I was thinking of watching Gravity Falls . Have you seen that show ? Also sorry to hear about your exams bro , that sucks but you ' ll get them next time ! <| sep |> Are you mentally stable ? You said you ' d ban me . I didn ' t say I ' d leave . WTF ? <| sep |> I ended up going with this . Thanks ! <| sep |> well then it ' s Miranda <| sep |> Thank you for sharing this , it really hit home . I replied to this post with a story of a verbally abusive boyfriend . I am glad you got out . but you are right , you sink to your lowest first . Then they have you right where they want you fully controlled . You get to a point of complete misery where anything they do doesn ' t override your pain anymore . You realize it will always be this way if you stay . He had some mental health issues and even threatened to kill himself and blame it on me . It sounds messed up , but I had to get to a point where if I left him and he chose to take his own life , I would be able to live with my decision . Do you feel like you can spot an abusive relationship very quickly now ? I feel I can recognize it easily among acquaintances and such . I have had a few women come to me for help . I am able to avoid these types of toxic people now . thank goodness . I am happy to hear you are in a good place too . I wish you a long and loving marriage .