Ugh , I heard they don ' t even have a Pottery Barn up there ! <| sep |> Came here to say this . This guy totally larps . <| sep |> It ' s improving on the source material . Harley is an valuable asset , why would Joker continually screw her over and push her away ? Harley also has valuable intel on joker , just through spending time with him . Why would he want to enrage her when there is a strong possibility of her flipping and giving up info on him ? Their relationship in the comics and cartoon is cool but I don ' t think it ' d translate very well . This Joker has Joe CarrollThe Following manipulation skills . <| sep |> My Nparents did the same thing 3 years ago . I spent a year trying to enforce boundaries and when it became obvious they were never going to respect my rules , I put my foot down . They didn ' t like that and stopped contact . In my mind , it didn ' t matter who went NC , the benefit is the same . This wasn ' t a game for me I suspect it was for them , like a game of chicken NC was essential for my healing and personal improvement . By the time they went NC , I was so emotionally detached from them it didn ' t bother me all . I wish you peace with your new emotional freedom .