He ' s so famous , he ' s infamous ! <| sep |> I don ' t mind sharing , it ' s been long enough . I ' m sure if you snooped my post history you ' d find a bunch of shit too because I didn ' t use a throwaway for advice . I was with my partner for 10 years and this year she fell in love with someone who was an online friend of mine we ' re gamers . He lives in another country . He recently went through a breakup and was suicidal etc and my partner and I supported him . We offered to fly to his country and meet him so we booked it in April . Between April and July , my wife and him got too close , sharing personal stuff and many I love you ' s . I was uncomfortable with it and we spoke about it but it didn ' t stop . I said he has to go or I go ultimatum . Anyway , I caved my biggest regret and they continued talking . I didn ' t cancel the trip because of how much it meant to her , plus our 10 year anniversary coincided with the dates , so I thought it would be a special thing to do regardless . She also told me not to worry and I wanted to prove that I trusted her and wasn ' t threatened . We went over to him for 3 weeks and it was complete shit watching them be too close . We came back and 2 weeks later she dumps me because she wants to persue him . Apparently she wasn ' t happy and hasn ' t been for some time . She moved to her parents and my choices were to stay in the house and pay the rent myself or move to my dad ' s and leave it all with her . I didn ' t have stable work so I packed my shit and drove away . She took all of the responsibilities and eventually threw outgave away our 6 years of furniture . I took the cat , mutually agreed . She said she wanted to stay friends so we contacted each other every day for a bit . She felt guilty and damn right she should . Anyway I was probably messaging her more than her messaging me and I ' m sure her parentsdickhead convinced her that the only way to move on was to remove me , so I haven ' t heard from her since . Just like that , gone . Ugh . Edit English is not the primary language of his country .