Putting my own needs and happiness before others . Not saying that I ' ve become a completely selfish individual but certainly I won ' t do anything that ' s going to impact my mental health negatively if I can possibly avoid it . <| sep |> did you see the Andy Grammar stuff at the Lions game . At least the stage was red . <| sep |> Sure . but by that metric you could say that anyone without children shouldn ' t have a say over education policy etc . We all make decisions at the polls for society as a whole . How will my vote affect my parents ? My siblings ? My friends ? Etc etc . The idea that expat voters would want to make life unliveable in Canada is weird . Many expats want to move back eventually . <| sep |> ya so u fall asleep faster