I ' m in two minds about this sort of thing . On the one hand , my job is a bit like this . On the other hand , I got kind of annoyed when I saw a newspaper article on this kind of thing by a supposedly feminist entrepreneur , which makes me wonder about intersectional issues . <| sep |> Am I the only one that thinks kliff at OC would be amazing for LSU <| sep |> Thank you . This poem has resonated with me . Thanks for sharing <| sep |> But does it actually work well with Japanese cuisine ? <| sep |> she pats his shoulder and goes to get a drink <| sep |> We ' re a 3 hour drive from my folks and a 5 hour flight from his parents . This is our second Xmas together . Last year we did Xmas with my family , because we were both unemployed and it was cheap at the time we were in the same city as my folks . We just flew cross country for his sister ' s wedding . We can ' t afford a second trip out so soon , so we ' ll do Xmas with my family again . Next year , we ' ll spend it with his family . We decided that in 2019 , we ' re staying home . We will open our home to any family that wants to come to us but we ' re not traveling and I refuse to travel once we have kids . That is my hard and fast rule I don ' t care if it upsets either family , I ' m not hauling my kids across the country because of traditions . So far everyone seems on board with it , but we ' ll see how it goes in reality . I suspect my parents will come up every year , but his family won ' t be able to afford it .