Happy thanksgiving pedes . Its been a wild year . Hey in case you forgot . WE WON <| sep |> Believe what you want . The javelins disappear and she walks off . <| sep |> Rudy is Charmin soft <| sep |> That ' s a lot of driving . If those are business miles , then you should be tracking them and getting reimbursed , or claiming on your taxes . If it ' s just commuting , then you need to find a job closer to home . Otherwise , don ' t panic . Your expenses are not that high . In most cities you could add a zero to those numbers . You get to split that between two people so it ' s not insurmountable . I ' m sorry your husband is not doing his part . Maybe in the meantime , you could drive his car and he could take the train to work . You guys are not in a position to be taking care of two cars . Try to work out your schedules so that one car is the new normal . Sell the second car so you can stop maintaining and insuring it . Become a onecar family , then judge by the condition of the better car whether to upgrade or trade .