Gintama , APplanet . comanimegintama , , , TV Status Finished Airing Episodes 201 Genres Action , Comedy , SciFi , manga , LN truetitletext Pouty Smug <| sep |> That ' s messed up man . You dont know his story . Plenty of people have family andor elders they have to take care of , or a home that ' s been in the family for generations , or simply dont have the money and are in debt . They are people too . S ' pretty insensitive and very presumptuous . <| sep |> Break up , move out into a cheaper place with roommates . Sounds like you need professional help , honestly , probably both of you . You cant just string him along in an empty relationship , that ' s just mean and torturous . If he wont accept the money , then don ' t bother with it anymore , staying with him , pretending to be on his side is way way worse than not paying him back the money . Because being in a healthy relationship is a big commitment and you are doing more damage to him mentally , physically , emotionally . He will never get back the time you are wasting , stringing him along just so you can feel good about paying him back .