While agreed that you don ' t snap at servers even in Europe or England or elsewhere sometimes waitstaff do not make constant rounds . I ' ve been to plenty of places where they disappear and forget essential items for the table . Usually trying to make eye contact and doing the little hand wave at them works though . <| sep |> You should examine how you value yourself and youth . Ageism is definitely real and ingrained . <| sep |> I don ' t know if they ' re all on the same mission at the same time or what role they play . Or they could just be using her name for the quick recognition . but I don ' t really see anything I said as a stretch . edit in fact , there ' s a scene from the trailer that shows thea , diggle and ray sitting in some alien tech , wearing the same drab shirts with their eyes closed . looks like maybe they ' re captured and dreaming . I ' m just saying man .