I ' m not saying that Trump never lies or that CNN always does , I ' m not the same person as the guy you replied to . I ' m just saying , just because someone makes a whole bunch of allegations and calls it a fact check doesn ' t automatically make those allegations true . <| sep |> Every man is different . Some guys won ' t want to wait long , some guys will be ok with waiting as long as you feel you need to . You just need to find someone whose view on sex is compatible with your views and your comfort . There are so many different kinds of guys in the world and I truly believe you can find someone who won ' t require you to do something you ' re not comfortable with . I mean I get that sexual compatibility is important but don ' t sleep with someone just because you think they won ' t stick around otherwise . It ' s not worth it .