I do the same thing ! lol <| sep |> Looking at people ' s faces and body language and detecting how upset they are is not necessarily Zen or mind or anything . That ' s a function of the brain as a human animal I think . And it ' s half unreliable and people don ' t want help or are retarded in 40 other ways . I help and I ' m compassionate and I go above and beyond and every variant . I screw people over and I stay late at work all the time . I ' ve spent lengths of time introspecting and interacting with people attempting to explore emotions and love and kindness and good feels and relationships . It ' s all preoccupation . You are where you are standing , And sometimes it ' s in different room full of goo than you were expecting .