oh fuck zeller <| sep |> Yes I agree in part with what you say . If we become a plaything we are just following what others are doing . But I don ' t know about any example being a good one . Because fashion is cultural and subjective . The oversized jeans is a trend that was started by gangsters because they could easily carry firearms without making bulges in clothing . Soon it became fashionable to wear gangster style fitting and this is why you see such big pants so low on the thigh . There can be no gang afiliation but still people like the fashion . But it is not the objective statement to say that a person who dresses this way with low jeans is more or less of a plaything than a person who wears skinny jeans or a woman who wears the yoga pants in public or a man who spends $ 1 , 500 . 00 on a suit to go to a party . I think it is up to the individual to decide based on their own enviornment where they reside .