So is it about technology then ? <| sep |> It ' s done here in the UK . <| sep |> Therapy works if you believe it will work and have some amount of trust in the therapist . I don ' t . I don ' t believe that just any therapist will be able to understand my specific background . There are probably a few of them in town who would but I don ' t think I want to spend time and money finding them . I believe that that time and money is better spent on having more sex and thinking about it . Im taking the issue by the horns as in I don ' t have a lot of experience so maybe this is a non issue and will solve itself quickly . I got rid of religion after a hard fought battle with myself , I ' m confident I can deal with my dick by myself . But I also thought that having free input wouldn ' t hurt , so I posted here . Thanks for the advice btw .