I couldn ' t find it <| sep |> I ' m better than everyone so it ' s my right to judge everyone <| sep |> I feel like I ' m basically a chore for him . Does the bare minimum to keep me around , but when shit hits the fan , it ' s always Can I go now ? I ' m gonna go to sleep . He actually said , it would have been a good Thanksgiving if we didn ' t have this conversation . Maybe we should never have this conversation . I mean , all I was asking was for a bit of courtesy and respect for it being a holiday ? And I was asking when and what we would do when we do hangout . I ' m genuinely understanding he wants time wth family , but I ' d like to think I ' m a bit important to him as well , and wanted to know what we were doing . just thrown off that I feel so upset and disappointed with the way he treated the situation .