? They were bowling against a rookie anyway , no ? Koala was at 3 anyway . <| sep |> But I buy a ton of games <| sep |> OP I ' m sorry , but I have to use blunt language . When you were teenagers doing horseplay and wrestling , did he ever get an erection ? How about when you slept over in bed together ? I ' m sure you ' ve chalked the above up to him being The Perfect Gentleman , but I find it extreeeeeeemely unlikely that a hetero male teenager wouldn ' t pop up anything during any one of those times . That ' s just one piece of what makes me think he might be questioning his sexuality . I feel like the signs are running through your whole post . He said I am not the type of guy you need . What type would that be ? Does he have the type of family that would be easy to come out of the closet to ? Here is what I suggest you say to him . Say to him that if there ' s ever anything he needs to tell you , you will be there for him , you will be his friend no matter what , and you won ' t tell anyone .