Ugh , I ' m glad I took off the whole week and drove to Fort Worth on Saturday . I think I ' ll take the back roads back on Sunday . <| sep |> I find that its best after a breakup with someone to burn any bridges you have with them if possible . Let yur emotion out that one last time and block and erase anyway you know how to contact them . Its never really good in my experience to try to get back together with someone or think you can talk them into it etc . if they dump you make sure you get rid of them completely and vice versa . Its why i think ghosting or breaking up with someone is so stupid . <| sep |> Doesn ' t really take much . I have an apartment with access to outside and I ' ve refinished my kitchen table and painted some chairs . Just work with what you got . Bought some second hand power tools and whatnot and the scraps were free