I don ' t have an answer for you , but I will say I feel for both of you . I had an experience similar to that once , but it wasn ' t as in depth . I often have dreams that come true and having BPD I have recently started hallucinate and I can feel for your girlfriend . My experience with seeing someone from a dream was somewhat innocent . I dreamt I saw a man in the summer at the edge of a cliff . He had long hair , a black coat , etc . I don ' t exactly remember anything he said to me , just that he was not dressed for being on a cliff in summer . The next day I was out Christmas shopping and saw him in the store passing me . We locked eyes but nothing ever came of it . Edit this was maybe 10 years ago . <| sep |> Yea I just said water and they must ' ve thought that meant bottled . But it came in a glass