She giggles , wrinkling her nose at him again . But what he ' s said does make her pause . . oh god . codenames . <| sep |> I used to just smile nod deflect . Now I ' m 600 miles from family . almost miss the family chaos . Almost . <| sep |> Did you at least cough all over the place settings and the food ? That ' s offensive to my nevermo senses . Whether that is male privilege at work or just being fucking rude and insensitive , your husband requires a come to Jesus meeting . I believe that you need to nonverbally communicate with his ass . Let him know that there will be little domestic peace and harmony until he starts valuing you more . <| sep |> 1136 Renowned Explorers International Society For me , probably Sid Meier ' s Alpha Centauri really Bryan Reynolds should be the name there . Looking back on it now , I ' m not sure that I can indicate why in an effective manner in the abstract . The story was really wellintegrated into the game , coming in in a great mix of flavor text , game events and game mechanics . It also exposed me to some really neat random bits of philosophy , history , and scifi materials . It also helped that I was at a more easily influenced age at the time , I expect .