Same thing is happening to me <| sep |> I ' m not going to disagree with you but I think you are confusing religion with any powerful authority . Any power left unchecked will eventually become violent whether it is the atheist USSR or Mao ' s china or a religious theocracy . Basically what you are quoting there is the exact argument that leftists use against religion . But we know that 6 out of 10 mass murderers of all time were statist socialists Hitler , Mao , Stalin etc . <| sep |> No kidding ! That stood out to me right away too not my grandfather calling me baby is disrespectful to me , but my grandfather calling me baby is disrespectful to my boyfriend . What the hell ? ! uEllissss your boyfriend probably has many redeeming qualities , but this is a really strange thing to have a chip on his shoulder about , and it ' s bizarre that he wants you to police your grandfather ' s innocent ! language for him to feel better about himself . Tread with caution !