My wife says I can ' t have a girlfriend . <| sep |> All of the characters aren ' t horrible people . The only ones who are truly horrible would be the redhaired , blondhaired and blackhaired girl . The rest of the cast are fine . This excludes the side characters . <| sep |> Agreed , the devs continue to break the game more and more with each update . It really is a one step forward , two steps back kinda deal . I left for overwatch when I realized ranked tf 2 was actually a massive joke and ranked overwatch was simple and fun . <| sep |> Well best of luck then with your ENTP . Ok so let me put up a disclaimer first , I don ' t intend to debate you on your beliefs , but I do want to discuss some of the claims you ' ve made that stem from them . Also for clarity ' s sake , my position on beliefgods is , so maybe I can provide you with some insight . So yeah , no need to indulge me if you ' re not interested . Several reasons 1 because God said so . I don ' t want a husband who would look down on my intellect in these cases . Well maybe if you presented the signs you ' ve seen that are pushing you to that decision it doesn ' t matter what your partner believes in , some can view it as the universe speaking others will say that these cummulative experiences are indication enough that the change is worth it . Just going to put this out there , but even a believing man shouldn ' t outright accept the because god said so for anything , they should at the very least ask what the signs were . 2 I believe that overall life goals , as well as the definition of love , are different between Christians and nonChristians . I disagree , I think religions everywhere have tried to appropriate this basic emotion for themselves . What is different though is cultural norms relating to marriage and relationships , now that ' s a completely different beast . But in most of the world love has always been presented as unwavering devotion to the well being of the recipient of said love . We are called to be selfless and to work for those who are hated and marginalized . I definitely think a lot of people do not have this same perspective most people just want to be comfortable . See this is one thing I always liked about that Jesus fellow , I think taking care of those in need is important . Now I really don ' t think that ' s something only Christians have a monopoly on . As for wanting to be comfortable , that ' s a human thing , not a believernonbeliever thing . I think that just the depth of what most secular people understand to be love is far more shallow than someone who has spent their life dealing with the ups and downs of being a follower of Christ . You ' re right , I don ' t get how that ' s any different than anyone else ' s ups and downs through life . And so loving your significant other requires that same level of trust , surrendering your own doubts and fears and giving yourself to them completely . Whereas the secular definition of love is more like well we get along really great . I don ' t think this is an assertion that can be made , especially considering what people from any creed do for love . I get along great with a lot of girls , doesn ' t mean we ' re about to found a family and settle in for life together . Like I said previously , to me that ' s all of the world ' s religions appropriating this basic human impulse to devote themselves to those they call family . 3 What happened in my church was most parents let their kids choose to stay or go when they were like 13 . Well for Catholics you have to do your confirmation choose at 12 for my parish and it ' s part of the church ' s institution . I did it because I ' m not mean enough to make my mother cry over me not getting confirmed . Sleeping in on Sundays didn ' t have any bearing on my choice but taking an oath which I didn ' t believe in did . Let me also say that forcing someone to go to church against their will is totally counter productive , people either want to believe or they don ' t . 4 I actually think I would be more open to dating a nonChristian religious person far more so than an atheist . I think I have more in common with Muslims than atheists . Yeah from what I ' ve seen in the US atheists are somewhat demonized and presented as far removed from what a normal person should be . Anyways , sorry if the above got a bit dogmatic and super long lol . Yeah no worries , I did try to keep away from the dogma in my points though . Now I just have to figure out how to say this stuff to an ENTP without him flipping the hell out D Probs have to break it into very small pieces haha . Realz b 4 feelz . Well speaking of realz b 4 feelz , probably getting closer to something like dating would be step 1 . XD