Been having this flashbacks too at random times , usually its the last porn video I ' ve watched . I ' m not paying attention to it but recognize that I ' m on progress because no matter how my brain wants to indulge on these videos , I won ' t go back to watching it . Porn sucks the life I have before , never gonna repeat that conscious mistake . <| sep |> Yes , it ' s an amazing game . Really fun , I have almost 600 hours in it . <| sep |> My heart goes out to you and your daughter . Never forget she is hurting too . One of my teenage children was involved in a terrible accident . My family was investigated for months . Anything you say to anyone , including friends and neighbors , and even your wife , can be accidentally used against you . STFU STFU STFU . You are better off coming across as cold , rather than share ANYTHING with ANYBODY . The one thing I learned during this years long battles with the CPS , the juvenile courts and the lawsuits I was truly alone . Not one instance of sharing anything was of any value to me , and often proved to be detrimental to me or my family . The legal issues dragged on for several years . The ONLY person I could safely vent to was the lawyer , and that was very expensive and provided me no real emotional relief . At least the lawyer was straightforward that if it didn ' t help win the case , he was not interested . I am surprised at the don ' t lawyer up yet advise . I would get a second opinion , fast . I can tell you that if I had not engaged the best attorney in the state immediately , someone would have probably gone to jail . Please be more cautious than ever here . You are alone . I would share as little as possible with the wife . She is not on your team and this is not new . My Very Best for you and your family .