Nothing , I ' m just a disappointing ad . <| sep |> Well , if it would help , I ' ll say that almost everyone is in the same situation as you . Sometimes people say on the internet how things ought to be , and it might seem as everyone knows something that you dont , but in reality everyone is a bit lost . Or did you know exactly what you were doing , before ? I ' m a bit lost , too . Id tell you my story if youd want to hear but it is not very interesting I think . I ' ll say one thing though . Relationships dont always follow a pattern . I ' ve had people bearing with me for more than I ever thought someone would , and I ' ve had people coldly cutting me off way ahead of time or without reasonable motive . I tried to learn from my experiences , but prior experience doesnt always help you in a new situation . And so what I realized is that some part of it is up to me , but the greater part , I think , is not . So anxiety is not , should not , be an issue . I say that because you seem anxious . You say you dont know how to interact with the opposite sex . But its not about knowing , you have it in you already ! Every woman does only a woman ' s smile can make a man melt and haunt his memory for days , and she needs not any technique ! A woman ' s mere tone of Voice can seem as music to a man . So , why this talk of knowing how to interact ? Just be there , God already took care of the chemistry otherwise we wouldnt be here would we ? . I know , its easier said than done . Id tell you that you perhaps only need to smile , but can you , smile ? We have forgotten how to smile gratuituously , I at least seem to have .