This game goes in the same category as Euro Truck Sim for me . It ' s almost like meditating . Turn on the game , turn off your brain and just relax for a few hours . <| sep |> This is the minority of toilets <| sep |> Add midnightmerchant to the insanity list . <| sep |> I don ' t want to play emotional games , but Im just as confused as far as what I want relationship wise right now . I ' m very independent and don ' t even know if I want marriage , but I also feel so passionately about him . You should try to have a decent idea of what you want if you ' re going to talk to him about it . What most INTJs like is direct , honest communication . You can frame it as something like , Hey a while ago you texted me that we ' re a weird fit , but we fit . That ' s exactly how I see us , too . I really like you , and I want us to be fwb , relationship , whatever lies in between . What do you think ? I would guess he ' ll appreciate your bluntness , even if he ' s not thought heavily about the situation , he will after that . He might agree or disagree outright , or after some discussion . We like discussions . He also might say Huh ! I like you too , but I ' d never thought about it due to the distance , perceived lack of interest , busy with whatever the fuck we all do can I think about it ? if that ' s the case I ' d say he ' s probably genuinely got to think about it . Let it happen and work from there . The first two women I dated were ENFPs who both approached me with a similar sort of deal we had been friends , and I had always liked them , but never really thought about dating them due to my own internal shit . Once they both came out as having feelings for me it removed a lot of internal blocks I had from thinking about them as potential relationship material . Also , to this pointHe also is very cynical about relationship and talks a lot about polygamy , but also talks about his future with a wife and kids . I think that INTJ like to explore ideas out loud a lot , like to probe a lot of nontraditional thinking . I ' ve been vocally antimarriage before , but recognize that if I want a long lasting relationship with a woman and her prerequisite of that relationship was marriage at some point , I would need to compromise on that It might be the same with his polyamory .