I ' m high and I ' m dying . <| sep |> Sorry about the downvotes . Most of the women I know who are collared live lives just as diverse as those who don ' t . Some have high libidos , some have no libido . And while I get that yeah , the title is just a bit of fun , I ' ve known real people who really think that about women who are kinky , and will say so proudly , and treat those women like they have no agency or free will . It ' s shitty . And well , if you were just here to fap , downvoting reader , what the fuck are you doing this far down the comments anyway ? <| sep |> To be honest , I don ' t recall seeing any accounts of an LL man realizing that he ' s hurting his HL partner and turning things up for her . We ' ve seen several examples , including usourcandylightening , where LL women have decided to reinvigorate their marriages and prevented their almostcertain divorces