I never think about the fact that I ' m incel until something happens to throw it in my face . It ' s usually people around me asking if I ' m marriedhave kidshave a girlfriend . It ' s also never a woe is me , I ' m incel type of feeling it ' s always a dammit how do I end this conversation and escape with as little embarrassment as possible type of feeling . This happens way too often . I was once waiting for a job interview the girl beside me was making small talk , asked me if I had a girlfriend , I said no and before I could end the small talk or steer it back to being about the interview she then asks me when was the last time I had a girlfriend . what . the fuck . who asks that ? <| sep |> It happens to me too all the time running ethernet at 160 mbps with open nat . It ' s their bunk ass servers I never get error codes either