Oh trust me . I have <| sep |> Yes . Calculative has worked well at work , they found a place for me that works well for my mindset after testing out a few roles . I come off as fairly bubbly it cuts down on people giving me constructive criticism when I use happy words like yay , lovely , awesome , etc so I think my coworkers just think I ' m strange . I have a natural social mask , and I have been consistently pleasant to everyone , so everyone seems to have gotten used to my ways . With my friends and family , I do get the too cold perception . I have had some people get irate that I don ' t call or text them often enough , even after explaining that I ' m super reclusive and I basically have a social cycle . They love me in my social cycle , but because that portion takes so much energy I become reclusive for a while to refresh my energies . The friends that I have now understand my cycle and accept that I will disappear at times . My husband keeps complaining that I act like I could walk away from him so easily . I ' m not an overly romantic person though , which he knows . He ' s been making hurtful comments for years , and he doesn ' t seem to appreciate my logical rebuttals . I guess to him I ' m cold . I ' m not , I just don ' t find it acceptable for my husband to be a jerk to me . I never get evil creature . People seem to think I ' m really sweet . I ' m super sarcastic , but I want the best for everyone . The only people I know of that have been called evil are horrid and selfish people that deserve the title . If you are nice to people , and do more lifting up that tearing down you should find that people like you even if they can ' t exactly understand you .