Thanks for the warm welcome . I honestly didn ' t even realize the scope of biased coverage and outright lies the media has engaged in to push their narrative . It was truly sickening . <| sep |> He has defined the relationship he wants the girlfriend experience without the commitment . He has made it clear to you what he wants out of this , except it sounds like you are hoping he ' ll change his mind the more time he spends with you . Not to rain on your parade , but the chances of that are slim . You are not a priority for him right now since it ' s been a month since you ' ve seen each other and he cancels almost every time , and you will continue not to be . If that ' s something you ' re fine with , then go for it . If you don ' t , then I ' d suggest walking away from this relationship before you get more involved .