I will never judge anyone in a gym . You ' re trying and that ' s great . What I do judge is usually very overweight people walking on treadmills with zero incline at a leisurely pace . You are taking a machine away from someone who actually wants to exercise . You can walk outside on level ground at that pace , running outside is far more difficult to keep a solid pace . <| sep |> This is a bad idea . Imagine getting a deck that gets completely vetoed by your opponents deck . You ' d complain , everyone would complain . <| sep |> Wait , when were they taken down ? <| sep |> Thanks you ! I ' ve been just going right past the coil , but I ' ll try going higher next time now . <| sep |> So this sparks my GF getting upset , she blocks both him , my sister , and his two girls on FB , she ' s done . I do the same , I ' ve had enough . 100 % the correct response . No contact is completely and utterly justified without question . o now my parents get swept up into it , they start asking questionsNOPE . None of their business . The relationships between adult children are between the two adult children . Parents do not get to be involved . You guys need to deploy the family gangup protocol with them . Anyone else in the family who tries to get involved they all get the same treatment , per the family gangup protocol . my parents are chipper than ever wanting to talk to me about the baby . Nope . You don ' t need to deal with that shit . I just don ' t know what to do or how to handle things now that there is a baby in the scene and it ' s going to be ALL anyone talks about . You know what , the baby doesn ' t change a damn thing . Say away from Sis and Hilbilly , and clamp down on your parents . Mom , I don ' t care what you do with the kid or sis and her SO . That ' s your business . But do not bring them up around us . We are DONE with them . Forever . They burned that bridge . I don ' t want to hear another word about them . If that ' s all you are calling me about , don ' t call . If you can ' t respect our decision and keep pushing this , I will block both of your numbers . You have been warned . Have a nice day , Goodbye .