On the topic of family members . I refuse to talk to or call my two of my Aunts , my Aunts . My Grandmother died last year , and her intentions were for my Mom to handle the financial details when she passed , knowing that my Mom would be fair to everyone . Well one Aunt didn ' t like this . She wants the money . ALL the money . She uses it under the guise that she wants to help her father Grandmother and the guy were never married , but lived together and had 2 kids , but she just wants the money for herself . She tried to turn half the family against my Mom , making up all kinds of bull shit lies . Like that my Mom was gonna keep all the money , kick the guy out of the house , and then sell the house and keep the money for herself and shit like that . The pathetic thing is that some of them were dumb enough to believe this . Eventually most of them came around , but one of my Aunts still believes that my Mom tried to screw everyone over . She ' s a bit of a drama queen , but still . So they ' ve been conspiring together to try and get all of the money for themselves . I refuse to refer to either of them as my aunts . I just call them by their first names now .