I think it is only reasonable to refer to people as they prefer . You ' d probably be pissed off if somebody refused to use the name you introduced yourself as . Gender is much more intrinsic to identity than name is . I ' m offendedThen you don ' t have to use it . But since what makes you comfortable most likely offends her , you can ' t really expect everybody to be equally rude . <| sep |> ya i do too i just thought it was like , suuper famous . sorry i didnt mean to come off like a dick lol . but ya , some 1 died . <| sep |> So nice and cheesy . I was just there too . I could live off their pizza <| sep |> absolutely nothing yet . I just forced myself to throw up . I can ' t risk serotonin syndrome . it ' s been 40 ish minutes so I know I absorbed a lot of the dxm