`  First of all I would contest that you asked ``nicely.``  You've consistently been heavy-handed and a bit ``stressed`` in your tone to me, to put it lightly.  Secondly, I'd like to see a policy citation for your claim that my comments to a party-opponent in an Arbitration case must be only addressed through the Arbitration committee.  Do you have one?   P.S.:  You don't happen to teach at Connecticut College do you?  I know a few people that went there...`