It sucks that if any man is near any child , even if it ' s theirs , is seen as a creep . Is this not a thing in Europe ? <| sep |> To be absolutely blunt , this doesn ' t bode well for relationships . It ' s true , bringing up hurt feelings is hard ! But you have to do it . That ' s how relationships get over hurdles and continue to function . You need to learn how to articulate your needs . How is your communication normally ? If you often defer to him , and he steamrolls over you I just don ' t think this is a good relationship for you to be in . <| sep |> I ' m in D 8 , so no Goretex sightings here yet . It does make sense to get it at a cheaper price , I ' m just curious to see how commands are going to react to new members showing up with these parkas and suddenly half of a department is in all blue and the other is in aquaflauge .