When edging you release big amounts of dopamine . You are just slowing down the healing process and you stay addicted to masturbating . It also makes an urge unbearable , you might orgasm without meaning to and you are way more likely to get wet dreams . It ' s basically just making everything harder for yourself . <| sep |> No joke , every time I get in my car , the first thing I do is pop Act IV in and set it to track 12 . <| sep |> I mainly play melee so I like feeling powerful from hard hits andor dancing around the enemy as you beat them senseless . In Dark Souls you need a shield if you ' re not ranged so you can block attacks or parry an enemy ' s attack to leave them vulnerable . Unfortunately parries and backstabs don ' t work on the bosses , so you have to mainly dance around them and avoid their attacks . It does sound like you want to like Disgaea if you ' ve bought different games from the series but maybe it ' s just not for you . Or at the very least , stop buying them until you feel you ' re into them and start completing them . The moving and attacking is slower than an action game as you have to plan out your attacks so it takes a little time . I think the more missions you go through the more you ' ll get into it . I think someone had suggested Dragon ' s Dogma Dark Arisen , which it sounds like might be more what you ' re looking for . You can get it from the Humble Monthly currently for $ 12 and you ' ll get 7 games along with it when the full bundle is revealed on December 2 .