I think your concerns are valid . As for fringe benefits , most of the companies I have worked for have standard pay and fringe benefits for each level , regardless of department . So , I participate in the same ones any other manager at my company would . <| sep |> I saw 2 calls I disagreed with . Better than average <| sep |> It ' s the game . It ' s broken . It ' s not out to get you . <| sep |> I don ' t really like the cuck usage either but it ' s just linguistics . the way it ' s used on this sub kind of makes sense imo . I think racist is being misused and abused more than cuck is . racist is completed misused . racism has to do with superiority of race but everyone replaces discrimination or racial nepotism with racist . those are acceptable , just how language has formed . however being afraid to discuss serious issues or acknoweledge the validity of arguments due to fear of being labeled a racist , grounds for being called a cuck . I don ' t like the usage because some idiots go around overusing it but sometimes it makes sense . Edit the fact that racist has more meaning and targets specific behavior also means it ' s a lot more personal and detrimental than being called a cuck . if someone called me a cuck . I would laugh and say ok man . if someone called me a racist . I ' d be like what the fuck . you don ' t get to call someone racist , an extremely personal attack , without proof of them actually being racist .