Why would you think that wasting my time isn ' t going to cost you money ? If you order a burger at a restaurant and then decide you ' d rather eat pasta , why should you have to pay for both ? . actually in this situation they would probably pay nothing at all . They would just scream for a manager , complain and get their meal for free complete with apology or future discount coupon . Head on over to tales from retail . sorry , can ' t figure out how to do links on mobile . <| sep |> That was my inspiration for making this <| sep |> Lol sorry , I didn ' t mean to suggest that you should transition so you can get into our sub ! Yeah , we ' re all damaged but there are some definite differences in the kinds of damage . It ' s a topic I hope we ' ll be talking about more together , eventually , as well as among our genderclans .