agreed . Apart from the Terraria text on the top . <| sep |> Also , how do you explain this viewpoint to your spouse or family members ? As logically and honestly as you can . In an environment that isn ' t so grim or ominous . There ' s already so many kids suffering in the world try to make their lives better instead of creating another and letting the orphan suffer . Bringing another child is a strain on resources . It ' s sensible . If they can ' t understand it , that ' s on them . There really is this instinctual urge to make a baby that I just can ' t over . How do you deal with this ? Explore the urge honestly . What is it about the child that you need it to be yours ? Is it physical bloodtype and skin tone ? You can ' t change that but you can realize it ' s irrelevant in how you raise it . Irrelevant to who the child becomes . To be from your body ? Irrelevant again , really . Kids become who they are based on how they are raised . The child ' s exposures are what determines who it becomes , nothing to do with bloodtype . You are their greatest exposure , you write the code they follow whether they ' re black , white , A bloodtype , O bloodtype , whatever . Twins separated at birth more resemble the parents who raised them than their biological parents .