Thank you for good answer ! <| sep |> There ' s a pleasant lunch time thought . Jesus <| sep |> That ' s just because you don ' t understand how economics work . <| sep |> You need to consider the fact that for someone who did not receive support , the , from your perspective , minimum that he gave was a lot . It is very hard to give what you never received . It is hard to give support when you don ' t know how support looks like . As to why he never explained to you his perspective , well we all live in our own cocoon little worlds where we are the center of the universe . The same way you expect him to understand you is the same way he expects you to understand him . Stepping out of this cocoon once in a while can clear up a lot of misunderstandings and avoid a lot of conflicts . I understand you feel hurt , but if you do not attempt to understand him , you will not resolve anything .