Analyze the lyrics of the songs that women listen to and enjoy . You can see what resonates with women and the language used can help you either restate something better or understand their wants . Like instead asking a girl the be your girlfriend Justin Bieber ' s song if I was your boyfriend . It is a subtle difference but if you say that you want to be her boyfriend it removes the ownership and possession from the statement of asking her to be your girlfriend . Instead saying I want to be your boyfriend would imply that you want to be the man of her dreams . Her vision of what her boyfriend is . You could also watch dead poet society . It is good about language and how to use it to woo women . No one wants to simply own a girl and bang her empty soulless body . We want to see her writhe in sexual pleasure . We want to see her enjoy everything . Hope this rantway to help helps .