5 SHG in 11 is completely unacceptable . <| sep |> what exactly did he say here that would contribute to the loss of journalistic integrity , or whatever that means ? <| sep |> 35 if theres still anything <| sep |> Maybe thinking about it in a different way could help ? Instead of these characters need to fall in love in one month change it to these situationsinteractions would definitely make someone fall in love with someone very quickly . Also , just from studying psychology I can tell you a few things that REALLY bring people together . Vulnerability , humor , physical attractiveness , confidence . Being vulnerable and opening up about deep issues really makes people close . How can you not love a person when they are hurting in front of you , completely vulnerable while you are truly emphathising with them ? A common sense of humor is another trait people love . Most people would not date their SO if they had different senses of humor and most people find funny people more attractive . Physical attractiveness is important . People tend to date within their hotness rating . So a 6 would date another 6 or a 7 but would be too intimidated by a 10 and would find a 2 too ugly . I personally hate the 110 scale of attractiveness ratings and think each person has their own preferancesqualities but I am trying to simplify this for you . Physical attraction can also be Wow I love how she glances down whenever she smiles at me . It ' s so oddly beautiful and not her cheekbones were perfect , she had golden hair , and her eyes were the color of sapphires . Confidence is not just one person being dominant and aggressive . Confidence is someone being comfortable with who they are . They like themselves . Both characters should have some sense of this if they want to love someone deeply . Confidence both helps you feel love AND makes you more attractive . A guy genuinely laughing at his own jokes and finding himself hysterical might be attractive because he is comfortable enough to do that . A girl who isn ' t scared to hang out with people even though her hair is messy is attractive . It is also easier to love someone when you are comfortable with feeling those strong emotions . You admit you love them and care deeply for them , not just in a clingy codependant way but in a REAL way . You need to be comfortable with yourself to admit that and to feel it .