I like Eddie Howe . I enjoy watching Bournemouth matches and i think he ' s done a fantastic job with them . I believe they play much better football than us . They move the ball quicker as well . But i think he ' s very young . I would like to see how good Eddie Howe would perform at a club like Everton or Southampton before managing a club like Arsenal . Simeone is my choice . He ' s absolutely what we need . Give a shake on the players , so we can start to play some fucking football with passion again . <| sep |> What is going to happen during Christmas ? I wouldn ' t even consider buying them presents as the only reason they would invite you is only for your gifts and money <| sep |> uilickanalblood . a little help ? <| sep |> Assuming this story went exactly as you laid it out , you seem to be pretty incompatible . Your first response was violence and there is a wide spectrum of responses to aggression between attempting to deescalate a situation verbally and them both out any martial artsself defense instructor worth their salt should emphasize violence enough to knock someone out as a last , never first , resort . Your girlfriend is uncomfortable with continuing your relationship knowing that violence is your immediate goto , whether that makes her fearful about your response to her in a fight , or she simply finds violence abhorrent . That is entirely her right , and it is entirely her right to lay down an ultimatum like that , as it ' s your right to refuse it and accept that it means the end of your relationship . Also , let ' s be clear your actions were not just in defense of your girlfriend , they were in defense of yourself as well . You don ' t actually mention them interacting with her at all , you only mention one of them doing some invasive , aggressive posturing towards you which admittedly would set me off , but I ' m a petite woman , nor am I essentially trained to murder people with my bare hands . Why claim that you ' re defending her when she barely enters the narrative except to respond to how you handled it ?