You make all this money just with flipping on diffenrent server , that ' s really impressive ! Teach me master 3 <| sep |> Y ' all Harlem nggaz off da hook . <| sep |> It wasn ' t easy . Willing , gorgeous girls aren ' t standing around every corner , waiting for you to snatch her up as your guest star . I personally feel it ' s a really bad idea to choose a friend , colleague , or acquaintance . If things go wrong , you don ' t want akward gettogethers or weird office parties . And you don ' t want someone you see on a regular basis , cause this increases the risk that she and your guy might develop feelings for each other . I also find that girls you find on the internet are a bit dangerous to try . Mainly because you never know who is really sitting behind the other screen . Swingers clubs are a good place to find someone , because you know you are amidst people who are open minded and won ' t slap you if you proposition them . This didn ' t work for us , because in both cases where we actually tried , the girls were more into swinging , and wanted to bring a second guy into the mix . Neither me or my guy is interested in adding another penis to the mix . I ' m really not interested , and he doesn ' t find it to be a turn on to watch me get fucked by another guy . Eventually we settled on the most controversial of options . A professional escort . You may be put off by the idea , but hear me out . 1 . She works at a classy upmarket gentlemen ' s club . This means that she has to have regular health checkups and tests . She is also required to use condoms with each and every client . We will definitely be using condoms , but it doesn ' t hurt to be extra safe . 2 . Imaginary scenario you pick up a girl at a bar , and take her home with you . Your guy is so excited he can ' t contain himself and just jumps her . She ' s in the throws if passion and just bangs his brains out , but you ' re uncomfortable . You ask her to stop . Chances are , she won ' t . Because you allowed this , and it feels good , so why should she ? She doesn ' t owe you anything . A girl you are paying however . She ' s has a job to do . She has done this plenty of times before . She knows you call the shots , and when you tell her to stop , she stops . Because no matter how good it feels , it ' s still a job . And if she does it right , clients return . 3 . She ' s professional . This is her livelihood . No feelings involved . You don ' t run the risk of emotions developing , because it would cost her her job . And you don ' t have to worry about your hubby seeing her at the next barbecue and falling in love with her . The place we went to , has a variety of ladies . They have a catalogue with all the girls , then tell you which ones are bisexual and do couples . You meet with each of them , and if you find one that is sexually attracted to both you and hubby , and you ' re both into her , then you can start planning . If you do decide to go this route , remember that high class call girls are very expensive . Might take some saving up . Hubs and I aren ' t buying each other christmas gifts or going on holiday . The money is saved to rather pay her . But I ' d much rather shell out the cash , considering the alternatives if I chose to be frugal now . This option might not be for everyone though . We just felt it ' s the absolute safest and most practical option for us . Good luck in your search , I hope you find her real quick ! !!