D you will wear this hat and you will love it ! !<| sep |> I think reloading is the same <| sep |> I always think the same thing , I mean not in actual numbers because as a 7 I know I ' m above the number system and can say things like , no one is above anyone else . But in all seriousness , I let myself get fat in the last relationship and now my dating pool is beneath what I find appealing . <| sep |> A while ago , I chatted with a girl over the course of a month . Had her phone number , FB etc . Almost daily chats , dozens of photos . She initiated texts more than I did . She was really keen and so was I . I was busy and she was busy and we couldn ' t meet until a month later . When we did finally meet , it was really awkward and uncomfortable . I was keen to try again at least , but she blocked my number and deleted me on all her social media . In short , she was gone . Online means nothing . Facetoface is the true litmus test , and I don ' t waste time texting anymore . I see you irl or goodbye . I ' ll never get that month back again lesson learnt .