Everything you just said agrees that the titans need balancing <| sep |> Are there synths similar to the MS 20 mini relatively cheap , knob per function , semi modular ? I love the MS 20 m layout but I ' m not a huge fan of the oscillators and filters . Not looking to dive into modular yet either . <| sep |> Baby steps . Baby steps . She is the what you are the how . She decided what is going to happen , you decided how it will flow . Tell your wife you ' re willing , but you are going to need to ease into . You have to explore getting pleasure from her pleasure . You have to really delve into what it would be like to praise her and accept her for her sexuality . It ' s about her desires , so the man shouldn ' t matter as much as long as he respects her . Anyways good luck