This is solid advice but I have a question is the date and dining all just for building the mood towards sex as in , both parties know what this is all about or is it you pretending to be interested in them as a person so they think there might be a possible future relationship ? <| sep |> The thing is you ' re still having to stop the action to describe things like the name down the side of the ship or what people are wearing and their manner of speech . These things can be seen and heard in a movie . There ' s only one method of delivery in prose reading . It might seem like this just translates super easily , but writing and movies are vastly different and have different strengths they play to . <| sep |> I was given some Muji ones last Christmas . Wasn ' t that cold last year so put them away . Can I find them now I need them Of course not !