I see . You don ' t have a real rebuttal , huh ! ?<| sep |> Enlighten us . How does one build a drone with the quality and capability for the price of a dji ? <| sep |> just check this website <| sep |> God damn the accuracy on the Newports <| sep |> haha no problem buddy , I don ' t need it at all , I was just saying that precisions in the post could be benefic <| sep |> So , I really think that ' s the key to all this . I don ' t think it ' s you or surgery at all . It ' s the depression . I ' m by no means and expert , but I ' m a nursing student so I come armed with a little knowledge and some personal experience . I would bet you anything that his depression effected his sex drive before and that the antidepressants are continuing to do it . Antidepressants are known to be a killer on sex drive . Not that he should stop taking them at all , but you guys should be aware that is a huge side effect of the medications . Try not to let your insecurities override your brain , because he needs you to be there for him . I ' m sure he feels super crappy about not performing for you , which can make the depression worse . Just be as supportive as you can , don ' t take it personally , and most of all don ' t pressure him because that will likely make it worse . There are a lot of good articles out there about helping partners cope with depression and likely a lot dealing with this specific subject that would probably be really worth looking into . Hope that everything improves for you guys !