What a fuck load of middle school drama . Your boyfriend obviously loves you to want to be anywhere near such drama queens . I completely agree with Friend 4 that asking the host for a ride is beyond rude . Depending on a ride from someone you dislike enough to never speak with him is beyond rude . I also think going to a party that is so far out of your way without arranging your own means of getting out of there is either stupid or attention seeking . And this was your party , not theirs . Maybe their parents did the right thing keeping them at home and on strict curfew , ' cause they certainly do not seem mature enough to help themselves . And after all of that , a few weeks later you are still talking about this nonsense ? Lingering feelings ? They are trying to stir up trouble in your house . Did they have a fun party and made it home safely ? Next topic puhleeze . Don ' t apologize , don ' t appease .