was the attendance really low that they choose this route ? <| sep |> Drunk driving . It ' s willful endangerment of everyone around you , for the sake of convenience . If you ' re willing to end someones life just so you can save a couple minutes , or not have to take the bus home , or save $ 20 . You don ' t deserve my empathy . <| sep |> I don ' t think it ' s selfish to expect someone to never fuck anyone else . I don ' t expect people to turn off their sexual thoughts about anyone else , because your thoughts are your business , and you can ' t really control that , but you can control your actions . And to me , there ' s no reason you should have to go outside the relationship for sex . If your partner just isn ' t doing it for you , either try to work on the problem , or break up and find someone more compatible . Or , only date people who are into open relationships . But sleeping around behind someone ' s back is super shitty .