it happens much more often that men sexually assault women so that ' s why the focus is there . over 90 % of all sexual assaults are committed by men . sadly , alcohol is the number one drug used in a sexual assault where the survivor was intoxicated or unconscious . so i think it is important that we speak to that community of folks who are doing the majority of the violence wwe are talking about . only the people , mostly men , who are sexually assaulting people can stop it . its in the power of men ' s hands to stop sexual violence . deb <| sep |> Of course it does , once you know how to do anything extremely well it becomes easier . It ' s hard for a little kid in first grade , just learning the concepts , to add and subtract it ' s extremely easy for people who have been doing it for years and are into calculus by now . Getting used to most things makes them easier unless your body or mind fails you .