Stop being so damn expensive ! <| sep |> Anime in general is just not very good . It ' s a nice time killer , but the quality is just not there . Only the very best anime is worth watching , 95 % of the stuff is pretty much garbage . You asked for it . <| sep |> Maybe text her something like , You ' re right that I wasn ' t listening to your perspective , and I apologize . Can we get coffee to clear the air ? Maybe it ' s being too nice , but I ' d be really worried about her job and her safety so I ' d want another chance to talk to her . If you meet up , try to listen and be compassionate when you give advice . Focus on the tangible risks to her job and future , less on the inmate potentially being a dangerous stalker . While true , she probably feels like you ' re questioning her judge of character and is getting defensive over that .