Mirtazapine
"Don't listen to any of the negative comments in regards to this medicine.  I currently take 30mg at night.  It helps with anxiety during the day and does keep u asleep at night.  No real side effects with this medication.  Of course it is a sedative so u r bound to be a bit sleepy at times but honestly it's not bad.  More like calm then groggy.  Only changes I found in myself since taking this medication is I find I don't have a deep sleep.  Seems to be more like a light sleep with dreams but it's still restful and I don't regret this medication at all it's been fantastic.  People say u gain weight on it but thats not true for everyone.  I didn't find it made me hungry.  No different then usual."