I don ' t mind if it autodetects but I want to be able to change the language . Often those games with horrible translations are also those in which you can ' t change the language . <| sep |> You ' re right , but none of this is to say that those longsuffering parents and siblings would have chosen to do things differently if they could go back . Plenty , plenty of people are very happy with their disabled children and siblings . My SO ' s sister has pretty severe Down syndrome , and I suspect that she ' s the best thing that could have happened to his parents they get to continue being fulltime mom and dad for the rest of their lives which , to them , is a huge blessing . And when they are gone , either we or her other brother and his wife will be more than happy to take her in . My bestie also has a brother with Down syndrome , and the family wouldn ' t trade him for the world . He ' s my friend and her brother , not a burden . Yes , he takes extra care and attention , but he ' s part of the family , a good uncle to the younger members of the family , and a wonderful son to his parents . Another family friend has a son who has been nonvocal and confined to a wheelchair his entire life , and he ' s the heart of that family . Her entire Facebook page is full of pictures of him . They even built him a special fourwheeler so that he could go offroading with the family . My point is that , while it ' s perfectly reasonable to choose not to bring an intellectually disabled child into the world , it ' s overly simplistic and verging on arrogant to say that this or that will happen or that one choice is the right choice . And OP ' s suggestion that all mentally disabled people will suffer throughout their lives , implying that they will suffer more than the rest of us do , is incredibly prescriptive and condescending . It ' s possible to be disabled and happy .