Have you ever been somewhere where they manufacture electronics ? <| sep |> I ' m bi but hey whatever . I hate the 2 extremes of 1 we have to prove we are exactly like heterosexuals ! Our love is the same love ! If it ' s obvious in any way that you ' re queer you ' re hurting the movement by showing them we ' re freaks ! I ' m not THOSE queers ! Or you could calm the fuck down and not try to pander to the masses and let people be themselves . Your selfhate is showing . I can ' t stand queer people with this attitude if they haven ' t grown out of it by their mid twenties . . 2 this might be queer lady specific , but in sapphic groups there always seems to be a pissing contest for who is the most activist . I wanted to meet other queer friends because I ' d never had any before , in the beginning of university , but i never fit in because I wanted to just enjoy my life . Talking about political issues is definitely important but in these groups it was like you never got a break from it . There was a small but noticeable amount of biphobia , like a few of the most Hardcore looked down on you for fraternizing with The Enemy heteros . Also , specifically on dating sites , women who list themselves as bisexual but then their profile very specifically , explicitly , and exclusively talks about men . Either they ' re so emotionally out of touch that they don ' t realize that this makes them look completely uninterested in women and that female attention would be ignored or disliked , or that is actually true and they just want to look edgy or progressive or hot for men . I ' ve encountered too many women who are basically just bisexual enough to turn a man on and that might really be their orientation but I sure as hell don ' t want to try to date one .