It doesn ' t bother me to make me uncomfortable , it only confuses me . I personally am straight and I ' m currently in a relationship with someone , I wouldn ' t have a problem with him identifying with something other than being straight . I know that selfidentifying is difficult and can be confusing , I don ' t want to outright ask . I ' ve tried to ask in simple ways to eventually lead up and he says I ' m just comfortable with my sexuality bro . I don ' t know if he ' s misinterpreting something or if that ' s his genuine way to express feelings . I posted this to get an outsiders opinion on what I should do I now realize that the title should ' ve been different . Sometimes we ' ll be walking together and he ' ll whisper something sexual to me and I ask him to stop , but in a way to make sure I don ' t upset him .