It usually means fixing you first . Women don ' t jump from a moving train BPD asideproblem is , once a guy loses those wife goggles , once he builds back up , he may see her without thinking she is still that hawt little thing he started dating , and instead see an angry old woman , out of shape , unpleasant , and decide he can do better . broken men don ' t pick themselves up enough , otherwise women wouldn ' t be so brazenly cunty , knwoing they are simply a 6 month gym membership away from trading them in <| sep |> I think a lot of them are lonely losers who think it ' s the only way someone with partner up with them . Just a theory . As a poor lady with a lot of natural beauty that I am sincerely not trying to gloat about i ' ve noticed these types of people get really offended when they can ' t buy a poor hot wife , as well . From experience . It ' s extremely degrading , the way they see ' people ', as a whole but no one seems to be calling them out on it much so they keep on keeping on .