Sounds like you are using the ACT approach ? Have you read the book The Happiness Trap ? It outlines various activities to do using ACT and there is an illustrated shorter version that is easy to read that is good . <| sep |> Tis night here but hey good morning . <| sep |> LOL . i ' ve got a woman that begs to give bj ' s . in the carin the kitchenat a friend ' s house in the bathroom . in the parking garage at the hospital . in the grocery store parking lot , etc . she wants to suck dick ALL THE TIME . i ' m at a point where i have to ask for pussy . otherwise , it ' s bj ' s all the time bc she loves it so much . <| sep |> Thank you for your answers ! This is also very interesting and you seem to have much insight into this matter , so this is really appreciated . I rarely play rankeds so I can ' t really say what ELO I am in in normals I am sometimes matched against multiple diamonds at once , and then again against , though obviously smurfs , accounts that aren ' t even level 30 , but I am quite effective with Ivern myself . Anyways , thank you for your insight .