I see you are playing nut deck . Let me tell you about weed spray . <| sep |> Something similar happened to me . He ' d occasionally talked with his ex or about his ex . Even when I ' d asked him to be honest about it his feelings for her he ' d deny everything . Deep down J suspected there were unresolved feelings Anyways that experience messed me up a little and it took a while for me to get over it . But at least now I know to not get emotionally invested in guys with exes still in the picture . <| sep |> Not a body language tip per se . But this thought process will really put you at ease Only a tormented person seeks to torment others . A person who is doing well and who is at ease will never feel the need to put somebody else down . Their actions are reflecting their own insecurities . So , my advise would be to play it cool up to a certain limit . Then show them who ' s boss .