Again our red zone offense has killed us . Yeah our defense struggled but we would be in it if we could get into the end zone . <| sep |> now a part of me wonders if I should walk away for the good of us bothIt depends , do you derive some satisfaction from , or in some way enjoy the pain and distress this relationship causes you ? In that case you have the option to stay by her side , she will cause you untold amounts of drama and chaos and drain you dry . Some people enjoy that for whatever reason , issues with codependency , reenacting childhood dynamics etc . Many and varied reasons , none that are emotionally healthy though . If by contrast , if you want a peaceful life , a healthy adult relationship with someone who is capable of mature adult love and mature adult behaviour . A relationship in which you are secure and loved by someone who cares for your wellbeing and acts accordingly . Then RUN ! Ultimately this is your choice and it deserves a lot of consideration before you make your decision either way .