I ' m not sure why I was downvoted or you felt the need to explain it to me . I ' m not an idiot . I get why , I just don ' t like using it . Of course it ' s entirely optional , which is why I choose not to use it . Kind of a no shit sherlock situation . I wasn ' t saying there ' s anything wrong with other people using it , just that I dont prefer to use it myself and kind of wish it wasn ' t apart of the game . <| sep |> Everything you described had the opposite effect on me . Even if I was in huge disbelief that I was dealing with a murderer , I would never have agreed to meet back up with him again . Never in a million years . And if by some bizarre circumstance I had to , I would not be alone . I would ' ve brought somebody along or even gone to the police at some point .