Understated but confident and skilled thats delpo and he takes first set . <| sep |> Something that really helped change my view was this LessWrong article AdaptionExecuters , not FitnessMaximizersAnd really , when you think about what drives evolution random mutations , it makes sense . The form precedes the function , and evolution has no clue where it is going . We are all born with a unique set of instructions , and that is all our bodies intrinsically know . Yet we imbue Evolution with some sort of Godlike omniscience , with natural selection as some divine mandate . Ask yourself this are all these people worrying about their fitness actually trying or wanting to succeed ? What would success even look like ? I see the greatest cognitive dissonance in the datingmating market Men are meant to sleep with as many women as possible to maximize number of offspring . Great , so where are all your baby mommas ? Women are meant to sleep with the highestquality mates in order to maximize the fitness of offspring . Great , so why are you holding off on kids til you marry Mr . ManBod ?