Better read Sartre ' s AntiSemite and Jew before getting into debate with this type of inauthenticity . But there ' s no sense in playing to it authentically . <| sep |> Do you ever think of suicide ? I ' m also in your situation and I think of killing myself all the time . I ' ve made a pact with myself that if I reach my 30 th birthday and I ' m still a virgin I will kill myself . Do you have a similar pact , or do you sometimes think of having one ? <| sep |> I got you , i need them for my pokedex , reply so i can see your flair <| sep |> yup . and the mouse keeps cropping up . <| sep |> He has a point . <| sep |> Shaming is how we successfully fought homophobia , it ' s how we ' re fighting racism , and it ' s how we should fight obesity . I love the activist attitude , but I don ' t know that it applies here . Racismhomophobia hurt people other than the bigot being fat hurts almost exclusively the fat person , unless they ' re raising their kids with unhealthy habits , but if you ' re trying to get unhealthy people to raise their kids with more healthy lifestyles , call a spade a spade and say you ' re specifically fighting parents raising their kids to be unhealthy . Calling someone disgusting might stop them from saying racist things that hurt others , which is great , but that ' s different from getting them to stop having unhealthy habits towards themselves . I have yet to see any evidence other than anecdotes that bullying fat people gets them to become healthier . In fact , evidence seems to suggest the exact opposite , snobesitydiscrimination 20130724 which would mean you ' re just being mean to people .