Just picked up Thielen should I play him over Pyror Sr ? My other WRs are Doncreif and T . Williams . <| sep |> So like a necromunda mathhammer app ? Yeah I would definitely use that but it would need good UI . Would not be keen on endless lists just for one calculation . <| sep |> I was wondering what kind of relationship the grandchildren here had with the Nparents . I ' m not surprised that the answer is not much . wont be prompting youngest son , 27 , to send a cardMaybe I ' m missing something here , like it got lost in some kind of cultural translation , but this sounds more like a FLEA than being a dutiful daughter . A 27 year old can decide what they want to do , if anything , to acknowledge their grandparent ' s birthday . Even a teenager can . and if they want to , they will . I don ' t think there ' s any emotionally healthy reason to do it for them . I ' m thinking your Nparents will get angry at you and tell you to bring your husband back into line , rather than try to drive a wedge between you . It sounds like a few things are about to happen in your family that could lead to a shakeup of the current rules . It ' s your son possibly choosing to ignore your NDad ' s birthday as well as your husband sending that email . Good luck with it all , stand firm !