Well ok , than I don ' t understand why your date and her shouldn ' t met , if your date becomes a serious GF . They could be friends as well and your ex would have another Person to talk to . Plus , both Girls won ' t be jealous of each other if they become friends . Just because you are her friend , you don ' t have to be there for her 247 . I always thought , aspergers don ' t have a Problem beeing alone or even prefer it ? But I ' m wrong there obviously . Don ' t get me wrong , I really think it is a very nice Thing to do , to help her and care for her and you don ' t have to stop it , just maybe a little bit less . And yes , if you are in a relationship , you won ' t have as much time for her as you have now , but that is a very normal thing , istn ' t it ? We all spend much more time with a new Partner at the beginning of a new relationship than with our friends . It can be another lesson for her . When she finds somebody new , she will act the same , but it doesn ' t have to affect your friendship .