Ugh , I can relate . I bled for 66 days straight after getting the BC implant . It killed my sex drive for all the reasons you ' ve listed here . My advice would beoral with a tampon in for you on the days with less bleeding , lube up and do what you canIf I were you , I wouldn ' t go sexless for the duration of this issue . Sex issues in a relationship are horrible , difficult to resolve , can come on quickly , and people ' s emotions about it just aren ' t rational . If you could even manage to have sex once weekly until it ' s all over , I think that will do far less or no damage than if you do nothing . This may not be a popular opinion , but coming from a dead bedroom , my advice would be don ' t go down that road , don ' t go anywhere near that road .