A miracle is an event trough divine intervention that alters the natural flow of reality <| sep |> Yes , they can ' t help it . That ' s why they always espouse the cliche Why can ' t I just find a nice guy ? They really think they mean it . They also love recounting horror stories about their ex ' s . But if a sympathetic male would listen to those horror stories and say I would never do that to you they would laugh in his face that such a weakling would think he even has a chance . The only time they will settle for a nice guy is when they are postwall , usually in their 30 ' s or 40 ' s and the nice guy has sufficient financial resources . In this case they will settle for financial protection but they will always dream of the bad boys or maybe even attracting some desperate college athlete for a quick romp .