I ' ve never seen it over there , and I was shocked at how often this sub talks about it when I first got here . TBH , I go through phases on which I like more . I won ' t lie , it has a lot to do with which team is better . I still love them both , though . <| sep |> Sounds like you have that innocent , undamaged , naive type of affection . She ' s treading dangerous waters by wanting to experiment because once people muck up the innocence , it ' s gone forever . But she will , most likely , muck it up . you ' ll be bitter . she will getiton with a few people . miss you want to come back . maybe you will take her back , but it will never be the same . I am not writing this to be a jerk just to prepare you . Women are less monogamous than men . It ' s hardwired into our biology . Some people actually think women were designed to have multiple partners in one sexual act due to the mechanism of sperm competition . We have that one prized egg while you guys have like trillions of sperm . Try not to take this sht personally .