Switch to strategic view to end your turn . Should load a little faster . <| sep |> Thanks for the explanation yeah kinda sounds pointless to me . People probably just do that to inflate their ego by justifying their obsessive behavior as normal for a true fan , and belittling those who don ' t share their same obsessions . <| sep |> One if the nicest things about being sober is that you have choices . I love hot cider and hot cocoa and Christmas lights and seeing all the displays and Christmas trees . I do a , wacky light tour with my neighborhood . None of this is drinking or family related . I used to gave a big sober Christmas karaoke party , but my current house doesn ' t lend itself to that Pick the parts of the season you like . And ignore the rest . Or ignore all of it . Watch Netflix so no commercials , don ' t go shopping , stay off facebook . You can choose to participate or not . Or make it a season of giving and do volunteer work , get gifts for kids who don ' t have them , bake cookies for your neighbors . Or not . You do you .