After doing even more, I realized that this had nothing to do with 3 monitors, but the 2x Dell U2715H monitors I checked the settings and both had display port 1.2 enabled. I disabled 1.2 support and everything is working as expected now. I hope this helps someone as it was very frustrating.
This is a very strange problem where if I have 3 monitors attached to my docking station it does not want to wake from sleep and I can get no monitors, including the laptop monitor, to show anything.  If I turn off one monitor before it goes to sleep the laptop wakes fine. If I happen to forget to turn off the 3rd monitor, the system requires a power cycle to get the monitors back again.   I have 2 WD22TB4s and the same problem exists for both. I have reinstalled Windows 11 with fresh drivers and it did not help. I have run all Dell diagnostics with no problems. I am using 2x display port for the Dell monitors, and 1x HDMI for an Aorus monitor   Any suggestions on why this is happening?  
XPS 15 9520 with WD22TB4 locks up when waking with 3 2650x1440p monitors 
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