That is a solid idea . <| sep |> Why not ? Because of the Eco system of it ? <| sep |> Why are you using Rain still ? You really don ' t have anyone better ? <| sep |> If somebody uploads Arrival 2016 movie soundtracks , I will be extremely grateful . <| sep |> Ok , so then why is it ok for a woman ' s experience to invalidate the experiences of men ? We get told to get raped too . We get called all kinds of horrible names to . In this case in particular , the insult has a very different meaning . while rape towards men is definitely a thing , and also terrible . It ' s much less common . something like 1 out of 45 women get sexually assaulted . and pretty much every woman gets harassed in some way . It ' s something that is a legitimate and concerning fear for many women . For men , the fear is less real . Its much less likely to happen . every time a man brings up being attacked , he gets told to ' grow a thicker skin ' or to ' man up '? While its very tricky to show , a lot of the people telling men to man up are the same people who contribute to women being harmed and berated . Toxic masculinity is toxic to women and men , in different ways . You shouldn ' t feel hated for being a man , just as you shouldn ' t feel hated for being a woman . But currently , women are pretty much getting shit on more . Less than 100 years ago women could not vote . we ' ve never had a woman president , the ratio of womanmen in MANY industries is skewed massively topwards men . This isn ' t to say that all men are terrible monsters , but that those of us who aren ' t , and want everyone to be equal , need to recognize the inherent legup we have . From lawmakers to judges , etc etcLook , I get you . I ' m a cis white dude . I ' privileged af . I recognize that , and sometimes its frustrating to see my problems treated as lesser by some people . But in so many cases , it is exactly the opposite . women get assaulted , harmed , and in a lot of cases it is treated as much less . The rape case recently by that swimmer , . for example . Women being groped or harassed at work . As a man I fear being assaulted for a lot of reasons , but not for my gender . women do . and they feel like they will not be protected or taken seriously even if they do come out . because that has been the case for so long .