I love a nice benzo pile even when I ' m not taking them . 😊 <| sep |> Chase them on it sometime tomorrow if they haven ' t got back to you by then . <| sep |> Much as we like to pretend it ' s a religion of peace . Nobody should be surprised by this . <| sep |> My bank manager would like a word with you . <| sep |> You can ' t bet your wife , Louie . I wish someone told me that when I played Ricky . This bitch is awful ! <| sep |> Don ' t you mean . a dab of sauce ? <| sep |> This too shall pass . <| sep |> Mother of a super high energy almost 3 year old . My advice is get some counselling for them and for you , if they ' re ADHD a counsellor or psychiatrist will help them and you create healthy coping mechanisms for the adhd and the stress that comes with . Second , make some time for yourself , when you don ' t have kiddos do something as self care . Take a bath , read a book , something to just take your mind off the stress and recharge your batteries . Third , remember they are children , they aren ' t perfect , they ' re going to push your buttons , act out from time to time , have good days and have bad days . It is ok ! ! For example , my toddles tried getting his own drink and spilled it all over the kitchen . I had just mopped , instead of getting angry I took a deep breath , laughed and told him it ' s ok , we will just clean it up together ! And made a game of it . Sure I was annoyed there was a huge mess , but try to see the positive in a mess like , he tried to get his own drink , what a big boy ! Things like that . Good luck in your parenting journey . The fact that you can see you were going the wrong way , halting , and making sure your children were where they would get the best care is a huge huge deal . An N wouldn ' t give a single flying turd about how they treated their child . You do . You got this ! ! Hugs if they are welcome