Really , because I ' m getting 3050 k for similar mission <| sep |> I would suggest you take the dog and leave . Your husband sounds like a bomb waiting to go off . But if you can ' t do that . Find the dog a good home . It sounds like you love the dog and take care of it , and that ' s great . But it also sounds like it ' s a lot for you to do by yourself . If he refuses to help train the dog and take care of it , and then tops it off by hitting the dog , then the dog needs to go to a home where everyone will love it and take care of it . He is a horrible dog owner and shouldn ' t have a dog . <| sep |> Well , if you can clearly see the goal from where you are , you don ' t need to have your hand on the wall . <| sep |> Thank you very much ! ! I used to use Oilatum ! I don ' t know why I completely forgot about that ! I will look into DDML as well . Edit DDML has lanolin alcohol which is one of my absolutely not ingredients I forgot to mention it in my original post .