Awesome man thanks for the updates ! <| sep |> But it appears to be very hard to know which ones are good and Amazon reviews and often gamed with items like this . I think you can trust the brands that apple has partnered with , but beyond that I am not sure who you can trust . <| sep |> Sometimes on the internet people go to a lot of effort to show a low effort comment is wrong , misguided or whatever . Doesn ' t mean the low effort comment is any better . I mean low effort is basically a euphemism for memeing or shitposting . Saying ' I like the cover but it didn ' t correspond to the story or themes ' is pretty low effort , but a good enough comment . And a comment on a variation of ' DAE ' is pretty much memeing . <| sep |> Trouble is , it ' s not that kidnapping has gone up , we ' re just more aware of it . And even if you think it ' s not the best idea to leave your kid outside , it ' s the sheer venom directed at anyone who does , as if it ' s equivalent to boiling them alive in acid or selling them directly to a brothel or something , that really makes me sad .