How many teens do you think choose on their own without pressure from their parents to go to those camps ? Do you really think they wake up one morning and go ' i want to go to a camp that forces me to be something I ' m not '?<| sep |> Heh , I feel like McCree gets picked less often because everyone else is a tank now . Even Reaper is having trouble because Dva matrix shits on him dat armor . <| sep |> Yep I sleep with an old FWB on the side with my husband ' s full knowledge and permission , it actually turns him on . The most important thing is that my husband knows I love and choose HIM to share my life with this is just a way of getting physical needs met that he isn ' t always willingable to fulfill because we have such drastically different libidos . This exact arrangement may not work for you , but you ' d be surprised how many versions of ethical nonmonogamy are out there . However , only you know your wife and whether this could even possibly be an option in your situation . If not , as others have said , you have a hard line to cross there is no going back from a betrayal like cheating . Is it really worth it ?