AKA Slim meets fat <| sep |> Your kid will like you sometimes , and they will hate you sometimes . You won ' t like them all the time either . You will screw up . Your parenting skills will be sub par , whether they are or not . You might have to live with less . But as long as there is love , everyone will turn out fine . Love is the most important thing . All else is secondary . <| sep |> If any of you have athletics you may be able to grapple him a lot easier than hitting him because grappling is an opposed athletics roll . Then if you can knock him prone and get the three of you to pile on him he should go down . Hold person and heat metal could be good choices as well and should be difficult for the fighter to resist . Fog cloud should protect you from ranged attacks without hampering your party too much everyone in the cloud is attacking with advantage and disadvantage so it ' s all cancelled out except for the druid who can gain blind sense via wild shape