The fact "Sometimes having a conversation causes further interesting connections." is illustrated with the story:1. Even really dull people have some interest that they can talk about.2. When you listen to others you can begin to understand where they have been in their lives.3. Sometimes you find that you share certain experiences.4. But you have to be willing to share things honestly with other people.5. Without honesty you have a pair of people making up a false history in order to impress each other.