I ' m just glad it didn ' t say baby cause that would be awkward . <| sep |> I ' m having ricefried chickensambal as of now . thanks for the chance ! <| sep |> I would be agreeable to those terms . I agree something need to be done , I am just unsure about what . When you start talking about things like this you are talking about taking away rights on the basis of subjective analysis . That ' s what we have to watch out for . <| sep |> Sort of . Not really . Kind of but it shouldn ' t really hurt that much . There ' s no bit of anatomy in your butt that goes away your first time being penetrated . Stretching can help . Sort of . I recommend getting a lube syringe . It completely changes how my toys feel and I ' ve not bottom ' d since getting it , but I ' d imagine it helps there too . Douching is really only good if you ' re not completely emptying out . Based on my experience toying douching seems to wash away some amount of something that makes the lube syringe essential . Silicone lube might make the syringe slightly redundant , but with waterbased lube , just shoot it up your butt like a drug . Douche afterwards if you ' re OCD like I am .