It ' s not you , these pauses in gameplay are unavoidable they are intentional and placed there to disguise loading occurring behind the door . <| sep |> Star the Underestimated , I think that ' s going to be her actual alias when she ascends to the throne . <| sep |> if you do go , give no reaction to the jokes . I had extended family make fun of my size overweight . not tall . just reg heightTHey ' d make jokes at the table , jokes at me when theyd ask about my school or job . fat joke fat joke fat joke . I started showing no emotion at all . like zero . not even anger or sadness . they ' d make the joke . I would slowly stare at them . make eye contact . and linger for a bit before going back to my food or activity . if i lingered , i sometimes would say well that was rude and go back to my meal . never engage . your wife is being a poop . what if someone poked fun at her size ?