Do you know what a feasibility paper is ? <| sep |> I feel ya I get about 500 kbps <| sep |> That ' s the more common use in the UK at least . The referring of specific colleges of uni is only really relevant if you go to a university where it mattes , like Oxbridge level ones <| sep |> If it ' s intentionally bad it doesn ' t belong here . <| sep |> Today was just a day fading into another and that can ' t be what a life is for Counting CrowsSounds like me a long time ago in another city . Being an introvert and being not very good at making friends , I kind of expected that moving out to my own apartment amidst plenty of opportunities would jump start my social life . It didn ' t . In retrospect it was a silly idea . After a while I realized I really needed to get out more . I like my personal time but it got really boring at times . I basically forced myself to step outside that front door . Instead of faking being busy , I said yes more often when I was invited for something . I signed up for some stuff group travel , courses , . , even if it meant going in alone and meeting complete strangers . 90 % of people there were strangers to each other anyway . Granted , it took a lot of time and energy to push myself to do those things and I didn ' t always do it and it didn ' t always work , but when it did I actually liked it . And I always had my safe cocoon to return to . Today I ' m still the introvert who likes his time alone and my social skills are still only slightly above those of a thermonuclear device . I still need to push myself sometimes but less often . However , in the meantime I have made new friends , got better at interacting with people and actually like it , found the love of my life , and just feel a lot better than I used to . Today I initiated small talk in the office elevator with a stranger a young man who seemed a little nervous . Turns out he was applying for an internship at some company in our building . I actually surprised myself there . You do not have to be a hermit but there ' s no silver bullet . I ' ve never been to a gym so I don ' t know if being sweaty and out of breath helps meeting new people . Maybe you can try to muster up the energy to tag along on social events with people you know . Or sign up for a 2 week trip with 10 strangers . Or something in between