`  ::::I'm an uninvolved (in the content dispute) administrator trying to work constructively with you on this problem.  I have been dealing with problem users for some time, wrote the current best practices essay on how to deal with people who are uncivil or abusive in a constructive and respectful manner ( Wikipedia:Civility warnings ), and have repeatedly been congratulated for engaging with extremely upset or abusive editors in a way that respected them as an individual human and worked with them to calm the situation.  Please believe me that I am not trying to provoke you or bait you. ::::If you feel that way, that is unfortunate.  This is probably close to the most polite criticism you will receive from anyone on Wikipedia, and if you cannot deal with that then you need to consider if your personality and emotional insight and communications approaches are appropriate for the project. ::::My recommendation for where to go was in this paragraph above, with time tag of 00:30 on July 9: :::::``If you think it's just me, and that I'm imagining the others' comments, I think that it would be instructional to you to look back across the various policy debates and talk pages you've contributed to actively over the last three or four months, and at the talk pages of the editors you're finding yourself in conflict with.  I could create a list of dozens of examples and whack you over the head with it - but I'd prefer if you go look yourself.  Your perception that you're doing nothing wrong is the problem here, and you have to find the evidence and convince yourself that you may not be entirely right.  The evidence is there.  It's easy to find.  You will benefit from taking some time off and looking at it.`` ::::The policy debates on WP:MILHIST talk page, the talk pages of articles you've gotten in disagreements over, and the user talk pages of those you've been in conflict with are the ones I recommend you go read, going back some months.  Again, the first five examples I found of others criticizing your conduct were on the first five pages I checked, out of that list, and the check took five minutes. ::::I am not asking you to spend several hours.  I'm asking you to spend a few minutes.  If you aren't willing to spend a few minutes, I believe that there is a more serious problem.  Please take the time.  Me providing those diffs will not make nearly as much a difference to you as what you'll find looking back at those discussions. ::::Thank you.    `