Hi, i had the chance to been in direct contact with a member of the dell support team and had a meeting on teems and we found the problem. the solution is instead of assigning the VlanID on the server from the Bios setup (life cycle) we should assign the VlanID on the port/interface on the host (in my case kali linux) via CLI like viconfig or creating a static vlan in /etc/network/hosts. Tips for people could face the same problem, make sure that SFP not only the same type but also the same speed (10G or 25G etc...) but this also wasn't my problem but we had a doubt about it in the beginning.   Thank you all,  
Hello, Situation i have power-edge r630 server with Integrated NIC 1 (intel(R) 2P X520/2P I350 rNDC and i installed on the server via iDRAC, Kali Linux OS. What is my need ? I want my Dell server to have a direct connection to my Extrem switch (over SFP 10G) so i assigned all the necessary Vlan on the Switch and on my Kali on the server to talk to each others. what is the problem ? the Ping between the server and the switch not wroking! but another RJ45 on my Dell server is connected to another machine (Rj45) and the ping work fine. Also i used an HP server and connected to the same switch over SFP and the ping just work fine So in a way to solve the ping problem on my Dell server, I did it some troubleshooting but none of these solve my problem Please am not expert in server but i can forward anything you will ask in a way to get your help ?   Thank you so much Vraihack
R630 poweredge ping connection problem with SFP devices