I say 8 . 5 . . Beautiful inches of cock <| sep |> Well , for starters , I was the driven ambitious one and he wasn ' t . He was more comfortable and complacent , didn ' t care if he was earning way below the average salary , still living with his parents and he ' s in his early 30 ' s . We were married for 3 years , and a year after our wedding I got a really good job offer in another country a few hours ' flight away and he didn ' t want me to take the job because he wasn ' t willing to move past his comfort zone and what made it worse was that he wasn ' t willing to move out from his parents ' house he was 31 , are you kidding me . So now that we ' re no longer married , I got another job offer in another foreign country which I took in a heartbeat . And I now no longer had to use my money to support his family ' s spending spree . Secondly , he was utterly insecure . Always think that I ' d go cheat on him I did not cheat on him at all in our entire marriagerelationship . Checked my phone at one point . So now the difference is I don ' t have his paranoia hanging over me anymore . It ' s hard to be in a marriage where you have to keep reassuring your spouse . Thirdly , his brother was a dick . The meanest , most negative dick I ' ve ever met . Would throw mini passiveaggressive tantrums just for the heck of it . Mind you , he ' s 2 years older than my ex . Should be more mature but he ' s the total opposite of mature . His mom would always want everything to be done her way . So now the difference is I don ' t have to deal with his dysfunctional family anymore . Good Lord I have no idea why I married in him in the first place . For the wrong reasons , I guess . However , being married isn ' t all bad . You ' ll always have a shoulder to cry on , talk to , etc . What ' s your story ? I ' m equally as curious .