Was it the same cat ? <| sep |> Isn ' t most of the damage to boostersexternal tanks occurring when it ' s submerged in salt water ? <| sep |> No you did not say that . I even quoted you . Seriously , wtf ? <| sep |> Nah , don ' t quit Sisterhood , it ' s really damn good . <| sep |> You can ' t make her or help her stop drinking . She has to do it herself through rehab , AA , therapy , any combo of those . You can take care of yourself . Create and hold to boundaries for yourself . Foster strong relationships with the rest of your family . It ' s cliche advise , but I highly recommend finding an AlAnon meeting in your area that ' s where you ' ll start finding the support and strength to detach from the chaos and take care of yourself first .