Germany really is a beautiful city this time of year <| sep |> Sometimes when 2 men love each other very much . <| sep |> I have a Top Loader , would love to trade it for the classic . <| sep |> Thank you so much omg ! Really thanks ! !<| sep |> I met the woman I ' ve been searching for for over a decade . Let me tell you a little something about expectations you keep them low . Even when she ' s absolutely perfect , you still keep them low . It sounds pessimistic , but it serves a more practical purpose keeping yourself from being devastated like you are now . Nothing is official until it is , no matter how well the dating process is going . I tried convincing her to come backCome on , man . You know this never works . how did you deal with the bar being set higher ? I don ' t , because it isn ' t fair to compare your next date to your previous . After every date I go on that doesn ' t turn into anything , I wipe the slate clean and press on . It ' s the only way to keep from feeling like shit , honestly . Do you still think about the one who got away ? Yes , and I use the experience as a lesson to be a lot more cautious . Not get too enamored too fast . To show selfrestraint . To keep a level head . And above all , not to expect anything . The pressure works its way into your subconscious and ends up sabotaging you 9 times out of 10 .