Your cheating husband called you a needy bitch ? Seriously ? Talk to a lawyer to know what divorce would look like . He ' s treating you with contempt and disrespect and you deserve , as you even say , to be given love and time and attention . From your husband who promised to give that to only you . <| sep |> Honesty is always respected by me . I don ' t quite agree with the whole deserving of them part , but I do agree that I simply don ' t have the time it takes to fully train one anymore . Maybe I was in the wrong , but last time I checked up on him , my last dog is living life fantastically with the new owner . Got a farm house to run around on and kids to play with . All around improvement over my apartment and walks on cement every few days . I wouldn ' t be so concerned about things being ruined , but much of the stuff that is easily destroyed is electronics equipment that I simply can ' t afford to replace anymore . On the plus side , my cat is a raging psychopath but doesn ' t chew on things .