how many in total ? <| sep |> Could be me remembering what he said correctly . Might have been a star mob and we tend to call those regular ones at this point . I wasn ' t in his party at the time but there were plenty of other people in the guild chatdiscord that were equally as shocked . <| sep |> Didn ' t even notice the name . <| sep |> I don ' t like it , and I don ' t know how I am when drunk . Many people tell me I have to drink more to get used to it but why should I ? <| sep |> perch si va a vivere dai nonni <| sep |> Your SIL sounds like a piece of trashy work . So say you do confront her . She either gets defensive OR she says , Yes I want the cheating exgirlfriend as a sister not you . Then it ' s out in the open but you two openly dislike each other . You could ignore her as she may be trying to get a rise out of you and have your husband confront her on how inappropriate her behavior is . She is his sister , he needs to bring her in line . Or don ' t do this option unless you ' re into confrontations screenshot her comments and ask her , Why did you say this ? What do you have against me ? How have I offended you to the point that you ' d rather have a cheating exgirlfriend with your brother than I ? Communicate with her that this isn ' t okay . I ' d personally ignore her because she deliberately being hateful and she ' s not worth the emotions or effort to talk things out with her . And unless you ' re the best aunt to her kids , you can send your husband to the birthday parties with gifts and have a spa day instead of dealing with her toxic behaviours .