18 c 1 8 c 3 for parallax ? <| sep |> Jeet Cat Do <| sep |> To answer your question , a lot of people probably would have chosen abortion for themselves , if they could have rather , than the miserable life they have been sentenced to . This is where I have a problem with prolife people . First of all , prolife really means antiabortion . All of the prolifers I know give a rat ' s ass about the life once it ' s here . In other words they wouldn ' t sacrifice their wellbeing for a minute let alone a lifetime to care for the handicapped child down the street . What bothers me the most , is this is such a personal decision and nobody has the right to make it for someone else . Of course this is where prolife people come in and say well what about the child . Most people who have abortions do not believe that a zygote or fetus in the first trimester at least is a person . It is not about being selfish . It is about being reasonable and not wanting to have an active role in perpetuating suffering . We live in a time where this kind of suffering can be eliminated . And if you truly believe in a soul , then what prevents that soul from being placed in a new pregnancy in the event that the original pregnant was aborted . Spiritual beliefs are not the same for everyone , however it seems that prolifers believe they should be .