I shouldn ' t have to say this , because duh , but men aren ' t the only ones whose traditionally imposed gender roles suck . Traditionally women were told to be quiet and demure and not take up space . Not to interrupt . Not to have opinions . To be diplomatic when saying no and to cater to others ' needs above their own . And guess what ? Elements of that still linger as well . This is just kicking against that . Not particularly well phrased , but not crazy either . <| sep |> I have no idea if I have it but I was exposed I ' m avoiding going around small children . <| sep |> Pros learn the nade lineups and when they need to do it they can do it fast because they have learned it . <| sep |> My guess would be it ' s an anchor for some type of screw or something .