Also , with the way he talks , I doubt his idea of the proper psychiatric care resembles actual proper psychiatric care . People who are determined to push the mental illness angle generally think the solution is to cure people of being trans . <| sep |> If it makes you feel better , I ' m in a similar boat . My boyfriend and I broke up on mutual terms after 6 years . Although It was mutual it still hurt though so I told my friends not to post pics of me and stuff so that I wasn ' t all over his Facebook wall and I stayed away from his work and everything . But he didn ' t give two shits about my feelings and posted pics of him and this other girl like daily and then he talked to his friends about our break up and one of them turned it into a rumor that we broke up because I cheated on him twice . so not only do I have heart break I have a shit reputation . hang in there bud it will get better !