Agreed . I was hoping it ' d at least slow down a little bit , but holy shit , they ' ve doubled down . <| sep |> Coffee , if you are still not sure after meeting her , and you get really good chemistry going , just tell her . you know I really like you , I feel attracted to you , but me being new to this I am worried , you are too perfect . Take it from there . Normally scam wouldn ' t have coffee with you anyways . Whatever you do , do not share your phone number and real identity before face to face meeting . Use throw away email , unsearchable selfies use Google Image search to check . Best defense be broke like most Americans . If somebody tries to blackmail . me ill tell them go ahead tell my wife . And I will go to police and report blackmail you go to prison , and I will be divorced and free to date whoever I want Go ahead , make my day , punk ! !! Finally if you are undertaking adultery route know that no matter what you do , it can always blow up , even if you are MI 8 or CIA spy , lol . There is always risk to be exposed . If you can ' t take it don ' t start .