no problemo dad <| sep |> OtariWilton clearly has something going for it as kkriki have self introduced from Zealandia and have been living there for a few years now . <| sep |> The Aggies also have a Dwayne Thomas ? <| sep |> 52 SUMO , thank you ! <| sep |> Team Valour , level 21 . Only just picked up playing again a few days ago after giving up for a while in August what with all the server issues , so yeah . Oh , and I live in Douglas . How about you ? <| sep |> Are we not supposed to downvote things we don ' t agree with , do you just think you ' re entitled to upvotes despite the content ? <| sep |> IMMEDIATELY contact a good accountant and ask them about an attorney to represent you in this specific situation . Relatives always want some of that money , they feel entitled to it , and they ' ll stop at basically nothing to get some . You may really need a lawyer soon , and it will serve you very well to contact one now early in this situation to tell you what to do and not to do with the relatives . My grandpa ' s girlfriend of many years recently passed away and left $ 350 , 000 to a single relative , and then other relatives we had never seen started appearing out of the woodwork looking for some money , and the money is currently tied up in the ensuing court case and no one can touch it until it ' s litigated . If they are already well off or ' wealthy and greedy ', then I wouldn ' t give them any . If you want to , you could set aside $ 100 , 000 and buy them expensive christmas gifts or a couple new cars or something if you ' re concerned about them being so unhappy not to get any money , that would ease the family tension knowing that you did something like that for them . And by greedy I mean that they didn ' t even lend us $ 5000 to help with our emergency situation when my father got hurt and unable to work to pay for the bills . This all depends on how you feel about them , if you really think they are just greedy rich people , then F them , call a lawyer immediately so he can advise you on how to handle your family without causing problems for yourself when they try to bring you to court later . Be careful OP , that money can go just as fast as it came into your life , either due to you or your family . If you spend it like you ' re a rich person , it will be gone in a few years . I ' ve seen people win big sums of money multiple times and they always end up poor again because they just live like a rich person and give some to everyone and spend it on BS , then end up losing it all in a few years . Lawyer up , delete facebook , hit the gym . That money will disappear if you give a bunch of it away to your family . I see no problem in helping your immediate family , as long as it ' s within reason rather than millions . She left it for you , she meant it for you , probably because she knew it would be wasted by those other greedy people in your family .