who ' s league is this ? <| sep |> Both sides have the rascist sexist etc though no one party can claim that . Bernie was the least of the available candidates but he got caught in a rigged system lost and didn ' t fight it . Both major were anti this and anti that at some point in their life . <| sep |> Dude , you dropped a huge headlight ! EDIT taillight <| sep |> Yee too thanks <| sep |> Did you ever find a heavy ball munchlax ? I ' d really like one if you could breed one <| sep |> I have a job but I feel like Trump would would give me something that pays better . Good luck with your search though ! <| sep |> I ' d have said I ' ll give you $ 80 per hour let him do it , throw a score on the deck on drove off . <| sep |> The whole taking a step back and introducing you as his fiance is indeed hurtful and worrisome . The hard part about forcing someone to show you they care is it ' s never satisfying . They need to do it on their own prerogative or it ' s meaningless . You guys have been together for a long time , I do know people get complacent and lazy in relationships but from what you are saying he seems to have mentally taken a step back from the commitment which would bother me as well . You feeling lonely is not a good sign either . As cliche as this sounds I think you will need to face the reality of what does this man offer you and if he does provide value can you be completely honest with him about your feelings . After all he is the only one who can fix this . If my partner told me she felt lonely it would devastate me and make me feel like I need to step up and work on the relationship . I ' m sorry you are hurting and feel alone . Put things into perspective and be honest with your feelings with him in a way that would get him to actually hear you . If you frame things in the context of how his actions make you feel he will feel less attacked and less likely to be defensive . For example . you can say . I know you would never try to be malicious and make me feel less valuable but when you introduce me as your girl friend all of a sudden . I feel like you have taken a step back In the end you know him best and how to approach him . Best of luck and we are here if you need any advice . Hugs .