shaw and terry swapped rn <| sep |> I think this is a great question , because for me , I have a difficult time verbalizing with words in the heat of the moment . In fact , it pulls me out of my getting ready to orgasm mindstate . Oh god , oh my god is about all I can manage . So yeah , reading moaning , breathing changes , hands clenching , back arching , hips tilting , etc . IS important . That said , all I can advise is , when you get a good thing going . for Christ ' s sake don ' t stop ! She ' ll let you know when to stop , don ' t worry . It ' s so great you ' re communicating , keep that up , and its so awesome that you are learning to improve as a lover . <| sep |> I ' m from America and I agree with this . <| sep |> Heh . Enjoy your downvotes .