Only thing that is same is my name . TBH I wanted to set up a tinder account and I needed Facebook but I have all these pictures of me on other people ' s accounts that I don ' t want people seeing . <| sep |> I just keep hearing Walter Sobchak say Dude , that is not the preferred nomenclature , except it ' s actually serious . Language policing is inherently futile . There is not a single person in the world who uses the correct term in every occasion and often the terms are subjective . My mom ' s partner for years was NavajoApache and he strongly preferred American Indian to Native American . There ' s some slurs that pretty much everybody knows as unacceptable , but anything short of that is either worth discussing I once had somebody pull me up on the American Indian thing , and when I gave my story above they said Oh , guess that makes sense or not worth getting mad about whatsoever .