It isn ' t a shotgun , but yeah . <| sep |> 50 Shades of Green <| sep |> You are tempting me . <| sep |> but why , when you ' re describing someone to a prospective date , highlight the negatives ? It comes off very poorly . no one did . I do not consider slightly awkward or not conventionally attractive a negative . I don ' t think I ' m conventionally attractive but that doesn ' t mean I think I ' m ugly . Some women seem to like me and some don ' t . thats fine . theres nothing negative about it . someone was stating facts about someone and if you assumed they were all negative . I think that says more about your attitude than anything else . That ' s like saying to someone in a job interview ' don ' t get me wrong , I ' d never touch this job . but uh you might like it I guess ' just woooooooooooow . don ' t even know how to respond to that .