Wich timezone do you have ? <| sep |> what are you talking about that ' s not the p 5 trailer lady ! !!<| sep |> I can relate to this super heavily , as I suffer from depressionanxiety . Wrestling has helped me out of a lot of tough spots . It ' s remained the one constant in my life that I can rely on to distract me when things get rough , and for that , I will always be grateful . <| sep |> TLDR that ' s nice , and has nothing to do with me . When I actually spend time to think about my seeing her , it usually goes something like this . First , I ' m happy . I think of it as similar to seeing something else beautiful be it a work of art , nature , or other , and I like beauty . Second , I remember the key difference that , unlike a work of art , this beautiful woman is as much a person as me . Third , I consider that both her person and her beauty have basically nothing to do with me , nor do I have any rights over either . Usually , it ends here . Just as I ' m quite happy to enjoy a work of art that I do not possess ie the existence of beauty in the world is a net positive , even if I in no way possess it , I ' m happy to see an attractive woman walk by and leave it at that . Fourth , if I find myself sexually attracted to her in a more meaningful way , I remind myself that of all the women in the world , I , during my lifetime , with have sex with what might as well be rounded to 0 % of them . As a result , I have no basis to assume otherwise here . Fifth , if my interest continues , I remind myself that most adult women enjoy having sex with someone at some point in time . As a result , if I am interested and so inclined , I feel an advance would be appropriate , and believe there is some basis for reciprocation , I may pursue the interest recognising , of course that it is unlikely to lead anywhere . Sixth , I remain open to the possibility that the place it will lead may simply be a brief interaction or a friendship . Pro tip Beautiful , intelligent women often make good friends if , as a man , you can get over your sexual interest and no , i don ' t mean bide your time . Seven , I go on with my life .