Don ' t make me come over there , bro ! I ' ll end you , bro ! <| sep |> you ' re getting cause and effect messed up inadvertently making things worse for everyone . let ' s look at some facts , consequences , secondorder consequences assholes will always say mean things you cannot stop people from saying mean things you try , however , by shaming people who say certain words this shaming and other coercion relies on establishing cultural force and authority ironically , this force and authority ends up being used as a tool by assholes . in other words , it ' s like establishing secret death squads to kill bad guys . historically , what really happens is those death squads get coopted by bad people and are used for suppression the end result is assholes are still assholes and now you ' ve also made everything worse for everyone elseattempting to police language is never a good thing . there is no instance in human history when telling other people what they can and cannot say has resulted in anything positive , but it has resulted in countless negatives . you ' ll probably say i ' m just trying to stop casual use of hurtful words . well too bad , they will always exist and shaming people who aren ' t assholes only makes them dislike you . people who casually say faggot are not your enemy . wat . the . fuck