Should I feel bad now for lusting after a 14 year old Mila ? <| sep |> My smokey joe doesnt get enough airflow . i leave the lid crackedslightly offset and make sure the vent holes are completley clear . If i make sure its getting enough air it works great ! <| sep |> I also do this . <| sep |> You boyfriend sounds a bit like me and the same age . Was money tight in his family throughout his childhood ? It was for me , and it has made me obsessively financially responsible . I am constantly offered credit cards but choose to live a cash only life , because I ' m more comfortable that way . I ' m also realistic that however good things may seem , there are no guarantees in relationships , or even marriages . I want to protect against any future possibilities . I will probably keep my own property and savings account even when I ' m married . People are different .