civilised
Is when 2 female friends go out for "a" glass of wine together with the intention of having a girly chat and a bit of relaxation.
An example of civilised - 2 friends drinking 3 bottles of wine, staggering home via the Indian and not remembering entering the building let alone having a conversation with a little Indian man, then falling sleep on your friends floor before waking up and puking all over their settee and laptop.