No it ' s because the website he is shilling in these videos has refused to cooperate with us on any level and would choose to spam in order to gain visibility . <| sep |> It actually looks pretty badass with all the tpa ' s . The lack of kaede in my box makes it sound way better <| sep |> THE ONLY THING HIGH ENERGY ABOUT HIM IS HIS ZEALOUS PEDO SPERM SWALLOWING . <| sep |> And it ' s got access to the DOM , too . <| sep |> How long have you been with your boyfriend ? I wouldn ' t worry about how you appear to his family friends . They invited you through his mother , so it ' s totally fine to decline the invitation through his mother as well . After all , they are her family friends , not yours . And not having the time or resources when you are a graduate student is a completely understandable excuse that does not look badly on you . Your boyfriend is right that the real problem is that his mother did not pass on the invitation . Whether she did that with malicious intent is dependent on how long you ' ve been together .