Hey , yeah you . I ' m so sorry . Oh god . I ' m so sorry this has happened to you . I get it man . I did the same things . Mine cheated on me . First time I let it go . Second time ? Not so much . She also lied to the police and has gotten me arrested twice over . I walked away both times , no proof . I ' ve been in years long custody battle and still don ' t have any rights . She also did the same , threatened to kill my daughter . I called the mother in law and she took my daughter from us and continues to defend the mother in court . I ' ve decredited her but it doesn ' t count . I thought I was in hell . You just came back from it and it ' s the worst thing I could ever even think of . I ' m so sorry . Let me be clear . YOU DID THE RIGHT THINGS AS THE FATHER . YOU THOUGHT FOR THEM . CARED FOR THEM . The woman that killed your kids was the one that failed as a parent . Not you .