The fact "The story "Expressing Yourself" has the step "Sometimes, the hardest thing is to know what you really want."" is illustrated with the story:1. Stacy wanted attention.2. She wore a lot of very strange clothing, but nobody noticed.3. She wore started carrying a tarantula in her pocket.4. People were afraid of the tarantula and avoided her.5. Sometimes, the hardest thing to know is what you really want.