I see you halfass everything with the way you ' ve asked this . READ THE FUCKING FORUM to find the exact answer to your question . READ THE FUCKING MATERIAL until you can answer this question for yourself . <| sep |> It ' s fine , she ' s just like us ! Didn ' t you see the pictures of her war service , or her dogs ? <| sep |> Ahah hai ragione ! E pensa che quando l ' hanno beccato saltato fuori che era un ex dipendente licenziato qualche anno prima perch beccato a rubare in pizzeria D <| sep |> Gaslighting manipulating someone through psychological means to question their sanity . He is telling her how she should and shouldn ' t feel . He wants her to question what she really feels when she ' s the expert on how she feels . Not him . How is this not gaslighting ?