I ' m console as well <| sep |> Lol be quiet . DEPers do it here all the time . Her status , where and when she is going to BCT , and what her mos is , isn ' t PERSEC or breaking OPSEC . You want to get on people for PERSEC , then get on those who post personal info in other subs then come here and get DOXed . <| sep |> And she still lost by a ton of electoral votes . Too bad Hillary . <| sep |> Im Video bei 0900 <| sep |> Very few people actually find themselves to be handsomeattractive . It ' s a sign that you ' re modest and your own harshest critic . Just know that the guys out there that are in love with themselves and their looks are not emotionally healthy people it ' s far more common to have the view you have . Also know that you ' re wrong about it , and that ' s the plus side of it it ' ll make a world of difference for you when you start getting complimented by guys , which sounds like it already happens and you ignore it so step 1 , stop ignoring it . Take advantage of it , compliment them back , have a conversation . It doesn ' t need to turn into a relationship , just use it to build some selfesteem because by your own admission your selfimage is clearly harsher than how others actually see you . And although at your current age most guys are basing their attractions on looks primarily , that changes pretty quick once you start college and beyond , so give it a year and i guarantee you start meeting guys that not only like you for your looks but are genuinely interested in your personality . Just remember that nobody is going to see your personality on grindr , so if you really want to meet a good guy you ' re gonna have to get yourself out there and into situations to increase your chances join a gsa or pride club , most universities have one or more , get involved and not just with the intent to date , make some gay friends , etc . There ' s no doubt about it , the teenage years are tough but you ' re right on the precipice of the next stage and most exciting part of your life , so get ready to make the most of it and don ' t let your pessimism ruin it fight through it .