About a few months ago , my friend got a random text from a random girl he already has a girlfriend . As they started to talk , it was clear to me that she was more lustful than interested in a romantic relationship , but he thought she was genuinely interested in himalso he and his girlfriend are having issues at this point so this is more of a getaway for him , also they ' re in a long distance relationship . As they continue to talk , she requests that he does sexual actions like kissing and taking pictures , hugging shirtless and taking pictures and masturbating together with me . He ends up coming to be about a deal they made , if him and I were to masturbate together she would send him nudes . At this point he ' s more than willing to go through with it but I ' m much more unsure about the situation . Him and the girl continue to text for a couple days and he keeps insisting on masturbating together and reassures me that i ' ll get pictures also keep in mind that i am also in a relationship and he is fully aware of this and my lack of interest in this girls nudes . One day we are both at my house when he attempted to go through with it . He takes out my laptop and started to play porn to try to get us both hard , but a couple minutes into the video he says he can ' t get hard with me there so he takes his phone to the bathroom to attempt to get hard . Prior to this experience he was going to unbuckle his pants to do it completely but i told him to stop since i wasnt comfortable . Since he failed to get hard he came to the realization that the entire experience was dumbthe girl who texted him kept reassuring that if he did it it would prove how comfortable he is about his sexuality . From that day he acted more much sexual with me he started to say things like I want to such your dick . I wanna dick you down , I just want to kiss you , Let ' s hold hands he would say these things at random points throughout the day . Lots had happened afterwards but there are some rather . major events that have recently occurred . A few weeks , we were hanging out in his room when he asked if i want to see a magic trick , i said yes out of curiosity before he asked if i wanted to see the trick , he asked if i have a loose butthole and told me that he has one . So , he turns away from me and pulls down the back of his pants his penis is covered but his pubes are showing , he takes a small tube of toothpaste and pretends to shove it in his ass he doesn ' t , he puts it between his cheeks and acts as if its going in by making faces , noises , and tearing up . he took the toothpaste bottle and threw it at me when he was done with his trick , of course i was shocked and didnt know how to reply to him when he told it was a joke and if i dont believe him i could smell the bottle . he is a rather emotional person , not to say being a guy and showing emotions is bad , but he is extremely attached to me , i have no issue with it but it has led to other issues between us . So , we hang out a lot and one day we were at his house and i was on my stomach when he sat on me and started to hit my ass not in a sexual way necessarily but it was very quick and sudden to me . A few days ago , we were skyping when he asked how big my dick is , he told me how big his is and proceeded to take out a remote and ask me if it was the size of mine , he then began to suck the remote . I was extremely unsure about what to think at this point so i asked a female friend of mine to help me try to figure out what is going on . Yesterday , me , the guy , and my female friend were having a conversation when he began to tell her about the magic trickshe already knew but she didnt want to tell him , they have also known each other for about a year . He began to tell her that he is not straight nor gay , however , he told her that he likes girls but can be intimate with guys such as him telling me he wants to kiss me . She kept asking him for clarification and he kept telling her that is simply comfortable with who he is , he told her that he is straight in a sexual way but can be very close to guys in a friendship way . He has talked about other girls however , in similar sexual ways , he tells me about his interest in lightskin girls he genuinely seems to be interested in girls . i do not know what to think anymore , if he is bisexual or gay i am 100 % ok with it , he knows i would not judge him but i do not want to ask outright , is all of this just normal things two guy friends do ? ????