How to Deal With Going to a Different School Than Your Boyfriend or Girlfriend
If you're trying to deal with going to a different school than your boyfriend or girlfriend, an easy way to cope with the distance is by communicating better. It might be tough to communicate face to face every day, so use programs like Skype and Snapchat to get in some quality time. You can even make these chats more special by thinking of them as dates and dressing up. In between these chats, use texting and email to send quick messages to let your partner know you are thinking of them.
Communicate regularly with your significant other. If you aren't seeing each other everyday, you will need to develop ways to talk to each other and interact.  Share your ideas and emotions with your boyfriend or girlfriend, even if they seem minor. It's hard to read emotions into a phone or online conversation. Talk about your experiences openly and honestly. Ask about your partner's day and share what happened with yours. Discuss weekend plans and set aside times to talk and/or visit each other. Use technology to your advantage. With all of the ways to communicate through technology, long distance relationships can really thrive.  Programs like Skype and Snapchat can allow you to talk to your significant other face to face over the phone or computer. Facebook, Twitter, and Google+ are great social media tools to keep in touch and to get involved in similar interests and activities. Text and email nearly everyday. Even if it is just a quick message, it lets your partner know you are thinking about them. Return any calls or messages as quickly as you can. Make your interactions special. Don't take the other person for granted and try to be creative when you communicate.  Don't forget that even if you live far apart, you can still treat Skype chats or phone conversations like dates. Dress up when you face chat and make your dorm room or apartment look nice, for example. Do some of the same activities, that way when you talk you can discuss a movie you both saw, or a sport you both play. Make use of regular snail mail. Sending a postcard, a letter, or even a small care package with your partner's favorite snacks or items can spice things up and add variety to the way you communicate long distance. Doing these things can also help your partner feel appreciated. Get involved in the same activities outside of school. This can be particularly helpful if you are dating someone from another high school. Many communities have activities such as social events, classes, sports, and volunteer opportunities for teens. Getting involved in the same activities is a way you can see each other often and get interested in something together. This is also a good way to connect with your boyfriend or girlfriend's friends. Getting to know their social group will be a good way for you to maintain a relationship outside of going to school together. You can also invite your significant other to events at your high school, such as dances, plays, sporting events, etc. You should also attend events at your partner's high school. Visit as often as you can. Even though there are many ways to communicate outside of seeing each other in person, it is essential to reconnect face to face when you can. Weekends and holiday breaks are great times to get together. Chances are you both are already going home for a holiday break and you can plan to see each other then. Plan to visit the other person at their school. That's a great way to meet their new friends, see what they are getting involved with, and have fun together on the other person's home turf. Seeing your significant other in their own environment will help you imagine what their life is like and what experiences they are having when you talk to them. You can also plan to go on short weekend trips together or on spring break. While traveling can be costly, there are a number of travel agencies, such as STA travel, that offer cheaper student pricing on bus or plane tickets and hotels. Acknowledge that it's okay to miss your partner. Sometimes you may feel sad or lonely and that is normal. Try not to let your sadness affect your college or high school experience, though. It is essential for you to get involved with campus and school activities and to make new friends.  Don't let your schoolwork slide, even though you might feel lonely at first. Try to make friends in each of your classes. If you are feeling down, get together with a friend or call your partner. Trust your partner. If you are in a relationship with someone, you need to trust them.  This will be one of the biggest challenges of maintaining a long distance relationship when your partner goes to a different school. It's easy to assume your partner is out partying or cheating on you if you aren't seeing them everyday. Try not to allow negative thoughts to affect your trust in the other person. Know that long distance couples who stay together are statistically more likely to stay together than traditional couples. Their relationship has been tested by long distance and couples who have been in a long distance relationship are more likely to have developed strategies for working through difficult times. Support each other. This is especially important, as college will be a challenging new experience for both of you.  College is a very emotional and challenging time, especially for new students. You and your partner are going to have new experiences. Talk frequently about what is going on with each other. High school is a particularly challenging phase of life involving new social situations, new experiences, and new freedoms. Communicate with your girlfriend/boyfriend about what is going on. Classes and new social situations can be particularly hard for new college students. Know that your partner is going through the same thing and talk about your experiences. Find distractions on campus. College is about finding new passions, learning new things, and making new friends.  Join a club or social group that deals with your interests. Most colleges have societies or clubs religious groups, the arts, sports, and other hobbies. Get to know your roommates and classmates. You will find people with common interests and make lasting friendships. Dive into your schoolwork. Remember, you went to high school or college to get a diploma/degree and you will need to work hard. Take classes seriously and challenge yourself! 
Communicate regularly with your significant other. Use technology to your advantage. Make your interactions special. Get involved in the same activities outside of school. Visit as often as you can. Acknowledge that it's okay to miss your partner. Trust your partner. Support each other. Find distractions on campus. 