Dang that sucks . I was trying to get one more thing . Oh well I guess time to start the story for today . <| sep |> Miky Arroyo 😭 <| sep |> I link it to gender because I ' m 5 for 5 on dudes mansplaining how I need to do my own fucking job later going on to say egregiously sexist , misogynistic shit that REALLY lets me know how they feel about women , and also because I ' ve never had a woman condescend to me about how I make my art in ways that don ' t make sense just for the sake of trying to assert some kind of bullshit intellectual dominance over me . Did I say I was being oppressed ? No . I was trying to explain what mansplaining is using my own personal experiences . It ' s not oppression in the same sense that Jim Crow laws are oppression , however it is absolutely an insult to my intelligence and dignity as a human being , to imply that my gender makes me incapable of doing my own damn work and making the creations I and I alone invented . And when it happens to you over and over again , it wears on you . And now you ' re sitting here telling me that my real life experiences are fictitious . Because , as a man , you obviously know a lot more about the inane everyday bullshit that I and other women are constantly putting up with . And trust me , we put up with FAR more than we ever really talk about openly because who wants to be told that an upsetting , insulting , degrading experience they had was something they just totally made up so they can play the victim for whatever reason like you ' re doing to me right now ?