Don ' t have to . It ' s already there . America <| sep |> Thanks for posting this , Jeans . The video twice mentioned she weighs 52 stone which converts to 728 lbs . What the fuck . You better get yo life . <| sep |> Women are not necessarily turned off by the car , but because of your attitude about the car . If your attitude is I ' m so sorry I ' m driving this embarrassing minivan then she reads those signals intuitively and gets turned off . If , however , your attitude is I got this sweet minivan , it lets me carry all my tools , and lets me be the hero when my friends get too drunk to drive at the bar , and I can speed because cops look for sports cars instead of mommobiles then her attitude will be much better . In short , own it and be confident .