Because Bush and Obamas presidencies were so successful . <| sep |> Except I really didn ' t . Initial point was that engaging will mean that if he is a creep he will stalk you . If he is a stalker he will fucking do it anyways . If he really wants to send a dick pick he will send it regardless of whether or not you replied . Saying Hey , sorry I ' m not interested isn ' t a fucking death sentence to a woman and the majority of men will accept that . And if from your experiences you find this not to be true , maybe being the person that calls someone a retard for no reason is unattractive to the regular Joe . For what it is worth which to you is likely very little I have talked to women on this topic before and they generally shared my sentiment of its rude as fuck to just ghost people andor always assume the worst .