It says desperately , not depressingly . My guess is the author of the quote meant despairingly sad or something . <| sep |> up the punx <| sep |> I ' m looking for fun and friendly hook ups with the potential for something on going yet not too serious . I ' d like to explore and share new intimacies with safe and sane partners . I ' m open to falling in lust with new friends in a nopressure , safe environment for mutual enjoyment . From my reply just above . <| sep |> Give me the rough time of it and I ' ll do it . <| sep |> Visit . Yeah , don ' t do that . <| sep |> As a Hokies fan it really kills me to watch Kendall fuller be so awful . Let ' s hope for a big second year jump . <| sep |> I think some people are more prone to experience it , and I ' m probably one of those people . I don ' t know about training , but I think perhaps you can learn to recognize the precursor feelings and let yourself relax into the experience . It also helps to explore and find out what sorts of stimuli trigger ASMR for you . I made a post about ASMR on backstage that describes it in some detail , and also posted links to some videos on youtube meant to help people explore triggers . Other people also replied with their experiences . I hope that helps .