It doesn ' t matter , stay out of it , really . For all you know he could have been a total controlling maniac who was violent with her , maybe not , who knows . What you should know is that it ' s not your place . They ' re broken up . You clearly aren ' t the girls friend , you write as if you want to discount the story of him being a stalker , just stay out of it . <| sep |> I ' d like to have a place in the way out there , where it ' s kind of like Master and Commander . There ' s nobody there , until there is . <| sep |> It goes as follows in updated first post . Used your data if i may , and added links to your topic along with credit . If you prefer that i don ' t use datalink to you topic , will edit it out Not to mention , that now probably not much people will get here to see updated topic anyway . Oh well , at least i ' m making ! ! SCIENCE ! !