No problem , OP ! I can totally understand why this has made you anxious . This got way out of hand and really ugly . I hope you have a wonderful holiday and continue being a strong and kickass woman ! <| sep |> Ugh . This is why I am waiting to have another dog until I have a yard . Apartment life when your owner is gone 10 hours a day isn ' t fair for anyone and I can ' t afford dropping one off at doggie day care or having someone come by to walk a pup every day . <| sep |> Tell them about the man in the shirt that might give them some closure <| sep |> Thank you for being positive . I was hoping to get some thoughtful discussion but everyone just mashes that downvote button or calls me dumb . <| sep |> Well he is awful . I would suggest you check out the movies I listed . They ' re all great .