My GF completely sucked with camera controls Shooter , etc . She loves Mariokart though , so while she wasn ' t very good at it at the beginning , she became quite good at it . I started using shitty car combinations to be able to play more at her level and made some mistakes here and there to boost her confidence , and now she ' s actually a threat to me when I ' m not paying attention ! then we went with Heroes of the Storm . Started with LoL , she liked the concept but there was so many stats and builds to remember , she kept asking what to buy and whatever . HoTS is much more simple , yet has a great complexity once you dive into it . Also , XP is team based so even when she had late starts or whatever the team helped her keep up . We started with Bots and now she can tackle other players ! The fact that it is pickup and play helped a lot . Not a lot of investment on her time like a RPG is . She plays a couple games , gets bored , stops . Recently , I bought a PS pro and while I had the old ps 4 , I decided to keep it and buy a cheap HD TV for 200 $ 44 inches in a pawn shop . We started playing The Division together . She ' s having a hard time controlling the joystick for the camera , but playing Coop I ' ve mostly taken charge of making sure no one flanks her , took all the healingsupport skills and make sure she stays alive while she kills people . She went with the sniper and now she can manage headshots , even sometimes on moving targets ! Recently she even dodged incoming grenades and fell back when mobs passed through me and flanked her . yesterday night I came home from work and she was playing The Division by herself ! For a couple hours she ran around doing side missions and encounters , and she held her own ! She didn ' t do any story missions which are harder , but still ! She loves Bloodborne conceptually , but she won ' t play it until she masters the controller . She still has to think and sometime look at the controller to see which button is which . Also , remember this very important rule . Positive reinforcement . Whenever she did something good I told her . Compare her to how she were before , not to other people . She started playing the Division the first time and couldn ' t pass through a door by herself . Now she ' s sniping folks and picking her targets by tactical priorities . Telling her that stuff will show her how much you care about playing with her and make her see that its ok to suck at the start , look how far you went now ! Just don ' t over do it