I ' d also like to add that enforcing gender norms and mannerisms this way isn ' t just ridiculous , it also is a terrible way to teach something that should be enjoyable . Too add , being forced to do it makes it entirely disingenuous , which defeats the entire purpose of the gesture . You aren ' t being a gentleman when you are only doing something for fear of condemnation . It ' s the same with many other concepts that regularly make headlines when someone fails to comply . See wearing poppies , standing forsinging the national anthem etc . <| sep |> Wait , why don ' t we in Melbourne like you ? I thought every radio station and news station was anti trump in Australia . Seemed like it at least . Well now I know it is just my state that is majority anti trump .