Well how do I apply it ? There seems to be no change on the website from last week . At least , for the shoes I want <| sep |> I ' m late to the party , but let ' s see . the only one that comes to mind is the one time the family was over at my mom ' s ex ' s her current bf at the time . She was previously in a relationship with this guy who was a lot younger than her so it was a joke to make cougar references . We were eating and I said something about her being a cougar . her bf didn ' t get it nor did I think he cared , but yeah my sister and mom later told me it wasn ' t cool . Dunno why they made it into a problem cause majority of the time you kinda tell the person you ' re in a relationship with about your past relationships . slike if the dude asked just tell him it was a joke reference about the last guy she was dating . Honesty is hard isn ' t it ? Oh , another time we ate at my mom ' s house , prior to thanksgiving we had this pet rat that escaped its cage . after some days we just gave up and assumed it escaped . Anyway , my mom preheated the oven for the turkey and we all noticed a really weird smell in the house that nobody could find . It smelled strongest near the over so we thought something may have fallen under the oven and got melted . My dad pulled the oven out and our pet rat was no longer missing . apparently it got stuck in the back of the oven , freaked out , and wound up slicing its stomach open trying to get free and bled out . then got lightly cooked . Fun way to die ey ? It was sad but kinda funny in a sadistic way . Really wasnt a good pet anyway as it had been originally bought to be fed to a snake so it was traumatized . Other than that most thanksgivings were awkward . to me at least . Maybe because we really didn ' t have a tight nit family mixed in with friends of friends we don ' t know . Always felt like there was some tension .