Every offensive movement should have gone through Perisic once he came on . I don ' t understand why we barely gave the ball to the one guy who had fresh legs and is known to take on players with blistering speed . Spare me . <| sep |> I couldn ' t agree more . One thing I will clarify is that when you make the wellbeing of someone else equal to your own wellbeing , you are not necessarily sacrificing yourself as you are not putting their wellbeing ahead of yours . It is a very important distinction . The moment your support for a woman begins to negatively affect your own wellbeing , it is time to be mindful so as to know when to stop for reasons of selfperseverance . If you do not stop , you make sacrifice , and for this you will suffer . The general gist of what I am saying is quite present in your post where you outline the idea of having a healthy detachment .