like that pedo rape case or that 25 million guilty plea ? <| sep |> There ' s a difference between silencing people you disagree with and silencing people that just call you names . If you invite people for open discussion , the former would be hypocritical , the latter wouldn ' t . <| sep |> Everyone on here is saying ' get closure ', ' move on ', ' leave it ' but everybody becomes blind to the amazing things they have in front of them from time to time . We all slip up and we all make stupid mistakes we wish we could take back . It ' s been a month , she ' s probably assessing her options and trying to figure out how she feels . Admittedly she isn ' t going the right way about it but everybody deals with things differently . Give her some space and check back with her in a few weeks , assure you ' re there for her and if she ' s having trouble with things she can speak to you . She might be lost and just needs someone to find her .