Presumably people would like for both parties to agree and this would give the appearance of the father having say but in reality you ' re right you can ' t force someone to have a baby if they don ' t want to and you can ' t force someone to have an abortion if they don ' t want to so the fathers say is essentially meaningless . Not sure why anyone would want to have a baby with someone following this kind of disagreement but there we are . <| sep |> NoShe was going to get all the filing fees and file and the extras were 1 million dollars laterNow its one state at a time and 67 million dollarsThe goalposts were moved <| sep |> It ' s like the Neon Demon all over again mixed with Kill Bill . <| sep |> His relationship really isn ' t your business . If you don ' t feel bad about your relationship with him , then why are you so insistent on telling her ? I think you ' re just trying to meddle and I think you need to reevaluate why you ' re doing this .