OP should tell us what his sisters cat is looking at on the wall . It ' s a highlighted picture of catnip isn ' t it ? <| sep |> Definitely the latter . She looks a bit like Neytiri from Avatar . Sorta <| sep |> Well , at least someone has attitude . D <| sep |> 1 . 5 years and still going . Drugs help though . <| sep |> Yeah priest is the biggest problem . If this card becomes popular then priests will just wait for it before they drop SWP <| sep |> You both are on different pages as far as addressing the problem is concerned and that is fine as you both have different techniques to resolve it . The important thing you need to do is keep communicating with her without making her feel accuse about your feelings by showing your keenness to strengthen the relationship . Do not nag her otherwise , she would get defensive so better to talk to her and give her enough time to learn how to resolve the problems through communications . You should look for other positive things in her too at the same time .