I know , right ? ?<| sep |> Who ' s to say he won ' t invite them to testify before congress in a HUACstyle hearing ? Who ' s to say Trump won ' t pass a law requiring all horses to be painted pink ? The difference between what I ' m complaining about and what you ' re complaining about is my shit actually happened . When Trump convenes a HUAC , then I ' ll complain about it . The SJWs have acted in this role when they don ' t even have power . They ' re like roving bands of judges looking for things to be offended about . <| sep |> Josephine ! Violence should always be a last resort , if it can be done without or by having to go through ridiculous old traditions , so be it , but violence is not the first and only tool <| sep |> you ' ll be so displeased with yourself later if you drink , dont do it . you ' re stronger than that . congrats on nearing six years . I ' m probably not the best at advice , but what I would do in your situation is , first , wait a while . see if your feelings sort themselves out . it ' s still fresh and raw , maybe it ' s a knot your mind will sort out , gently , over a few daysa week . if you ' re still frazzled and upset after that . I would tell her . In the kindest , least upset , apologeticforsnooping way possible . maybe bluff and say you were turned on by the idea of her doing dirty things that you didnt know she was into ? maybe dont take this advice if you think she ' d be really upset at you for snooping ? I ' m of the mind that everyone snoops a little bit , and that it ' s a relationship misdemeanor , not a relationshipenderas for the lack of sex in general , I dont know how to help . do you think it might be a temporary pause on your sex life during this stressful period for her ? will her work get less stressful in the foreseeable future ?