Your house or apartment . Your car . A friend ' s house or apartment . A friend ' s car . <| sep |> Yeah , I really liked him . Definitely understood both him and Trevor wanting to start somewhere else . <| sep |> I ' m here for reasons that are specific to India . I think you ' re right though and it ' s not going to be easy . <| sep |> I see a lot of people talking about not falling for someone else , I say why not ? Because if you ' re willing to fall for someone else , at that point the relationshipmarriage is already over . Essentially you drag the other person along as a safety net until you find the person you want to replace them with . Which isn ' t very fair at all . Open relationships only work if you ' re still 100 % committed to your partner . If you ' re not . it ' s just opening a fissure that ' s going to destroy everything eventually .