I just called JEGS . They told me to order the Spicer 5760 x <| sep |> lordkrall above is right . It was a nice writing exercise from your end , but an exercise only indeed . <| sep |> I married before I joined and joined older . Since my spouse knows nothing about the army it ' s great to keep my work life separated . I ' ve seen plenty of people dual mil and the headaches they go through for who ' s career matters more is crazy . Also , my spouse and I may not be at the same location at any given point . It happens and it ' s shitty but if you care about your spouse you ' ll be okay with them progressing . Lastly , who the fuck wants someone who ' s whole life revolves around you ? Your criteria for a spouse shouldn ' t be so arbitrarily defined as someone who either knows the army or doesn ' t . That ' s an over simplification and it ' s not like the army is so complex someone can ' t figure that shit out on google . Find someone who makes you happy and you can actually see yourself with 102030 years down the road . And for gods sake know them longer than a year and meet their damn family . Plenty of fish in the sea don ' t feel obligated to marry just because it ' s a decent relationship or they can ' t follow you when you pcs .