As long as you have eggs you can level him anytime . As long as you don ' t waste all your motes , you can mote him anytime . So basically farm onion motes now , save some 4 standard motes for just in case , then level him whenever you feel like it . Now is a good time but you don ' t have to do it now if you aren ' t going to Cid mission FF 3 and aren ' t using him due to no relics . <| sep |> To be honest , I ' ve ranted on here so much then deleted it that I don ' t even know where to begin . She is a complete and utter narcissist , and this sub and rraisedbynarcissists are my two most frequented . As I ' m engaged to her son I guess it extends to me . My college education is lesser than hers I ' m currently earning two B . S . degrees while she earned one in journalism , everyone in my family is a piece of shit ? ???? Not even remotely true , she ' s never spent more than an hour with anyone in my family but adds them all on Facebook and thinks she knows them . Degrades my intelligence , has accused me of only being with her son for money , corners everyone constantly about how her husband cheated on her and left her 20 years ago can ' t imagine why , says how underappreciated she is at work and how in the next life she should just skate under and be less great . Has demanded that , if I have sons with her kid , that I HAVE to have them circumsised after telling her I was vehemently against it . Has demanded , at all of his physicals , that fiance be tested for STDs . Adopted a 2 monthold dog while working 50 hours a week and burdened the two of us with it . Puts everyone in her life down and then wonders why she ' s alone and no one likes her . She ' s just all around insufferable , and I ' ve learned not to let her corner me into any sort of communication as I ' ll inevitably be insulted in one way or another . which often results in me holing myself up in one room or , if I can muster up the balls to run down to the front door unseen , going to my mom ' s for the day if fiance is gone . Today , instead of having a normal family Thanksgiving , she deliberately ruined it for everyone , laid in her bed all day with the door open not speaking , followed me to the door and death glared me when I went to do Thanksgiving with my own family instead of saying goodbye . I ' m pretty sure she ' s an alien or some shit . Fucking bizarre . Since meeting me fiance has stood up to her and more or less told her to fuck off after my constant and relentless bitching to do so , but isn ' t exactly clamoring to GTFO of here like I am . I ' m willing to put in extra hours on top of my degrees to afford a place and have peace of mind him , not so much . I feel like if it doesn ' t happen soon , I can ' t do this for much longer .