Thank you for this breakdown . It makes a ton of sense . I appreciate that ! <| sep |> Would give pretty much anything to go back again . <| sep |> If not , it is savage . All players want to pull himASAP 3 <| sep |> Just had an argument with a family member over this practice because he said it was bs . Then I find this fucking article . God the next 4 years of this shit is going to suck . Can ' t they all just go back to being mad about some Muslim in Office instead of ACTUALLY having power ? ??<| sep |> My wife and I have a complex holiday schedule . We don ' t have kids , and after we do , our current routine will probably change . Currently , we luck out in that our families are willing to schedule around us , for the most part . Not extended families , per se , but our parents and siblings . We are both the oldest of our siblings and are both the only married ones . So usually my parents schedule around what my wife ' s parents are doing since they have more kids and are more limited on when they can do Christmas , Thanksgiving , etc . My grandparents and my wife ' s grandparents are a game of can we make it this year ? If the answer is yes , we try to go . If not , then that ' s just the way it is . Once we have kids , I hope we start doing more things at our house , as opposed to travelling a lot . We ' ll see .