Wow ! You ' re really going to be disappointed . No team would sign three highpriced FAs to almost get the Wild Card . <| sep |> Have sex with some random girl when youv done a g or 2 each . Even better . ahm . throw it into the mix a bit . I havent done that for a few years now . happy memories <| sep |> In this situation , I would honestly be blunt about it . You want to see her again right ? Tell her you want to get lunch with her and give her a specific time and a place . If she declines just play it cool . Say Maybe some other time or something . Honestly , I have the mindset that you can ' t do anything bad at this point other than letting it stagnate and her losing confidence in you . It might sound kindof harsh but if she says no and you don ' t end up seeing each other than it just wasn ' t meant to be and nothing you could have done would have changed that ! Just my two cents . Good luck !