Thanks , but what Kid Cudi Song do you mean ? <| sep |> Can we talk about how Gambino ' s new record isn ' t out yet . could easily be top 10 if it sounds anything like the first two singles . Please tell me someone agrees with me here ? <| sep |> when i was 14 i was one of those really o u t s p o kenunapologeticpassionate type kids . spent a lot of time reading and arguing about lgbtq related stuff . told a few of my friends about my sexuality . some were cool with it , some straight up told me ' no that isn ' t possible ' and so on so forth . got a lot of mixed reactions . i don ' t know where , but i just changed midway . stopped talking about it . in fact , i began to feel super insecure about my identity and tried my best to avoid the topic whenever it came up . i think most of my friends forgot about it like , they probably thought it was a phase or whatever . current situation barely ever talk about it , cringe whenever the topic of discussion veers anywhere near it , don ' t correct friends when they talk about my romantic preferences and generally stay on the dl about it . i don ' t really feel a need to come out . i don ' t want to and my familymost of my friends wouldn ' t be cool with it so whatever . it would be nice for people to stop assuming that i ' m straight but i ' m not interested in any drama or conversation about it with people i know irl . the concept of ' coming out ' is very heteronormative formally announcing your sexuality . don ' t get me wrong , i understand why it exists but . i ' m not really down with it . as i said , still not very comfortable with my sexuality so that might have something to do with it . you don ' t have to come out . you can do it on your own time . it ' s a continuous process and it ' s something you should feel comfortable with . don ' t worry about it too much . it ' s as casual or as major as you make it out to be and either way , that ' s okay .