He couldn ' t say that to DH ? Coward . <| sep |> If a medication made it to where I couldn ' t orgasm I would stop it in a heart beat . Not even slightly joking sex is one of the things that helps my issues and my husband will be home soon . Thanks for your advice , I actually tried trazadone uh outside of a doctor and it didn ' t do a thing stayed up anyway . Really frustrating . Thanks for the advice , right now sleeping like a normal person is what I am working on , my other issues are getting so much better , I think my doctor thought if my anxiety and depression got better id sleep better . Some nights I do but I wake up a lot or I wake up too early . I am glad she skipped trazadone and the moment I told her the last sleeping pill made me depressed she instantly crossed it off . She is much more helpful in person then over email . Meditation can help when its not bad like if its my thoughts keeping me up it very rarely helps but I try it from time to time just in case it does , if its bad it relaxes me but I still stay up . I think thats the worse . If my thoughts keep me up theirs an excuse but if im laying in bed relaxed and in a napping state but not actually sleeping that really frustrates me .