Nice , I went from 27 to halfway to 29 because of this event <| sep |> Who is after your louxy charms ? How do you go about picking stories for the podcast ? Will you marry me ? <| sep |> I got Slip <| sep |> About 3 years ago I was super shy especially around girls and could barely hold a conversation with a stranger or people I barely knew . What did the trick for me were 3 points 1 Fake it till you make it . It might sound stupid , but if you behave like you are super confident and outgoing even if you just happen to fake it you actually start feeling more confident . It takes some time and might be akward sometimes but this actually helps . 2 Hang around people who are confident Some of my close friends are super confindent with girls , so when I started spending more time with them I also started emulating their behavior , which led to success with a lot of women . 3 Working out As some other posters already mentioned , getting into shape helped massively . People will treat you differently if you are somewhat attractive . Quality in life improved massively , got myself a girlfriend , lots of good friends and a well payed job .