If it ' s thin and wispy it ' ll be 83 or below . If it ' s fat it ' s 84 or better . If it ' s gigantic then it ' s a special card <| sep |> You risk under reccovery if you do that and don ' t eatsleep right <| sep |> It ' s not her family and not her life . She can go to hell . I grew up in a very religious and anti abortion household and decided early on that if I needed to term my pregnancy I would just tell them things didn ' t work out and I lost the baby . No details beyond that other than I don ' t want to talk about it because it ' s too personal and too hard . People will make whatever assumptions they want , but it ' s an added safeguard against judgement and insensitivity in a difficult time . Take care of yourself and don ' t be bullied into making this decision . You know yourself and family better than any extended family member , no matter what they think .