I can ' t say my marriage is perfect , but it is a hell of a lot better for a number of reasons . First and formost TRP has largely solved the mystery of why women behave the way they do . A lot of the time I can anticipate my wife ' s reactions now . Before I found trp I completely failed to recognize shit tests for what they are . By finally focusing on myself and my needs more than I used to , life in general is better . She began to realize something was changing and while I have not intentionally played the dread game , she now pays more attention to me and is more eager for sexual activities than she has been in years . In the end she seems more content as well . There is still room for improvement , but it ' s come one hell of a long way from what it was just a couple years ago .