You ' re so right . A good girlfriend soothes her man whenever he needs the emotional release of venting , because after all performing that kind of emotional labor is what a good girlfriend does . She needs to be there soothing him whenever he wants to vent about how irrational she is and how all she and other females want is soothing and not good hard male problem solving . If she withholds this soothing balm from him , and doesn ' t properly display comfort and understanding , and instead she problemsolves for him like she thinks she ' s a MAN or something , then she ' s unworthy of him and deserves to die alone . I totally agree with you . <| sep |> hey sorry bud i can ' t trade the paragon photons cuz i need to use them for something else