With all that went on this weekend I forgot about updating this post. I loaded windows 10 and updated all the firmwares and the ethernet was fixed. I had hooked my phone to it with USB tethering and updated it that way. I am running proxmox now with sophos xg home. So far everything is going fine. 
I have a used r310 that the 2gb port is not connecting to other devices I attempt to connect with it. It doesn't accept dhcp and doesn't communicate with manually entered information. Tried resetting the idrac and entering the information in the OS but nothing works. Going to see if all the firmware is up-to-date and possibly try a standard windows install instead of proxmox 
R310 network connections