Oooh boy , where do i even begin . Actually I have two stories , one recent and one not so recent . I ' m gonna start with the latter . She ' s actually my second cousin a . k . a . the daughter of my dad ' s cousin and for as long as I ' ve been aware we lived in the same neighborhood our entire lives . As a kid and teenager she was an absolute nightmare to deal with she was snobby , selfcentered , always making sure you knew she was the superior person in some regard . I was pretty much friends with her through familial obligation of some kind . Back in my senior year of high school I went to the theater to view a screening of a live action Death Note movie for a school project . As it turns out her then boyfriend was also something of a closet weeb because we ended up going to the same screening by coincidence except he went with his dad and granddad though we only noticed each other ' s presence like halfway through the movie . We chatted a bit afterwards and parted ways . The next day at school fucking cousin slams into me with the rage of a thousand suns asking me how DARE I try to steal her boyfriend away from her by going to the movies with him . No amount of explaining could manage to calm her down and even her boyfriend made sure to reiterate multiple times that it wasn ' t a date . From that point on not only was I no longer her friend but I was also on her shit list . So that was great . Second , more recent story has to do with a friend I met online ages ago . I used to join roleplaying boards alot back then and he turned out to be not only the admin of one of them but also a mutual friend of a friend . Considering we had very similar tastes in video games and writing we hit it off pretty well . The first four years being close friends with this guy were great , the later five . Not so much . He gradually became very hard to talk with , because either you had to agree with the guy on anything he said or you became some sort of bloody traitor for not having the same opinion and stuff along those lines . Trying to shift the conversation to a topic he didn ' t like resulted in him quickly losing interest and letting you know by . Making animal noises . I shit you not , if he wanted to let you know the conversation was over he ' d pretty much just . moo or meow or some shit . He was also extremely hung up on his ex who ' d pretty much dumped him many years prior and had been shitting all over his feelings the entire time . I stuck by him this entire time because , well , he ' d been cool in the past , maybe it would go back to how it was before if I stuck it out . We didn ' t talk as much as before but if I went past his weird tics he was still relatively okay ? A few months ago he put up his script for a fantasy novel he ' d been working on for years on his facebook , asking any of his remaining friends if they could give him a sincere constructive critique of his life ' s work . I figured it wouldn ' t be too bad considering how passionate he ' d always been with writing so I gave the thing a quick read through . Except it wasn ' t exactly very good . I sent him a private message later along the lines of Hey , so , I read the first part of your script , and I think that X is pretty good , but you seem to focus a lot on Y and I think it would make a better impact on the reader if you did Z instead . and assumed it would go well . It did not . The next day I was blocked from all of his social media accounts and heard from some mutual friends that he ' d posted a dramatic rant about how he ' d been betrayed by me and how I was a horrible and toxic person to him and yadda yadda yadda . Part of me was very confused but I guess I kind of halfexpected something like that too . TLDR Friend 1 was a bitch , thought her boyfriend cheated on her with me because we saw the same movie the same day , became a bully . Friend 2 didn ' t like me being honest or constructive about his book , turned himself into a victim .