Bought a pair of Marquise eyelets from Anatometal for my ears in 2 18 Needless to say i spent quite a lot and havent been able to wear them lately since punching out my conches . Will def be wearing them though again a lot and plan to buy more plugs from Anatometal . But for now they are my most expensive pieces <| sep |> I ' m so sorry . Please don ' t drink . She needs you and doesn ' t want the version of you that alcohol brings out . She also doesn ' t need the added burden of thinking that this led you back to drinking . I know I would add that to the list of crap I ' d pile on myself in her position . She needs you present and I hope you can do that for her . I will not drink with you today and you both are added to my thoughts . Please keep us updated no matter the outcome , we are better prepared to deal with the universe ' s blows if we stay sober .