I can ' t see it . <| sep |> the real lobo ! <| sep |> When did I ever say it was fake ? <| sep |> People tried that years ago . Smith pushes them behind for singles all day . <| sep |> It gets complicated when children are involved . If you just leave , you are looking at a huge costly custody battle 23 years and tens of thousands of dollars just to be able to be in thier life half the time . And that ' s considered a victory for men . The sad truth today is that a man ' s relationship with their children is dependent on their relationship with the mother , and it is very easy for women to claim abuse with very little risk or accountability involved . Worst case scenario , they get 5050 placement . But if their cries of wolf are headed they now have complete control of the children and will leverage that power to bend the dad to their will . If you don ' t do what they say , when the say it , exactly the way they said it , then you do not get to see your children . Not all mothers behave this way , obviously , but they are all able to , should they choose , and the only reason they don ' twouldn ' t is out of respect for the father or fatherchild relationship , which just reinforces the point that a father ' s relationship with their children is dependent on their relationship with the child ' s mother .