The biggest reason i am not switching away from FF <| sep |> Shelby was upset bc they made her make a video too even though she knew she was going home . That ' s what she said . An alternate without Kryssie <| sep |> You need to purposely breed some family branches that are very distant kinsman of the main family branch . Once you have dynasty members that have no claims at all on the main family titles , you can give them holdings to increase family prestige without worrying about them launching claim wars . This will work fine if you ' re nonMuslim . If you ' re Muslim , you need to be careful about how you do this , because of the dangers of decadence . In that case , only give land to distant dynasty members that keeps them as direct reports under you . ie Dukes if you ' re a King , or Kings if you ' re an Emperor , or as baron castle or temple holders in counties that are part of your personal desmesne . so that you can revoke thier titles directly if they get decadent .