That ' s it ! Those guys are a bunch of weirdos too . <| sep |> It ' s the lag . <| sep |> Honestly , I ' d marry him just for the damn name lol . <| sep |> My point is it was not a great equaliser that you could only buy so much butter a week . It was rationing not a food for the poor programming . <| sep |> We ' re both romantics . Usually lay off the sex for a week or something then do a romantic gesture and tease her for a day . Sopping . <| sep |> You want to do something about your hormone levels , both so you feel better and both bone health becomes a concern with sufficiently low levels . If you can find a transfriendly endocrinologist , it might make sense to say I think I might be trans , but I ' m a long way from deciding to transition . Can we aim to raise my T levels into the low end of the normal range and see how that goes ? The low end of normal may be enough to make your symptoms disappear , or it may not . I absolutely disagree that it ' s a given that you ' ll feel worse on T if you ' re trans . You might , you might not . A lot of doctors will assume you definitely want the masculinizing effects especially if you never had that spurt of masculinization amab people seem to get in their early 20 s , but it ' s totally okay to be ambivalent about that . You ' ll get some masculinization no matter what and , to be clear , it ' s up to genetics how much you ' d get even at the low end of the normal rangeit could be tons , it could be minimal , but you ' re absolutely within your rights to say you want to try to minimise it .