From what I heard they were only supposed to be transferable between unofficial servers . I read this from the dev tracker and have no way of testing it personally . But it should not be transferable between officials . <| sep |> 1 . Your opening point is pretty obvious so there ' s not much to add . 2 . Unless you understand that people are fundamentally going to act in their own selfinterest , dating and rejection will be hard . What does anyone want ? What ' s best for them and you want what ' s best for you . You ask the right question halfway through and it ' s not chauvinism . What does this person have that ' s meaningful to me ? . Is it their looks ? Their personality , wealth , educationoccupation ? Whenever I try to date someone the single question in my mind is will I still want this person when we ' re older , fatter , and less attractive ? What will give my relationship with this person value ? It ' s a question many of us fail to ask or devote much time figuring out . So we start relationships on the wrong basis bases Only to watch them crumble when the poorly chosen foundation starts to lose its allure . 3 . I ' m not sure what you mean by yesnomaybe .