Great post . To add to this , both Labour and the Tories have their fringes . It ' s within these fringes that agitation for stuff like the Porn ban comes . On the Right it tends to be the social conservatives who want to control what media can show people , so they can filter out anything they find disgusting these people are stuck in the 50 s . On the fringes of Left it tends to be those who think they can use the law to manipulatepunish people who don ' t think like them . For example we can ' t persuade people to stop being racists shits , so we will ban hate speech . The later would never fly in the US for example because of the 1 st amendment there . <| sep |> If you have a SO or someone else that you trust and brings you comfort , I ' ve found that bringing them to the GYN is helpful . When I had my IUD placed , I brought my boyfriend with me and he held me and helped keep me calm . I think it was also eyeopening for him to see that .