Yeah , I never had a specific timeline , it was just more of a I want to get to know you first before I ' m comfortable enough for that . But honestly , I ' m just picky about who I ' ll have sex with . I can ' t tell you how many guys I ' ve dated , but I ' ve only had sex with two my first boyfriend and my now husband . I mean , I didn ' t string along the dudes who got no sex , I usually dumped not really , since they weren ' t quite boyfriends yet them after a few weeks of hanging out if it wasn ' t working out for me . My husband had to wait around 6 weeks or so before we had sex . Honestly , a dude who would leave me for not putting out fast enough isn ' t someone I ' d want to be in a relationship with anyways , so it was never a worry for me .