There is nothing wrong with you , those people are likely just busy . Or maybe you two grew apart . it happens and does not mean anything is wrong with you , just that you have more time for new friends you click better with <| sep |> There ' s actually a very simple answer regarding the NSFW part , and that is that any fanbase has that . There are very few that don ' t . When a huge number of people line the same thing , some of those people will have a sexualized interest . But the other explanation to go along with this is that any show featuring likable animated nonhuman characters makes it easy for anthropomorphizing them for the furry community . Basically , furries will do this with any character , not just MLP , but fans of MLP who are also furries make up most of the NSFW part of the community . This isn ' t a hateful comment or anything , I don ' t mean to sound dissenting . Especially because I ' ll shamelessly admit I am a furry myself !