Daniel starts to move his hips , grunting as he slides in and out of her at a fast pace . He gently pinches a nipple between his fingers , playing with it . <| sep |> I think the problem is that you have been conditioned by society to view life as a competition . Society has brainwashed all of us to view others as competition because it drives consumerism . You feel this fear and nervousness that you have to be more alpha and impress women . That fear is what ' s causing your voice to be stifled . These 2 RSD videos helped me deal with a similar situation 0 pdoFNlaDNIMdey 66 iBcETyler basically says that the way out of this fear of losing is to view everyone as your friend and stop viewing other guys as competition because there is no losing and no reason to feel ashamed if no women find you desirable . By not viewing others as competition , your stress goes down , and your energy becomes more expansive , and you have more power . This leads to having the louder voice you want actually , Tyler mentions it won ' t always lead to a louder voice . BUT , if you talk normally and are content with yourself , even if your voice isn ' t loud , people will want to hear you because they sense you are sharing as opposed to trying too hard to be alphadominantThe other way to get a louder voice is by force . This is when you use angeraggression to get a louder voice ex . by yelling , screaming . This is NOT what you should aim for because a person using force still has alot of fear