he was a forty-one-year-old heterosexual man who lived in dublin and enjoyed the occasional pint with his friends-guinness , loads of iron-played a game of indoor football once a week in a leaking school hall , had sex with his wife often enough to qualify as regularly , just about , and would like to have had sex with other women , many other women , but it was just a thought , never a real ambition or anything urgent or mad .