Thank you ! I bought a pair at Best Buy for $ 60 that I will now be returning . Awesome ! <| sep |> Worst 4 on 1 ever . <| sep |> At a year old , the baby NEEDS to be in his own bed in another room . It sounds as if your wife has transferred ALL of her affection to the children , reserving nothing for you . This is a quick way to the divorce court and an utterly miserable life . Because if you are getting no affection from your wife now , how will you feel in 17 years when the kids are grown and gone ? You REALLY don ' t want to be any of the dozens of men who have posted here that he ' s staying for the children , but as soon as the kids are gone , he will be , too ! There are a few childcare things you can do . When the baby cries , get up and change its diaper then cuddle the kid until he settles down . In my case , that was holding him and walking up and down the hall until he went to sleep . If baby is hungry , then bring him to your wife and place him beside her in the bed while he nurses then take the baby back to the crib IN THE OTHER ROOM . She shouldn ' t have to get up at all . Especially in the middle of the night , there is no more valuable gift you can give your wife . In another six months , baby should be nearly weaned . You now have two children ? When you ' re done with kids , get a vasectomy . It ' s the most foolproof birth control method available , and she won ' t have to worry about pills or creams and you won ' t have to worry about condoms .