Don ' t worry man , you ' re still only 16 , you have a lot of life ahead of you . Thing is , at your age , nobody really knows what they want or need out of a partner , so even the people who always seem to have girlfriends will think the same things when they get in fights of break up . Just focus on your studies , yourself , your interests , and you ' ll be just fine . I imagine you have friends , so just try to be a good person and a good friend , listen to other people ' s views and concerns and thoughts , try to be openminded , be friendly and humble , and all in all , just try to act towards others the way you want them to act towards you . You ' ll be amazed how far in life you ' ll go on those things . Once you ' re older , uni is when I ' d actually start to think about dating tbh , you ' ll have a better idea of who you are and what you want , and girls will too . You ' ll both be in a much better situation to make romantic choices . TLDR don ' t stress it buddy , just be the best you that you can and you ' ll do OK .