I used to drink a lot and often to cope socially , but I ' ve been sober since April 2015 now . It had turned into a problem and was only going to get bigger . But I used it for years to mask my social symptoms and passed as an outgoing party girl for a long time . Now that I ' m sober , I mostly just have to leave social events much earlier because it ' s so tiring to stay on without chemical help . Weed makes me more relaxed in social situations but less chatty . I gave that up too , I ' m pretty much an addiction addict so I could see where that was going . <| sep |> WE DON ' T NEED YOUR CHARITY PENALTIES , WE DO IT OURSELVES . DETROIT VS EVERYBODY <| sep |> Thanks for your submission , but it has been removed for the following reason Your question has been asked quite a lot recently . Please search before posting in the future . k a n yesortnewrestrictsrontall next time , don ' t hesitate to be a little bit more specificIf you feel this was in error , or need more clarification , please don ' t hesitate to message the moderators % 2 Fr % 2 FOutOfTheLoop . Thanks .