Paroxetine
"Saw relief within 24 hours after starting Paroxetine 12.5 mg.  No more hot flashes! I didn't realize how much sleep I was missing. Now I wake up rested. Take them in the am so any energy surge happens in the morning. Only having a teeny bit of nausea and loss of appetite in the evening. Drinking water helps.
 I'll trade that for no more hot flashes."