They are still considered abilities and summons so Serah would protect Snow . <| sep |> If you don ' t think you ' d wear them then you should sell them . Give other sneakerheads a chance . But if you remember that your kicks are made to be worn not recklessly then you should keep them and wear them . Rock them . They ' re a great shoe . <| sep |> Thanks so much for the great response ! Lots of good advice in there . I guess the core issue I ' m trying to figure out is that I ' ve been told I ' m kind of boring to date . I think this is a product of me trying to be more methodical about dating just getting to know each other , and me being hesitant to make a move . I ' ve been on dates that were planned out and went well and I ' m always genuine and try to have fun , but I guess I don ' t know what to do in a relationship because I haven ' t really been in one . Do you have any advice in terms of how I should approach dating and what kind of mindset I should try to have to help build chemistry ? It seems like girls have such a short attention span these days that if you just be yourself and go on well planned dates it ' s still not enough to keep them interested . Or should I just keep doing what I ' m doing until I find a girl that things work out with ? I haven ' t dated many girls in the last few years but I feel like some of them could have worked out if I was better at building chemistry in early relationships .