Hey man if you stay and follow etiquette its fine for me . No need to IP ban all users there . Let them shit talk for a week like fph . <| sep |> I also would try to make the decision on helping him out together with your wife instead of presenting it as something you ' ve decided unilaterally to do . And don ' t give money before you know more about this therapy , if it ' s a quack treatment you don ' t need to waste your money on it . Yes , yes . I forgot to mention this in my post but I will here . I have told John that I will help him with his mother when I get her full medical history and get more acquainted with her condition . Also yes you ' re right . I will have to talk it out with my wife first before I offer my assistance . I just wanted to say that I am open in helping the boy out .