YES YES YES YESI agreeyou will get a ton of naysayers here who say it ' s nothing , they won ' t win , it will only show that Hillary cheated , etc . We cannot buy that line of reasoning . They have a strategy against that or THEY WOULD NOT BE DOING IT . <| sep |> 7 hours and 30 mins of foreplay duh ? <| sep |> Yes OP , the sooner you do it the better . It is going to suck , for both of you , but you deserve to be happy and she deserves someone who feels the same way she does . Don ' t try to be the good guy either when you do it . It will be easier for her to move on if she can at least tell herself you are an asshole instead of focusing on the nice things about you and wanting you back . Make a clean break as well , she may want to try and stay friends but until she has really moved on it is not what ' s best .