Reminds me of Schopenhauer . Ever read anything by him ? <| sep |> Well , I guess I just don ' t see the world as grim even as a girl . I don ' t think every guy that is nice to me just wants to fuck me and nothing else . Yeah some do , and even then it ' s fine in a way because hell if I ' m interested in a guy then I ' m nice to him as well . And also when I talk about nice guys , I don ' t talk about all the stuff he has done for me or the favours you speak of . I mean his personality and the way he treats people . A guy who does favours for a girl or buys her stuff so she ' ll sleep with him still isn ' t a nice guy in my books . I ' m talking about character . Most of my friends like the guy I ' m currently seeing for the same reason I do . Because he ' s sweet and nice . And I find that attractive . I like that I can trust him and have fun with him and that he ' s polite and friendly to people . And my friends like him because he ' s nice to me and them and they like that . Being a nice person isn ' t a bad thing . Not as a guy and not as a girl . I wholeheartedly disagree with anyone bitching that they have to be mean because girls don ' t like nice guys .