It ' s ok , I cry every night . <| sep |> I love getting the picture cards from everyone ! I try to take our picture on Thanksgiving but I totally forgot until just now , ha ! <| sep |> You are the human equivalents of that paper plate you used for this picture . Use it once , and then throw it away . <| sep |> Oh gosh . I ' m so sorry . That ' s totally shitty . You ' re not wrong to say anything . HER choices , your comments , HER consequences . You ' re allowed . Sending your strength to get through your visit . Hug . <| sep |> Eh you never know . Olivia isn ' t past 8 either . <| sep |> I ' m a kitchen manager who works 6 days a week 1012 hrs a day . the last thing I wanna do when I ' m at home is cook . even on that 1 day off i stick with something easy .