I would like to believe I ' m not racist but so far I ' ve had only one boyfriend and he was South Asian . I think people tend to prefer their own races because there is a very good chance their partners will understand their problems . Also if a parent approves of their child ' s sexuality , I doubt they would have an issue with race . <| sep |> No , it ' s irrelevant . <| sep |> Yeaaa you definitely attend chouefat <| sep |> Nadie dijo que dejaran su empleo , ni que usaran todo su dinero . Vives en tu cabeza y no quieres escuchar razones , te felicito ya eres un godinez en forma . <| sep |> My thoughts ? I understand that words like gay , trans , lesbian , cis , etc . are important tools to understand our own identities and the world around us , but ultimately they are just words . And what are words but cultural symbols used to describe the current ideas about sexual identity and orientation within a given society at a particular time ? The word gay for example has been used in so many different ways in the past century or so . Personally I like to take a playful approach to language and ultimately I don ' t take it too seriously because words can never fully accurately represent the actual nature of a thing . They are placeholders in our brains to make life easier . It can be a good or bad thing depending on how you look at it . Example . I used the word lesbian to describe myself . My most recent lover is a non binary trans person . They expressed hurt feelings that I used this word to describe myself because they thought that since lesbianwoman loving woman and therefore I saw them as a woman , which just isn ' t true . And I ended up feeling hurt that they just saw me as a lesbian and not a complex individual with deep feelings of love and respect for them outside of some silly words . I don ' t think I explained this the way I wanted to but it ' s also possible that I am overthinking it . But those are my thoughts anyway .