Mostly due to time . I work nearly full time , help my disabled parents , and go to school full time by commute . Before it was because I kept making excuses cause I ' m really overweight , but I started working on that currently am down 16 pounds . Maybe when I lose more weight and time frees up I ' ll go on a few dates , not rushing it too much . <| sep |> Doing god ' s work . <| sep |> I was with my two young kids . Does that count as being alone ? My conversations were limited to short sentences about . gee I don ' t even remember ! Also lots of scolding . <| sep |> Well researched points he ' s making . <| sep |> Tropico is pretty fun though . <| sep |> 3 years ? Jesus . I have anxiety , smoke it every day , and can ' t go without it . But I guess to each their own .