I think one place it should work on is access to the back door . Unless there ' s a medical reason the front door isn ' t working , I don ' t understand why anyone without a prostate which might benefit from this kind of stimulation would expose those fragile tissues to a penis , when there ' s a perfectly suitable environment for it that ' s equipped with a clitoris nearby and apparently deep within . I know why , I just think it ' s stupid and sad . I mean you can do anything to bodies , you could put a pencil up your nose and say you like it . And maybe you do . But do you ? That much ? Really ? There was a conversation on another sub a while ago , in which multiple women insisted they liked it , it was worthwhile , one just has to work up to it after months of gentle coercion and practice , if lucky . But some of them weren ' t lucky at all . When pressed , most of them said it was just all right . And that they mostly did it to keep their boyfriends happy . Because that ' s what you do in a relationship . I don ' t mean to judge these women , because who hasn ' t done stupid things for the promise of love . And maybe they feel they need love enough that they feel it ' s comfortable for them . But I do kind of judge them . I don ' t believe they enjoy it . And , I ' m profoundly vanilla , and am I suppose lucky in that I ' m too old to be shamed out of it . I don ' t have a problem with not performing .