In fairness it won ' t be drinkable rather soon . <| sep |> Paypal is annoying because they like to do the conversion themselves , but for websites that charge you in USD get a credit card that doesn ' t charge foreign transaction fees . <| sep |> So all your neighborhoods busy bodies will know everything ! Long live VPN ! <| sep |> Hey there . I see these posts here on rdatingadvice now and again , and a lot of the time posters feel they need to get tough with the OP , and they ' ll be pretty harsh with their criticism without even knowing you . Anyway , I have no advice , because you don ' t need advice from a guy who is a decade older with the same problem , but I want to say two things 1 . Success with women has nothing to do with quality as a person . People will say that you need to improve yourself . What they mean is make yourself more attractive . And sometimes it might help with women . But you are already a good enough person to deserve love and companionship . Women don ' t have mystical powers to see who is good and who isn ' t . If they did , why would so many terrible men have had so much success with women ? 2 . You have to be kind to yourself . That ' s easy to say , but hard as fuck to do . But too many people out there are going to be unkind to you and act like you deserve what you get . Everyone deserves to be loved . Take care .