then i ask you , is n't it true that in your presence you saw the defendant , mrs. anteil , behave toward mr. anteil in a manner that caused him acute humiliation , and that because of this you saw him become mentally distressed and suffer both physical and mental privation that resulted in him having to consult a physician , and that there was a noticeable change in him that caused you to remark that he did n't seem - `` the lawyer gestured .