the human species originated in Africa <| sep |> Not studying abroad . I wanted to save money , but now I ' m tied down to a job and a significant other . It makes traveling harder and truly immersing myself in a new culture impossible . <| sep |> Being a gay male , meeting a random guy from a hookup app and getting sexually assaulted by that stranger in a hotel room sounds like something that is bound to happen , so I have never shared my story with anyone but here it goes . 3 years ago , I chatting up with this guy from a hookup app and we were both getting horny from the chats , so he decided to get a room in a hotel where we would meet up and do the deed . I show up outside the room sometime later , knock on the door and the person that opens it , is not him . I apologize , thinking I made an error but he held on to my hand and said no it ' s me his name , please come in , I was so angry that I got catfished and he looked nothing like the picture he sent me but didn ' t wish to create a scene , so I got in the room just to be nice . I had mentally made a note to leave in 5 mins saying I am not interested but conversations started going on and he started touching me . I was not comfortable but let him do the touching and before I know it I was naked and so was he . I told him I don ' t do anal , he said that ' s okay and we proceeded to kiss and he started going down on me and I told him firmly NO but he kept on going , then he got on top of me to kiss me and I wasn ' t feeling it and wanted to leave , so i told him to stop but he just wouldn ' t and kept on kissing me and overpowered me . I felt his cock touching my sphincter and I tried to wrestle him away but he was strong and kept on trying to get inside me . I felt a sharp pain and his cock was slightly inside me . I kind of screamed and managed to get him off me . I wore my clothes in a hurry and left immediately . After I got home , I kept on blaming myself and felt depressed for days . It was only after a month or so I decided to stop blaming myself . If you firmly and seriously say NO and someone keeps on going , it is a sexual assault ! !