I think it ' s less of the kids being good , and more of the parent accepting the choices of their children . That said , I never wanted a Barbie doll as a child . Do you know why ? Does scuba Barbie come with a scuba suit , a boat , and a springloaded harpoon gun ? Does Barbie have a helicopter and a parachute and a fucking jeep ? Does Barbie come with camo facepaint ? Because Action Man does . <| sep |> I understand the point you are trying to make and I truly feel like you actually use this sub as a form of therapy . My problem isnt with people that use it as therapy . My issue is with people that use it under the guise of therapy but in reality its a trigger . I have plenty of addictions and frequent a few anon subs and love them . From what ive read here today A lot of what is posted isn ' t really similar to other addiction subs