The point is being able to feel like you can tell your partner anything and that you don ' t have to hide things from them to keep them from getting jealous . That ' s important to some people . <| sep |> That is one hell of an answer . And your link opens the door to a branch of knowledge in which I seem to be sadly lacking . Thanks . <| sep |> You can ' t cry ? <| sep |> I wish I could say I ' ve been gaming as often as before I had my son , but I ' d certainly be lying haha . I get some good sessions in late at night on Friday and Saturday but for the most part I ' m either working or hanging out with my son andor wife . PS 4 gamer though , haven ' t touched PC in a while . I have found that playing games with quicker turn around works better , or games that you can actually pause . Rocket League has really short games . Good luck !