Thanks ! I guess the purge has started . Oh well , it was an interesting site while it lasted . On to somewhere that doesn ' t censor its users ' politics . . . . <| sep |> This whole thing feels a little muddled and childish . I went and ready your other post , and I still can ' t see what she did that is so bad , and frankly I don ' t feel like what you said is so bad either a little passiveaggressive , but not silent treatment worthy . She has a friend over , and she is hanging with him , so she is not texting you a bunch . That seems fairly normal , although she should probably try to find a few moments here or there to text you a bit . You don ' t seem to trust her not to cheat , in which case a LDR is simply not going to work . Tell her what you ' re upset about , don ' t be accusatory about it , and also be prepared for her to not really give a shit if she feels like she behaved fine which it seems like she more or less did .