Like the fabled Agni Necklace . Soon . <| sep |> My ex girlfriend from high school , it was a vicious cycle . We dated from sophomore year off and on till junior year , breaking up and getting back together 3 times and doing the hooking up thing . She was incredibly manipulative , and it would really bring out the voice in the back of my head telling myself WTF am I doing ? I remember one story that kind of highlights how she was . She went to one of those national honors society type things , it was held in a different state and she went with a bunch of people from her high schoolI went to a different high school and on the last full night there , there was a huge dance . I was weary about it , no idea why but I ended up being really calm that night . She calls me and nonchalantly tells me that she grinded with a guy for 20 minutes . I obviously start freaking the fuck out , like why didn ' t you just dance with your friends ? I thought you hated dancing ? blah blah blah . After some fighting , I end up calling back and saying that I ' M sorry , without her saying any type of sorry . It was bad , and after we broke up for the last time , I thought I was done with her for good . Then my dad was diagnosed with cancer in the summer before my junior year . I had no one to comfort me besides family but we ' re supposed to do that . I fell back on her for a bit and we did the hook up thing and that was fun , but I can ' t remember exactly how , but I just told her that I was completely done and we never really talked again . To no surprise to me , after she got around the dating world a bit , she realized I was one of the good guys and tried to get back with me several times but I never budged . Glad that part of my life is over with .