Kothi (gender)

A kothi in the culture of the Indian subcontinent, is an effeminate man or boy who takes on a female gender role in same sex relationships, often with a desire to be the penetrated member in sexual intercourse. The word "kothi" is common across India, similar in use to the term Kathoey of Thailand.
Kothis differ from hijras as they do not live in the kind of intentional communities that hijras usually live in. Although they are similar to the hijra in that they may take a same-sex lover for a period of time (even though hijras are generally classified as asexual), they may perform sexual favors for men through prostitution. 
Local equivalents include "durani" (Kolkata), "menaka" (Cochin), "meti" (Nepal), and "zenana" (Pakistan). 