Yeah , I was also thinking of stocking up on Sun exclusives to trade as well . I like the delibird idea too . Might just steal that . <| sep |> Just roll 3 Fudge dice . <| sep |> Well , I ' ll offer 5 X Anklet and 5 X Lens for the two 4 IV dittos , if you would rather trade those for dittos I totally understand , some IV dittos are just next on my list is all lolcoming online now <| sep |> It could be that she felt stuck with you as her penance for cheatingI doubt it ' s that . She never expressed guilt for it , probably because she ended it with him right after we slept together for the first time . Maybe for her it wasn ' t cheating It is indeed debatable and she ' s just not the cheating type at all . In other words , maybe your wife is scared of you because you have leftabandoned herexpressed anger . This makes a lot of sense to me . I left her regularly before she got pregnant . After she gave birth to our son , I wouldn ' t leave her , but I ' d fight her back verbally and I ' d match her level of anger . What makes you not feel compassion or thankfulness for your wife ' s loyalty ? If Hitler was a loyal husband , would you feel compassion for him ? She ' s not Hitlerlevel bad , but you know what I mean . My exwife was always nicest in the months before she did something insane . That ' s another thing . I can ' t recall my wife doing something insane . She ' d react insanely about bening things , but she never took insane measuresactions . but if your therapist has noticed something visibly off , she is definitely in a ClusterA or ClusterB category disorder wise . After I had secretly told the therapist what I suspected , he asked my wife if she felt certain things that were specific to BPD , to which my wife gave the textbook answers . Most anything else would not register including Cluster C with a mental health professional in my opinion over the course of sessions without a shrink coming in to diagnose the specifics . Our therapist is a shrink Psychologist . Did you mean a psychiatrist ? For the record , I never knew my ex cheated until three years after the fact . Never suspected it . Didn ' t have a reason to suspect . It was done during worksibling time and she was an expert at being covert about it . How did you find out ? She told you ? Anyway , for the price of it , I think I ' ll install a tracker on her car . If she cheats on me I wouldn ' t even bother with therapy .