in a photograph taken that year , stella is wearing the mayfair emerald it was common knowledge that she was the designee of the legacy mary beth seems to have been exceptionally proud of her , called her 'the intrepid ' on account of her wanderings , and though she was disappointed that lionel did not want to go back to school with a view to going on to harvard , she seemed to have been accepting of all her children carlotta had her own apartment in one of the outbuildings , and went to loyola university every day in a chauffeur-driven car anyone passing on chestnut street in the evening could see the family , through the windows , seated at dinner , an enormous gathering , waited on by numerous servants , and always lasting until quite late .