Do you have a source on that ? I believe you , I just want further reading <| sep |> She wasn ' t out to win the popular vote . Had she actually been a worthwhile candidate one that didn ' t need all the help she could get to even be nominated it would ' ve been a landslide . <| sep |> This isn ' t a wake up call for me at all because you keep confusing hypothetical ideas for facts . There are few ways to meetconnect in general without group socializing , and the nongroup ways are generally the most shallow , and would probably lead to people you don ' t even like . You can try finding a speed dating event for people with disabilities or an autismspecific one . What are you willing to do , like what changeseffort are you willing to put into your life ? What is a good enough probability that you ' d actually do it ? Maybe you should decide that , and then work from there to pick goals . That method works for me in choosing goals in general .