C ' est malheureusement souvent le cas . Ils mettent directement l ' avis de passage . <| sep |> I was in Chicago on business and met an attractive woman in the bar . I was doing uncommonly well and asked her to join me in my room . then she told me her husband wanted to watch . I refused and she brought her hubby over and we talked . They convinced me he just wanted to watch and we went up to their suite . We did what we came for and , true to his word , he just watched . I got dressed and left , case closed , right . Nope . The next day in my meeting the owner of the company came in it was the hubby . I didn ' t get the contract , but he did did give me two leads for businesses looking for similar IT services . I thought they were more or less payoffs to keep quiet about him and his wife . I didn ' t call them .