I know it ' s months later but real life got in the way . Here ' s a new link in case you were still interested . <| sep |> Americans who say I ' m Norwegian mean I ' m of Norwegian descent , it ' s an accepted phrase . Like I know my friend John whose 3 rd generation ChineseAmerican doesn ' t have Chinese citizenship when he says I ' m Chinese or that Liam ' s not a Irish citizen when he says I ' m Irish , it ' s just shorthand . <| sep |> Im 20 and I feel as though Porn is having a bigger impact on my life than I thought it could . Most days i can easily go at it every morning and night regardless if i want to or not . It feels as though i don ' t have any control over it at all . I currently have an amazing girlfriend , but its getting harder to get hard , and it is honestly stressing our relationship to almost breaking point . As such i am in need to go hard mode for at least 90 days to see if it helps . I ' ve seen many success stories around and I ' m hoping that I can be one of them . As a reminder for myself i am planning on wearing a band as a physical reminder to stop . wish me luck .