Hitler ' s last portrait of Blondi . <| sep |> That ' s actually a nice name hahaha <| sep |> It ' s not just our drum and bugle , but the fact the pelvis is shaped different causing the natural resting position to be outward . You have to physically hold your muscles to not spread . The best way for a women to experience why we manspread is to try and go the whole train ride with your wrist as close to your shoulder as possible . Having to not only remember to keep your arm closed , but also not get tired contracting the muscle for the whole ride is really difficult , as you can ' t ever make your wrist actually reach your shoulder for any sort of resting support . Most women can ' t even remember to do it for the whole ride , and the rest always complain about how sore it makes their arm after just 5 minutes . It ' s a fun social experiment .