Early onset balding and compensation . I ' m not taking a dig for the record it ' s entirely reasonable . Also shaving your head tends to make people look younger so they ' re doing exactly what you ' re ideal is , or at least trying to look their age . <| sep |> The table was meant to break which it did and absorb the energy from their fall which it did not . <| sep |> A good start might be gratitude therapy or meditation . There are some books and blogs about this as well . Travel might help . Especially to somewhere that has a lot of poverty . Not to make you feel bad or ashamed for your very fortunate circumstance but it might make you want to use your good fortunes more productively when you return you might want to do political activism , write , volunteer , etc . It ' s often when we shift away from the goal of finding a mate that our mate shows up and introduces themselves to us then we smile and say ' Where have you been ! I ' ve been looking for you ! '