You can ' t give me blue balls ! What happened then ? !<| sep |> You are my spirit animal <| sep |> I ' d stay out of it . But if you really must confront either of them , talk to your mom first . Like others said , there might an explanation or circumstances you don ' t know . Going directly to your dad could escalate things very quickly . If it really is the case as you fear , then give your mother an Ultimatum to tell your dad within x amount of time . Maybe 1 or 2 weeks . Be sure to say something like Next week today at xy time . If she doesnt by the time until you gave her the deadline , go tell your dad . Hope everything works out and that it was just a big misunderstanding . <| sep |> Dinner is really late , but oddly good value thanks to , when it gets there we seem unable to get everyone at the table at the same time thanks to , but it ' s okay brought gifts for everyone however it seems a lot of them are useless or actually really bad , but Zedruu seems happy . The party really gets going when Sliver overlord gets here .