Sure , but that ' s not my problem . As a user this doesn ' t change my experience at all , other than to confirm what I suspected . I think it ' s all pretty funny , and is just uspez wishing he could be more like Lowtax . <| sep |> Its a mixed bag . If you don ' t take losing too seriously , don ' t blame others its one of the best games I ' ve ever played . <| sep |> Personally I ' m not keen on medical marijuana too much government regulation and also personal issues . That said I ' m sure if the trend of legalisation continues there will be some large opportunities . Just make sure you pick the right one . <| sep |> In short you can ' t . This is the same as convincing someone to leave an abusive relationship , or give up an addiction . Until the person involved has the moment where they ' ve finally had enough a rock bottom kind of situation there is almost nothing an outside voice can do to change them . Your sister will listen to you , yes . She might even agree with you . But until she has that moment where the family does something that she decides she has had enough , nothing you say will really make a difference . Our instinct is to pretend things aren ' t as bad as they are , at least partially as a coping mechanism . All you can really do is ask her to respect your wishes for your estate . Once you ' re not there , on the strength of your relationship , she may hold to that . But lacking any legal restriction there is almost nothing you can do beyond asking , sorry . The inability to convince people we love to stop doing things we see as stupid is incredibly hard to bear , but it ' s an unfortunate fact of life .