Then why didn ' t she do it in the 22 years of the sons existence <| sep |> Being associated with it and supportingbeing indifferent are two entirely separate things . I don ' t pretend to know why every person votes for someone , let alone 61 million . I think it ' s too bad that you believe that every single one of those people are that way , but can respect your opinion . Anyway , hopefully you ' ll encounter some Trump supporters that are none of those things and you ' ll change your mind . Either way , I think we both are hoping for the best over the next 4 years . <| sep |> Not sure which tradition the other user is from but in ours it ' s ok to wear them around the wrist . But yeah , some will not fit . That ' s why it ' s good to get an adjustable mala which usually looks like this beadsmalaonyx 01 c . jpg . The knot mediacacheak 0 . pinimg . com 736 x 240924240924 e 6 c 3 c 42 f 178 a 8 e 2 bbe 3967 ba 33 . jpg slides up and down to make it tight or loose , increasing and decreasing the space between beads . Otherwise maybe wear it around the neck .