I think it perhaps affects a very small minority of people in the way you describe . But I ' d suggest the same goes for other forms of media films , games , music , etc . I wouldn ' t want to see them blamed for the personal actions of others . They have in the past , and there were efforts to censor them too . This is just another incarnation of the same thing . <| sep |> Requiem for a Dream . One time was more than enough . <| sep |> Thank you so much for your thoughtful reply and for reassuring me I ' m not overreacting . This is something I have thankfully never experienced before and I am generally a positive happy person and my relationship with Sam has been nothing short of perfect so this whole thing has completely knocked me for six . You make a very good suggestion in the personal therapy you are right , after some googling about this most of the support and advice is for people who have been raped intentionally by a ' baddy ' being accidentally raped by someone you love who didn ' t mean to do it is a whole other complicated kettle of fish ! Thanks again for your time and your kind words