mary beth 's second passion was the family and from the beginning of her active business life , she involved her cousins ( or brothers ) barclay , garland , cortland and other mayfairs in her dealings , she brought them into the companies she formed and used mayfair attorneys and mayfair bankers for her transactions in fact , she always used mayfairs for business , if she possibly could , instead of strangers and she put great pressure on other mayfairs to do the same when her daughter carlotta mayfair went to work for a non-mayfair law firm , she was disappointed and disapproving , but she took no restrictive or punitive action regarding carlotta 's decision she let it be known that carlotta was guilty of lack of vision .