My hasn ' t learned strength sap yet . He seems like a stall pokemon and I ' m not really into stall tactics . <| sep |> I would say the best way to achieve subspace is to not be aiming for it aim for having a really good awesome scene , build up your trust bond with someone , and don ' t worry too much about whether subspace happens or not . I find I only hit subspace during really good , intense scenes where I have an emotional connection with my top and I feel really safe to let go and even then it doesn ' t always happen , it depends on what ' s going on in the rest of my life and stuff . So yeah , don ' t aim for subspace , just aim for awesome hot scenes where everyone is happy , and if subspace happens then that ' s cool too .