If you want to take things slow and the other person doesn ' t , to me that means you two are not compatible . You can definitely find someone whose view of sex is more similar to yours . Also , if you say no and are clearly uncomfortable , it is so wrong for someone to continue pressuring you . Sex should be something you do totally willingly , or not at all . I hope you will stand your ground in these situations , because somebody who will pressure you to do something you ' re clearly not comfortable with is not worth your time because they obviously don ' t care that much about you and your feelings . <| sep |> I ' m the same way . I can ' t stand it . I immediately see references to leftist bullshit in every movie ever . My wife is based but the propaganda doesn ' t bother her . She can just go that ' s bull shit and move on to the next scene . It just straight up ruins moviesshows for me , lose all interest immediately .