I used to have a neighbor that would hit on my wife . He would say the most awkward things right in front of his own wife , like she is so much better of a cook than you . at least she goes to the gym to stay in shape . and if she were my wife I know I ' d give her everything she wanted . One day he told me he was thinking about divorcing his wife , in my head I was thinking ' no shit . ' That was a few years ago though , and I am pretty sure they are still together . He constantly downtalked her and said positive things about other women not just my wife . Honestly I felt bad for his kids . <| sep |> Mine look exactly like that . <| sep |> Well sure of course . Is it like a serious role play kinda deal or is it just casual ?