Yeah , that stupid author of How to Fight Wars Good has no culinary taste at all . Makassar is a step up from the shitty Japanese food you can find everywhere else on the cylinder , but it ' s still nothing compared to the Japanese food in Osaka . That said , I love Makassar , and I ' m glad I stepped up to become governor of the place . <| sep |> The bros are my favorites and have helped me through some bad times <| sep |> What really stood out to me was how much your confidence depended on sexual attention . I can understand enjoying the feeling of being wanted , but it sounds like your self esteem is way too tied to that . You shouldn ' t need external validation to recognize your worth as a person . For that , I would recommend seeing a counselor universities are usually great about that just to talk about how you ' re feeling . They might have good advice and its always helpful to vent . As for the sex you might be incompatible . Whether you can work through it dependends on you two . It makes sense that you were all over each other at first but then it died down a little . I will say that for someone with low libido , twice a week is what I strive for to make my partner happy hah . Something that might be easy to work on is non PIV sex including fore play . If he doesn ' t want to have sex but you want intimacy , what about long make out sessions or massages ? Tell him you want more foreplay and show him what you like , then reciprocate . As someone who used to dread kissing because I felt sex always followed , having those steamy sessions without sex helped a lot in alleviating pressure towards intimacy and making it fun for both of us .