vinylspin Glitch hop , Hard rockmetal , , and a lot of other stuff <| sep |> Hell , yeah ! I got the 8 port version on sale from Amazon for $ 40 last month . It ' s no Cisco or Juniper , but it ' s enough to get your feet wet on the cheap . <| sep |> Could always use gatherer for the phrase your graveyard . I tried it and it pulled up a bunch of neat options beyond the standard reanimation spells . So depending on what you want the deck to do . <| sep |> I think you need to figure out which will damage the relationship more , his feelings about you not engaging in this with him , or your feelings about engaging in this with him . The answer to that question is different for every couple . For example , if his interest and water sports is something that runs really deep in his sexuality , he may find his sexual connection to you waning as time goes by , which would be bad for the relationship over the long run . And then at some future date , you may find yourself wishing you had been a little more openminded . In my case , I was much more squeamish about things like pee before I had children . If it ' s just a lark for him and you aren ' t able to get into it at all , you may wind up and feeling used or pressured and resenting him . So , you shouldn ' t do anything that you are uncomfortable with , but you should also understand that some of these desires can run pretty deep and it can be hard for people who don ' t have them to understand that and it is possible to learn to like some things , but maybe not others . So , you really need to talk to him about this . If it is or seems like it will be causing problems in your relationship or if you are simply having difficulty communicating about it , this is the kind of situation that therapy works great for . Not all therapists are well trained in sexual issues , so it would be a good idea , if you go that route , find one that is welltrained . Httpaasect . org