We could . Actually , I got the idea from Slime Rancher ' s pink slime . tel 0810 <| sep |> the discussion of identity as constructed by the self or others is largely taboo or at least glossed over in the field of behavioral health . I think it ' s because it ' s so painful . It ' s uncomfortable . Either we need to learn to withstand the pain or figure out how to not have it be so painful . I mean TLP said that when narcs are exposed it ' ll lead to reflexive violencemurderrage that is fucking fucked up <| sep |> Thanks dude . Trying my best to ' be a man ' about this . Putting what I want to the side putting someone else first . PMO teaches you to be selfish , get what you want when you want it regardless of who it hurts . It ' s happens so gradually , when you notice it ' s already deeply entrenched in you . You have made some good points in your second paragraph . Man , I have a lot to think about .