I got one for ya , I ' ll be on in a bit <| sep |> Not today . <| sep |> Hi there I just read through all of your posts and wow . Talk about manipulation . This family is nuts . I just wanted to make a suggestion regarding any life insurance he may have I know his mom mentioned that she was the beneficiary of a life insurance policy he needs to change that if he hasn ' t already . Of course everyone hopes his cancer never returns , but people also have accidents and unforeseen things happen everyday . I would hate to see his mother benefit from anything happening to him . I ' m not saying he has to make anyone in particular the beneficiary of course I would assume it would be you , his soon to be wife but even if he made it so it would go to an animal rescue or anything other than his horrible mother . I ' m sorry he is going through this no one deserves to be treated the way he has been treated and I ' m happy that you guys found each other and wish you a long and happy life together !