This is great advice , of course though when I lost her I lost all of the friends associted with us . I dont blame them , but this created a lot of isolation which made the problem so much fucking worse . I have kept myself busy to the point of exhaustion and it still took a solid 3 weeks to get past frustration about the situation . If you are in the position of dropping someone please hve the decency to just tell them no , I guess no answer is an answer , but you hve to know tht is cusing the other indiividual a lot of stress . Tbh , I still dont have an answer , and although I lime to think I dont care I do , I feel like you deserve an answer of some sort . Life isnt always fair , but you cando things on your end to make it n amicable situation instead of lraving someone in the dark .