i guess you have a point there . P <| sep |> I ' m trying to help her deal with this rationally . Pros cons . Think and not just feel . Just because you got lucky that you found a guy that was willing to forgive you , doesn ' t mean everybody else should be forgiving . And doesn ' t mean everybody else will be like you who ' d see their fault and make clean amends . Good for you for achieving a loving family after a cheating affair . Not everybody gets that , so get off your high horse too because not everyone gets a happy ending like yours . <| sep |> not really tbh lol . I am sure it will get better though ! <| sep |> 10 hole 1490 pattern Dr Martens OxBlood and Black . <| sep |> In my head I imagine the inside of the helmet is a screen rather than using the eyeholes .