You can ' t recruit 18 armies at the start of the game , I was referring to that . <| sep |> A blind trust means you don ' t know what you ' re invested in . He would no longer know if he has any ownership in TO properties . <| sep |> Son , make sure to masturbate before making an important decision . <| sep |> I ' ve been very fortunate with eschewing the ' protocol ' of dating with the right women . That said , I ' ve also gotten stuck in the formulaic trap as well . Generally , I tend to be very turned off by the latter and it ends up affecting the relationship negatively . As a 37 year old man , my place in the dating world is very different from yours . It would be helpful to know where you are meeting women and what your profiles say about you , as that may provide context for what women are seeing in you , from their perspective . To me , it ' s all about being clear with your goals . That means knowing what you want before the first date and laying that out in your profile and having the relationship talk early into the relationship . It can be uncomfortable , but I find that it keeps things ' real ' from the start and no one has to guess where things are headed .