` ::I have no idea what you're talking about, . Would you stop writing in ``code`` please, and just answer my clear questions? (Regarding the notice, I'm just saying I wasn't aware of it, that's all. [I saw I had a message at my Talk, I thought it was more Mann jess crap, since he's been posting his usual one-upmanship stuff to my attention where he is in no way involved. I assumed it was more of that. I'm not saying you didn't notice me, just letting you know I was not cognizant of your notice. I was focused on the ANI exclusively then.] What about my other Qs, Bushranger? I appreciate 's perspective (thank u, H). But, I don't see how others can evaluate if something is personally offensive, and how much or little, to another editor. Because it is subjective and people have different backgrounds and sensibilities. (Accusing someone of ``lying`` might be water off a duck's back to one person, and the greatest possible offense to the integrity of another. Ditto with ``classic narcisist`` which MaxBrowne accused. How is it that someone can judge that is ``mild`` when the POV is subjective. (To me it ain't mild. It is basically saying someone has a psychologically diagnosable mental illness. If that isn't a personal attack, I don't know what is. But that's my POV. Is someone telling me that mine doesn't count? And theirs is better? [Huh?!])   `