Two top notch programs for vet sci , definitely a tough choice . What does she do instead ? <| sep |> Here ' s the thing . Sometimes when people say ' I love your dress ', I suspect they mean ' I notice your dress '. It ' s hard in our society to express a negative view about someone ' s appearance directly to their face . Perhaps what they mean is ' I notice your new shape ' and assume it ' s what you wanted . I had a close friend whose adolescent anorexia resurfaced later in life . It was shockingly hard to find a way to express the words ' you ' re too thin and I ' m worried about you '. It ' s very hard to say the words that need to be said in this situation , sound like only your wife ' s aunt had the guts . <| sep |> Nhl . Last year i think it was , two guys were fighting . helmets were off , they went down . the guy on top craddled the other guys head to prevent em from splittin it . I can ' t remember the team ' s or players . But i ' ll never forget that moment . Classy af