I call kidneys . <| sep |> Kids should defend themselves , and they should do so understanding that there will be consequences . It ' s actually a great lesson in doing what ' s right even when it ' s inconvenient . The schools are not wrong to punish kids who fight . Since the teacher has no way of knowing who started it , they ' re left with the choice of punishing no one or punishing both children . It just depends which one of those you prefer . Sorry , our world did not come equipped with fairness or easy solutions . The faster kids learn that the better . <| sep |> This system would work well in almost all ranked online games . Have the leaver take 80 % of the teams combined point loss and give everyone else 20 % split among them . A 2 strike a month system is all you would need to prevent legitimate disconnects because we all have internet issues from time to time . I also would like to have a system where afkspartial afks take more of the teams combined point loss if they spend a certain amount of the match away . An example would be that any overall time above 2 minutes in spawn would progressively take an additional percentage up to 80 % afk for 100 % of the match