identity crisis
1.  A psychological condition in which one is attempting to unify a subjective sense of self.
2.  A sexual orientation conflict within one's self that has not been resolved.
3.  A stage of psycho-neurological development, as in adolescence, where hormonal imbalances influence sociological and sexual choices (phase).
I really don't know if Kodie is gay, metro sexual, or just going through an identity crisis.