Therapy is always an awesome thing in my opinion . The people there are always very understanding and welcoming but I don ' t blame you for feeling nervous it ' s a big step . I want you to also know that even if you don ' t mesh well with the first therapist you get you can always request a new one . Took me a few tries before I found someone who helped tremendously . I wish you the very best of luck D <| sep |> We always called them crab apples . Supposedly they keep spiders away so you ' ll find them in a lot of basements garages <| sep |> The brutal honesty is a foreign basically everywhere but America thing Alla has it too but she is so sweet about things it ' s not as obvious <| sep |> Other than on fleek they ' re definitely used a lot outside of a meme context . Might just be the friends i have but i see it a lot on facebook and hear it at work sometimes too .