everyone got one , yesterday was thanksgiving in the USA <| sep |> So satisfying seeing a Yasuo and Rengar with 10 deaths D <| sep |> Thanks but I ' ll have to pass . MicroCenter has a really good deal on it at the moment . <| sep |> If I may make a suggestion . You are the ones with kids . Thanksgiving and Christmas now become events that you celebrate with your nuclear family spouse , you , kids . You will meet up with extended family around the rest of the holidays , but Thanksgiving day and Christmas day will now be spent at home . Oh , and if you can find a sitter , from here on out New Years Eve is a designated date night between you and your spouse . No family at all ! Oh , and then tell her that the established Christmas Eve party has first dibs , now and for as long as it ' s a tradition , on Christmas Eve . She can take the day before Christmas Eve , the day after , or pick a weekend between Thanksgiving and Christmas to celebrate both holidays at one time . But from now on , that ' s the way it is . No more taking 4 different days for her holiday plans you ' ll make your own plans to catch up with the other adults in the families , as fits the relevant schedules . Seriously , she ' s stolen time holiday time enough to last a lifetime , by the sound of it . and you are the one with kids ! Christmas should be at home when the kids are young , same with Thanksgiving . And you control who joins you she can ' t invite herself to the parties . Sorry , venting at you because so many of the people on this forum have gotten this exact same shitty treatment that you have gotten , and it makes me so damn mad . Especially for the kids , who can ' t relax on these holidays , and won ' t have the best memories because of the friction among the adults and having to be on their best behavior . grumble sorry Just so pissed for you and yours .