Wild magic , man . The DM has lots of tools to screw with magic users . <| sep |> Absolutely . There have been a lot of discussion in here about legal parental surrender , where a father could be allowed to opt out of parenthood . No woman can ever be forced into parenthood against her will , and the same should be true for men . The question is how to do it . Some MRAs think he should be able to opt out during the pregnancy , but that ' s a very messy solution . What if he can ' t find the mother to tell her ? What if he waits until the last minute to tell her ? What if she hides the pregnancy from him ? Way too many complications . The solution is to have a contract in place before any accidental pregnancy happens , and it would work just like a prenup . Instead of saying in case of a divorce , this is how things would work it would say in case of an accidental pregnancy , the father waives all rights and responsibilities and the mother has 100 % of them . Both the man and woman would sign the contract , and both would know ahead of time how things are going to work , so it ' s fair to everyone . A contract like this would solve everything . Unfortunately , the US government says that a contract like this is illegal , and would insist that the child has the right to have the biological father ' s money be spent to raise it . The government allows women to give up their children and the child has no right to the mother ' s income . but does not do so for fathers . It ' s hard to understand how a legal double standard like this continues to exist .