The problem is that you can ' t control whether someone acquires a child , while you can kinda control if someone acquires a car . What are you going to do with all the people , who get kids without having pased the test ? Take the kids away ? That ' s ridiculus . <| sep |> Hey , I ' m sorry things aren ' t working out . It ' s true , you never know if things are going to get better or not . What I try to get out of it when people say that is that things CAN get better . It may be a really small fucking chance , but there are people that end up being lucky enough to climb out of the deep hole that depression leads us in . 15 years is so long . I ' m sorry that you had to go through this shit for so long . I can ' t say whether things are going to get better or not because I don ' t know , but I truly hope it does . PM me if you want to talk .