you felt it when we were sixteen-i know you did because you gave me everything , and i 'm going to spend the next few weeks , months , years if needed , proving to you that when you gave everything to me , it was n't because we all do 'stupid shit sometimes , ' '' his voice cracked as he told me he remembered the awful things he 'd said to me , word for word , `` it 's because we 're 'it . '