Kevan and Quaider back in the lineup at the same time . Clode must be relieved . <| sep |> Would be fire with white boost <| sep |> my girlfriendShe met a guy there who seems to talk to her a lotshe ' s been going Active on Facebook a lot without reading or replying to my messagesshe was on her phone a lot more than usual , talking to this guy It ' s pretty simple man . If you are exclusive with her and monogamous , then she needs act like she is in a relationship with you . She isn ' t . There is nothing wrong with her having friends , but you have cause for concern as her boyfriend . Next time you are with her , ask for her phone . She will either be defensive and refuse , because she likes privacy or she ' ll hand it over . If she hands it over , ask her if you can look at her conversation with him , politely ask . If she needs to know why , tell her it ' s been bothering you and it ' ll make you feel a lot better . If she has nothing to hide , she won ' t refuse . But the most likely outcome here is she ' ll create a fight and refuse to show you until the bad parts are deleted . Her reasons for refusal will be the following 1 You don ' t trust me ? How can you not trust me ? 2 You are being controlling . He ' s just a friend . You can ' t tell me what to do . 3 I have the right to privacy . I like my privacy . You can ' t invade my privacy . Keep in mind these responses are ways to prevent you from reading her cheatingflirting with this man . They will sound legit , but they really are just a way for her to get out of this . It ' s manipulation at it ' s finest . At the end of the day she is your exclusive girlfriend who cares about you . If she cares , she ' ll give up a bit of her privacy to let you see what she ' s talking about with a particular man . It ' s just one conversation you want to see , it ' s not like you ' re asking to see her familyfriendsparents . etc . etc . If you tell her it would make you feel a lot better , it shouldn ' t be an issue . Personally , I have an open book policy the second I get into an exclusive relationship with any woman . My phone or her phone can be grabbed whenever , nothing to hide . These are boundaries that you both set together . You may want to think of this next time .