That is what i meant and said . The latest one would be nougat , am i wrong ? <| sep |> Yeah . At the moment I haven ' t smoked since Saturday <| sep |> Love the spam popups I ' m getting from that site , thanks . <| sep |> Just mentioning that Knudsen played the lead in the hugely acclaimed Danish TV Government Borgen series . link to clipfn 7 c 7 EHtCLU <| sep |> This sounds like if you were to try and go at it again and make it work for a long time , you both need to change a few things . If you ' re acknowledging things that you do that hurt him , like the flirting and the blacking out , the only way it will work is if you stop doing them entirely . It ' s one thing for him to call you out on something and another to call you out twice . However , he can ' t use your past as leverage in an argument . If he does this regularly , it ' s totally not cool . If it ' s a seldom thing that he ' s apologized for each time , then at least he knows it ' s not cool and probably just got emotional in an argument . This is coming from the perspective of having no knowledge of what going through a drinking problem or sexualdomestic abuse is like . Nonetheless , unless you guys can either accept or adapt to the characteristics of one another that caused disagreements , history will probably repeat itself .