Thanks for the info and the downvote . Have an upvote , mate . <| sep |> Yup . It ' s tough . Are you out to him ? If you aren ' t maybe confide to him as a friend and if there is a small chance he ' s gay or bi maybe he ' ll make a move on you haha . But if he already knows then I doubt there ' s any chance . You got distract yourself and transfer that crush on to someone you can have a shot with ! Also , I almost joined a frat . Is there actually gay hookups when guys get drunk ? Maybe I watch too much porn . I have heard stories from another friend though . God damn the ' how to seduce a straight guy ' porn subgenre for screwing with all of us ! Haha . <| sep |> The trick is to inhale loudly when you smile . It shows your excitement .