You clearly haven ' t had sex with a guy who makes you give him a blowjob , thinks roughly grabbing boobs and stuffing his fingers in your vagina a couple of times which hurts , btw is sufficient foreplay for you , and then gets on top of you and is done in 20 seconds , proceeding to roll over and go to sleep . Yes , some onenight stands are that bad , and trying to redirect these guys ' attention to things you do like either gets ignored or means they get all huffy all the 100 other girls I ' ve been with like it this way ! . I ' m just saying , there ' s a reason I learned to be picky . <| sep |> You know what the 3 . 5 floppies are . That doesn ' t make you a data expert . That just makes you old you and me both . <| sep |> She sighs , feeling as if she had just screwed up .