This is what leads to a lot of the niceguysasshole beliefs . The most simple answer is when you don ' t care very much about the girl , you end up looking more confident and less dependent , which in turn is more attractive to a woman . When you ' re trying too hard to please it ' s very easy to come off as desperate , clingy etc . <| sep |> It was so awful to watch on TV I can ' t imagine what it was like to be there in person . I actually watched the whole game because I couldn ' t look away . I just couldn ' t believe what I was seeing , even after I kept seeing it over and over and over . <| sep |> FOR THE 34 TH TIME ! <| sep |> So articles from may explain why it ' s all that was being talked about in Augest , September and October before Comey ' s bullshit ? No it doesn ' t at all