Reminds me of my sister . She ' s an unrepentant manipulative narcissist heroin addict psycho who blames everyone and everything around her for her life situation . Her kids are in foster care . She ' s homeless . As long as she is still alive , she will be nothing but a burden to my family and a source of stress for my father . I ' ve been mourning her death for years , problem is , she ' s too stubborn to die . Every now and then she calls or visits either me or my dad , only when she wants something , just to remind everyone that she ' s still alive and just as apathetic and spiteful and vindictive and selfish and desperately in need of some serious counseling but will fight tooth and nail any actual help that is offered to her . I won ' t cry when she dies because I ' ve practiced mourning her death over and over . Every time she drops off the radar , every time there ' s a dead woman in the news , every time I see someone who looks like her , every time I visit my nephews . It rips me to shreds but it ' s 100 times worse for my dad . We can ' t help her financially because she will find a way to turn that into drugs . We can ' t let her into our homes because she views us as resources and our property as hers . We can ' t offer advice because LALALALALALALALALA . She is a lost cause and I wish it was over with . I just want her out of my life and if that means her drowning in her own vomit under a highway overpass then , so be it .