no . you can ' t ' double dip ' on promotions . <| sep |> These appear to be cheese and butter . now that some BS . I would not call that a sandwich . <| sep |> Arm went forward cause Ziggy hits it <| sep |> Actually the data supports the facts that areas with the most guns having the lowest gun crimes . While the horrible occasional tragedies happen , the overall death rate by guns continues to drop after the assualt weapon ban was lifted . States with lowest gun control have the lowest gun murder rates . Food for thought . <| sep |> I approve this message <| sep |> Looking for adviceperspectivescommon ground . You ' ve got a financially responsible and aware boyfriend . Count your blessings . <| sep |> Honestly , I have a lot of anxiety depression , and I ' ve always been a tad socially awkward which lends to my social anxiety . It ' s kind if hard for me to fully explain myself when im not exactly sure why do it . But it ' s not that I don ' t want to get together and do things , I believe it ' s mainly that i really want to make sure that I impress and know that the other party is having a great time . Then i think about the all the what if ' s , what if X , Y , or Z happen ? How will i handle XYZ ? Then i go through endless possibilities of events and conversation and I get overwhelmed by my anxiety , putting me in a shutdown state of I can ' t lose if I I ' m not there . So my brain decides that ' s best , and I know it ' s still disappointing and unfair to the other person . Especially when I don ' t make an attempt at contacting them , and that ' s when my brain goes throughIf you contact them you have to let them know you ' re not coming . If you let them know you ' re not coming , then you will have to deal with their disappointment and explain yourself . If you try to explain yourself you will have nothing , because anxietydepression are not socially acceptable to talk about , let alone use as an excuse . Better not do anything and just sit here feeling sorry . And that ' s kind of what i go through in these situations . Sorry if that ' s not any help .