'the game is far too confusing for me , madame ' 'for them , too 'i 've told everyone about your progress , ' said winters , adding softly , 'as you believe your progress to be before revealing the identity of the man you 're submitting to us , would you care to review the guidelines ' '' 'i would , sir ' varak 's eyes roamed around the table as he collected his thoughts 'to begin with , your man should be physically attractive but not `` pretty '' or feminine .