I disagree on all three counts , but if it ' s not your kind of game , it ' s not your kind of game . <| sep |> Hey man , been in a similar situation . I should preface this that my mom is very manipulative . She ' s outcasted her entire family . So , a few years back , my grandma passed while it was finals week at uni . I found out through my cousin ' s Facebook post . I was more upset that my mom didn ' t tell me , than I was about my grandma passing she had Alzheimer ' s so I slowly lost my grandma as the days went by . When I called my mom asking her what had happened , she became upset with me for being upset with her . My mom didn ' t bother telling me because she Didn ' t want me to get distracted during finals . So , my mom proceeded to place the blame on my cousin for creating the Facebook post . It ' s a shitty situation for you , but always see the positive you know now and your dad is there to support you .