Would you argue that spez ' s actions made it less trustable ? <| sep |> Thanks and yes . I helped with challenged students during my senior year in high school . Something of a baby sitter but I do have exposure . <| sep |> The points I made in the video pretty much got to that , why its a waste of time and energy to put yourself into a market that is geared against 95 % of men . Instead , keep your foot in the door with perhaps a presince on the app , its much better to meet people in person and the odds are all on your side as well . <| sep |> go ahead and leave . She wants to be a friend . So make her a friend . Or a stranger if necessary . But someone else gets the title of Girlfriend , since she clearly doesn ' t want it .