Well , he ' s just a border guard . I ' m sure German border guards around 1940 had a fairly uneventful experience . <| sep |> Sorry bro , but it ' ll grow on you . You signed up for the lifestyle . I ' ve been in 17 years . I ' ve missed the birth of my son , his birthdays , my wife ' s birthdays , holidays , anniversaries , and even deaths . I ' ve even spent my birthdays without family . Even today I ' m away from family . You make the most of it and you surround yourself with good people . Sitting in your room isn ' t going to help for one . You ' re asking what can make it suck less but in reality when you ' re the one putting yourself in a shitter situation . <| sep |> What are you some kinda commie ? <| sep |> We ' re terribler <| sep |> Aren ' t you supposed to break t once the bone is dried out ?