yay and nay . we are all differenti tend to handle crushes much the same except once i was more confident im far more likely to follow up on someone new in order to get my high than others . i dont really obsess once i have someone . i like the chase of getting to know someone . that said i fixate massively on my mistakes , and people especially who werent good for me that i argued a lot with and had a lot of emotions with . good relationships not so much . but we dont have much dopamine so a lot of us who are generally less impulsive and more confined and emotionless a lot of the time tend to RREEEAAALLLY find it hard to forget the people who felt like a drug that let us live even if that usually ends badly