Dat wordt lffel an lffel denk ik <| sep |> The argument can be made that your argument over semantics , who cares if it ' s called civil union or marriage Married couples get tax benefits so I ' ll dislike someone if they oppose gay marriage because of this . The argument can be made that if you make it a right , you force people like priests who don ' t agree with it to officiate marriage , violating church and stateThe church doesn ' t marry everyone . Can atheists not get married either ? The argument can be made gov has no role getting involved in marriage , and as such we shouldn ' t support any measure . Just like the gov shouldn ' t have gotten involved with state ' s rights in the 1860 s s . And that doesn ' t prevent states from legalizing it . Moral is that you can ' t make character judgements on someone based on voting alone , you really can ' t . I cannot find a reason to oppose gay marriage that is moral , so I don ' t agree . If people are going to ruin other people ' s lives for no reason I ' m going to judge them for it .