David Burtka

David Michael Burtka (born May 29, 1975) is an American actor and professional chef. He is known for his acting roles in theatre and television shows such as "How I Met Your Mother" and "The Play About the Baby". After his role on "How I Met Your Mother", Burtka gained media attention for dating Neil Patrick Harris, whom he later married in 2014.
Early life.
Burtka was born in Dearborn, Michigan, the son of Deborah A. Zajas (died 2008) and Daniel Burtka. He is of Polish descent. He grew up in Canton, Michigan, and graduated from Salem High School in 1993. He trained in acting at Interlochen Center for the Arts, obtained his Bachelor of Fine Arts from the University of Michigan and had further training at the William Esper Studios.
Acting career.
Burtka made his television debut in 2002 with a guest role on "The West Wing". This was followed by guest appearances on "Crossing Jordan."
Burtka made his Broadway debut as Tulsa in the 2003 revival of "," which starred Bernadette Peters. He played The Boy in the American premiere of Edward Albee's "The Play About the Baby," for which he won the 2001 Clarence Derwent Award for most promising male performer.
In 2004, Burtka originated the role of Matt in the musical "The Opposite of Sex" and reprised the role in the work's East Coast premiere in the summer of 2006.
Burtka appeared in seven episodes of "How I Met Your Mother", playing "Scooter", the former high school boyfriend of Lily Aldrin (Alyson Hannigan), who still had not gotten over their breakup. Burtka made a cameo appearance, in "A Very Harold & Kumar 3D Christmas," as himself; in it, he also shared a scene with Neil Patrick Harris, in a part that was much like his character from "How I Met Your Mother."
Burtka starred in Osiris Entertainment's 2013 film "Annie and the Gypsy," and had a featured role in the 2014 film "Dance Off." 
Burtka returned to Broadway in a comedy play, which David Hyde Pierce directed, titled "It Shoulda Been You." In the play, staged in late April 2015, he assumed the role of a Catholic fiancé of a Jewish bride, who was played by Sierra Boggess, whose wedding day is disrupted when her ex-boyfriend shows up at the wedding. Additional cast members included Tyne Daly and Harriet Harris.
Personal life.
Six months after Burtka's first "How I Met Your Mother" appearance, allegations arose that the actor had received the part because of a romantic relationship with one of the show's stars, actor Neil Patrick Harris. Speculation around this story eventually led Harris to acknowledge publicly that he himself was gay in a cover story in "People Weekly" Magazine. Burtka made no public response to the story, though later Harris stated that he and Burtka were moving in together.
Burtka and Harris attended the Emmy Awards in September 2007 as an openly acknowledged couple for the first time, an appearance which Harris discussed on "The Ellen DeGeneres Show."
Burtka's mother died of cancer in May 2008.
On February 4, 2009, Burtka and Harris appeared for the first time on stage together, singing a duet from "Rent" at a benefit for The LGBT Community Center in New York. The two actors had been together since April 2004. Harris customarily referred to Burtka as "my better half" and "an amazing chef." Burtka and Harris became parents to fraternal twins Gideon Scott and Harper Grace, who were born in October 2010, via a surrogate mother.
Burtka, although not the biological father of his ex Lane Janger's children, who had also been born via surrogate, has remained close to them over the years.
Following the passage of the Marriage Equality Act in New York on June 24, 2011, Burtka and Harris announced their engagement, stating that they had proposed to each other five years earlier but had kept the engagement secret until same-sex marriage became legal in their state.
According to Harris, Burtka quit acting full-time to become a professional chef. He graduated from Le Cordon Bleu College of Culinary Arts Pasadena in the summer of 2009; afterwards, he began running a Los Angeles catering company which he called "Gourmet M.D." Burtka did continue to act, including in "It Shoulda Been You" on Broadway in 2015.
Burtka's first cookbook, "Life is a Party", a collection of recipes and tips on entertaining, was published in April 2019.