Tracy McMillan
If youâ€™re looking to get married and youâ€™re not, thereâ€™s most likely a very good reason: you. Not that youâ€™re a bad personâ€”youâ€™re certainly not! Itâ€™s just that you havenâ€™t yet become the woman you need to be in order to have the partnership you want. So how you can grow into someone who is ready to say â€œI doâ€ and to attract the same in a mate?, Â , You start with this book., Â , Based on her wildly popular Huffington Post articleâ€”one of the siteâ€™s most-viewed of all timeâ€”,Why Youâ€™re Not Married . . . Yet, dishes out straightforward, no-holds-barred practical and proven advice for women hoping to head down the aisle or just have a great relationship. With sisterly insight, razor-sharp wit, and refreshing candor, McMillan points out the things that might be in your blind spot: unhelpful attitudes, behaviors, and beliefs so easy to identify in others, much more difficult to see in yourself. Then she shows you how to adjust them to get the relationship you deserve. Like a no-nonsense but loving best friend, McMillan meets you right where you are to help you get where youâ€™re goingâ€”with clarity and honesty. And sheâ€™ll make you laugh out loud along the way. More than just a relationship manual, ,Why Youâ€™re Not Married . . . Yet, will help you diagnose whatâ€™s preventing you from getting what you want. Do any of these chapter headings sound familiar?, Â ,â€¢ Youâ€™re a Bitch:, How defensiveness and anger can hide behind a tough, take-charge exterior, and why being nice is never a sign of weakness.,â€¢ Youâ€™re a Liar:, How to stop lying to menâ€”and get honest with yourselfâ€”about the kind of relationship you really want. Itâ€™s the only way.,â€¢ Youâ€™re Shallow:, Being a woman who insists on a tall guy is no different from being a man who demands big boobs. Learn why you should let go of trying to get what you ,think, you should have and focus on getting what you ,need,.,â€¢ Youâ€™re Selfish: ,The big secret about marriage: Itâ€™s about ,giving, something, not ,getting, it. The other big secret: You will have to go first., Â ,Why Youâ€™re Not Married . . . Yet, isnâ€™t so much about getting a husband as it is about shifting your perspective on being a wife. Hereâ€™s a funny, insightful guide to becoming a more loving woman and creating a more loving marriageâ€”even if youâ€™re already partnered. Itâ€™s a book that will change your life and the way you think about relationships, and it may very well lead you down the aisle.
Relationships,Self Help,Nonfiction,Love,Marriage,Unfinished,Romance,Humor,Reference,Research
Why You're Not Married . . . Yet: The Straight Talk You Need to Get the Relationship You Deserve