It ' s your fellow fanboys that have been screaming that Ramsey ' s best position is where Ozil is playing , lol . It all started circulating a lot last season . Before that point , I have never even envisioned Ramsey as a CAM , nor have I seen him play that position . <| sep |> Don ' t put abuse in quotes . Emotional abuse is still abuse , maybe even more so because it can impact your behavior for life . She is emotionally and physically abusing both you and your father . I agree with the comments that you should try again to report it to the police and the school . If you have any trusted friends , tell their parents and show them any marks or scars . Take pictures of any cuts or bruises . If you think it would be safe for you to do so , see if you can leave your phone recording when she is yelling at you or harming you , even if it ' s in a pocket or drawer . The audio alone should help you get an adult on your side . Stress to any adults you tell that you don ' t feel safe and that any action they take while you are still under her care will be violent . Stress that she is also abusing your father , who has a cognitive disability . You know that this will be the reaction because it has happened before . If you talk to someone at school , ask if more than one adult can be present a counselor and a teacher or principal at the same time so that it isn ' t one adult acting in a vacuum without any checks on their actions . Don ' t wait do it right away , before she gets into your head and makes you think you ' re not capable . Do not downplay what has been done to you in the past as just her OCD or not so bad abuse . This is NOT how a parent or wife should treat their child and spouse . You did nothing to deserve it . This is not your fault . There is so such thing as a little abuse , and you deserve the right to live without fear and pain . Love and strength to you .