I wouldn ' t say they work harder than everyone , but yeah totes . <| sep |> The assumption that my beauty routine has anything to do with anybody but me . I love makeup because applying it relaxes me and it ' s a creative , customizable , confidence building hobby . I don ' t care if you hate lipstick . I wear heels because they make me feel powerful . I also wear contacts for myself and I wear perfume for myself and I style my hair for myself . I think the whole Oh you obviously work on your appearance I hate that thing is both childish and gross . They sometimes think it ' s a compliment to walk up to someone and offer their opinion . Men have actually walked up to me I work in customer service to say they don ' t like my often odd lipstick . I never fucking asked . Or a guy will be flirting with me and say You know you don ' t NEED makeup . Girs would look better without all that and I feel my eggs dry up .