I wonder what the psychological reason for all of this is . People aren ' t dicks for no reason and neither are they kind for no reason . Are some just permanently stuck on ahole mode ? I ' ve met some who are . I have at least one friend who thinks female voices are annoying and I ' ve seen multiple times that in game anyone with a soprano will get flak usually for sounding like a girl or gay . Even I ' ve gotten comments about my voice which basically changes everyday due to how my asthma medication fucks with my voice box . Once upon a time someone asked if I was a boy or a girl and I don ' t think he was going to give me a Pokemon and send me on a grand adventure to catch them all . I answered I don ' t care and kept giving call outs .