IIRC I read somewhere that the more space a person takes up , the more confident they appear . maybe this explains why I secretly kinda like man spreadingalso I kinda man spread sometimes but I ' m a woman ? It ' s just . comfy idk . <| sep |> You ' re still conflating the harassing behaviour with the broader issue of speech . <| sep |> Not saying he can control that . But something in his rhetoric sure is appealing to them <| sep |> But you also can ' t do things that don ' t give you sexual pleasure . Like handshakes . And it ' s possible a posek would allow a gay man hugging other men . There ' s genuinely a variety of possible answers . <| sep |> The Shawinigan Handshake . a classic at Canadian holidays . I mean , you can think what you want of the guy , but he ran a pretty tight budget and held office for what ? ~~ 13 ~~ 10 years ? EDIT Looked up my former prime minister , 10 years not 13 .