Okay I guess we ' ll have to agree to disagree . There have been some rough calls so far in this series but i believe this isn ' t one of them . <| sep |> Your wife needs therapy and YOU need to start seeing your family and making sure you do NOT try to manage your wifes emotional life for her . When you restrict yourself as much as you have been doing for no reason I can discern from your post other than because she says so , you become isolated with someone whose love could strange an octopus . You really want to stay with her , you insist she goes to therapy alone , and with you . I might suggest you could do with some therapy as well , to figure out why you ' ve gone along with this for all this time . <| sep |> Thanks for your help ! I was able to get Maxwell thanks to you . 1125120754 . png