I really hope the dna matches this protester chick . Sucks that she might lose her arm , but that is what you get for blindly protesting something that really is none of your business . <| sep |> Don ' t want to sound harsh but you went overboard . You have your reasons and the emotional stress of your mother ' s death was certainly one of them . That said , they are both adults and can do as they wish . From your story they were discrete as possible and did not push any of their behavior in your face . Their infidelities to their respective spouses is for them to deal with not you . Lifelong friends are much more valuable than you think . Advice ? Apologize to them both as best you can and tell them that while you disapprove of their actions you shouldn ' t have reacted the way you did and you want forgiveness . Just my opinion .