finally the language of the old mayfair legacy , imposed upon the ceremony and reshaping it , was now being recited : ' ... now and forever , in public and in private , before your family and all others , without exception , and in all capacities , to be known only by the name of rowan mayfair , daughter of deirdre mayfair , daughter of antha mayfair , though your lawful husband shall be called by his own name ... ' 'i do . '