
Moja mama čini dobra djela, ali svima govori. Uvijek priča iza leđa. Kada je zamolim da to ne radi, ona počinje da me psuje. I govori loše riječi. Ponekad je samo slušam. Šta da radim?


original pitanje:  

QUESTION:  

My mom do good deeds but she tells to everyone.she always do back biting.when I ask her not to do she starts cursing me.and says bad words.sometimes I just listen to her.what should I do?


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Moja mama čini dobra djela ali se hvali stim i ogovara druge

Ne smijete prelaziti granice poštovanja tako što ćete se prepirati sa njom ili se braniti. Allah vam nalaže da uvažavate, služite, poštujete i budete poslušni prema njoj dok očekujete svoju nagradu samo od Allaha. Ako ona ogovara, ljubazno je podsjeti da Allah nije zadovoljan stim i ako insistira, napusti njeno društvo dok ne počne pričati o nečemu drugom. To možete učiniti sa znanjem, mudrošću, diplomatijom i dobrim manirima.


Sheikh ***[Assim Al-Hakeem](https://pitajucene.com/search/Assim+Al-Hakeem/answers/ "Pretraži odgovore od Assim Al-Hakeem")***  

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Original odgovor:  

ANSWER:  

You must not cross the limits of respect by arguing with her or defending yourself. Allah mandates that you honor, serve, respect, and be dutiful towards her while anticipating your reward from Allah alone. If she backbites, politely remind her that this is not pleasing to Allah and if she insists, leave her company until she talks about something else. You can do this with knowledge, wisdom, diplomacy and good manners.


