Sleeping ? Try death ! <| sep |> Cutting someone out from your life is a big decision , especially when it comes to family . If you want to cut someone out you better have a good reason for doing it . If you dont , then you are just a shitty person . If they dont have a good reason for cutting you out of their lives then you are better off without them in the long run . It might suck now and even more when it is christmas , but it will get a lot better with time . Also remember that your life isnt a hotel that you can check in and out to whenever you feel like it . If they decide to to cut you off then make it stick for a really long time . It is a really shitty thing to do , especially when it comes to your kids .