Much like fighting , writing also requires proper spacing . <| sep |> The take their ethnicityculture above sect let alone religion , and their ethnicityculture isn ' t tied to islam so basically they aren ' t a factor in the equation . <| sep |> My head hurts . <| sep |> Definitely listen to 80 ' s Comedown MachinedPDfaTzBcb 4 , also by the Strokes . If you like the song , listen to the entire Comedown Machine album , since it has that calm and chill tone you ' re looking for . <| sep |> probably a live grateful dead song , so i ' d have an extra half hour of life to sort shit out . <| sep |> Or pattern recgonization . That ' s how I eventually did it , made it easier each time too . <| sep |> Not American but my mom worked as a social worker in the Netherlands . There is a huge circle jerk of what I ' d genuinely would call feminazi ' s in her line of work who believe that the male is always at fault and women cannot commit acts of violence . She ' s had to overrule decisions taken by her coworkers many times who appointed the kids to an abusive mother because he ' s clearly lying , men always lie and women should stick up for each other . Those people worked in child protective services btw . It would go up all the way along the chain until the higher ups , all having this same twisted attitude . They would also not hire anyone who would think different so you would get this organization of delusional women who have the power to take away people ' s children and fuck over people ' s lives . Terrifying . Luckily there are a couple of people working there like my mother , but they are rare and severely outnumbered . My mom told me that in domestic abuse cases she handled a lot of it was from women physically or verbally abusing their men . I feel sorry for you and your situation and we really need to overcome these stigma ' s as a society that women cannot hurt men . It happens a lot and because of how we expect men to be in our society nobody has the guts to speak out . If they do , they will be laughed at and ridiculed .