In similar situations , I ' ve sent a text saying something along the lines of , I had a really great time and would really like to get together again . If you aren ' t into it , no worries , just let me know ! I ' ve gotten positive responses that resulted in further dates , and I ' ve gotten yeah , sorry , just not feeling it , and was able to leave it at that . Being honest and direct usually works . <| sep |> It wasn ' t as good as it used to be . Most of the surplus that was there the last time I went was cheap Chinese crap . <| sep |> Reset . Same stupid triggers . Finally getting the reality that nothing changes , if nothing changes . Not drinking today . <| sep |> It ' s funny how you can literally tell a night and day difference between post upvote counts yesterday and today . We gained like 3 k subscribers yesterday , but sure . We are low energy all the sudden .