I cannot disagree with you and understand your frustration. But Microsoft has decided that this is their line in the sand and they are not going to budge. Dell and all the other PC manufacturers are in the same boat and MS has not waivered with their supported system specs. This YouTube video has a good perspective on this situation.
Is anyone else bothered that a 4 year old desktop cannot be upgraded to Windows 11 because of the CPU generation?  I put a lot of money into this computer, including adding memory and changing to a solid state disk. This is rather upsetting to say the least.
XPS 8910, no Windows 11 support