What book is that ? ?. paulo coehlo ' s ? ?<| sep |> The D can have one of the most improved player medals I got when I was a kid <| sep |> Once I left I realized I had to prioritize personal survival and well being before I could have any hope of effectively helping others . Sounds like the selfdelusion of someone who finds it too inconvenient to bother with anyone else ' s wellbeing but their own . You weren ' t talking about being unable to effectively help these people you said you don ' t even worry about them . Like they don ' t even cross your mind . which is fucked up beyond my comprehension . Conservatives don ' t have this problem , they may have evil policies but they know how to talk to people without being condescending twats . Not sure what conservatives you ' re talking to , but most of the conservative voices out there are pretty fucking condescending . But I find it telling that condescension is apparently higher on your list of sins than open endorsement of bigotry .