Thanks , i took for granted they didn ' t sound much good because of a review of a random kid i watched . The problem with 2 . 1 systems is that i don ' t know what to do with the bass . But i think it was this ones that i measured yesterday and since the bass is slim i could fit it between the table and the wall without being on my feet . <| sep |> OP I just want to say I don ' t know why you ' re getting so many comments along these lines . Yes you probably should have gone without him and you realise that now but your question is not about that . You ' re asking about your relationship and the fact that you could have gone without him does not change the fact that he was being a total selfish dick and that this is definitely him showing you what he ' s really like . This guy is a selfish jerk who doesn ' t care about his friends or you . Yep you could have gone without him but you still would have been equally hurt , angry etc that he refused to come . He made a commitment to you and your friends and when something arguably better came up he didn ' t give a crap about his commitments anymore . He showed you his old friends come above not only his new friends but also you .