Biryani . I simply cannot stress on how badly non SouthAsians are missing out . <| sep |> I literally had a blog written about me because I disagreed with a SJW whom is now disgraced after having been revealed as a creep by several women he manipulated online when he wrote a Facebook post telling men that chivalry , which he defined as , holding doors for women and paying on the first date is sexist and paternalistic . I simply stated that holding the door for people is a generally nice thing to do and most people that do it do it for anybody , male or female . Regarding the first date thing , all I said was that our social courtship norms create an expectation for a man to at least offer to pay on the first date , or he may likely suffer social repercussions , so it is entirely unfair to direct such a statement exclusively toward men even if it is accepted as true . For this , I had literally dozens of extremely angry SJWs throwing ~~ energy but ~~ every bit of hate they could muster in my direction , I got private messages attacking my character , and was labeled with every pejorative in the book including insinuations that I am probably a rapist and pedophile . Long story short , these rabid SJW extremists do exist , and they tend to collect into nests that turn into really angry swarms when jostled . That is where the impression comes from . Not a large portion of the population , but a very small but incredibly vocal reactionary group . Like in so many cases , a tiny group of people taking something to a ridiculous extreme get the most attention . The worst thing that can happen to a good causeis not to be skillfully attacked , but to be ineptly defended . ~ Frederic Bastiat