Because you ' re such a douche , I took it upon myself to educate myself in the ways of the man b u n togetmanbunhairstyleguide , and it appears that you are wrong . There are two types of manbuns the ' semi bun ' and the ' full bun '. Continued later , The semi bun , also known as a ' topknot ', is a bun that is made up of only the hair on the top of the head . There you have it . ' Top knot ' is still a ' man bun '. Sucks to suck , guy . <| sep |> ive used both . bellarabi is now in my starting Eleven and Plays really fine and scores a lot ! <| sep |> Theres more to it than that . Spez Bill Gates is a major investor in the keystone pipeline . <| sep |> We unfortunately don ' t usually know that our MILs are crazy till much too late . We think theirs little quirks are just part of who they are as we assume they are normal people , because why would she be anything but normal . It isn ' t until we talk to someone else about her quirks or sit down wondering what the hell is going on that we begin to see the whole picture . Once your begin to take the rose coloured glasses off it ' s shocking how much you brushed aside and let go . The whole point of her abuse is to make it hard to point out and make you seem like the crazy one for even seeing it . It took me over 6 years to see my MIL crazy and how much damage and manipulation she actually does . Now that I see it , I don ' t think we will ever have a good relationship with her , but now I know the truth I can protect myself , DH and our baby from her brand of crazy and limit what she can do . Educating myself about her abuse was the best thing I can possible do and the only think that helps me remain sane , besides these lovely people .