Many basic sex acts like fellatio are still technically illegal in many states , dating back to colonial puritan times . Massachusetts is notoriously liberal and progressive , but I think even we have many of these old laws still on the books . And , as if this wasn ' t tough enough for straight couples , you can correctly surmise that gay couples are faced with even more illegal options . We as a country suffer from a really odd combination of tolerating celebrating ? violence while shaming nudity and sexuality . <| sep |> Basically the only way is if they trade like their top 10 prospects . <| sep |> Romans , Spanish , just about every culture in history had various forms of entertainment that were accepted but then are looked down upon by history .