as already indicated , when she was young , mary beth loved to dance with juhen at these family parties , and encouraged dancing among young and old , and sometimes hired instructors to teach the cousins the latest dances she and juhen would amuse the children with their spry antics and sometimes the dance bands they hired from the quarter shocked the more staid mayfairs after julien 's death , mary beth did not dance so much but she loved to see other people dance , and she almost always provided some music in her last years , these affairs were managed by her daughter stella , and her son , lionel , and they were as spirited as ever .