If I was hugging hilliar I ' d be making that face too <| sep |> Are you seriously trying to turn this around to make yourself the victim ? ?? Oh no , your poor widdle feefees are hurt because the girl who was good enough to fuck but not date isn ' t bending over backwards to assuage your rightful guilt over dumping her , however will you survive ? You are an adult . Grow up and start acting like one . Consider other people ' s feelings . It ' s good that you broke it off with this girl since you were clearly using her , but you have no right to whine here like you ' re the hurt party . Think of other people ' s feelings before using them . Dump the antiquated idea about sex loopholesI can tell you right now that the kind of guy that would be excited to marry a virgin would probably look down on a woman that had lesbian sexso your logic here seems pretty flawed .