Yeah I ' m salty for enforcing rules on behalf of users who don ' t want the entire comment section to be other people ' s sit starts . You caught me <| sep |> Try inviting an antisemite to your bar . <| sep |> Well , the bars were supposed to be higher , he tried to bail for the position the bars should ' ve been at . Obviously they weren ' t there so he got fucked . <| sep |> Good catch <| sep |> You won ' t get over this because you never offered the opportunity for things to grow . This is what ' s eating at you . You can keep wallowing in the regret of your doing , or reach out to him and see if things are salvageable . Or not . It comes down to what you want . If you really want it to work you ' ll do whatever it takes . Otherwise you ' ll be dealing with regret like right now . Also , you probably won ' t get over each other . Time will numb everything but the memories stay .