I find it kind of funny , I find it kind of sad , the dreams in which I ' m dying is the best I ' ve ever had . Gary Jules ' version on Donnie Darko is pretty good . <| sep |> Whats up with the music . Thats annoying <| sep |> No Biology isn ' t fair . The example of a permanent vasectomy to a temporary pregnancy isn ' t a particularly good one , but I do see the point you are trying to make . There is also nothing stopping a man who never wants children from getting vasectomy , but that ' s unrelated . I very much look forward to the day when a male contraceptive pill is widely available as it will reduce the number of men forced to father unwanted children not eliminate the problem as no system is perfect after all . And I would have jumped at the chance to take the burden of pregnancy from my wife , she would still have a womb if I did , but thats just wishful thinking . Do you think its fair to to force a man to endure , with all the mental , emotional and financial weight that comes with having children when he does want one ? Because that ' s what giving the man no say means . Do you think its fair to take a child away from a loving father , against his express wishes ? Because that ' s what giving the man no say means .