Man you guys are desperate . <| sep |> Which is a greater reward because you ' re spending a lot of time on them . Remember that every cent a father spends on his family is charity . And the mother is raised to such a degree that Jannah is beneath her feet . And the Prophet used to praise Khadjah for giving him children while his other wives didn ' t . You ' re raising the next generation of Muslims , great opportunity for adaqah jriyyah , when they go on to do great things . You ' ll have a child that can make du ' for you when you ' ve passed away . If it ' s a daughter and you raise her well , she ' ll be a shield for you against the fire . If the wife miscarries , the child will pull the parents into Jannah . You ' re following the command of Raslullh when he asked us to have many children , showing your love for him through at least one more way . Endless benefits of having children . I understand it ' s not easy , but nothing in life was mean to be easy . If it was , we ' d be in Jannah .