I really miss those games . Had tons of fun with friends doing the galactic conquests . <| sep |> 49 MINUTES LEFT IN THE 4 TH ? ! two minutes of actual football 47 MINUTES OF COMMERCIALS BITCHES <| sep |> Thanks for reply the wedding was fantastic and it was in August . I tolerated N parents for the sake of my sons big day and even went out for a walk with N mother in the morning excruciating as it was just her and I . We had an awful charade however with them trying to pay for the family meal the night before . They would nt accept that I was more than happy as the parents of the groom to pay for at least half of it and chased me round the hotel thrusting money at me control and power . Husband took it in the end which i ' d rather he hadnt but I had locked myself in the bathroom to get away from her . So we survived the wedding and the Happy Couple knew nothing about the Jan Feb dumping of me and all the shenanigans . But now . there is no wedding and they are kicking off for the 3 rd time ABOUT the wedding 4 months later stating they were shabbily treated , their chicken was tough and my husband didnt speak to them . As he is teetotal and has perfect recall he decided to get involved and I ' m so glad he did . They have turned down 2 proposed visits to them this autumn I did a long post a couple of nights ago about this that you may have missed because we dont want to stay overnight . They are hideous but the most important thing is that I feel FINE and I am ceasing contact . I ' m not telling them , I dont want to speak to them , but thats whats happening . It will need a climb down apology from them to change my mind . I hope I have the resolve to stick to my decision but thats definitely how I feel at the mo and it feels OK . Hoping all is well with you . I will keep people posted with any developments but husband helping me is great . After 34 years together he ' s finally heard the CRAZY . Thats validation for me and its great ! !!