You pronounce ' Mads ' as ' mas '<| sep |> I would say something like thisWe need to have a discussion . I am fully aware that you overheard and recorded audio of me giving birth . You did so without my permission . I am very displeased by that . That was a huge violation of my privacy and very disrespectful of you . I am sure you wouldn ' t like someone doing something like that to you . If behavior like that is going to be the basis for our relationship then we ' re going to have a problem . So , are we going to have a problem ? Three important components of your confrontation here . 1 . Set the stage you have a serious topic to bring up and you mean business . 2 . Address the issue . No sugar coating . Tell them what you ' re upset about and why . 3 . A call to action . How they respond will tell you whether or not you want them to be at other family functions in the future .