Stop . No . don ' t do this to me . <| sep |> it varies . there isnt a one type fits all when it comes to bully backgrounds . <| sep |> Is that eastern time ? <| sep |> Thank you ! Nah , in all seriousness , this is OP ' S ASSUMPTION . He says she seemed disappointed . We don ' t know if she truly was . And , if she was , all that says is she was disappointed . If your fantasy was having your toes sucked , and then your SO said I ' m not comfortable with doing that . EVER , would not you be disappointed ? That doesn ' t mean she hates the sex she is having . It may mean that something else might make it better for her , but why do we judge her harsher because she wants extra dick rather than if her fantasy was to get her toes sucked ? That isn ' t very sex positive . I hate she wasn ' t completely honest with her man before marriage , but she is in great company with that decision .