tbf . you can dink in public under 16 too , just not in any official regards , sutch as at a resturant or in a bar , but on rdhuspladsen in Copenhagen you can drink even if your only like 10 or something , people might look at you as being strange but its not illigal <| sep |> Thank you . I mean , it sucks . Nobody wants to think about D lying there expecting us to find him the way he found her . Nobody wants to feel like we were complicit somehow in his death . J ' s mom was a big shock . but we kinda saw D coming , and we just let it happen . And I was here being the cold cruel voice of practicality . No , you can ' t take more days off and lose your job . No , you can ' t drive eight hours when you can barely even stand up . When D didn ' t answer the phone I pretty much suspected , but I didn ' t say anything because what was there to say ? J had to rest up and give a presentation to the region the following week . What would be the point of saying , look he ' s probably dead in there , when there was nothing else to do ? He got the call from the funerarium lady an hour after giving the presentation he had to make . There are so many opportunities and chances J ' s given up because he dropped them when his mom wanted him to take care of her , and he feels like he should have done that for D too , and I ' ve been the heartless one making him leave the little old dude in that godawful place alone .