The idea is that it opens up the door for people that don ' t get a pass to challenge their arrest based on the video evidence of other people being let go . <| sep |> If you want to do a compromise you can bless the baby in your home and not invoke a priesthood you don ' t believe in . At some point you ' ll have to discuss how to teach your children about things , but you don ' t have to sweat that right now . To give you some hope , the 2 siblings that were born , blessed , and baptized after my dad left are done with the church . Even if you let your kid be raised in the church to keep peace with your wife doesn ' t mean they ' ll end up being controlled by the church . Just by having you as a dad they ' ll be able to see more choices , and most choices look good next to a life controlled by the church . Have hope and peace , this process can be long .