As in tower defence . But if you have a wall that has never been attacked and the biters gain level then your Towers are helpless . <| sep |> My family is like your husband ' s , but on a smaller scale . Since buying a home , and having kids , i dont have money to buy everyone a bunch of shit . I make everyone a small coffee cake and a mason jar home made Irish cream . For the families with kids , I get them something small . In my husband ' s family , they are so cool and do a Yankee swap and that ' s that . They buy for the kids . It ' s absolutely nuts that you are expected to buy gifts for everyone . You need to speak with your partner , and get on the same page . <| sep |> Hi , I ' d like to chat . Will send you a message too .