To make this clear , he says that he didn ' t step away from taking responsibility for the baby , but the girl simply wants to have an abortion . This is what I said . He never said at any point that he wasn ' t ready for a baby . It is the girl that wants this and he ' s just going along with it and with what everyone else is advising him . Any day above ground is a good day . If you give someone the chance to live , they can surely overcome adversity . That ' s what most people do . Fight against adversity . But how would we know if we don ' t give that being the chance ? And again , I have a strong suspicion that this is all made up by the girl . But whatever , everything I say is BS according to you , so there ' s no more point in keep arguing if we can ' t even understand each other .