You need to not look . Seriously . If you dedicate your time towards doing things in order to find women , you will not find any interested in dating someone who ' s incapable of enjoying their own life . Do things you want to do , not with the end goal of meeting women . <| sep |> Good to know . I snagged a WiFi one from Best Buy at $ 149 . I ' ll prob cancel the one I made thru Anova . <| sep |> Not sure how Karthus will fare . <| sep |> Especially weird since contracts aren ' t allowed to be that long . <| sep |> There ' s a lot to unpack here , but my primary doubt has to do with cultural influences which are still pervasive , such as ideas around who the sexual revolution of the 60 ' s really benefited most , how far we ' ve actually gotten even in my lifetime with sexual equality . Also how much men say they want sex and how much they actually want sex when they have access . All these studies still , to my mind , reflect the cultural assumptions about women and men far too much to be objective . The fact that there is such a huge gap in desire and libido between Western cultures and others I think says it all to me , because Western cultures are still FAR from providing safe and equal sexual expectations or playing field for women . There ' s no question that in many ways the sexual experience physically and culturally , is different for women . I wonder to how well those studies addressed that difference in choice of wording and emphasis . As I said above , I ' ve watched attitudes and expectations about women ' s sexuality change so much in 30 years almost a 90 turn from when I was young . I see room for more change in how women ' s sexuality is perceived and understood , and feel certain that what is ostensibly true now will look much less true over time . I probably won ' t live to see how much those perceptions ultimately change if we ever reach a point where the data matches the reality .