8 Team Full 1 PPR Pick 1 Brandon Marshall Jamison Crowder Devontae Booker Latavius MurrayThanks ! <| sep |> First , I am in pretty much the same place marriage and kidwise . Also with a wife who sounds eerily familiar to yours . she feels guilt and shame and I just wind up mostly wishing I hadn ' t said anythingIf your wife is like mine she knows logically that she is neglecting part of our relationship that I value , indeed , that many people value . She feels a lot of shame about this because she knows it rests on her . What you did was bring that to the forefront in a new way . Perhaps in a way that she could understand better and it made that shame even greater . But she is unableunwilling to emotionally own that shame so she throws it back on you . Fourfold . Do you still try to initiate sex ? Or does she just randomly decide I has been too long since the last time and approach you ? Is she enthusiastic about it or more like ' here is your sex , please hurry up '?