Most of those requests are for more than a single person <| sep |> Slow vs fast i 7 ' s then . <| sep |> True . Good call on Fleck . He should be at a P 5 . <| sep |> Being part of a church isn ' t about Sunday service . It is about being a part of ministry and having fellowship with your fellow Christian . It is about spurring each other towards evangelism , helping with missions , and helping the needy together . Abandoning your life for Jesus means you forget about everything you want out of life and instead pursue spreading the Gospel and helping those in need . It really sounds like you need to strengthen your knowledge in the word . Read the Gospels . Read what God did when He walked in the flesh as Jesus , and live your life by what you read .