Okay yeah that makes sense . <| sep |> Sucks to have that kind of problem , hope people can access the help they need when they are ready . <| sep |> Wtf haha I have same players playing right now , but I am bottom of 12 list . <| sep |> He may come around , he may not , it ' s hard to tell going in how someone will adapt to changes or if as he said he ' ll stick his head in the sand and pretend nothing is changing . There ' s not a lot you can do but either be patient or leave , if you try to force things with him it will likely go badly . Don ' t back down though , be who you are and let him come to you when he wants to talk about it and otherwise try to maintain your routine . My father seems to be taking a similar stance , after appearing supportive and saying he was on board I ' ve seen him once in six months , he lives out of province and would typically stay with me when he ' s here , he stayed in a hotel instead for most of his stay and only with me for his last night in town .