That was my takeaway , yes . <| sep |> Inb 4 everything is racis damn ! I ' m too late . <| sep |> While attraction can be based on more than just physical appearance , I would not be able to date somebody I wasn ' t attracted to . I also think it would be unfair for both parties to be in that situation . I wouldn ' t want to date somebody I didn ' t want to touchkissotherwise be affectionate with , and I definitely wouldn ' t want to date somebody that didn ' t find me attractive . If you ' re not attracted to him , don ' t date him . And no , it doesn ' t make you shallow . <| sep |> VTI . Stash and forget . <| sep |> I kinda disagree . There are numerous instances throughout all the movies where a witty comment , bit of important info about the Wizarding world , or insightful statement that was made by Ron in the books is given to Hermione . And almost all of the parts where Hermione gets a little annoying in the books are basically cut .