I would have wondered what the point was if you did that . It ' s one thing for someone to pretend like they ' re the instructor that ' s fine , it didn ' t waste my time and it ' s a classic college type prank . It ' s stupid but funny . If the actual instructor just sat around and pretended like she wasn ' t there , that ' s just wasting my time . It ' s not really funny or clever , and the outcome is going to be pretty predictable . People are going to talk amongst themselves and then start leaving after 10 minutes or so . That ' s it . <| sep |> For me , I just get sick of the societal expectations that if you ' re not married or in a serious relationship by the time you hit your late 20 s or early 30 s , you ' re creepy , weird , have something wrong with you , or according to people who are extremely stupidnarrow minded , you ' re also possibly gay . Rant aside , what goes through my mind is why these people think that finding and keeping a girlfriend is as easy as going out shopping .