I feel like the title of the sub is just a little bit too aggressive . <| sep |> She ' s got a stalker so I ' d prefer to keep her identity hidden on here in case he ' s lurking . And I ' d rather her family not find her on here either . I will say though that , speaking objectively here , she is very pretty and has natural lips that most women would have to get thousands of dollars of cosmetic surgery to come close to . I might get a pic of just her lips to put somewhere on here . <| sep |> You really need to talk to your girlfriend about your gender identity . I know it ' s hard , but you can ' t build a successful and healthy relationship when you are bottling up and withholding something so important . You can spin lies about just not wanting PIV sex as much as you want , but if you really want to take this relationship forward you need to be able to open a line of communication . It ' s not fair to intentionally mislead people in regards to sexualitygender . If she ' s receptive , great ! There ' s tons of ways for you to pleasure each other without causing dysphoria for you .