Sex really and truly doesn ' t matter in the long run . It ' s fun , and for some people it ' s good for bonding , but in the end it ' s just a good time . Nothing to fuss over . As far as games go , don ' t worry about that . I ' m 28 and I have like 5 Pokmon games . I can ' t resist Destiny or Skyrim . I also do housework for ~ 5 people and am a SAHM for my 2 12 year old boy . On the weekends , I go hang out with my FWB and do housework for him not much , he ' s pretty good about cleaning and help him with his airsoft business . Edit What uderpinmarine said is true , eventually you ' ll just stop worrying what other people think . You ' ll focus more on what you want and need , and how to care for yourself . That ' s when you ' ll settle down and start reaching your potential , socially and otherwise .