True . Absolutely kicking the shit out of someone you challenged to a duel was generally considered bad form . Though a fair amount of legal duels were basically used for intimidation purposes . People were often very careful with criticism of anyone known to be a deadly duelist . <| sep |> Dank memes can ' t stop Trump dreams . Full speed ahead <| sep |> Your brother was selfish and thoughtless to ship the drug to your home in the first place , especially without asking you for permission , and you were right to not give the dog the drug . The lie is obviously something that your brother will take a long time to forgive and that will make his grieving even harder , especially if he feels like he could have tried to find another home for the dog where treatments could have been safely provided . In all honesty , I do not believe that lying was the best approach but what is done is done , all you can do is ask for his forgiveness and give him time . And remember that 4 of you made the decision here , don ' t place all the blame on your own shoulders because you were the pregnant one . I ' m also a bit unsure why the chemo was prescribed in the first place if the doc said it wouldn ' t save him anyway . Is the doc the same vet that prescribed the treatment ? Or would it have given the dog more time ?