Wow ! Little Thibs can ' t coach a team in the 2 nd half and this KITTEN doesn ' t show TRUE leadership ! Sad ! <| sep |> Does he have ADD ? I ask becuase my fiance forgets to lock the front door all the time , despite saying he tries . He also forgets other things . Your bfs behavior sounds similar to my fiances . Basically , I had to pick my battles . Some things I had to insist he figure out how to not forget , others I let slide . For example , It seems like he does better with her later in the day . Maybe you can come to an agreement where you take all responsibilty for morning duties , including food and water , and he takes all responsibility for either afternoon duties if he is at home including a lot of exercise or after work duties . Maybe he just isn ' t a morning person ? Trust me , I know how frusterating this is . But your resentment will grow and it will hurt the relationship a lot . You have to find a way to work with him or you may as well leave because you won ' t respect him at all eventually .