`  == Collapsing of My Questions and Not a Reply to Them ==  You collapsed some of my comments, but left TVH's reply to them, addressing me, outside the collapse.  That was very confusing, because TVH appeared to be replying to something that I didn't say.      You want to start to get statements of agreement.  So do I.  But I can't start agreeing unless I know what I am being asked to agree with.  If I feel that I am being pushed to start agreeing with things while having to unhide things to see what the agreement is, I won't be able to agree.  I don't think that I am being that difficult; I just want to know what issues are the blocking issues.  If I shouldn't ask what is being said to be horrible, then why not hide the ``horrible`` comment rather than my puzzlement about it?      If you were clumsy in deciding what to collapse, then I understand.  But if you think that I shouldn't be asking questions about harsh statements, then maybe either the harsh statements should be collapsed or maybe I would prefer to see a more active style of moderation.  Maybe I don't understand.    `