So I drink a lot during boys games . And wake up the next morning not remembering the details . So one time I didn ' t drink during the game and woke up not really remember the details either . So basically . Get your drink on . It doesn ' t matter . <| sep |> I can do this . pm me <| sep |> You got like , 7 times more offended than that guy . <| sep |> Compare the situation with the Frenchspeaking Canadians , no one would claim they are actually French . Good comparison on that side , but then you have groups like RussiaGermans , which are by the government even recognised as ethnic germans . IIRC the finnish minority in Sweden , especially the south would then be the opposite , they are totally assimilated into swedish culture , but are still often thought of as Finns although there really isn ' t any difference ?