Well considering I had dropped like 2000 $ already and was expecting some team playing I was hoping I ' d get more then the boot and as far as I remember I had my car payment set up for the Wednesday after the trip not then it was a mistake that was a surprise none the less , 450 $ isn ' t just a little . I never expected her to be a meal ticket this things were offered to me not asked for , I was completely content working my way into affording to move but the offer was there so why not take it . I love how you have managed to place 100 % blame for her rash decision on my shoulders . I make good money and I saved for this trip . I ' m not looking for handout initially pride had me refuse the offer but when they persisted I put the last month into planning , got a transfer with my work , made arrangement with my roommates , found a doctor in Atlanta . Keep on thinking I am a bum I don ' t need you support