Shit it rains every so often . What if he ' s in California ? <| sep |> I totally agree , I now feel like he pushed for the kids as a distraction , to keep me busy . The other day we had errands to run and we ' re definitely on a clock , and I swear he did jack shit to help get us out the door . I nursed both babies newborn and 1 year old , got the outfits for both of them , dressed them , bathed the 1 year old , nursed them again , got myself ready , unpacked the old diaper bag stuff and repacked it with new things , picked out spare outfits for them both , got the toddlers snippy cup and snack cups ready , and put laundry away . and my husband changed one diaper for each and got himself ready . I chewed his ass out and said it was unfair of him and he said how was anything I did or didn ' t do unfair ? # eyerollI ' m chugging water and plan to buy the family plan membership at the YMCA as soon as my newborn is old enough to go to the daycare there so I can get fit again I started at 135 pounds before pregnancy , got up to 174 and am down to 160 last I checked , 5 days post partum . Breastfeeding is sucking the life and fat out of me lol