One time this narcissistic girl took an interest in me . When I rejected her because of my fear of abandonment , she ' d want more attention , instead of less , because it was an insult to her . She saw it as she was being rejected and didn ' t like that , instead of wondering why I was acting that way in the first place . When I finally relaxed around her and calmed down , she just got bored . She was getting the validation and attention she wanted , so she started seeking out other people to get it from at that point and eventually forgot about me . She would go on about being suicidal and things as well , but it was all bullshit , she loved herself way to much to ever even hurt herself noticably , it was all drama . Just make sure this isn ' t a similiar situation , or you ' re going to end up caring about someone who just wants attention and to exploit you . That would be really bad .