Marcus actually suffers from visual impairment . There are glasses that are named for shortsightedness . <| sep |> I don ' t know . A challenge , perhaps ? I am obviously not forcing you to do anything . <| sep |> It ' s true . KAT Ricky PR looked great last year . Why not do that ? WHY NOT TOM <| sep |> I did a refresh of sorts in my early 20 s . It wasn ' t like I disappeared or anything , but I was depressed and needed a change so I moved to a different state . I had come to accept that my friends and family didn ' t really give a damn about me , and I needed to build my own happiness . There ' s good and bad about this tactic . I was able to recreate myself and decide who would impact my life in my new home state . The negative is that some things that I grew up with are lost on the people I now know . I can quote Princess Bride for days in my hometown , for example , and just about anyone I interact with will have an appreciation for it . Where I am now quotes are typically met with blank stares . I do feel like the company I work for and my new friends appreciate and accept me , so besides the standard INTJ sense of loneliness I feel pretty good about my choice .