He has been so far which is why I ' m not being very vocal with my dissatisfaction . But Romney to me is a joke , so we will see . <| sep |> I ' d be happy to do this trade I ' d appreciate a quickposting of the Wonder Card and then I ' ll message you the code pretrade . I ' ll add your FC . Edit Registered ! <| sep |> What I took away from this was you want guys to be themselves , unless being themselves happened to be unattractive according to your standards . I enjoy listening to girls talk about their accomplishments , does that make me superficial ? Or does that only apply to women who listen to guys talk about their accomplishments ? Relationships aren ' t a battlefield , as much as tv wants to portray them that way . It ' s pretty likely that a guy is talking about himself because he might not be as socially adept as you . If I ' m on a date and I ' m making a mistake , the last thing I ' d want is my date to sit there like some diva reveling in my arrogance . A man who is egotistical is annoying but if you tell him he ' s been doing nothing but talk about himself and the oh shit face comes on , maybe he isn ' t as inferior as you think . Maybe he was waiting for you to join in . We ' re not going to presume and start with insightful questions right off the bat . We don ' t know you . But we do know ourselves . So we start by letting you know us . The way I see it , maybe the guys who like talking about themselves took the first step . Someone who isn ' t egotistical would switch their attention to you if you put in a modicum of effort to join in and talk about yourself upon hearing a parallel between you and him . I don ' t know you or your dates . But if my date was doing something annoying or unfavorable I ' d let her know before judging . I ' m at least capable of lowering my chair on the same level as everyone else .