As probably the only guy posting here this is my take . When receiving head , I often feel a bit awkward as I ' m just not doing much . I try to make sounds to encourage , but they are always somewhat forced . I try to fondle or stroke her hair , but its awkward reaching and i feel touching her is just getting in the way . And this would still be ok if not that its quite difficult to make me cum , especially from head although i do find the idea of it quite hot . I just feel bad that they are working hard to get me off , and i ' m there doing basically nothing while knowing in the back of my head that i might just not cum . As for giving it I have had mixed experiences , If im working away and not much is happening , i might not get much satisfaction from it but i feel i can at least move on after a bit and just treat it as foreplay . but when it is working , there is so much satisfaction in knowing how bad you are getting your partner off , you ' re right in her legs as they squeeze , tighten and squirm in the throws of an orgasm , and you have a front row seat .