So he only literally bought the farm . <| sep |> kemberwarriorIt would if it were not pacified . Uncover your eye and close them . I will reapply the spell . Again , I warn you not to look at your own . If you see it move into your peripherals , close your eyes immediately . <| sep |> Personally , there are a lot of things they are not paying for in each situation that I think they should be contributing to . These includeReasonable rent costs . Why are the SOs of the children being subsidized so much ? Maintenance costswork do they help fix things ? Do they clean ? Shovel snow ? Pitch in for large repairs ? Buy replacement things like light bulbs ? Without this , they might never learn how much it really costs to live alone . Daycarebabysitting for the kid it ' s possible your stepson is having people help him take care of his kid or will when the gf goes back to work . This is extremely valuable . There are many other things of course , like internet , hydro , etc . The one concern I have is that people living at home are not aware of the full cost they would pay elsewhere , so they are not budgeting properly and likely not saving enough for if or when they move out . I understand some cities are very expensive . However , I lived in downtown Toronto on an extremely low budget , so it is definitely possible if any of the kids are making more than minimum wage . For those with two incomes , I think it ' s a but ridiculous that they are still living at home . I couldn ' t imagine living in my bf ' s parents place indefinitely , especially at 32 and especially with a child . And I ' m part of this boomerang generation , apparently .