Awesome man ! I have found no better motivation for my own health than my boys , if for no other reason than the need to be able to catch them when they run towards danger . Also that second shirt is the bomb . <| sep |> Yes please leave . <| sep |> She treated you like she did because she was selfish and uncaring of your feelings . That is a bad way to treat someone . You are planning on treating her badly just so you can take pleasure out of her suffering . I ' d say that that ' s far worse . What do you hope to achieve exactly ? Cause here more anguish ? Make her untrusting of her future partners intentions ? Leave yourself with a lifelong regret towards how you treated her ? The best revenge is a life well lived . Break up and make yourself into the kind of person she was stupid to let go , not a bullet she ' s lucky she dodged .