But you miss half the show that way ! <| sep |> This is nuts <| sep |> Yea , I guess that ' s kind of where I stand . Should I have cut her off as well ? I don ' t think I went overboard . I expressed to him how I felt about them leaving . Over 20 years we have said much worse to each other . I do agree friends are so valuable , and of course I ' m leaving out a lot to the story , but he manipulated me and lied to me like no one ever has . If she wasn ' t family , it would be no question . I just don ' t have many people left close to my age in my family . <| sep |> It ' s a long shot but I ' ve had some really awesome housemates in the past . Some of them have sucked though , I can definitely relate . Good luck ! If we had an extra room right now I ' d offer it up !