Those guys have NO IDEA what ' s going on 😂😂😂 <| sep |> We tried that with Bernie . <| sep |> Shias are ok ? <| sep |> I don ' t think you know someone well enough after 9 months . My parents only dated for nine months before my father proposed , but they had been friends for three years first . It is different for everyone , but I don ' t think you should EXPECT a diamond after twelve months . Maybe two years , and it is different when you are older . If I found a boyfriend at 20 , I wouldn ' t expect him to pop the question by the end of my junior year . But if I were late 20 ' searly 30 ' s , it would be different . We ' d have more life experience and most likely be more willing to settle down . <| sep |> Ugh that sucks . And I feel you , my parents are both architects and it ' s pretty obvious how most of the big cities are just getting chalk full of lifeless developments like what we ' re seeing . Where I live most of the buildings downtown look like the sidewalk running upwards . zzz