` :I understand your taking a rain check. Wikipedia is largely not fun for me anymore either. I continue to edit here because I have become addicted. Plain and simple. I have become addicted to making sure certain articles okay...and to wanting to know they are okay. I'm not too addicted to improving articles anymore, though I still do that too, but my main concerns at Wikipedia these days are vandalism, deceptive edits (which falls under vandalism), messiness, and inaccuracy (which may or may not fall under vandalism). Your take on the the Heterosexualization article, an article I don't remember being involved in until now, would be beneficial and relevant, I believe. This is not a long, dragged-out dogfight, and I have made it clear to the editor that I am not going to sit there and debate his Westerner-objections for hours on end. My complaint is not a matter of debate, I feel. My complaint is his habit of not playing by Wikipedia's guidelines/rules. I advised him to do that. I am not interested in getting into a debate with him, because he believes what he believes and it affects everything he does in regards to editing LGBT topics at Wikipedia. You say, ``...WP is an encyclopedia; the task here is to present not our personal feelings and views, but what reliable, expert sources have said...`` I'm saying this editor most often doesn't go by that.   :I asked others to weigh in because otherwise...nothing is going to get resolved. As I stated on your talk page, ``I posted a message about it at Wikipedia talk:WikiProject LGBT studies, which you may have seen already, but I hardly get any help from there or from other WikiProjects these days. So part of my approach these days is to go to relevant editors individually and hope they weigh in.`` I'm not sure what is going on with people not helping out at Wikipedia anymore and ignoring requests for opinions to resolve disputes/and or how to make improvements, but it is extremely annoying and is making me want to quit Wikipedia even more. I don't understand this ``Leave them to it`` attitude that has been going around lately. I mean, I understand it in cases such as yours, but it seems almost everyone here is doing it now (being lazy or otherwise disinterested) when editors genuinely need help to resolve issues at an article. It often takes more than two editors to resolve disputes and sometimes content issues. What's the point of WikiProjects or WP:Dispute resolution if people generally aren't willing to help weigh in? I understand your objections to weighing in, but part of me also wonders how a quick comment from you will hurt anything. Unless you are not the type of editor who can comment and then leave it at that. I'm that typr of editor most times; if someone replies in a challenging response, I usually have to reply back.   `