I changed my major in my second year at DU , it was absolutely painless and the best decision I ' ve made yet . Don ' t be hesitant to change in your first semester if accepted . <| sep |> My girlfriend wins every playfight , very easily . She gets enough resistance from me to feel like she ' s accomplished something . I don ' t want to accidentally hurt her , sure . but more than that , I don ' t want her to really struggle and then realize that she ' s powerless . I don ' t want ' physical threat ' and ' boyfriend ' to be in the same headspace . And I don ' t want to bring back any bad memories . There is nothing cute or fun or playful about any of that . So she is always going to win . Every time . And it ' ll always be just difficult enough that she doesn ' t ever have to face the concept of powerlessness .