oh look at the stalker here , throw me your server and we ' ll pay you a visit if you want proof that badly . <| sep |> Yes , preferably under 250 . I am only going to use this laptop for school and work and will be building a desktop for gaming purposes . <| sep |> I am into similar music and you ' ve already offended me since I have tattoos and piercings . Here are two things that are common turnoffs music elitism and criticizing the looks of other women that is to say saying go off the deep end rather than I ' m not into body mods . You are not nearly as special or rare as you think you are . Men say stuff like oh I like really obscure music you wouldn ' t have heard of it and half the time they just talk about The Mars Volta or Opeth when pressed . Here ' s an idea make friends with some of these subculture looking girls and have them introduce you to their plain Jane friends . Dating websites aren ' t the only way to meet girls . But blasting music really loud is going to bother a lot of people even if they like the same music . Moving in together requires compromise . You are also mistaken that everyone thin except you lives at the gym or routinely goes rock climbing . It mostly has to do with genetics , diet , and youth .