I would vote put it under test of time but I guarantee that goes to Skyrim . <| sep |> Whenever I ' ve encountered something that should be approached delicately , I put it in the form of a question Have you ever thought you might have ADHD ? or Have you considered being tested for ADHD ? Just wondering , because you say you ' re all over the place with stress and impulses and schedules . Phrasing it in the form of a question is quite a bit less threatening to someone who might get freaked out about it , and you can gauge their reaction . Just saying , Hey , I think you might have ADHD . could come across as harsh and judgmental to someone who ' s not altogether comfortable with the idea of a disorder , so my advice would be to put it in the form of a short question and go from there .