I am one of them , as recently ATT bought DirecTV , and I was calling DirecTV . I did not have poor service , but they had to transfer me several times , which resulted in a long time in several holds . But the workers for me were professional and helpful . <| sep |> Grandfather is the one who actually said , you won ' t forgive my son uncle so I can ' t forgive you ! You ' re all dead to me ! . So DH wouldn ' t go for that . Also , grandfather would tell me to fuck off because it wouldn ' t be fair to JJ . I ' ve kind of realized from this sub that everything that JJ did , he enabled . Same with uncle doing the terrible things he did . He ' s just as bad as them , just nicer . He has a special place in my heart because I do have memories with him that are amazing and I ' ll miss him when he ' s gone honestly he ' s the only one I miss now but if I talk to him , I have to talk to them all .