This shit , as someone wearing glasses i can say i wouldn ' t have reacted different . You ' ll get yelled at , probably with shit like how can you hit a woman but ever heard of don ' t hit someone wearing glasses in the face ? So why would i have to behave like a gentlemen if the other person is being a total asshole . <| sep |> Maybe there ' s some worklike activity to schedule into the hoildays ? I know I shouldn ' t even be suggesting such things , but I know people who just schedule each day of their holidays like they ' re work , and that gets them through . If you do get a chance to try meditation , facing the snakes is scary as hell , but often nothing bad happens and they get less and less scary until you realize most of them have just been earthworms all along . Maybe other things can do this too . For me I used to think that video games can do this , but I now realize they were just another escape vehicle , not the weapon of mass snake destruction that I wanted .