yes it is happening . in my experience , only the insecure gay guys would have problems with this , cause obviously they don ' t wanna be lumped with us , the bad gays . haha . but stay true to yourself though . honestly as a fem guy , i believe i have a social responsibility towards all the younger fem gay guys who are still questioning their identity and sexuality , who might look up at me as their role model . so we must strive to become the role model , especially in this funny age for gay people , where the world seems more accepting towards LGBT ppl , but somehow there is an inside discrimination and pressure for us to conform more to become accepted and therefore lose our identity . this might sound like a joke but you will understand as you get older . so stay fabulous !