I mean , one of the best things about the US are our open borders between states . I don ' t live in my home state because of work and my only regret is that i waited so long . <| sep |> 34 seems a bit old to still be hiding a lover . The last bit about not triggering the EX would make me super uncomfortable . Like , is he going to get violent ? It ' s almost been a year since the divorce so why would it be unexpected that she may have started seeing someone . Again 34 seens pretty old to be dealing with this high school drama . <| sep |> We started with two ! ! Well , long story short we moved to Honolulu from Boston and had to find a home for our two kitties there . Being here just didn ' t feel right without furry things around so I found two and 3 days later got 3 more . I honestly didn ' t want cats for years . But we saw them and if we didn ' t get them they were getting euthanized . So .