Your gonna need a plunger to get that clog down . <| sep |> I just think everything on that website has a purpose . Might be a hint , might not be . I think it ' s a big hint <| sep |> TIL there ' s a serious sub about toilet design . <| sep |> Then go very low contact with her . Life is too short to deal with toxic people even if they are family . But really , your husband needs to shut this crap down . She ' s his blood and he needs to say , This is my wife . If you can ' t love her at least show her respect or else we are done . You don ' t have to love family but the bare minimum of civilities is expected . <| sep |> Or you can go to Walmart and buy literally the exact same thing made by a different manufacturer for $ 15 . Why would you spend $ 100 on the same thing ?