hahahaha xD do as you please . but prepare for offensive responses <| sep |> It ' s especially oblivious when less than 3 second later they ' ll complain how they can ' t show their nipple in public . Or how an old lady held her purse close when they were passing by . <| sep |> Okay thanks ! I ' ll talk to them tonight about buying Genki I and Genki I Workbook . Appreciate your help . <| sep |> I would have an interesting foreground personally , but I like it a lot as is . Great work ! <| sep |> Not the guy you asked and my take may be very different than his . There are at least 3 different ways to try to express an idea and I am going with a more scientific version which is more blunt than the others , but I think easier to follow . You are a bunch of atoms . When you cut your nails , hair , when you poop , when you lose skin cells you are decaying while at the same time your body is rebuilding itself because you are nothing more than a bunch of atoms which can be replaced . Why should the atoms which make you up owe atoms anywhere else anything ? That being said , there is a field in psychology which talks about how humans are social creatures , we need social interactions and we have an internal drive to help others . That internal drive is part of why humans as well as other social animals do so well , because we work together and help each other . It is just part of your upbringing , social conditioning , and heredity . You can change yourself , the brain has neuroplasticity . Neuroplasticity basically breaks down to your brainmind can be conditionedchanged in different ways with training . In a slightly twisted way , part of what zen tends to lead towards is similar to what nihilism tends towards nothing matters . You can train yourself out of your feelings of owing to society and to other people in a few ways . One is just to spend a few minutes every single day basically repeating and thinking that you do not owe anything to other people . Not exactly zen meditation , but close to it . Gradually it will change your mind . It takes time and effort to train yourself , but regardless of how I explained this every way would have required you to put effort in or find someone else to train you to change yourself .