I have the same issue and as of now I ' ve just accepted that sex with partners is mostly a mental arousal and something I do for intimacy rather than the physical pleasure . It ' s ok for me because I can still make myself orgasm and I still have fun with partners as well . I just had to get around the idea that sex has to mean orgasm or intense physical feelings . Sex isn ' t just that , it ' s also being close to someone else and being open and vulnerable . It ' s a connection . <| sep |> No to all of you , nobody should have to do that job P <| sep |> I think I am going to take this one . My degree is in Biophysics . <| sep |> Now you should complete the collection those who want to know , I took the picture before the release of Sun and Moon . I have Sun but will get moon later