Holy poop ! The questions everyone wants to know now . Was it Blarla built ? <| sep |> Okie doke . Thanks ! I ' m not entirely sure what we have to go through to trade . This is my first time trading with a specific person . Do I just need to add you on the system menu , or are there more steps I have to go through ? <| sep |> Cut your ex out of your life . Obviously I don ' t know your brother so I can ' t use your brothers standing as proof , but the fact that your ex is now lying about what he did and why he did it is a clear red flag a manipulative abuser . He tried to separate you from someone who cares about and can protect you . If your ex ' s accusations about your brother are what most people who know him would consider totally off the wall , I ' d say you aren ' t blinded and your ex is an insidious manipulator . Don ' t believe a word he says , the only thing he ' ll change is his tactics to isolate you from your social support . FYI , in my experience I ' ve rarely ever heard the description of psychopath being seriously put on anyone except when manipulative liars are trying to deceptively discredit someone . Exaggerated accusations and insults are a typical sign of someones willingness to destructively lie and manipulate .