Mate I ' m as weary as the next person about some of the stuff they are pushing but you ' re bending the facts a bit . Gender dysphoria is the distress caused to a person who experiences gender nonconformity . Yes , gender dysphoria is classified as a disorder in both the DSM 5 and the ICD 10 CM . However , the American Psychiatric Association , the publisher of the DSM 5 , does not regard gender nonconformity as a mental disorder , and is not featured in the newest version of the publication . To top it off , the DSM 5 s recommended management of gender dysphoria is actually aiding the physical transition of the individual . <| sep |> Get her a little present , and a thank you card ! Thank her for the trainning , and let her know that she made a difference in your life , finish with an invitation to get coffee sometime .