Well the sister in law over reacted , but when you accept a list off someone you should probably buy something off it . The kid probably made the list herself and now the mother is freaking out she won ' t get what she wanted . However on Christmas morning there will be so much stuff around in sure it will all forgotten . <| sep |> Same except I missed Psybeam at 21 . <| sep |> Are you someone that YOU are proud of ? <| sep |> Full stop . <| sep |> I ' d say it ' s frustrating , but I ' m used to this by now what ' s going on is a kind of proxy war of words . The cardinals are being attacked for stated reason after stated reason . and not a one of the stated reasons are , in fact , the actual reason . ' We think Francis is making the Church more socially liberal . We support that , and we oppose actual Church teaching on morality . These cardinals are hurting that cause . ' Standard situation , like a kid trying to explain to his parents why they absolutely , positively shouldn ' t look in a particular drawer in their room . It ' s messy in there , there ' s a surprise gift in there for them , it ' s locked and they ' re looking for the key , etc . I have a bunch of weed in there is the real reason , but that obviously can ' t be said .