Saying that customers use the term fully loaded exposes you . That ' s a car dealer term if ever there was one . I agree the term is over used these days . <| sep |> I really think it depends from planet to planet . Not every backwater world is going to be able to do tests like the ones you described , I mean imagine the madness that would be testing an entire hive world . <| sep |> How do you like eyesight ? Mine didn ' t come with it and never really was intrigued on that feature <| sep |> I told my husband 2 years ago today that I was leaving him . Afterward , we had sex every day for 2 weeks . He was motivated by fear . That means something , right ? After 25 years in a sexless marriage , I ' m just tired of trying . There are only 3 three things keeping me in this marriage 1 . I am completely financially dependant on him . I would have to drop out of grad school to support myself . 2 . I ' d miss him too much and 3 . I do not trust that i could ever be seen as attractive to any man again . So , lonely with bills paid wins over lonely and homeless . I admit that , if I were financially independent , I would not be here . I also have to deal with the guilt of knowing he raised my three children without much hesitation . I kind of feel like I owe him . I knew when we got married that I would never have a consistent sex life again and at the time it seemed like a small sacrifice , but now it feels like the biggest thing in the world . He is the perfect man for one of those women who don ' t want sex . He ' s the perfect man for me when I don ' t think about sex . Lately , I don ' t think of anything else .