big transmutation . I think king is not worth it . <| sep |> Can I ask how old you are ? How long have you been talking ? The only reason to be nervous is if either of you has grossly misrepresented yourselvessomething in your lives . In our case , we talked for so many hours over so many years , we both really , genuinely knew the other person before we met . I had a brief moment of panic and worried that he didn ' t truly know what I looked like he did , I was just freaking out and sent him some brutally honest photos like 2 days before his flight . You know the signs . If stories change , if the pictures are always weird angles or obscured by shadowsdistancesomething , those are red flags . If they are suddenly unavailable and full of reasons why , those are red flags . If none of those are happening , then just go into with gusto and hope for the best ! Finally , and this really depends on your age , my biggest piece of advice is to never attempt a LDR if neither of you is willing to uproot your lives . I did a LDR in the past and it was useless because neither of us was willing to commit and move . In my husband ' s case , I owed a house and 2 cars , he had nothing and was fresh out of the military . He wanted to leave home and was happy to do so on that oneway flight . Good luck to you ! I hope it goes well .