TIL you are more likely to die on black Friday . <| sep |> bene dai son contento ! hai voglia di raccontare ? <| sep |> I ' ll do that . A great compliment coming from a person of the trade , thank you ! <| sep |> I hadn ' t noticed the caption and I ' m wheezing now <| sep |> 120142 honestly it doesnt matter if you stick to meta or not this will still match you with the majority of the players . Chaos Bed Vestiages is the go to kill steal spell for any of the brawl types . Black Flame , Black Serpent and Fire Surge are normally the most reliable spells . Onyx BladeDark Followers Sabre usually dont go wrong a pyromancer build . If you use onyx blade you want a minimum 26 . 95 poise . Dont forget your damage rings and sage ' s ring too . Stat wise you want to be getting vigor close to 40 , Stamina close to 30 for swings and intfai both close to 40 for damage . Minimum strdex for whatever weapon you decide on but if your going to use black flame a lot maybe 15 strength for pyromancer ' s parting flame as you get a second miniexplosion when you cast spells . Stay under 70 % equip load .