Chill out , man ! It ' s thanksgiving ! It ' ll probably be next thursday ! <| sep |> sex is one part but no more or less valuable than any otherTo you . You have to learn to speak for yourself and let your partner speak for themselves . All you seem to care about is how you feel and that ' s a bit of the issue with many LL partners . To your partner , sex may be the most important . To me it is . Other intimacies can ' t compare . <| sep |> 2 Sp 00 ki 5 mi <| sep |> FoucaultHe ' s on my insanely long reading list . I was going to ask your opinion of Heidegger ? <| sep |> Now I ' m wondering hoping ? if Black Friday brings either a ship sale or a zen sale . And maybe waiting to buy it until tomorrow might be best whenever they do make it purchasable .