Yeah that seems to be the Party line . Although I really didn ' t expect people to come out of the woodwork and say Yeah , I paid my $ 1500 , got a few minutes of alone time with X , and bang ! my proposal got approved by the Minister the next day ! .<| sep |> And then there ' s the dad who tried to do a similar thing 4 BGIsDDPnk 8 similar thing for his 4 year old . Hats off to the parents who try . <| sep |> I meant abort , but said divorce . dunno why <| sep |> But those aren ' t even nerdy anymore , those are like the most mainstream nerdy tv things ever . It ' s like saying someone who read watched 50 shades of gray is into hardcore for real bdsmwith gimp suits and stuff . Wait , maybe she was a real hardcore nerd , and she wanted to weed out the mainstream loving guys .