Saw how it all circles around the Imperial Palace and had to check if this as imaginary maps or not . Oh yeah , Japan . <| sep |> Is this his way of saying that he doesn ' t want to do those things anymore ? We can ' t know this , but this is something you definitely need to discuss with him there ' s lots to talk about . Would he want marriagekids if you were the primary breadwinner ? Would you ? Is he still keen on a teaching job , and just in a bit of a rut , or has he gone off the idea permanently ? I think it ' s fair to bring all of this up as a ' Where do we want to be in 2 years ' conversation . If he just needs some reassurance , you can try and see if he ' ll get back to vigorously job hunting . Otherwise , you ' ll have to consider whether your ambitions are compatible .