What do you think is in it ? <| sep |> he told then your every wish will come true <| sep |> That ' s next on my list , reading his first book right now ! But in the meantime , the blog is a good source of free information . <| sep |> I figured as much , which is why I started questioning the idea of the skycrane being somehow objectively bad and the result of politics . People have this tendency to see things they don ' t fully understand as somehow flawed <| sep |> I think this is a really bold assumption based on very little information or context . I have given the speech before about being afraid to hurt someone I ' m with not because I plan to , want to , am being manipulative , or anything like that . It ' s also not because I have zero intention of making an effort to not hurt them if and when it becomes a possibility . I have some unhealthy defense mechanisms as a result of being the victim of numerous emotionally , verbally and physically abusive relationships . I am aware of what they are and I am actively working through them . That does not mean I will never slip up . Slipping up will never be the result of not trying hard enough to do better , nor will it be an excuse made to cover up some slimy behavior . It ' s the result of being a human who ' s been damaged and has enough selfawareness to know that my past has had a significant effect on who I am now . I ' m not saying this guy isn ' t a butt because who knows , maybe he is . To assume the worst seems pretty shitty , though . Edit I ' m sad to see that at times like this , people would rather grab their pitchforks than make a conscious effort to not judge ~~ the opposite gender ~~ people without knowing their story .