func (p *Peer) getConn(i int) *Connection {
	inboundLen := len(p.inboundConnections)
	if i < inboundLen {
		return p.inboundConnections[i]
	}

	return p.outboundConnections[i-inboundLen]
}
func (p *Peer) getConn(i int) *Connection {
	inboundLen := len(p.inboundConnections)
	if i < inboundLen {
		return p.inboundConnections[i]
	}

	return p.outboundConnections[i-inboundLen]
}
// getConn treats inbound and outbound connections as a single virtual list
// that can be indexed. The peer must be read-locked.