i dont want items unless they are oversell <| sep |> It was over a pay out for an engagement ring . The episode does give a small peek into their relationship . Insinuations of abuse while intoxicated and an uncontrollable anger issue and multiple instances of abuse on Michelle . The sound quality is bunk , and it ' s broken up into three parts , but this is the segment in it ' s entiretychromeinstantion 1 espv 2 ieUTF 8 # qpeoples % 20 court % 2011 % 2 F 17 % 2 F 11 That ' s a google search result with all three partsDale Smith Jr was dishonorably discharged from the Marines for drugs and domestic abuse . Being exmilitary myself , it ' s extremely difficult to get a dishonorable discharge . You have to be a pretty terrible person or get swept up in extraordinary and terrible circumstances in order to get a dishonorable discharge . However , drugs and domestic abuse WILL do it . Military has a zero tolerance for those things .