People who did move to the suburbs had to obey an unwritten conversational rule that you had to justify it in stagy and fake terms , either by exaggerating the hellishness of the city for children or by pretending that the suburbs were really not that far away and had lots of great Korean groceries .
People living in the suburbs had to obey an unwritten conversational rule , that you had to justify it in fake and stagy terms , either by exaggerating the hellishness of the city or by pretending that the suburbs were really not that far away and had lots of great Korean groceries .