You don ' t want your husband to take an amazing and in my opinion , exciting job because you are going to have to move ? You guys are still young it ' s normal to have even a few moves before you settle . Hell , I moved about five times between the ages of 6 and 13 . And just because you will be further away doesn ' t mean family can ' t come visit ? Or that you can ' t visit them ? I dunno , I think you ' re making a mountain out of a mole hill . It ' s really not as big of a deal as you ' re making it IMO . <| sep |> I ' ve been twice . It ' s fine . <| sep |> Try ' Yes Man '<| sep |> Exactly ! I ' ve been saying this for years . She doesn ' t come from a family who has a mandate of heaven nor does she have a divine right to rule . You see very early on that she comes from a farm and returns to a farm at the end .