An old therapist of mine had a saying ' the older they are , the sicker they are '. When people have had an unhealthy viewpoint for so long , it ' s really hard for them to change . I ' m sorry you ' re struggling and feeling isolated . The election was rough for so many of us , myself included . FreeOppression is right you are strong . You also have the right to not have to talk about it if you don ' t want to . You ' re not a child anymore and you have the rights of any adult to another adult even a parent . <| sep |> Me ? Rhapoir loves me I talk to him a lot , and souc can probs vouch <| sep |> Yet strangely comfortable for every else . <| sep |> Try reaching out to the folks in The Invincible Czars . They can probably hook you up with some local bands . tsOr Math Patrol ts