That ' s best case scenario , especjally considering how often Carrick has been injured in recent times . <| sep |> It ' s like going to the gym . your goal isn ' t read shouldn ' t , be to look jacked after one workout , but that may still be your longterm goal . Your days goal is to improve yourself and eventually get to your ideal body . If you stick with it , somewhere along the line you realize that you can use the next belt loop , or that your shirt fits a little tighter around your arms . In a social situation , your goal shouldn ' t be to find a partner tonight , but to develop the social skills needed to be able to have a healthy romantic relationship manifest itself from the relationships you develop . Somewhere a long the line you ' ll look down and see that you have no belt loops because you ' re not wearing pants .