I don ' t have the context to understand the question , sorry ! I ' ve heard of Milo but don ' t know anything specific about him soliciting donations under a false premise . <| sep |> The firm no can be good to keep it in mind . It ' s easy to imagine a situation where you say no then have to get firm . Snowflakes start melting and suddenly the conversation is a criticism of your tone . I guess it comes down to the right tool for the situation . The situation I remember was a company that had a cake for every single birthday . Sometimes there was 3 cakes in a week . It wasn ' t one person pushing it was half the break room . After telling them cake made me feel ill I no longer had people harassing me to eat it . <| sep |> Peace among worlds