Your hair is almost exactly like mine . I would honestly just shorten the sides . <| sep |> The day , a while after i finally left my religion behind , where i truly felt free and happy . <| sep |> I agree with this assessment . OP , the type of man you marry depends largely on your own needs and personality . I am married to a true Sigma guy , and for me that ' s the perfect fit . He is not very social and does not have a big group of dude friends , he doesn ' t like sports . He doesn ' t engage in smalltalk or akissing at work , but still makes a great income because he ' s extremely intelligent , gets results , and is polite . He intimidates a lot of men because of his intense energy , but women are generally comfortable around him because he ' s kind , considerate , and always appropriate . He leaves me guessing about what he ' s going to say , constantly surprises me , but never leaves me in doubt of his feelings or dedication . He always follows through on his word . If he says he will do it , he will do it expertly and quickly . He anticipates my needs and the needs of others around him , while he may not participate in all social activities , he is excellent at reading body language and social cues . He is romantic but still stoic . I ' ve never seen him not be able to navigate a situation or take charge , but at the same time he often defers to me on decisions he knows I can handle . He ' s strong enough to build things for me and fix things around the house , but he also always stands up for the underdog and doesn ' t tolerate hatefulness or bullying . He will step in if he sees something wrong . He doesn ' t believe in doing things just because it ' s what you do , he regularly questions the status quo . He requires evidence for everything . He ' s not intimidated by me at all because he ' s so secure , and he respects my intelligence , so when I offer my opinion he takes it very seriously . He ' s highly logical and not overly ego driven , though he does have a distinct sense of male pride he has the perfect amount . He respects himself , won ' t take abuse , challenges me , and he ' s also very fit and attractive . He likes traditional female traits like physical beauty , cooking , caring for the home , being compassionate , being a good listener , being light , elegance , etc . If you need a job to be happy he is ok with that . as long as you offer him plenty of attention and as long as it doesn ' t become all consuming for you or make you stressed I personally work parttime from home , which I love , I worked fulltime for years and didn ' t really enjoy it , but he was supportive during my fulltime years as well . He has a very consistent 35 times a week but not ridiculous sex drive , but sex is always different , and exciting , and he takes charge . I don ' t think I could be with anyone but a Sigma in the longterm . I ' ve dated Alphas and Betas and Deltas , none worked for me . By the same token , women who care a great deal about fitting in , and like to be part of a large religioussocial community , may not be a great fit for a Sigma . When you ' re with a Sigma sometimes you ' re going to go against the grain . Women who want to be the boss and control things won ' t want a Sigma . Women who care a lot about social status items won ' t want a Sigma . Women who want to be super career driven and who want a built in supportive partner may not want a Sigma . Sigmas will chip in and do things around the house , especially dirty jobs , but they don ' t want to play second fiddle .