You attacked me by putting words in my mouth , accusing me of sayingdoing things I didn ' t , and making character assumptions . Now you ' re acting like you ' re the poor innocent injured party . Cut the bs . I shouldn ' t have to explicitly state I am not saying something I didn ' t say . You getting I am put off a gal has to ask if she did the right thing means looking down on abuse victims is all on you . It is not my lack of clarification . After you attack I did clarify what I meant when I told you that your projection from your personal issues was wrong and assumptive . You do not represent abuse victims . Me calling you out on your behavior is not a lack of empathy for abuse victims . Next time you feel people are misunderstanding the effects of abuse then ask . Don ' t assume you know what they meant and start attacking them and accusing them .