Oh , that ' s right ! uFishFruit 14 <| sep |> You ' re right , it is up to us to bear the pain for the sake of the future . It ' s just a lot of pain to bear alone . I already live in a western country and Islam has a pretty loose grip on my life so I feel guilty for presuming I feel the same burden as someone like you . And if it ' s hard for me , it must be hell for you . But even so , we ' re in this together . <| sep |> Well the obvious answer is you of course ! , but the question really is what goes on inside your head when talking to yourself mentally or out loud . I think uDrillbert got the best answerYou ' re not only that voice . More than anything you ' re the part of you that is aware of that voice . You can tell this because if you think about it , that sense of awareness never goes away as long as you ' re conscious . The mental chatter can easily disappear and be replaced by earworms or just disappear when watching a movie , etc .