Im relistening right now haha . Ep 16 series 1 <| sep |> depends what type and how old the used rolex is . could be better then a new rolex . but its tna so yeah . lol <| sep |> Swingers and poly people on the other hand have a different motivation . For them it ' s not this is so wrong why the fuck am I so worthless , but rather it ' s just sex . They also fuck other chicks , still fuck their wife , have threesomes and participate in gang bangs . Well , to be fair there is a big difference between swing and poly lifestyle . Most poly people have romantic relationships with the others , it ' s not just a giant fuck fest like a swingers club . There are far greater investments made in poly relationships emotional attachments , getting to know your partners primary which is often required by most people scheduling , sharing resources such as money for dates , taking turns hosting , which means your main partner and kids have to find someplace to go unless you can afford a hotel every time . There is far more danger in ruining your marriageLTR if you are poly . If someone definitely can ' t get be satisfied with only 1 lover , try to get involved in swingers clubs or just be discreet and safe , get some on the side . I agree that humans may not be designed to be monogamous however , I also don ' t think we are designed to share our resources and emotional attachments the way poly people do . It affects everyone , even the kids . This is my judgment based on 2 years in a poly relationship , and going to support groups , being very involved with the community .