How so ? I didn ' t think he was relevant to what was going on here . <| sep |> tongue in cheekSee what you did there <| sep |> I witnessed a man pay for a woman ' s shopping cart full of food . She had all the makings for Thanksgiving and 2 small kids with her . She spent 5 minutes counting small bills and coins . She came up $ 20 short and looked like she was going to cry as she told the cashier . The man was actually kind of rude about it and seemed very annoyed about how long she was taking but hey it ' s the thought that counts ? He basically pushed her out of the way to get to the little machine and said , I ' ve got it to the cashier not the customer . The woman tried to give him her money and he wouldn ' t take it . She cried and hugged him . He was still kind of cold to her . It was actually really weird . She kept saying thanks and he almost was blowing her off . She left with her kids and cart full of food . He went about his business and didn ' t even really acknowledge us as we all commented how kind he was . If I hadn ' t seen it I am not sure I would believe it because of his behavior .