`  == Cho May Have Referenced Book on Bullying ==  In Cho's videotaped diatribe that he mailed to NBC he made some statements that sounded to me like quotes from movies or books. My guess was that many of his strange statements were excerpts of ``hot phrases`` he had acquired over the years and not original. One of Cho's raging comments, ``The decision was yours`` struck me as such a phrase. Upon a Google search I came across a book with a cover that startled me - it shows a small Asian child on a bus being bullied by a caucasian child.  Beside the Asian child's head is a large question mark.  I believe it is very possible Cho came across this book at some point in his life and it may prove to be a key in unraveling the reasons for this tragedy.  Check out my blog about this to see the book cover. - - When the Monster Breaks You - Cho Seung Hui`