`  :My comment was a friendly suggestion, and I don't think you'll find another editor who would agree with your characterization of it as a personal attack (as you called it when you removed it from your talk page). My remarks were far from snide; I was stepping away from the debate myself, and seeing that your comments on the Virginia Tech shootings talk page had grown increasingly heated, I merely suggested that you walk away from the discussion for a while. I encourage you to look through my talk page history and contributions and you can tell me if you find any occurrence of rudeness or serious criticism of my attitude in my 2+ years as an administrator. You have sorely misjudged me. '' `