That ' s part of the genius of the system . One of the benefits is the illusion of a mandate . It cuts down on the outrage afterwards . <| sep |>~~ What ' s on the 9 th of november ? ~~ I ' m retarded . <| sep |> I live in DC and except for current Prez they are pretty relaxed . I walked right up to Bill and Hillary once . They give a lot of space . I ' m sure it helps to not look Muslim though . <| sep |> My opinion Please think about making her physically taller and maybe more physically masculine . Usually transwomen are depicted as small and cute and feminine For example Questionable Content . Most transwomen are not like that and I ' d like to see taller and more masculine bodied women represented too . <| sep |> White guy here . Married into a hispanic mexican family . In all those years I never had more than a convo about the weather with grandpa because he spoke very little english . Typically in hispanic families grandma is the gate keeper . Get in good with her and you ' re golden . Take something to eat and offer it to whomever is cooking . give grandma a hug and tell her how its an honor to meet her . Hang out in the kitchen with all the women . In my situation all the rest of the family spoke english so it wasn ' t too bad . Eventually grandma started calling me mijo and would kiss my cheek and bless me before leaving the house .