Oh , hell YEAH ! !!!! Take her a bottle of Scotch . Single malt . <| sep |> You start from a set of faulty premises which renders your argument invalid . There is no biological gender . There is sex but unless you are exceptionally well informed of which there is no indication in your post it ' s not what you think it is . I would recommend reading this articleredefined 1 . 16943 that explains why experts on the field now agree with us . We are not A wanting to be B or A feeling like B . We are B born with some external features that fooled people into mistaking us for an A . By insisting that you know better than us what we are you come through as rude and condescending . And wrong , but that goes without saying .