yeah . us in northern states just cant really take him serious lol . i live in boston and wear shorts and a t shirt to every showtime to man up . SF does not get cold <| sep |> Whoa there , stop interrupting the narrative bro . <| sep |> I often get the feeling that people approach relationships as something that either fits , or you make it fit ! I agree that relationships require work and compromise , but with so many people in the world , I don ' t see why you wouldn ' t want to find somebody who basically fits from the beginning , and then you invest the work and compromise to keep it fitting throughout life ' s tribulations . Instead people will try to change you or themselves to somehow fit together , for no reason apparent to me . I don ' t understand that approach at all .