I don ' t think it ' s so much that you have to praise and support everything women do , or that you can ' t criticize women when they do shitty or obnoxious thing . I don ' t even necessarily think what you said was definitely girl hate , but I will say the phrase narcissistic princesses rubbed me the wrong way . It just reminds me of something one of those wah why won ' t girls date me dudes say about women . Like there ' s this understanding by men ' s rights and other misogynistic movements that women , especially young women , are just narcissistic bitches who care about nothing other than their looks , and are too stuck up to give most men the time of day . And seeing a generalization made to this sub , warranted or not , definitely triggered a similar response in me warranted or not . So I ' m assuming that ' s where the critique of your comment came from .