African or European ? <| sep |> Buying vanilla berry and just mixing in a menthol juice is not likely to give you the same flavor . Buying a vanilla mint which is already minty and balanced makes it super easy to just add any kind of berry you wish is whatever concentration . <| sep |> Probably a good heads up to the rest of us that this sorta thing is coming into our countries soon by public law , it might just be a behindthescenes thing . <| sep |> that ' s the most important thing , i think . just giving it time . i mean . I feel a lot better coming out of the relationship now , even after just two months , because I ' ve realized how much that relationship was harmful to me . She was making me feel guilty about literal parts of my personality I felt bad about my sex drive because she was sexrepulsed , I felt bad about my sleeping schedule because she was always mad when I wasn ' t awake when she was , I felt bad about my genuine interests because she was never interested in talking about them and dismissed stuff I cared about all the time . like , I thought I ' d marry this woman . I adored her . She was my world . But after breaking up with her . I ' m realizing I wouldn ' t have been happy anyway . She wanted me to be a caretaker , not a partner . She wanted me to change to suit her needs without even telling me what they were . I was expected to read her mind and meet her needs , instead of meeting her halfway with a conversation . It sucks , but I think at the end of the day , what happened should ' ve happened . It ' s what needed to happen . Better it breaks now than years in the future , when we ' ve gone through all the difficulties to have kids and start a life together . Better it happens before we ' re both stuck and neither of us can be happy . I ' m still in a lot of pain , but the pain is lessening , and things are getting better . I hope things are getting better for you , too . I hope that you ' re healing and moving on , and I hope that you ' ll find someone better for you in the future , someone who is willing to put the work in and keep you in their life as a commitment instead of a fancy . I hope your bad days pass and the good days get long and endless . I hope everything ' s alright . If you need to talk , I ' ll be happy to listen . Anytime .