In addition to rraisedbynarcissists , you might want to check out rraisedbyborderlines . My mom is probably undiagnosed Borderline , and from what you ' re describing , you dad sounds more borderline than narcissistic to me . Either way , both subs have great advice that mainly boils down to keeping them at arms length , maintaining your boundaries at all times , and working on accepting that they are who they are , and it sucks , but that you can still have an awesome life , even if you have shit parents . <| sep |> I strongly agree with this most of the time I feel Styles loss to Roman seriously legitimised him and it ' s changed my perspective of AJ lots . When he beat Cena he was the most dangerous man in WWE . Now he ' s something of a joke .