it is quite understandable though isn ' t it ? the word limit on en is awful , i suspect we have the same limit as jp except with jp speaking in a full sentence won ' t take as much space because kanji . plus the word filters are frustrating ! when i was sending out merry christmas messages to the friends on my list i kept having to reword them just so the word filter and limit would allow me to just wish them a nice christmas and a happy new year . <| sep |> I assume you are sure once you have completed the method you follow . <| sep |> Np I ' ll keep them , it ' s 11 pm for me right now though . So just add me and invite me when we ' re both online tomorrow . <| sep |> don ' t act needy , and don ' t act too friendly at first . offer some help if you see they need help with something . Take it one step at a time .