All cultures have a welcome baby ceremony . This is ours . It would be sad not to do something . We did it from that perspective . Both my girls were blessed by my dad at home husband is not a member . We had a big party at the grandparents ' for the second one and invited all my cousins and extended relatives . It was a lot of fun . Neither blessing was particularly focused on religion temple marriage or mission were not mentioned . Wisdom and kindness were . And I don ' t know how she is doing but I was a hormonal mess during pregnancy and a few weeks postpartum . Sleep deprivation doesn ' t help either . That may contribute to tears . <| sep |> Che carriera vuoi fare da programmatore scusa ? Non capisco . Puoi tranquillamente rifiutare ruoli di responsabilit e continuare a programmare con una paga pi che soddisfacente .