Wasn ' t talking about resetting , but good pickup , I forgot to mention it . In my regular squad I always have the Thermite running suppressed 5 . 7 . Just for DBNOing <| sep |> Oh I would love to focus on being friends first but they never feel the same . and trust me , I ' ve tried that but its the guys who never want to be friends with me first . I tell them that I want to get to know them first as a friend , as a person , before pursuing a relationship and by next week I never hear from them again . You ' d think I was asking them to buy me the world or something . I ' ve just came to the conclusion that guys simply do not care to know me as a person and if I allowed it to progress outside what I ' m comfortable with friendly relationship first romantic relationship later , they definitely wouldn ' t care about me as a person but definitely would use me .