And is riddled with bugs and hasn ' t even released . <| sep |> They won a bunch of awards from a community that hates Republicans ? I ' m shocked . <| sep |> Is there a cheap amp you can recommend ? <| sep |> You should divorce your husband , but not for the reasons you think . The cheating , the feelings for another man , the feeling ignored and taken advantage of all of that is just symptoms of the real problem . You married a man that you ' re not sexually attracted to . So every time he has sex with you , you don ' t really want it . You ' re not into it . Your subconscious is screaming at you not to , and by sheer force of will , you ' re ignoring your repulsion and forcing yourself to do it . Even though this isn ' t legally rape , your psyche processes this type of encounter as a rape . Over and over again . It damages you inside . When a woman is really sexually attracted to a man , enjoying sex is easy . And she loves everything about him . Even his flaws . She thinks they ' re cute . She ' ll do anything for him and feel great satisfaction at having such an awesome man in her bed . When a woman isn ' t sexually attracted to a man , he can do no right in her eyes . Everything about him is annoying . She hates the sound of his voice , the way he moves , finds the things he talks about boring and stupid , shrinks away at his touch , and finds his kind words and loveydovey acts smothering and needy . She ' d love all of that behavior if it were coming from a man she lusted for . Everything your husband does that feels like he ' s selfish , taking without giving , and a real ass would be things that you ' d immediately forgive if a man that you were sexually attracted to did them . On the flip side , if your husband were a kind , generous guy who was doing all of the housework and childcare for you and making a million bucks a year to boot , you ' d still hate his guts because this one time he didn ' t wipe down the kitchen counter after making the kids cereal and you had to do it . It ' s not what he does or doesn ' t do for you . It ' s the fact that you married a guy you don ' t want to fuck . When there ' s no sexual attraction there , everything he does is seen in the worst light possible in your subconscious mind . Even the good things . And the bad things are magnified tenfold . And that ' s why he cheated . Because sex with a woman who actually wants to have sex with him is nightandday better than anything the two of you have ever done . And that ' s why you have feelings for another man . Because feeling any attraction at all is so different from what you have currently that your mind attaches extreme emotional significance to the slightest whiff of lust .