I stand corrected on your weight I ' m glad you ' re no longer 90 , because unless you were really short , that ' s pretty grossly underweight . I ' ve never said I was around her size though . I said I was slightly overweight , with a BMI of 25 . 526 , but from the picture , my fat percentage probably isn ' t as high as hers . For the last time , stop trying to put arguments in people ' s mouths . I said nothing about her being shamed . I understand that to you , shaming is a word that has lost all meaning , but it ' s important to realise that there ' s a difference between shaming , and recognising that someone is overweight . If you think that being labeled overweight is something to run away in fear from , rather than something to work on , I think the body image problem lies squarely on your side . Edit And for those in the audience watching , this is the third time the argument has been shifted from being wrong because it was shaming the girl , to being wrong because I was shaming her weight , and then now it ' s entirely about her again . I see now I had no need to define the straw man fallacy for you , because you appear to be living it .