Fuck my already mediocre late game up , fam <| sep |> The better informed and altered opinion is the problem , because I don ' t get anything from these conversations . Sure , you ' re a nice guy and you ' re cool to talk to in DMs but these debates go nowhere , with neither party budging . It ' s just the same points being repeated from both sides , and at that point Fuck you ! That ' s my opinion . is the only way to move along , because the only way to resolve it is to realize it ' s just down to what kind of a game people think is fun . <| sep |> I wouldn ' t have an issue with your oral approach for a couple dates , though I ' d prefer you were honest about why up front so I wasn ' t expecting PiV . If we ' ve hooked up a few times and are both tested then whether we ' re dating or not , if we ' re hooking up exclusively and have discussed it I don ' t mind dispensing with condoms . I ' m sure some people would have a big issue with that but if you ' re responsible and proactive about the issue and your sexual health , I ' d personally respond well as I am also proactive about my sexual health and like partners who are too .