yea this is more likely <| sep |> Haha ok . Thought so . <| sep |> No holiday tables are considered safe spaces <| sep |> I don ' t put myself out there . I don ' t look approachable . I have trust issues . I have put up an emotional wall . My social skills are seriously lacking . I have to agree with everything uUragami said , but in addition , in my case , there ' s a woman I ' d love to ask out , and I ' ve been flirting with the idea for a few months , but we ' ve been friends for years and I ' m pretty sure I was friendzoned long ago . We don ' t hang out much these days , but I think she ' s got more in common with me than most women I know . Also , it ' s tough to be a peacock when you ' ve been balding since you were 25 and are pudgier than you ' d like to be .