Wow , well , he still needs to deal with her . Unfortunately , there ' s not much you can do with those friends , except your BF could reach out to them and express your regret and that you weren ' t told . If you do his mother will feel threatened . It sounds like she ' s trying to pick a fight with you or make you look bad , although , obviously you will hear about it . It ' s best to stay out of it and let your partner deal with their family , and vice versa . <| sep |> Have sex and eat whatever I have in my kitchen . <| sep |> Yeah , this summer was pretty mild . I ' ve lived in the area Davis too for about a decade and I ' m much better adapted to the hot weather than I used to be . I just hate feeling like a prisoner in my apartment during the summer because it ' s 90 . in SF , I can just go outside without adjust my plans to stay inside from like 17 because it ' s too warm outside .