I had multiple losses all around 12 weeks . My son ' s HEDS so far isn ' t as severe as mine . However , they ' re young and mine didn ' t really bother me until my mid to late 20 ' s . Personally , I feel them being male decreases the chances of theirs being more severe due to testosterone . I could be absolutely wrong , but in my head it makes sense . It ' s your body and I feel you have the right to do what you want . But you may have an issue with an ongyn agreeing due to age . Hopefully yours is much more understanding than my old one . He refused to do it when I was 28 due to my age . I got a new one and she had no issues with it . Just be prepared for a potentially longer healing time than average . Long as you ' re sure it ' s what you want , do what you feel is rightbest for you .