She didn ' t like me reading to pass time and thought my video games were too childish because they were not adult enough for her . They were just Sonic and Mario and Barbie and Pac Man , Disney , Kirby , Super Monkey Ball , Rugrats . No I haven ' t checked out the links yet on the side , I had only read about this condition elsewhere and on here . My ex expects me to read about her diagnoses and hopes I will change my feelings about her , as if how she acted was okay and for how she treated me . Oh I have several mental illnesses , don ' t see me as an abuser and as a control freak and a narcissist . I didn ' t do any of that , it was the mental illnesses that did it , not me . But still I wished she would have apologized for everything than denying what she did and say she had been in treatment for many years because she realized it had cost her relationship and had hurt me . But she didn ' t do that . She also denied she saw me as immature when together she kept making a big deal out of stuff I liked and said how it was for little kids and saying she felt like she was with a five year old , with an eight year old and I remember she would ignore me if she thought I was acting too immature for her so I felt I would have to change my whole personality and interests to make her happy . She also blamed that on PTSD for her behavior towards me because her ex had called her a pedophile . I was more bothered that she didn ' t see things from my perspective and put all the blame on me for how I feel and didn ' t apologize or knowledge it . But that seems common with Borderlines from what I have read here .