I think this is where double standards come in , with some women not seeing such acts as sexual assault when it clearly is . I wonder where it stems from . <| sep |> We are soft and Bama isn ' t . <| sep |> hey that looks like one of those ewookies from star trek <| sep |> Anyone got a gif of the play ? <| sep |> Selfimprovement begins with you . How might you improve yourself so that you could reread my comment , where I took time out of a busy holiday to try to help a person who asked for help , and read it in a spirit of help and caring ? And how might you improve yourself so that you could reply to my comment in a similar spirit of acknowledgement and kindness ? How does your comment contribute to your improvement , or OP ' s improvement , or even help me improve my advice to OP ?