after more details on the accident , which i had to have alanna fill me in on before i could tell her ( and they mainly involved us getting rear ended , nothing too dramatic , but enough to jumpstart labor ) , and my mom asking if i 'd been hurt , ( i told her my neck hurt a bit , which was true ) , we finally said our goodbyes , mom assuring me that she 'd be up often , especially the closer i got to the births .