Dual boot w 10 and w 7 ? <| sep |> Yeah I understand , sometimes they ' re not trying to hook up though , but a lot of times they probably are , but it ' d be too broad to say every guy does and honesty just unfair . I don ' t really think you were being dumb , maybe naive but you were just hoping you could be friends , it ' s really not your fault they got feelings for you . I think it ' s just a matter of being able to tell when a guy just wants you as his and when he doesn ' t . You can be friends with guys just fine , but once they start saying certain things , they no longer wanna be just friends and that ' s when you gotta catch it , if you don ' t they will probably just get more attached . Now obviously if you have feelings for them too and you ' re both single this is not a problem . And I don ' t know , I mean yeah you ' re probably right about reacting differently to love like that but the way I was with my ex l , I don ' t think she really loved me . I wasn ' t abusive or anything bad like that , just too untrusting maybe I ' m wrong though , either way that ' s old news now so it doesn ' t really matter anymore . And to see it from your exes perspective I kinda understand the suspicion , I mean if I ' m being pushed away while my gf is being real friendly to other guys . Idk that just doesn ' t sit right with me , even if it ' s not your intention , you gotta see why that doesn ' t look good . I understand that you were feeling all of that for the first time and don ' t completely blame you , and idk what else your ex may have done to make you guys breakup , cause I can ' t imagine that was the only thing . I just think this all loops back around to requiring communication and being friends with your gfbf cause once that starts getting lost it just gets worse