Okay , but house foundations can get weak and crumble also , especially if they weren ' t designed to properly bear the weight of the house or are unable to withstand external forces like earthquakes or landslides . I think just about any analogy could be problematic if one is trying to avoid discussing the possibility of someone ' s faith collapsing . <| sep |> People who give their babiestoddlers Benadryl just to shut them up or make them go to sleep . And people who give their babies smart phones or tablets . Your baby has no clue what that thing is and is only going to break it . Then they ' ll go after your $ 800 iphone and break that too . Give your baby a toy for christ sake . <| sep |> Here we believe in a democratic subjectivity . Seriously though , I wouldn ' t walk into someone ' s home and criticize their design choices out of nowhere . The thing is , homeboy posted this on the internet . If you want your home to impress other people then you gotta consider what other people would think . If you don ' t naturally know what other people would think , then someone ' s gotta tell you .