Also a Troy . lineman ? UncleVenusaur . <| sep |> All of these comments show no one even opened up the article . Christ . <| sep |> Original post by uSupremeKai 4 in rWTFnbspThis crosspost was performed automatically as a part of the ImagesOfNetwork . Learn more about the ImagesOfNetwork , how you can help , and other Frequently Asked Questions , or visit us on Discord ! Remove my post ! The bot got this one wrong ! Stop Crossposting My Stuff ! # match Alabama <| sep |> You ' re not imagining any of this . I would strongly suggest that you stop sitting for them and tell them Bob has been making me uncomfortable . I am not willing to discuss it further but i will not be sitting for you again . I ' m very worried that if you keep trying to play nice and keep the peace because he hasn ' t done anything concrete , he will keep escalating until you ' re unsafe and he ' s really crossing boundaries . I ' m very concerned for you already . He ' s showing up at your work and asking creepy questions . Your gut is giving you the gift of fear and telling you not to trust him and that he is not safe . Listen to it . If you tell his wife that you find his attention uncomfortable and flirty do not get sucked into defending the exact why ' s and how ' s . As you know , it ' s hard to illustrate in words . Just say he ' s come to your work at a suspicious time without invite , he ' s stared at you and said flirty things that made you uncomfortable . I think if you go this route you could say something like I am not comfortable baby sitting for you anymore because Bob has been making me very uncomfortable by staring , saying flirty things and asking inappropriate questions , and arriving at my work when I am busy to do on date at time when he should be at homework . And say or send to the wife in a direct and private way . Then , as I said . Don ' t get sucked into the details if she or he try to argue with you . Make it a NON NEGOTIABLE statement and not at all a discussion of how his behaviour is or isn ' t wrong . You know what you know and if they are unconvinced then protect yourself and do not concern yourself with convincing them , you ' ve done enough . Whatever you do even if you just stop sitting for them and don ' t tell them why definitely DON ' T continue the path you ' re on . He ' s taking advantage of the fact you don ' t want to rock the boat he is already rocking it ! You are not safe with this predator .