It ' s been this way , that ' s why the Democrats promote education to learn 21 st century skills over building a wall to keep Mexicans out . But Trump voters literally voted to remain unskilled . <| sep |> You ' re absolutely right , especially about the unless it ' s fun for both partners part . Maybe she doesn ' t realize how it affects him , in which case I would recommend he talk to her . Though it is odd that she wouldn ' t realize how it might affect him , if she ' s not a jealous person it might not cross her mind . Maybe she wants a relationship where talking like that is fun for both of them , and she doesn ' t realize she ' s not in that relationship . <| sep |> I have a kids XL and an adult small . The kids one fits more like a normal Tshirt and the adult one feels more like a jersey