Alright , thank you . <| sep |> IM FINALLY OFF WORK FOR THE DAY BOYS , IM READY FOR SOME CARDOONS ! !<| sep |> So I ' m on the other side of you guys . Not some much as I am distant , but I tend to drift away when things start to go good . It ' s like I stop trying as hard or just in general . My girlfriend and I have talked about it quite a bit , as it always causes an issue at some point she starts to feel left out , gets less attention , or we do less activities together . I was wondering if there was something that would be a good way to show I ' m still here from a 3 rd party . I know what she wants , but mentally I drift away , so I want to stay on track and show I love her , but it gets difficult for some reason . <| sep |>' Burn man ? Are you the burn man ? '