Honestly , there are cliques . At least in my experience . There are those who won ' t talk to any gay guy who isn ' t a sixthree fratboy who spends every night working on their biceps and abs and there are those who will call you a straight wanna be if you aren ' t wearing short shorts and a pink tank top . Then there ' s me , and the gay people whose company I enjoy , who don ' t give a rat ' s ass what you look like , or if you have the limpwrist , so long as your personality isn ' t the equivalent of a tirefactory fire . <| sep |> Id also be interested . shoot me a PM if you haven ' t decided on anything yet . <| sep |> I dont see how shes ignoring him though ? Im just getting that they dont have sex that often 24 times a month and she told about her crush from decades ago . If she was ignoring him maybe but it sounds like without adding anything she has a low libido and told a story about her liking another guy from decades ago . Interjecting that she ignores him seems a reach .