Worked fine for OP <| sep |> There ' s two already , that myself and some shitlord linked <| sep |> My daughter is 8 and struggles with bed wetting . I ' ve been very adamant about explaining to her that it ' s in no way her fault , she has absolutely zero control over what her body does while she is asleep . It was really important to me that she knew we weren ' t mad at her or disappointed with her at all . I know it ' s helped at least a little with her embarrassment about it , but it was clear she was disappointed with herself anyway . We tried many different things to stop the bed wetting limiting fluids 2 hours and even longer before bed , waking up and taking her to the bathroom in the middle of the night this was not the best plan because we would pick her up , sit her on the potty , she would pee , go back to sleep , and the next day she had ZERO recollection of it ever happening . I brought it up with our pediatrician a number of times and he insisted she would grow out of it . He did run some hormone tests , but they came back fine . We used pullups for the longest time because honestly it was easier on all of us . I felt like I was failing my kid by doing that , like I was doing her a disservice . It was an ongoing conversation with me asking her what she was comfortable doing and letting her know we were willing to keep trying things to get her through it . No judgement . Here ' s what changed the game . We had a baby in August . Becoming a big sister has been such a positive experience for her . She came to me and said she was ready to be done with pull ups , partly because it bothered her that she still wore diapers like the new baby . And partly because she was just soooo over it . She suggested setting an alarm in the middle of the night so she could wake up and use the bathroom we had tried this previously but she didn ' t do well with broken up sleep . It ' s been 3 months and she ' s had one accident and it was after a long day and she was sleeping way too hard to hear her alarm . I ' m really sorry your parents treated you like that . I ' ve explained to my girl that i know she would happily never wet the bed again if she could . It ' s just not always that easy . It ' s not her fault . And hearing how your parents handled it with you made me incredibly sad . I ' m just rambling here , and I guess I don ' t have a point . It sucks you were treated that way , so maybe hearing that other parents do understand will be of some comfort to you .