While I ' m actually playing that game on the bus , I don ' t actually feel any feelings like that towards any of the girls . <| sep |> Pretty sure 400 is the reward for gold <| sep |> Either way you still deserved an explanation for her actions . It ' s always sad to lose a good friend . <| sep |> I agree with frodonne , I adore my husband and we ' ve been together 20 years . I also have some good friends from college that I get together with every few years . My husband and my college friends are from separate times in my life . Not that I have anything to hide from either my husband or my friends , I would just find it hard to give the you totally had to be there kind of back stories to one or the other just so that they could follow the conversation . You should tell her how you are feeling . She may have just felt put on the spot and didn ' t divide her time well .