Sandgroper here , mid 30 s , say strewth but none of this galah malarkey . <| sep |> Regressed on everything , but to be fair I was under recovered and doing too much cardio . <| sep |> I thought that appointing him as foreign secretary was a way of rubbing his face in the shit he created with the leave campaign . Never wrestle with a pig , you both get dirty and the pig likes it . <| sep |> The only two times I ' ve ever actually come out to someone was on the back of them leading the conversation in a serious direction . My best friend revealed to me that him and this girl he was living with were actually a thing we ' re nerds , so this shit never comes up and I was completely ignorant of this very obvious fact so randomly I decided spur of the moment to tell him I ' m gay . I definitely wasn ' t planning on doing that that day , the timing just seemed too perfect and I managed to psych myself up before the moment passed . With my mom we had just spent an amazing day together in Myrtle Beach hanging out doing a bunch of fun stuff , we had just finished swimming in the hotel pool and were taking a walk on the beach at night . While I was battling with myself to tell her she steered the conversation to something serious her recent shit with my doushbag of a stepdad and once the seal was broken and we were talking about real stuff that actually mattered I finally managed to get the courage to tell her . I ' m super lucky and have a family that is not religious in any way so none of them cared that I ' m gay , they ' re all super supportive . It takes time and if you feel you have to wait for the right moment like I did you might be waiting for quite a while , but I ' d say make sure you ' re ready when you commit because you can ' t take it back .