And . That ' s racist <| sep |> Nothing serious . Mostly casual dating or a fwb situation where we both want to spend time with each other but not too much time . Like , a few nights a week . I can ' t give anyone anything more than that . I think before now I was looking to settle down in a long term relationship . I feel like at my life stage I probably need to be looking for someone long term to start a family with because eventually I want that . Uh , my dating profiles are pretty sex oriented . <| sep |> The one time I was arrested , I was taken in and not given even a cup of water until I was processed . Same state , different city , tho . <| sep |> like i said , this is my first build , so i ' m still learning . If you could recommend an alternative i would really appreciate it .