The shitty part of Canada 😏 <| sep |> Part of the puzzle might be to figure out whose move it is , I ' ve seen those kinds of puzzles before <| sep |> Why do you know so much about earwax ? Like down to where the mutation originated . <| sep |> I understand what you ' re saying . During the second wave movement , some women , despite not being primarily sexually attracted to women , chose to identify as lesbian for political reasons . They disagreed with society ' s insistence that everyone be heterosexual . Lesbianism was their way of fighting back . I don ' t see any problem with that people can identify as whatever they want , regardless of what other people think . And I ' ve seen firsthand some women who , after getting dumped by a boyfriend who they thought was the one , will have a brief antiman phase where they ' re more likely to pursue women . I think the orientation is not a choice crowd makes that argument because it ' s easier to gain society ' s approval that way . After all , if you can ' t help being gay , then it ' s not like you can change and avoid homophobia . But to me , it ' s always sounded a little whiny . Instead of saying why would I choose this horrible life ? just embrace it . I ' m not saying sexual orientation is or isn ' t a choice . I am just saying I can understand where you ' re coming from .