I ' m betting on Barcelona vs . Bayern . <| sep |> Tu sais que les gens qui demandent l ' galit salariale demandent pas une augmentation pour les femmes Ah bon ? yourmoneytowomenitssimple 284 <| sep |> An interesting Essay on the NiceGuyTM phenomenon . Warning Long Essay . Radicalizing the Romancelesstheromanceless . Barry is possibly the most feminist man who has ever existed , palpably exudes respect for women , and this is wellknown in every circle feminists frequent . He is reduced to apophatic complaints about how sad he is that he doesn ' t think he ' ll ever have a real romantic relationship . Henry has four domestic violence charges against him by his four exwives and is cheating on his current wife with one of those exwives . And as soon as he gets out of the psychiatric hospital where he was committed for violent behavior against women and maybe serves the jail sentence he has pending for said behavior , he is going to find another girlfriend approximately instantaneously . And this seems unfair . I don ' t know how to put the basic insight behind niceguyhood any clearer than that . There are a lot of statistics backing up the point , but the statistics only corroborate the obvious intuitive insight that this seems unfair . And suppose , in the depths of your Forever Alone misery , you make the mistake of asking why things are so unfair . Well , then Jezebel says you are a lonely dickwad who believes in a perverse socialsexual contract that promises access to women ' s bodies . XOJane says you are an adult baby who will go into a school or a gym or another space heavily populated by women and open fire . Feminspire just says you are an arrogant , egotistical , selfish douche bag . And the manosphere says Excellent question , we ' ve actually been wondering that ourselves , why don ' t you come over here and sit down with us and hear some of our convincingsounding answers , which , incidentally , will also help solve your personal problems ? And feminists still insist the only reason anyone ever joins the manosphere is distress of the privileged ! I do not think men should be entitled to sex , I do not think women should be blamed for men not having sex , I do not think anyone owes sex to anyone else , I do not think women are idiots who don ' t know what ' s good for them , I do not think anybody has the right to take it into their own hands to correct this unsettling trend singlehandedly . But when you deny everything and abuse anyone who brings it up , you cede this issue to people who sometimes do think all of these things . And then you have no right to be surprised when all the most frequently offered answers are super toxic .