Step one Add arr to everythingStep two Develop a vitamin C deficiencyStep three Become a drain on the health care system <| sep |> You know the one <| sep |> He would never be able to get on C 9 either . Jensen is much better than him . <| sep |> Yeah , this is an endless discussion here at PPD . We seem to have 2 rough camps masculinity as violent , borderline uncontrolled aggression the most masculine men as violent thugs and criminals vs masculinity as well , not that . For example , like you I find loss of control especially frequent and generally unprovoked I mean I ' m not talking about losing it when someone at work punches you in the dick for no reason distinctly unmasculine . And others find it to be almost the definition of it . All I know is we general PPD we can ' t have this discussion about masculinity and the damagingornot adherence to masculine norms if we don ' t first understand what specific norms or ideas re masculinity that we ' re talking about .