I haven ' t been following the news lately so I don ' t know what ' s up . But ban is used to refer to both temp bans , which expire after some amount of time , and permabans . Unless I ' m the one being wooshed . <| sep |> 300 ds i pulled every gotenks but godtenks TRIGGERED <| sep |> Ive always kind of felt like the power dynamic was in the sbs favor because men are pursuing . I think if money were the bjggest power in the bowl I wouldn ' t get turned down so much . Lol . I know personally I ' ve always felt like the sb had more power because she can walk away or turn me down at the get go . I think there are certain cases where the power dynamic is more in the sbs favor . For one thing , in general , sds are not guys that sbs would date irl . Turn that around and I think many sbs are definately girls sds would want to date irl . Call it the attractiveness gap maybe . The more traditional and long term an arrangement an sd is looking for the less interchangeable sbs become . In a just sex situation , sure , there are lots of attractive women and they may be more interchangeable , thus the SD has more options and maybe more power . But if an SD is looking for a certain feel or a certain comfort level or compatibility , an sb becomes particularly unique in which case the long debated ratio goes out the window . It becomes a matter of I want THIS SB rather than I want AN SB . I think in those cases , the power is definately tilted to the SB . The other factor is that a lot of SDs maybe aren ' t skilled at pursuing women . Either they never were that good at it or they are deadbedroom guys that are way out of practice and less confident than they once were . In those cases I think the power dynamic shifts some to the sb as well . She ' s super attractive and skilled at dating and the guy isn ' t .