I don ' t want to look like a traitor I ' m key member of the team , without me this team goes belly up in matter of few months , I don ' t want to blackmail them . If this is true , it ' s your boss ' failing here . Not yours . He either has a contingency plan in place if a key member leaves , or he ' s willing to pay more money to keep you around . It ' s not necessarily poor management to underpay people to the extent they leave for better prospects , but it probably is if their project falls apart if that happens . So don ' t worry about this aspect . Give sensible notice , and don ' t play games . <| sep |> I guess context is pretty important here . So there was a new Family Guy about vaccines a few nights ago so I started talking to my cousin about it because I was tired of hearing about the election . Then , my drunk aunt chimed in about her fear of vaccines and everyone started agreeing .