Reliable , I ' ve bought a few bits off it and they ' ve all turned up . Shipping can be slow as it ' s mostly all from China and you ' re 100 % going to be getting fakes . <| sep |> It ' s important to respect boundaries and this is definitely an important conversation , but I want to share some advice for you here , too . My little guy is 2 . 5 now and if there ' s a theme that ' s arisen for me as a parent , it is all about letting go . From the moment he left the womb , being a mother has been one long act of stretching out the umbilical cord , further and further every day , an inch at a time . Control is an illusion and it does not help your child to grow . So part of my message to you is this there ' s some wisdom in what your husband is saying . The past can ' t be changed we can literally only accept it and move on , or get angry about it and get stuck . That being said , setting clear expectations with family members early on is important and this is a fantastic opportunity to start that conversation . My MIL insisted on taking pictures of me post csection in my pink nightgown no make up etc after I ' d repeatedly asked her not to . Video even . I put my foot down and insisted she delete all of it because there was a respect issue there . But I did it with as much love as I could muster and I didn ' t make threats about not seeing the baby etc . I see some posts here suggesting that sort of thing and honestly I feel that ' s a little misguided . There ' s a way to have this conversation that doesn ' t end with people not talking to each other and you andor your child losing out on a good relationship with the inlaws . There ' s a great book called Crucial Conversations that talks about how to do that effectively . mpsa 11 ? ieUTF 8 qidtelsr 11 piSY 200 QL 40 k e y w o r d scrucialconversationsdpPl 1 dpID 51 W 9 DU 9 pFuLrefplSrchHope that helps