Have you told your mom what ' s been going on ? I do think you should tell the wife why you don ' t feel comfortable sitting for them anymore , but if you can , i ' d give your mom a heads up too since she will continually see the wife on a regular basis . <| sep |> Nope , longevity with a SO usually quells the beast . I wouldn ' t have to restrain the desire as often , and sometimes I can just let it all go <| sep |> I wore mine to death but they never seem to get as dirty . It really is under appreciated . <| sep |> Yep . Player , I sneak up to the goblin and attack ! assuming for this example you ' re already in combatDM , Ok , you creep behind him , he is so focused on the other combatants , he doesn ' t realize you are behind him . Roll your attack and since you ' re sneaking roll with advantage .