woah easy . I disagree with her that laws should follow how it feels , laws should define things as what they are rather on how they are felt . Catcalling is harassment , not necessarily sexual though and it does have bad effects . I do agree with you on activists inventing stories though . There is a particular activist I always argue with and she somehow have been through every possible scenario we discuss . <| sep |> Hey ! Fellow german here Play by the rules and act as if you didn ' t have sex or were in love with your wife if you want , but I wouldn ' t do this . This never ending bending over backwards for traditions and secrecy can poison you and your marriage ! <| sep |> is he at least offering back what you paid ? If not , i wouldnt even cosider selling it back . honestly , he should be offering more then you paid . especially if he is going to harrass you about itThat said , it sounds like he IS harrassing you , which is against the rules . He forfeit any rights to you doing the nice thing even if he is offering back what you paid or a little over . At this point , if you dont want to give it back , then dont . it is yours to do with what you want , fair and square