Should have listened to your dad . My dad doesnt talk to some of our family , i asked why . Now i avoid them aswell . <| sep |> She handled this very , very , poorly , but it could be she ' s emotionally overwhelmed at dealing with her alcoholic brother and took all that shit out on you because she can ' t handle both men in her life having emotional issues either from alcoholism or anxiety . She probably wanted you to come back and when you didn ' t she lost it . Really though ? She called you a pussy and berated you for something you cannot control because she was upset at her brother . I wouldn ' t stay with someone who put me down like that . I don ' t think you fucked up , but really should look into getting help for your anxiety if you ' re not already , at least you might learn some coping tools for being around angry people . Like removing yourself from the situation before things get bad for your emotional tolerance , you know ?