I paid my roommate and he paid me right back . It was in quick succession , which is what raised an alarm with Venmo . I should have asked him to wait it out and pay me at a later date . <| sep |> Oh right . Yes they do . <| sep |> Well , while I know for a fact that more guys other than her boyfriend like her for the asshole she is , the only reason I know that for certain is because one of those guys is me . So you can imagine that it makes things awkward . her words . Or more generally Someone will love you for the asshole you are . in talking to me and C about the whole dating thing in general . <| sep |> That proves nothing in this context . Also , sjw ' s are definitely not the only group to do that , and it ' s ignorant to imply that .