fishingI see what you did there <| sep |> How do I talk to my father and try to get her to come down ? You don ' t . You make it plain you support your sister by asking if she wants to do something for Thanksgiving with you . <| sep |> I said Well if you don ' t want to play video games with them , but still want to do something related to their hobbyWhich implies that they should do those things IF they were looking for a videogamerelated thing to do with their SO , not that they had to do video game stuff just to relate to a gamer , that ' s just silly . I also didn ' t make the original post , so nowhere did I say How to bond with your nongamer SO play video games ! <| sep |> I wanted to post this in the main post but the mobile interface would not let me at the moment . I can ' t stand picky eaters . One of the biggest pet peeves I have is that . I understand food intolerance , allergies , and other medical issues . But a lot of my friends are picky eaters and it drives me insane . It is draining physically , mentally , and financially . I had a friend who would only eat meat despite his dad dying of colon cancer from eating too much red meat . I have another friend who is shitty with money because all he eats is fast food . If I had a kid , I would make them eat what is served until someone told me that is was medically unsound . I ' m southern . And I was taught to eat my food .