Yeah , that ' s some manipulation . He was trying to separate you from your family . It failed , and backfired on him . He ' s trying to explain it away and is doing a shitty job of it . Don ' t take him back . <| sep |> Okay , here ' s the thing . If you go to regular lenders for school laons , you kinda get screwed . If you get government loans , you can get them deferred until you find a job . It ' s not great , but they definitely help accommodate people in need . This misconception that you just get fucked is perpetuated by people that live beyond their means . <| sep |> We suck on 3 rd down <| sep |> Actually , now they think it ' s just you ' re my family , I provide for my family ! because wild clans of cats will bring kills back to the den for anyone that ' s sick , old , nursing , or just had a bad hunting day . If everyone ' s fed , then everyone can contribute to the clan , and they ' ll look after you when you ' re sick , old , nursing , or had a bad day . So my cat will bring me things , shout until I come look like HEY DO YOU WANT THIS ? , I go no thanks mate , I ' m good and since no one needs it , he eats it . You feed them and look after them the cat then thinks that they should look after you , too !