be a better medium for the date conversation. After all, phone conversations always make us feel bolder and more confident. Ask her out to a movie or for lunch, and depending on just how confident you’re feeling, you can even tell her something like “so… it’s a date then!” just before hanging up the phone.
Make her expect it. But don’t say it. Don’t confess your feelings for a girl until she starts making it obvious that she likes you too.
After all, confessing your love to a girl is the easy part. But if you want to avoid any kind of rejection and want to ensure that she’d say yes to you, you need to learn to play your cards right. Work your way into your heart so she can actually like you and fall for you without the pressure of being arm-twisted into dating you because of your confession.
Don’t rush it and don’t be hasty. Just take it easy, worm your way into her heart one step at a time, and she’ll start falling for you within a few days or weeks. And just when the moment’s right, pour your heart out to her and confess your love for her.
As long as you follow these steps on how to confess your love to a girl, and avoid getting hasty or reckless at any point of time, you could surely make a great impression and make her like you even before you tell her that you like her!
Hello, I am an asian.
I’m having trouble for telling her that I really wanna be her best best friend, which in the truth I didn’t mean that. I really love her.
The reason I said so, is because she often gives me a short reply like having no interest in our text.
That’s why i thought of telling her this way so that she won’t avoid me further.
And the response was good. She started to reply me more naturally, as what i expected, but still there are some gaps in our conversation in the text.
I think, things have really turn like what I told her (that best best friend thing). She actually calls me “lil brother” in the text. It is true that she is older than me by 2 years.
May I know how to escape from this friend zone and move to a closer-relationship-zone?
and i also love her so much but one thing that i forgot i was looked her very badly from the starting but now i am really love her and not to see badly. I could never asked for a friendship. She was loved me so much.
i asked for two times for friendship but she says no.
now she is not like me i am really confess her but how to tell her when i go to tell her i am feeling very nervously she is falling love with my friend this is the one reason to say no. She is know that i know that she is love with my friend.
Never in my life have I been rejected. You know why- Because I’m confident with myself and know what I want in my life. Girls like that in a guy. You should have your own direction in life. Girls don’t want a guy who still asks his mom for his allowance. That’s not cool, dude. Make a living for yourself and go out there to the dating world. Try not to get rejected because I know most guys will. I can’t tell you how it feels to be rejected by a girl because I haven’t. Just tell me about your experience being rejected, I would appreciate it.
I might just try this. I like this girl in school. But she belongs to the elite society so our chances together is very low. I’ve never had a girlfriend before so I’m very clueless about how to ask a girl out, especially a girl at par from my class. But I really like her. The more I tell myself I cannot have her the more I want her. I’m not entirely hideous by the way I’m just inexperienced and naive. You know in that movie “John Tucker Must Die” I’m kind of the other tucker. The brother who’s not hunk or buff and definitely not popular with the girls. I’m the nice guy who the girl realizes she needs at the end of the movie. I’m the guy from Brooklyn who Serena Vander Woodsen ends up marrying on the last episode of Gossip Girl (yes I’m a guy who watch girly tv series but definitely not gay, I just really like Blake Lively). Why do girls fall for the bad boy type anyway ? Isn’t it obvious they’re just gonna get they’re hearts broken? What else do they need a neon sign on the top of the guy’s head saying “I’m a jerk, stay away from me”? We have this Christmas party at a friends house on Thursday. I’m gonna try and talk to her. Hope it turns out well coz it’s really not a bad thing to fall in love with me.