Ja da , men panten er ikke et . Tror du selv p at der findes mennesker , som frivilligt forlader deres barndomsland , alle deres venner , famile og jobs , og tager deres brn med ud p en uforberedt tvrkontinental vandring . for at stjle flasker ? Ja , de kommer for at de resterne fra de riges bord . Det er de mske ndsaget til hvem ved . Men nu er de her , og hvis ikke vi kaster flaskerne ned under bordet , s der de jo bare noget andet . Det er hul i hovedet at spolere pantsystemet i den tro at det vil stoppe den fattige befolkning i andre lande i at sge bedre grsgange her . <| sep |> You can have faith and still be a sinner . <| sep |> Not havin a girl and listening to this got me feeling conflicted . <| sep |> It ' s not bigoted , if it makes you feel uncomfortable you don ' t have to do it . The fact that he had sex with her and she didn ' t tell him beforehand is the real issue here . I bet the guy wouldn ' t have cared quite as much otherwise but the fact that she made no effort whatsoever to make it known might have felt like something she intended to hide . Those guys have to remember that full transitions are a very new phenomenon and that most people aren ' t willing to have sex with transgenders because it can be quite complicated to get around the idea . The nice thing to do when you are trying to flirt with someone as a transgender would be to at least discuss it before it goes to the next level so that you don ' t run into this situation anymore .