I don ' t feel like that . We have some life circumstances which makes it tough sometimes . We just have good chemistry that I don ' t really understand fully . We are not of like in a lot of ways , but there are some common interests and I don ' t want to overthink it . We have a good time together and really it works for us both because we both want space and I am a dad and that takes some time . I work two jobs . I had three dates in the recent period when we were apart . One was with pursuing possibly , she didnt feel anything and that was that . I thought perhaps we could see where it went . I realized that my GF truly was important to me . I think it made her appreciate me a bit more too . I am sure that there are others out there that I could find chemistry with , but its not easy