Just downloaded FM 16 How steep is the learning curve ? So far I ' ve just read emails and said yes to whatever people tell me to do <| sep |> It was mm not a third party . <| sep |> I ' m not saying concede , I ' m saying stop yelling . Stop getting offended , and rather than shutting down the hard , even ignorant , conversations . have them . You might find that even the most homophobic , racist people can change . People are products of their environment , but also their experiences . Also remember , if you ' re old enough to , that we only fought amongst ourselves because we ' re bored . That same guy who will call you epithets , talk bad about you under his breath or in his small circles , could one day be on your side . I hate in when people constantly bring up 911 , but that was a time when we Americans all pulled together in spirit . Watch the video of George W Bush throwing out the first pitch at a Yankee game in New York I literally almost cry every time I watch that . Those people would not vote for him , they would not want to be associated with him at all , but in that moment we were Americans FIRST . We had all been through something traumatic , but we stopped fighting with each other , and we focused our hatred on the real enemy . It ' s really something when we work together . The president is not chosen on popular vote , never has been , likely never will be .