You don ' t owe gifts to anyone . I commend you for putting your child first . Your husband ' s family doesn ' t deserve you , and you certainly don ' t need to put up with insensitive snark . You are putting in the true struggle to provide for your kid . And as much as I ' m sure it sucks , you are beautiful for this . You are the definition of an amazing parent . Quite literally , taking food out of your own mouth for your child . It makes me sad that our society doesn ' t appreciate you more . I love what you are , you are a wonderful person , and I have faith that your life will work out . Sometimes the struggle points us in the right direction , or allows us to see what we weren ' t seeing before . I trust you will get things on track and continue to provide a wonderful existence for your child . Thank you for being amazing .