Original post by uDeafGuy in rProjectFinbspThis crosspost was performed automatically as a part of the ImagesOfNetwork . Learn more about the ImagesOfNetwork , how you can help , and other Frequently Asked Questions , or visit us on Discord ! Remove my post ! The bot got this one wrong ! Stop Crossposting My Stuff ! # match Hong Kong <| sep |> should have joined the Secret Santa ya goof ! <| sep |> Thank you for your response , agreed 100 % I just either want not to be hurt after those words are said , or to have the courage to stand up for myself after they are said . So he ' s projecting , okay so I could say I would appreciate it if you just told me you didn ' t like my hairI struggle with that too , I lack confidence to continue with what I enjoy , I keep doublechecking my style . Then I wonder if I doublecheck because deep down I don ' t actually like it . But then I wonder about my wondering and so on forever sigh so I ' m training myself not to think and instead just feel . As feelings aren ' t forever recursively selfreflecting !