And I disagree with those people . It ' s an over exaggeration to assume that fluid gender identity means you can identify as a tree or a cat . Gender is like a spectrum . On one side is boy , and on the other is a girl . You may also feel you ' re somewhere in between . Maybe you feel in the middle and as a little bit of both , or maybe you don ' t feel like either . Just because you believe in fluid gender identity doesn ' t mean you believe can identify as something absurd . There ' s still rules , and no one said there wasn ' t . <| sep |>. this is an incredibly ridiculous assertion . Also spend less money on plastic surgery and more on a gym membership . Comes with actual selfconfidence . Also most of the women I ' ve met stick to the makeupshavingsometimes plucking , the rest of that isn ' t nearly as common . Plastic surgery FFS , that ' s above and beyond . The assertion that ' most guys put zero effort into appearance ' is also entirely false . Get off your high horse .