Effectively this means every ironman will be screwed if someones goes down ladder and in no way contributes and goes back up ? <| sep |> It ' s called game mechanics , son . Don ' t worry too much about it . <| sep |> It ' s a remote control from an hp pavilion laptop <| sep |> Real nice body . Sweet tits and really cute face . <| sep |> What ' s the point of this when you can just play by yourself with an alt on another world ? Your alt can even log out and then you just score once as the only player in the game and get 3 tickets for a shutout . <| sep |> There ' s always some stragglers <| sep |> I don ' t know what that ' s supposed to mean . Do you like to ride the cock carousel ? <| sep |> First of all , I ' m sorry you ' re dealing with this . Second , you have every right to tell your DH that she needs to not say a single word about this ever again , or you ' re cutting her out , period . This kind of decision is between you and DH and nobody else , and in the end , it ' s entirely up to YOU . No matter what , she has no say and you ' re not interested in her opinion . Third , you have every right to decide you don ' t want tocan ' t care for a special needs child . Your husband ' s parents have no right to demand it of you , or to demand that you put your body through the hardships of pregnancy simply to deliver a child and walk away . NOBODY has the right to ask that of you , and there ' s nothing wrong with admitting you don ' t want to go down that road . Your number one obligation is to the people you have committed to , and that includes you and DH . You need to think about what ' s best for your little family and do what you need to do to protect it and protect you . You know what would be bad , and wrong ? Having a child you would resent simply because you ' ve been guilted into it by someone so wholly unconnected with your personal life . Talk to your doctor ASAP don ' t wait , seek them out tomorrow . Tell them the clock is ticking and see what can be done . Results can be gotten within two weeks if needed , but you ' d have to get in quickly to get the test done . They take the cell samples and let them replicate . It may be possible to get quicker results by getting a larger sample . Talk to your doctor immediately . If you do have to go out of state , there are organizations that will help with money . You can always pay them back later when you can afford it . Focus on getting that test ASAP . Be blunt on the phone when you ' re trying to get it scheduled , or even better , go in person to speak to someone about getting an appointment . They may be able to take you in between other appointments the test itself only takes a few minutes , from start to finish it ' s about half an hour because they have to check to make sure the test doesn ' t disturb or harm anything . If you go into the office bring a bottle of water with you they ' ll want you to have a moderately full bladder for the testing to make things more visible . Don ' t start thinking about every possible thing that can go wrong , you ' ll freeze up . Instead , take it one day at a time . Feel free to feel everything you feel . Take care of yourself , and take it easy on yourself . These things happen , maybe for a reason , maybe for no reason at all . You will get through this . Be good to yourself and take all the time you need to get over it , however it goes .