I ' d pour myself a tall glass of time and watch light go by . <| sep |> I have never seen such an amazing display of skill and talent like this one . I ' m amazed D <| sep |> Without really knowing your situation so take this with a grain of salt , I recommend just being a good listener google empathetic listening or active listening . Also , perhaps coming up with a list of local resources that might be helpful calling your local crisis line can be a good place to start , with the idea that she may not be aware of her options , and with the idea that she can choose to get further help if that ' s what she wants . So hard to see our moms not doing well . Don ' t forget to take care of yourself too . I also like the idea of plants , lots of fresh air natural light in the house , and even funny shows movies .