tfw i made the joke yesterday already and unorskefaen is just a karmawhore <| sep |> Neurological problems are permanent and unchangeable without treatment , and there is no treatment that changes one ' s sexual orientation . <| sep |> This is great advice . I recently developed a crush on a friends husband and if THAT ' S not something to get rid of , then idk what is . I have no real idea WHAT I even find so apealing about him but it ' s definitely something . Eventually I came to the realization that he ' s just someone I like for some reason , right along with dozens of other people in the past . I try not to think of him too much and encourage the crush , and it ' s starting to go away . <| sep |> It ' s the downside of a capitalistic system , where everyone has to rely on them self . Even when it comes to curing your mind , which admittedly is hard for some . Best tip I can give to that guy in particular , read a book and not just any book , but one with meaning . Examples Koran , bible , philosophy , books that can give meaning or reason to life , or where you explore your mind to discover potential irrational thoughtsexpectations . Source terrible youth , had to rediscover the world and myself , did it through philosophy .