It ' s not that nobody cares . It ' s just that there is no actual proof of any of it <| sep |> as practical as a bucket of compressed airDefinitely stealing that . <| sep |> Can we get a sticky ? <| sep |> It doesn ' t matter if you ' ve been in an accident . Atlanta has shitty drivers . <| sep |> Please get hired by Wizards so these can be real ! Really creative and interesting takes . <| sep |> Does anyone have a list of what items get picked up with pickup at what levels ? I ' ve heard that Destiny Knot can be picked up and I ' ve been trying for a day now to get one . <| sep |> This is the worst explanation of the screaming pirate . <| sep |> I ate the Sabre hummus . still breathing . for now <| sep |> I ' m actually in a similar boat to you and thought I might piggyback off of your post instead of making my own since you ' ll probably get some similar answers . I ' m not so much against having sex on a first date , but my issue is more in the conveyance of my not being able to have sex at all . I don ' t have trouble saying no , but my issue has always been that I don ' t really know when is the best time to bring up a topic like that . With some people sex is implicit and on the table after your first meetup , but for others it ' s not even considered until a few months into a relationship or later . As a guy who can ' t really have sex at all despite viewing it as a very important aspect of any relationship , this has always been my biggest struggle and is a major reason for my divorce and why I ' ve been single for so many years since . Do you tell your date early on that you can ' t have a sexual relationship so they know what to expect or do you go a while without mentioning it and hope it ' s not a deal breaker for them after an attachment has been made emotionally ? I don ' t like hiding my flaws , but it ' s usually a topic that isn ' t openly approachable with most people anyway and I hate the idea of starting a relationship and growing attached to each other only for that one problem to ruin it and have wasted all that time again , an issue I ' ve dealt with personally . TLDR I can ' t have sex . Is it better to tell somebody in the first few dates or wait until later in the relationship when it becomes relevant ?