Leaf also is able to find looks for the boys too . Obviously not like Lonzo , but still . <| sep |> I had a psych class that barely touched on the power of what words you use and how they affect people , and ever since then I ' ve tried to be more conscious of what I say to people . Like when someone does something nice for me at work , or does something out of their way I ' ll say thanks , I appreciate you instead of i appreciate it . I also learned that instead of asking if someone is busy when I need a favor in hospitals the employees are often running around extremely busy and get a bit annoyed being asked that , I ' ll instead ask them if they can spare a moment . Just changing the nouns or verbs you use can drastically change the way people approach you or the opinion they have of you . Like your kind words and sirma ' am use . It feels better to say and it might make someone else ' s day by being kind .