Thanks dad for ruining Thanksgiving . So backstory it ' s my first Thanksgiving with my family since 2009 and they ' re hardcore , rightwing Christian fundamentalists and no disrespect if you are and I ' m a moderate agnostic but they don ' t know . They let the finished dinner wait halfanhour to do a Bible Study first , which is kinda weird but whatever . What my dad said really pissed me off . See , I can tolerate and entirely disagree with a lot of my families bullsht . Some of my favorites said and already said include Gay Marriage is the inevitable stepping stone to bestiality and gay people choosing to be gay is a sin against god . Sex before marriage is sin , and anything other than conventional dickpuss sex is sodomy . Which , I realize now , really fucked me up subconsciously in my adult life Catholics shouldn ' t be considered Christians . Candidates should be Christian first , antiprogressive second , but always Republican . But I came there for another reason . I ' m a week into sobriety and was ready to tell them Yeah , I ' m a dirty heathen , but are you in my corner in this fight ? Oh , and I ' m getting into a relationship , and I want your advice . And while he ' s hinted this in the past , he just comes out with Only Christian men can really love women . Non Christian think they do , but they don ' t . I can take a lot . I ' ve been all over the world and seen my friends in body bags before I was 21 . But nothing pisses me off more than my own dadafter coming to for relationship advice on Thanksgiving of all dayssaying he has zero confidence nonChristians and unknowingly to him , me can really love their partners . I ' m not sure I can trust my dad after something like that . Right now I don ' t really want to .