Feel free to shoot me stuff in private if you want to be critiqued w out down votes . My background includes performance , production , tech , music gear retail etc been playing guitarbasskeys for about 20 years <| sep |> If it wasn ' t for Runescape I ' d have 0 use for the Welsh classes we were forced to take at school . <| sep |> That ' s legit . And IDK , I think maybe I see that prioritysetting differently . The feminist perspective I ' ve always seen has emphasized that it IS an act of resistancekind of like an emotional labor strikebecause men on the whole benefit so much from unacknowledged labor from women . I think the same is true of cis folks in some ways . And yeah , I can ' t imagine a cis person or frankly even a trans dude tbh that I ' d trust to care for and support trans women in the way I feel like I can , but maybe part of our struggle is learning that radical trust .