I ' ve gained 40 lbs since January of last year . Quit abusing pain pills and hard liquor . Now I feel great . I just abuse food and beer now . Never been happier . <| sep |> I was the same way ! Someone tried to buy me a baby doll and my response was literally ew . And I would only hang out with older kids 😂 <| sep |> Women definitely love '' jerk '' qualities in a man . The problem is that throwing your weight around and exerting and displaying dominance are not really acceptable in a civilised society , but women are still biologically aroused by men who behave like this . Sexual attraction is not '' PC '', and , unfortunately , the average woman is sexually attracted to some really dark and nasty stuff . <| sep |> My favourite so far is Gary .