Are you ugly and do you have self esteem issues ? Like , do women or men compliment you and do you have a low body fat percentage to bring out your face ' s details ? Do attractive people want to be around you ? I can ' t answer this for you , no one can , only you can and you need to be introspective and honest about yourself if his comment made you feel bad because it clearly struck a chord with you . He could also just be using that comment to point out that he thinks you don ' t look good because of his own personal bias . You shouldn ' t care what he thinks about it if you are attractive , especially if other people have complimented your hair in real life since people tend to notice your body , clothes , and hair first . It just sounds like you lack confidence to me more than any philosophical discussion about truth .