If you are ranting and raving in an a e in another country due to alcohol poisoning , you disrespect ireland . That ' s not showing respect to the history of our country for one thing , pride should come with a level of responsibility for how it is shown . <| sep |> whisk , paws , bark , moon , love , heart , song , snitch . this is tricky . <| sep |> So helpful thank you ! !<| sep |> I was with you up until your analysis on agender and nonbinary people . Why does declaring one of those identities mean it ' s impossible to be a boygirl who isn ' t boyishgirly ? Doesn ' t it just mean that that one individual isn ' t a boygirl that isn ' t boyishgirly ? Gender identity is a selfconcept of one ' s gender , and it ' s not defined by others . Gender expression however is partially controlled by you and interpreted by others . The first , which covers the identities of agender and nonbinary , is not a choice . It is a description of how one views oneself . The examples you gave of genderqueer and agender people might exist , but they are mostly straw man fallacies . Either that , or they are just new terms to describe behaviors that have already been around . And changing terminology is one of the most crucial and effective ways for minorities to protect and support themselves . People who study gender , do a lot of selfreflection , and end up claiming these ideas identities will typically have far more complex reasoning behind that conclusion than you ' re giving them credit for . Obviously that isn ' t true for all of them , but dumb andor underdeveloped people exist everywhere and that ' s no reason to attack the concept of the identities themselves .