  :::I have a friend in New Zealand who once told me that he always takes an instant and automatic dislike to everyone he meets, and then occasionally warms to them. It is still playing nice to ask the person to state exactly what their objection is without running around doing a lot of edits. It's not an issue of politeness, it's an issue of efficiency. Look at the words written... most of them are by you and me. Learn from Barry Ley.    