I ' m going through the same thing . It is , in fact , okay to do things that make you happy just so you can be happy . You can bake muffins at 3 am because you want muffins at 3 am . You can make jewelry because you like the act of making jewelry I do too ! . You can learn guitar because you ' d like to know how to play guitar . I ' d argue that , directly or indirectly , the only reason anyone does anything is to make themselves feel better . It ' s not shameful , it ' s sort of the entire point of life . <| sep |> What ' s the green bag ? ! We don ' t have those in Canada <| sep |> if you don ' t suck , then you should have no worries . What ' s to worry about if you know what you ' re doing . <| sep |> Please tell me you are kidding . please