His chances are decent . <| sep |> You switched to business ? I am in Psych , aiming for law . But business seems to be where the sure jobs are . You got that job with no need for a degree ? <| sep |> People will tell you forgiveness is a gift to yourself , that you ' re only hurting yourself by holding on to anger or resentment . Maybe they ' re right . But I also think you have a right not to forgive . If that ' s what you need , now or indefinitely . Maybe if you tell us who you have in mind and what the situation is , people can offer more specific advice . <| sep |> there is such a thing ? o . o <| sep |>. which changes nothing of what I said . You can burn that fat later on and keep most of the muscle , which is exactly what bodybuilders do .