Exactly like this ! I owe it to my grandmother father ' s mother to raise my children right . And I owe it to my children to raise them better than I was raised ! We also owe it to our children to not smother their independence , but to nurture it so they can stand on their own as adults and not be dependent on us . <| sep |> I think this misunderstanding doesn ' t get explained much . As a liberal , what I don ' t think private business should be allowed to do is hide behind ' religious liberties as an ultimate Trump card . Don ' t want to bake the gay cake ? Fine , but don ' t call it your religious liberties and expect to win because nothing is more important than God . All too often THIS us what happens . It is your PERSONAL liberty to worship , not to have the government enforce your religion . When the argument , becomes my right to solicit services from a privately owned , but public serving company vs the company ' s right to refuse service to anyone , things change . By hiding behind religious liberties , you are asking the government to say that religious rights are more important than personal rights and they are not . In my opinion , THIS is why companies will keep losing the gay cake fight . Of course , they know the grenade they are jumping on when they pull this shit too .