Trump himself has said a lot of this . The reason the far right is so drawn to Trump , believe it or not , is because he has proposed things that make him look good to the far right . <| sep |> All the essentials ! And you ' ve got steaks , corn , mashed potatoes pie . <| sep |> I wish it were that simple . What I do know is as simple is not putting myself in this position again , unless it is planned to a T whose bringing what , whose making what , who will be in dish duty , etc . , and if someone backs out or decides not to stick with their part , they don ' t get to come this time , or any time after that until I think they ' ll keep their word . I ' m done playing the family doormat . If this dinner doesn ' t happen , which I don ' t have much faith that it will in regards to NMom and NSis , I ' m not going out of my way for it for those two again . Time to fortify my spine . Leeeeeeeerooooooy Jenkiiiiins ?