See , if we ' re citing personal experience and anecdote , my personal experience is that someone who watched a lot of Internet porn pressured me into all sorts of sex I didn ' t want , convinced me that I liked it , criticised my genital appearance because he had unrealistic expectations based on porn , and did me damage more than a decade ago that I am still unpicking today . My experience matches the things I chose to cite , as you say that your own does . Given that the pattern described is young men insisting on what they want and young women feeling they must submit , I don ' t agree that male domination , in this context , appears to be what you think it is . I ' m really glad you enjoy the sex you have , but a lot of people , often very young women , don ' t , and a lot of people are pressured , and they deserve to be spoken for as was done in the report by all the research , reports , concern and comment that you ' ve chosen to ignore .