labake babantu abanamacala wokugangela abantwana nabantu abagula ngengqondo, njengalawa alandelako: ukukata umntwana/abantwana beminyaka engaphasi keyobukhulu; ukukatelela namkha ukwenza abantwana ukuthi babukele la kwe nziwa khona ubulelesi bezomseme; ukuya nabo emsemeni; ukubacaphaza ngezomseme; ukubapha ifundiso yezomseme; ukwenza ukuthi abantwana namkha abantu abakhubazeke ngengqondo babukele iinthombe zabantwana ababulanzi, nokusebenzi sela abantwana namkha abantu abakhubazeke ngokwengqondo imisebenzi yokuveza ubulanzi babantu.

laba bantfu labente lama cala ebantfwaneni nakulabo labakhubateke ngengcondvo, lafana neku; kuya ecansini nebantfwana labancane; kuphoca noma kwenta bantfwana babe ngubofakazi bemacala emacansi; kwenta tento tetemacansi; kucashatwa ngekwetemacansi; kubakhulisela kwenta tento temacansi; kuveta noma kukhombisa imifanekiso yebantfwana benta imikhuba yetema cansi ebantfwaneni noma ebantfwini labakhubateke ngengcondvo ngenhloso yekubentisa imikhuba yetemacansi.
