A QUOTE of $ 635 ? They must be a low margin company . Because that ' s near the standard resale value . At $ 400 this is a great deal . <| sep |> Off a long runup on the break , Bogut actually gets up for some big lobs . But he ' s not explosive , can barely leave the ground of a one or twostep . <| sep |> The evangelicals got their wish . Thousands of years of curiosity and intellectual pursuits rendered null . <| sep |> I agree . But I have found myself using Solid Explorer and mounting Google Drive and my local backup FTP for larger file usage <| sep |> Tell me about what you prefer ? Appreciate the perspective and feedback . <| sep |> I was never worried about my hymen , I figured I probably lost it when trying to figure out tampons . That ' s a great example of how education about this stuff can be helpful . At least in my case , anyway . It helped me knowing about that . For example , If I had a boyfriend that was upset about me not bleeding when he knew I was a virgin , I ' d be like you ' re dumb , I sorry tampons got there before you , woop de frickin doo ! LOL . My boyfriend wasn ' t an asshole , so I didn ' t have to deal with that kind of nonsense from him , but it ' s still good to be prepared since assholes do exist , unfortunately ! Boyfriendgirlfriend roulette . Srsly though , as long as I knew I was a virgin and ' felt ' like a virgin , nothing else mattered . I didn ' t need proof . And I certainly didn ' t need to prove it to my partner . So not bleeding on first time sex doesn ' t have to be a big deal . I ' m pretty sure I didn ' t bleed , but I wasn ' t even thinking about that , now that I think about it . It wasn ' t even a thought for me , except maybe that I ' d have to clean it up like a chore if I did . I guess some ppl put importance on the hymen , but I never felt that way . It ' s not like I could feel like my tampons raped me or something like that . So I wouldn ' t use that as an indication that you did anything bad . Maybe you did maybe you didn ' t , but the only thing I can tell from your details is that you were both playing pretend and accidentally took it a little too far . I hope you both don ' t let one mistake as little kids ruin your whole lives . And remember that you can ' t make someone rape you , or get yourself raped . Just because he wants something from you , like sex , doesn ' t mean he has any right to it after you rescind or retract the previous offer . It ' s okay to change your mind , always . They might not like it , but you not being ready for sex is WAY more important than them getting off . If I go to the ppl asking for donations in front of some store , and say I ' m gonna give them some money , like a $ 20 , but then change my mind at least second . They will get mad of course , LOL , but none of my actions matter if they physically hold me down and take my $. When the cops show up , it would sound pretty stupid when they try to defend themselves as if I owed them that money , somehow , because I showed it to them . Will they say I asked for it ? Did I ask to be attacked by them ? No . They just couldn ' t control themselves . That ' s THEIR problem , not min . People would be upset about them assaulting me in that situation , and that ' s just about money . they should be MORE upset if it was about rape . I hate that people think differently when it ' s about sex , as if it ' s somehow your fault for changing your mind ? ?? It ' s not like you did it on purpose . I understand if they get mad at me for it , but NOT if they rape me . That ' s crossing the line , I mean , clearly , right ? There ' s no question about it being my fault . I ' m not the one who committed a felony crime . I had my reasons for my behavior and I don ' t deserve to be raped , ever . I have every right to change my mind , and I have no problem using the full extent of the law against them , if they treat me like that . It will probably be easier to talk to her the second time . Bringing it up is usually the hardest part . Maybe you will find it easier to talk about it in the context of helping others ? That ' s what I have done a lot , when I have gone through a bad experience , whether it was my mistake or not . Maybe you can help others be more prepared for going through the same or similar thing , or how to not make the same mistakes . Trusting someone really should NOT be considered a ' mistake ' on my part , but there are times that I wish I hadn ' t trusted certain people in my life . I could say that I should have had an alarm system on my friend ' s balcony door , so I would have had time to get out and not get raped , BUT then I also hate the idea that he ' d just go and break in to someone else ' s place and rape them . At least because it was me , I was able to go to the police and get the guy charged and his DNA in the CODIS system still waiting on that , so it ' ll be harder for him to do it again and get away with it . It might sound weird , but I ' m glad he didn ' t rape someone else at least not this time that wouldn ' t be able to handle it psychologically and have it ruin their life completely , like someone that didn ' t have the support that I do . Someone that couldn ' t go to the police , or didn ' t have someone to go with them . I really feel for people like that , it must be hard to deal with it , in that case . I ' m really glad I had my husband there with me to basically support me and take care of the admin stuff and ask questions that I didn ' t think of , due to being socially awkward on top of everything else , LOL .