Why is there no pregamepost game lobby ? I understand battlefield hasn ' t had one at least as long as Ive played . But come on , it would be extremely useful actually joining a game before it starts . I understand thats not going to solve the issue but it will at least help . <| sep |> uTheSonAlsoRises I am issuing you an ultimatumchange your flair to Tsareena because you ' re Tsar or I will be forced to send you angry letter and deduct you one weeks pay from your allowance . <| sep |> I disagree . Even if you grew up in the slumps of Johannesberg , the attitude you adopt is a choice . A choice that will allow you to either stay in the slumps or one that will bring you self development . You assume I have grown up in a good , healthy youth and that I have nothing to say about this . That ' s a shit SJW attitude that people tend to have whenever you question the things they are saying , so they can pretend I don ' t have a clue . I have grown up in shit , I grew up with everyone around me telling me I ' m worthless , I ' ve battled depression , anxiety , drug addiction and many other mental diseases that would have given me the excuse to blame everyone else but me . But in the end , its not what happens that defines you . It ' s how you deal with it . And calling people lucky for making that choice to better and fight these mental diseases is doing wrong to those that actually struggled for improvement . I look to it from the other side . It ' s an INSULT to assume and think taht someone has been lucky . No . I have made bad decisions , people have done bad things , but it is HOW I dealt with it that defines me . And calling others lucky is nothing but a badly hidden victimrole attitude . For every 100 people in the slums that are rotting there , there is one or two , that decides that they have a choice and get out of there . Calling them lucky , is doing them unjust . I didn ' t miss a point , I see it . But I find it more important to stretch that these lucky people probably worked hard to get there . And sure , there are some lucky people . But hey , Life ain ' t fair and we all have our own demons .