This is not the time and place for crying about sexual abuse . You have to remember that sexual abuse isn ' t just a crime , it is also a power phrase socially . This can be both a good and bad thing , depending , but you will often find people reacting this way in the gray areas to protect the sanctity of the words . As an example , a conversation about what does and doesn ' t count as a sport can bring a similar dynamic . <| sep |> I ' m saying you don ' t even need to break the system for this . It ' s an option in the settings . <| sep |> Just want to point out that I wasn ' t speaking of all potheads generally . It ' s the attitude that some of the lazy ones have , that contemptible arrogance that they have it all figured out and your a slave for being part of normal society . As a heavy youth smoker , my circle broke down generally into to groups people who like to get high and enjoy themselves , and people who could only enjoy themselves when they got high . Category one is full of careerists with houses and families and retirement accounts . Category 2 are just bitter lazy hippies