Seconded . Skyrim on PC can be modded to just about whatever you want and the gameworld massively expanded . I was stuck on a quest so I googled some help , turns out it was a mod I had installed and forgotten about . The quality was so good I thought it was a dev made challenge . <| sep |> That ' s probably done by the adapter itself . So I don ' t know . <| sep |> To be honest ? Avoid having contact with them . Everything I read here so far indicates that your relatives don ' t think about how their words and actions turn out for others . You can ' t get back at them since they will not see the link between their action and your respond . They will actually wonder why you are mean to them . If at all . The only way to deal with this narcisstic manner is to avoid it . You ' re not going to change them . It ' s also not your job to coach them . Even if every person in the world they have contact with will turn their back on them , they will not register why .