You too bro . Make sure you pick up your copy of Gorilla Mindset . <| sep |> Ugh it always makes me sad to hear about that sort of garbage , I ' m sorry you had to go through that . I ' ve been harassed a couple times in game but fortunately not by anyone targeting my gender . I have major trust issues with random groups though , I almost never speak in voice chat unless I feel the rest of the group is friendly enough or I hear another girl talking . Honestly the best advice I can give is if they start off with the harassment right away like that , don ' t say a word . If you absolutely need to respond in any way type in chat . I had a similar situation in a 3 v 3 a couple days ago . I picked D . Va , another guy in my group immediately starts getting on my case about it saying Really ? You ' re going to pick her ? Really na ? And kept calling me the nword over and over . I don ' t even know why he didn ' t want me to play her , like did he want to play D . Va ? Did he think it was a bad pick ? it ' s not , I ' ve won with her several times . So match starts , the other team is pretty much owning us right off the bat and I ' m so pissed at this guy I just fly my almost dead mech right into the enemy and die to their zenyatta . He starts screaming at me to come back . I quit the match right after dying . Have fun losing , jerk . I didn ' t dare say anything in voice chat because I could tell this was the type of guy that might have made a big deal over me being female . When I have a bad experience like that I usually take a few days off from the game to cool off . It kind of sours the experience . I ' ll wait for my normal group of Overwatch buddies to pull me back into it again so I don ' t have to deal with the solo queue madness . Having a good group of friends to play with is so important in this game . Do you play on PC ? Send me a PM if you ' d like to swap btag ' s and group up sometime .