Had a similar situation with my spouse . I ' m SAHM , so he expects the house to be immaculate with a 6 month old baby . He told me that I must be lazy because nothing gets done . He works 2 nd shift , so during the week hardly even sees me or his child . On his days off he will sleep almost until our son ' s bed time . Last week is when shit hit the fan . I left him to watch the baby when I went grocery shopping . I took my sweet time , since it was only the 2 nd time I went somewhere without baby in tow . Came home 3 hours later , he immediately started apologizing about the things he had said . Told me he didn ' t know how I could deal with it all day every day . Who knows maybe your SO needs a daddy daughter day to learn exactly what you dodeal with daily .