Messages are stored on server side . You can save messages , as well as the other person . If they have saved them , you cannot make them go away . Just ask them to unsave them . <| sep |> I have a lesbian inlaw that voted for Trump . doesn ' t care about the antiLGBT parts she hears , just that the economy is fixed and she makes more money because of it . Go figure . <| sep |> PresumptionsAssumptions is right on account of you having no proof if its true . Presumption is when you make a guess based on the probably of it being true like when uMrFriartuck called you a cunt . <| sep |> Kindof . What I was trying to say is that I ' ve tried with CS 50 , other courses , Treehouse , etc . I even just finished a bootcamp in my city , and I am also 10 subjects down a CS degree that I ' m taking online , so I hope I can help a bit with this frustration that I ' ve been through myself .