Green Day Jesus of Suburbia <| sep |> it is still morally and legally right to ask Tom for child supportThis is where I disagree with you . Assuming both parties were using protection , it ' s a fair assumption that neither were looking to have a child at the moment . So , when Jane gets pregnant , and decides she wants to keep it , I don ' t think it ' s moral of her to ask Tom for help . She knew he did not want a child , and it isn ' t on him that she decided to change her mind . And if she can ' t have an abortion for personal reasons , I still fail to see why it is Tom ' s moral responsibility to assist her in raising the child . I would say it is moral to ask him to split the cost of the abortion . <| sep |> It stands for The Outer Banks which is a popular vacation area off the coast off North Carolina