Things the US is # 1 in Military size and belief that were # 1 in everything <| sep |> I never said you ' re lying , just that you ' re wrong <| sep |> And we ' ll have the sun to our back aswell . <| sep |> I ' m in exactly the same spot as you . My SO and me cuddle , hold hands , give pecks on the lips and tickle . However , a passionate kiss or sex isn ' t necessary for her . I didn ' t mind giving her tickles for half an hour straight , without giving her anything in return . Because I knew she liked and needed it . She knows I need to feel desired etc . When we go to bed , she asks for a cuddle and I ' ve been on the edge of telling her exactly the same thing as you told your wife , many times . Maybe I ' ll tell her next time , just to let her know how I feel about it . Eventhough I know it won ' t solve anything , but swallowing emotions doesn ' t help either . Good thing you told her , at least she knows how much it means to you now .