Conda ' DROP TABLE shipnames , <| sep |> The default is raise to whatever number you said . If you want to specify a raise amount , you have to say something like 30 more or 30 on top . <| sep |> I think you just used your , presumably hearing , girlfriend as an example of the deaf community and a deaf baby , born to deaf parents , as an example of being outside the deaf community . But I ' m going to ignore that because there are always outliers . Which is why I said , you won ' t get many arguments . And you are kind of addressing the hierarchy I was talking about . Born deaf is sort of pure or something . Then you have people who were born deaf but got implants . Then you have people who have gone deaf . Here ' s an opposite scenario Imagine growing up deaf in a hearing household . Your parents never teach you to sign because they don ' t want you to be seen as different . No special treatment . . Both kids will eventually be old enough to make the decision for themselves . And their relationship with their parents will probably change the further they go into the deafhearing communities . Now , 3 m 22 s is a simulation of hearing vs cochlear implants . Give it a listen and tell me which one you ' d prefer . Now compare silence to the cochlear example . Now compare silence to the hearing example . Out of all of those , which do you prefer ? You ' d probably rate it hearing cochlear deaf . Most people would agree with you . And that ' s all I ' m saying . I ' m not trying to make a point about how much better hearing people are than deaf people . Nor taking pity on deaf people or whatever . I ' m just saying we don ' t need to pretend . It is a disability . Edit Fixed a few things .