I wish I hadn ' t read this . As a woman , it ' s really depressing . Scary even . <| sep |> I apologize for that , it wasn ' t meant as rudeness but bluntness . You do seem terminally offended , still bitching about things that happened to you in high school . I understand it ' s probably still fresh for you but as you age the sting of that will subside and be a distant memory but you have to let go of it . Most of us can sympathize one way or another with being treated shitty when we were in school , we ' re forced to deal with those types at that time but when we become adults and can make our own way we generally learn how to avoid people like that . But I ' ve found most who are bullies in school change as they age as well . I ' ve met people who I remember as dicks while in school but they seem to have become rather decent adults . It ' s probably the hive mindset in high school as much as anything . I also believe you are misjudging many here as well . Just look at all the gay pride flairs displayed here . We don ' t bully , you ' re safe here from that sort of harassment . I promise that if someone here attacks you for being gay they will be the ones getting put in their place and most likely banned . I just believe if you cast off things that happened in your past and don ' t believe the things said about the people here you ' ll see we aren ' t the bad people we have been portrayed to be . Hell , I ' m Native American so I could be offended at a lot of things said here but I know it ' s just attempts at having fun . They don ' t mean nothing by it . True , some people go overboard and I tend to agree with you about the cuck thing , and there will be some that are indeed outright assholes , that ' s just the way of the internet and I ' ve never found a site of any size that doesn ' t have the same problem . Most of us will be quick to tell you we have a lot of liberal views , hell , I voted for Obama twice , Trump was in fact the first GOP vote I cast for POTUS in over 20 years . All I would suggest is you open your mind towards us a bit and not judge so hard . You might find we all agree on much more than we disagree with . I think the first thing you ' d need to do is get over the language . Realize , we all are a product of our environment so these words don ' t bother some the way they do others . I worked construction most of my life and come from a blue collar working class poor side of town . I think that helped insulate me to what people say . That said , I will be the first to call out overt racism or bigotry , many other here will as well .