Post Gay
A concept in contemporary culture characterized by a distrust of the need to draw attention to or make issue of sexual orientation.

A way to describe qualities or characteristics that may stereotypically be regarded as gay while simultaneously implying that labels based on sexual identity are unnecessary, old fashioned or irrelevant.
Sam: Did you watch American Idol last night? Adam Lambert is such a fag!

Susan: Grow up! Adam is a fantastic performer. He's totally post gay.