And in the interest of hiding my Chika icon , what resource would you recommend for doing these alterations ? <| sep |> Considering that Julianne has reached the point of nearimmobility isn ' t she on oxygen also ? , their fear is completely justified . It has to be brutally painful to watch a family member destroy themself . How could you not speak up ? You can ' t legitimately dismiss family being concerned with your health as concern trolling like you can with strangers though HAESFA certainly try , because there is no trolling to it . It is straight up concern for a family member . Unwanted as it might be , it does come from a place of real concern . Excepting those of us who have narcissists for family members , who you just have to dismiss on a case by case basis .