It ' s discretionary based on the degree of violence . He didn ' t drive through , it was a push . I ' m speaking in terms of what I ' ve seen called over the years and I seen this and worse given a minor consistently . <| sep |> I feel for you brother . Neurotypical is by definition the norm , so for those of us who aren ' tI get tired too , and restless , and anxious , and generally shittyfeeling . It sucks that your friends only see you as a friend when you ' re with them , and I wish I could tell you that this was a thing that would change , but it isn ' t . What does change , what can change , is how you see the world around you . Yeah , it sucks , but you have an opportunity , a challenge , a way to leave things better than you found them . I ' m not going to pretend that it ' s easy , because it isn ' t , but it ' s there for you to take , and I want you to . I really , really want you to take this opportunity , to do what you can to be you , and to really be you . Is that a thing you can do for me ?