as shown in fig1 , in a first embodiment , seal retainer 60 retains primary metal seal 70 and back - up metal seal 80 in the receiving chamber 91 of female coupling member 90 . in this embodiment , the primary metal seal is a hollow pressure energized metal seal with a c - shaped cross section that is retained on internal shoulder 71 of the receiving chamber . the primary metal seal may be axially compressed slightly by the seal retainer to pre - load the seal , and may be pressure energized by hydraulic fluid in the seal cavity to urge the inner diameter radially inwardly further than the internal diameter of receiving chamber wall 74 to seal with the male coupling member , and the outer diameter radially outwardly to seal against the female coupling member . in one embodiment of the invention , the back - up metal seal is a hollow metal o - ring that is seated on shoulder 79 of the seal retainer . the back - up metal seal may be press fitted against the seal retainer so that it may be removed from the receiving chamber together with the seal retainer . the back - up metal seal may be slightly compressed when the seal retainer is fully inserted into the receiving chamber to approach or abut shoulder 73 . the compression urges the inner diameter radially inwardly against the seal retainer and the outer diameter radially outwardly against the receiving chamber of the female coupling member . in one embodiment , the back - up metal seal may have one or more holes therein to allow hydraulic fluid to enter the seal and pressure energize the seal . in one embodiment of the invention , the seal retainer may include shell 61 and seal carrier 75 . the shell may be a generally ring - shaped body with an outer diameter 66 that may be threaded to engage with the female coupling member . the shell has first end 68 , second end 64 , first larger inner diameter 63 , second smaller inner diameter 62 , and internal shoulder 76 between the first and second inner diameters . the shell also may include negative or reverse angle shoulder 84 that extends radially inwardly from internal shoulder 76 . holes 65 may be included in the first end of the shell , and a spanner or other tool may be inserted into the holes to rotate the shell to engage or disengage it from the female member . in the first embodiment , the seal carrier is a generally ring shaped sleeve , part of which engages or fits at least partially into the shell . the seal carrier has first end 77 which fits into the shell , second end 78 , first larger outer diameter 99 , second smaller outer diameter 69 , first larger inner diameter 86 , and second smaller inner diameter 67 . in one embodiment , the seal carrier may have negative or reverse angle shoulder 83 between the first larger inner diameter and second smaller inner diameter . the seal carrier also may include outer shoulder 87 between the first larger outer diameter and the second smaller outer diameter . in one embodiment , the first end of the seal carrier slides into the first larger inner diameter of 63 of the shell . there may be little or no clearance between the second smaller outer diameter of the seal carrier and the inner diameter of the shell , or there may be a slight interference fit . when the first end of the seal carrier is fully inserted into the shell , the first end 77 may abut internal step 76 of the shell , and second end 64 of the shell may abut outer shoulder 31 of the seal carrier . in the embodiment of fig1 , seal 72 is an elastomeric o - ring in a groove in shoulder 73 of the receiving chamber . additionally , the seal retainer holds elastomeric seal 81 between reverse angled shoulders 83 and 84 that restrain the seal from implosion into the central bore . seal 81 may have a dovetail cross section , and has a dovetail interfit between the reverse angled shoulders . the inner diameter of seal 81 may have one or more projections 85 , 88 that extend farther into the central bore than the smaller inner diameters of the shell or seal carrier , to seal radially with the male member when the male member is in the receiving chamber . o - rings 82 , 89 may be positioned around the outer diameter of seal 81 . in another embodiment , as shown in fig2 , the back - up metal seal may be integral with the seal carrier . for example , metal sealing surfaces 48 , 49 on the seal carrier may be angled or beveled to form metal to metal seals with surfaces 108 and 109 of female coupling member 100 when the seal retainer is fully engaged to the female coupling member . as shown in fig2 , seal retainer 10 holds primary metal seal 50 on or adjacent shoulder 122 in the female coupling member . the seal retainer may include shell 21 and seal carrier 30 , with elastomeric seal 40 between the shell and seal carrier . the shell may be threaded or otherwise removably attached to the wall 124 of the receiving chamber 112 of the female coupling member , and the seal carrier may abut internal shoulder 126 in the receiving chamber . in the embodiment of fig2 , the female coupling member has body section 111 with first end 116 and second end 117 . poppet valve 114 slides within bore 113 to control fluid flow through the female coupling member . the poppet valve may be biased by spring 118 to a closed position against valve seat 115 . the valve spring may be held between the poppet valve and spring collar 119 , which is held in the bore by snap ring or collar clip 120 . valve actuator 125 may extend from the face of the valve . when a male coupling member probe is inserted into receiving chamber 112 , the probe may have a sliding interfit with the second section 121 of the receiving chamber until the male member approaches or abuts shoulder 123 . the valve actuator of the male member may engage the valve actuator of the female member to open the poppet valves for fluid flow between the coupling members . while the present invention has been described with respect to a limited number of embodiments , those skilled in the art will appreciate numerous modifications and variations therefrom . it is intended that the appended claims cover all such modifications and variations as fall within the true spirit and scope of this present invention .