Thank you , your advice was very helpful , it worked <| sep |> As a 54 year old man who still rides on the carts I have to say out of my way ! !!!<| sep |> My cousin finally dumped his psycho long time girlfriend . He knocked her up two weeks later . He stayed because he ' s the type that always had to have a girl , and he felt sorry for her . She was lazy , loud , obnoxious , an addict , and an idiot . She went to a strip club one night , and came home screaming . She was angry that he had ever been to one . Hit , and kicked him a few times . A couple years , and kids , later she beat him again , and then pressed charges saying that he hit her . He went to jail before she dropped the false charges . A year or so later he is with another girl finally . The psycho got wasted , and passed out on top of the baby . The baby is ok though . She finally lost all custody , thankfully . He now has 5 kids total , and a happy family . Just wish he had listened to me sooner . Would have saved him a ton of trouble . I hope she has cleaned up , and is taking care of her issues .