I wonder how long Facebook is gonna dump water into a hole that keeps leaking . <| sep |> I heartily chuckled as well friend <| sep |> Well they got an agency with a dope name that ' s for sure <| sep |> I am sure this has been said , but understand that she has fallen for the driven , self motivated , stable guy . By letting go of the things that made you the person she is in to , you stop being that guy , hence her feelings may change . If I were you , I would be frank with her , if she is as great as you believe she will understand and support your disciplined lifestyle . Also maybe include her in some of those things . I know it is a shitty double edge sword , but for me when it comes to self improvement I am selfish and I don ' t believe that to be a bad thing