I now realize that people are much dumber than I ever gave them credit for . Also , everyone lies to you . From suspects , it ' s expected . But victims and victims are the worst about it , especially if they ' re complaining about a SO or ex . They ' ll tell you anything and everything to get that other person in jail . You learn to weed through the bullshit pretty quickly . Think more than anything it gives you empathy . You constantly deal with people who are going through what may very well be the worst event in their life . <| sep |> Thanks a lot ! !!<| sep |> Yeah , I was too ! <| sep |> Author has explicitly said that the way your parents say your name is not your true name in the magical sense . It ' s always the way you say it yourself . I know that the way my parents said my name when I was a rebellious thirteen year old sounds absolutely nothing like how I ' d introduce myself at any point in my life . Harry knows Molly pretty damn well , though . He can probably guess it at this point if he were really determined .