Situation: The next time any of us what to reply to a message, inplusively -- our experience says, "Wair" before devlivery of an "instant message". I cannot tell you how many times, although I wanted to response immeidately, the best recourse was to wait a few days: everything, including solutions, the situation and the message, inverabily changes in a short period of time. So glad I waited...you will be too.