The premium on physical beauty appears to be increasing . Cosmetic surgery is becoming even more commonplace , not just among women but men , too . Gym membership sales are climbing . Appearance is not everything but it is yuuuge . Especially for guys who aren ' t doing well romantically the confidence you have when you look good bleeds out into other spheres of your life and helps tremendously . Also , what makes you so certain you are not projecting a perspective where looks aren ' t very important on to everyone else ? <| sep |> Exactly . How do they do it ? <| sep |> your first cycle should be short with detergent . The first cycle gets the poop and pee out of the diaper , you can do it by hand but you still need detergent . the second cycle main wash is cleaning the diaper . without the first short wash you ' re washing diapers with poopy water . bulking your second wash with baby clothes , wash cloths hand towels etc is recommended for ultimate agitation . if you ' re on FB I highly suggest becoming a member of Fluff Love CD Science . The admins of the site will help you perfect your wash routine .