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Izingane zidinga ukwazi ukuthi yini eyemukelekile kanye nengemukelekile Qinisekisa ukuthi ziyazi ukuthi kungani kudingeka imithetho nokuthi uzojeziswa uma uyephula. Ungaguquki kulokho okwenzayo bese usebenzisa lokhu kujezisa.
Ngesikhathi izingane zikhu -la, zigqugquzele ukuthi zidi ngide le mithetho futhi zisize ukuthi zihlonze imiphumela.
Ncoma izingane ngaso sonke isikhathi uma ziziphathe kahle Ngokuzitshela ukuthi  uzithanda kanjani izinto ezinhle ezizenzayo,  zingayeka ukungaziphathi kahle. Ukengeza kulokho, ukuklomelisa kusebenza kangcono kunokujezisa.
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Ukwakha ukuzethembaKubalulekile ukuthi usize ukwakha ukuzethemba kwe ngane yakho. Ungasiza izi ngane zakho ngokuzincoma ngokuzama ukusiza kanye nangokusebenzisa lokho ezikucabangayo, ubuhlakani kanye nokudlala kwazo; zigqugquzele ukuthi zikhu lume; zenze zizizwe zikhe thekile; futhi nawe wethe mbeke, ukuze zikwazi uku thembela kuwe.
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