Hey , don ' t think about it too much . You ' re in your own head about this guy . When my first boyfriend asked me out , I wasn ' t even a little bit attracted to him , not an ounce . And I agreed to date him because I ' d rather have said yes , than say no and regret it later . We ended up dating for almost six years , I grew to likelove him very quickly even though I had a lot of doubts initially . If you feel it ' s wrong , stick with your instincts . But if you ' re just . ambivalent , I say take a chance . You can always break it off if you ' re still not feeling something later on . For me , I needed something that set off an attraction to the people I ' ve dated and sometimes you just don ' t get that for a little while in . Remember to be in the present , in the moment . Worrying and thinking about your past isn ' t going to help you in this situation . It ' s much better to realise what the past taught us , and focus on those lessons instead of what actually happened . No more what if thinking . Think about NOW and what could make you happy NOW . Not what happened in the past , because you give yourself doubts doing that . Remember to take a deep breath , anchor yourself , and don ' t talk to him expecting a relationship . Talk to him expecting a friendship . A friendship can always grow , but if you expect a relationship you tend to put them up on a pedestal and it ' s very hard to come back from that . You ' ve got this .