Yeah , I read it . What exactly would I have kept pushing ? <| sep |> It is a bit weird . You feel this thing entering you , and it feels wrong , because things don ' t normally go that direction . 1 Wash everything . 2 Use lots of lube . 3 Go slow . 4 You shouldn ' t feel pain . I would suggest for your first time , get hard and hold the base of your cock tight . get the lube all over the head of your cock and the sound . Insert the first inch or so of the sound and then let gravity do the work . Just let it sink in by itself your hand is to keep it from slipping too far . After you do it a few times , you won ' t worry about that too much . If you go with something too big , there will be a lot of resistance about an inch or so inside . If you have that , try something a bit thinner . Also , I got my sounding kit on Amazon for like $ 30 . It comes with all kinds of sizes and each is dual sided . My wife sometimes uses the larger ones as anal dildos for herself . So , you shouldwill feel a little discomfort , but if you feel pain , stop what you are doing . Like to sounding kit on sale for $ 20 right now ! Look back on my history to see it in action .