Not to worry you , but that ' s kind of creepy . He can ' t understand your concerns and then blatantly disrespects them . In a way , you ' re lucky he was so ballsy to brag now you know what he ' s up to . If I were you , I ' d clamp down REALLY tight on your photos , even the ones already posted . That he has predator links and disrespects your wishes makes a bad combo . I ' m not familiar with Tinybeans , or with how muchfrequently you like to share , but maybe tighter controls over every photo would be better ? I know with Dropbox you can share individual files with people and break those links in the future if needed . Or , go analog and print for your grandparents ? Only share digitally with people completely disconnected from your FIL ?