This is why I love UI people . <| sep |> Thanks for your thoughtful reply . By the way , your Washington Post link appears to be broken , at least when I click on it . Could you repost it ? <| sep |> He really seems to struggle with his Meg side . <| sep |> That ' s fair , I don ' t get La Liga or Serie A where I live but I love watching those leagues . <| sep |> It was very pathetic and likely disingenuous . I ' m sure he misses my wanting him . He likes to give touch crumbs . I think it makes him feel like he ' s trying and possibly makes him feel loved and loving . I don ' t know . He won ' t talk to me about any of it . And that is why I will not do him the courtesy of talking about it anymore . If I did tell him what you suggested , very appropriate suggestion , btw , he would deny it . He always denies it and says he LOVES sex with me and touching me . When I ask him why he doesn ' t then , he says , well I never know if you ' re in the mood . It is a constant , maddening cycle that I am through being a part of .