Your a dad aren ' t you ? <| sep |> I keep forgetting Hayes was a President . Out of all Presidents , he ' s always overlooked for me . Most likely because nobody ever talks about him or have any memorable dedications to him . He did things but it ' s like a smart kid that works hard but nobody picks him for student awards . <| sep |> The best time to plant a tree was 20 years ago . The second best time is now . <| sep |> I thankfully didn ' t have any problems before birth but I did also have a second degree tear that as to be stitched up . I was so scared of tearing beforehand but it was absolutely fine . I didn ' t have any issues during recovery at all and everything is fine 19 months later . I ' m pregnant with number two now , no issues with it so far this pregnancy . I just wanted to add my positive story . Tearing isn ' t always as scary as it sounds .