Yeah , that ' s a template that could be applied to everyone who hashad an SO with BPD . The problem is that I am a real , unique person , as is she . Is it generally true ? More or less . Is is relevant and applicable in this specific case ? Not really . It only rings true to the extent that you aren ' t familiar with this specific case , and to the extent that this template is one thing left to fill the gaps which in this instance is 99 % of it . A shot in the dark . Be more careful where and when you wield your knowledge . <| sep |> Thank you ! You too <| sep |> One Nation Day <| sep |> Because of me being overweight and a bit lacking in self confidence . But I ' ll get there some day D <| sep |> That ' s more than most people make in a month where I come from .