Commercial Fixed Wing
Flight Attendant Current
Communication Breakdown
Deviation / Discrepancy - Procedural Published Material / Policy; Flight Deck / Cabin / Aircraft Event Other / Unknown
Company Policy; Environment - Non Weather Related; Human Factors
Captain came out to brief FAs. Told us [the] FO was not going to wear [a] mask in cockpit; anyone [have] a problem. I said I did. And would prefer to have him wearing [one] when we [are] in the cockpit. Captain continued to look for another FA to go in the cockpit.My take: If there is no courtesy to me or any of my flight attendants; why should we have to go in the cockpit? When I said I had a problem; he should have backed off. Yet; now he was telling us; he had no problem wearing a mask; but the FO had. Then; later; [the] FO comes out of cockpit not wearing a mask; and proceeds to talk (very close) to a FA standing near him; with no mask on. I reminded him; to go out; he had to wear a mask. He put his mask on.I have a problem with a pilot who does not care about our well being. Our health; our ability to work and stay healthy to support our families; and all that comes with us exposing ourselves. It is not acceptable and it should not be tolerated to continue to ask for a FA to go inside the cockpit when the FO was not going to wear a mask.Today; we had an XX:59 minutes duty day + hour before and hour after wearing a mask.  The least he could do is wearing a mask for 5 minutes when one of us goes inside to relieve them. It's intimidating; it's a disregard of others and disrespectful to all FA group; as if we do not matter.This is not company policy and someone should speak with him about caring for his coworkers; or anyone for that matter. Because I bet he is not wearing a mask where he goes. Just unacceptable. I have a problem with a pilot refusing to wear a mask when a FA goes in the cockpit; and whoever is reading this; should too.
Flight Attendant reported refusing to be in the cockpit to provide break relief because the First Officer would not wear a face mask. The Flight Attendant reported that the Captain asked for other flight attendants who would be willing to provide break relief under those conditions.