Besides the idea of sectors and replenishing tickets , you just described conquest . <| sep |> Okay . I added you name should just be moan <| sep |> Anytime you are using something free , it ' s important to remember that you are the product being sold . These places wouldn ' t exist if they couldn ' t monetize you <| sep |> You talk about how she used to be happy to see you when you got home , and would take your boots off and give you a foot rub . You note that it made you feel important to her . Do you ever do things like this for her when she gets home from work ? It sounds to me like her enthusiasm for making you feel valued and cherished has waned over the years , and I ' m wondering if it ' s because she felt like that was a oneway street .