They forgot their asses at home <| sep |> we need to get out on the streets <| sep |> Hmm maybe ! I personally haven ' t had a problem but ymmv . I like to moisturize right after I cleanse , or else my skin will feel tight and dry . <| sep |> she says that I should date aroundI dont get the conundrum . The mantra is spin plates . <| sep |> I ' m not really sure what his thing is . He welcomed me in the most sweet way , and our first date and the second one was really nice he made dinner and made me feel cared for . Things guys do for people they care about , you know or so I thought . I never had a guy cook for me on the first date or rub my back on the second . However , this Saturday when I spent the day at his place , there was one of his girl friends and we were all talking about stuff and touched the subject of Tinder and dating , and he said that dating is pretty much a free market you give something and get something , and to paraphrase his words I massage you you blow me , I cook for you you get kinky with me , I eat your pussy you blah blah . he said that to his friend , I was just chilling and coping with weed , but listened carefully . So it made me think that it was purely his gaming style , of course he picked me because he liked me , but then it made me a bit sad because , fuck , I would have gotten intimate with him , why do those mind games that make me think he could be serious about us . But getting to know him , it seems he doesn ' t like the idea of attacking , yet inviting the girl by prepping her nicely when it comes to seduction and interaction . Not that I ' m complaining I ' ve had some hot encounters yet this once made me feel something awesome on many levels . It ' s just that now I can ' t tell whether he has feelings , or not , that indication sign of feelings is pretty much spent on early seduction in his case . Also , he texted every day basically . It was small and nice , usually to ask me about my day . I text daily only people I see daily or think about and want to keep in touch with , not hookups or people I might or might not see . I can ' t say there ' s much difference for other human beings . But after my the talk debacle he got a bit distant , two nonconsecutive days of no contact , so I ' m not sure what to think . It ' s confusing . Your comment does make sense , because I got a vibe he liked me for example , on the first date he said Maybe I ' m too high , but . how do I put this . ever since I was a kid I knew I could read people , I could see a person and see their entire internal lives . I have a gut feeling you have the same power . I hope it ' s not yet another shit compliment to make me suck him , that would be cruel . Also , this Saturday , while we were talking on Tinder and his friend and I talked about some creepy guys we met there , I said well you can sense on a gut level if somebody ' s a creep sometimes and he said So , I passed the test ? with a smile now , I think it was only a joke , you know , a semi selfdeprecating