Ask BF what he thinks about you inviting another guy to sleep over . Your problem will resolve itself . And don ' t think that it has not occurred to new guy that if you ' ll make that offer to him , you might do the same with yet another guy if he is dating you . You fucked up there , badly . <| sep |> Then DO something or don ' t complain . Your choice . <| sep |> I did not believe you I should have believed you . <| sep |> Right ? I think they should rename this sub rscaredwhitepartykids <| sep |> Ranting at myself today . I haven ' t exercised in almost an entire week and I feel like a lazy blob . Worst part is it wasn ' t even for a good reason . I had too many vacay hours at work so I took this week off and I ' ve done next to nothing . I could have worked out every day for an hour and still had the rest of the day to do nothing but nope . On the plus side , I ' m down half an inch in my waist . Literally have no idea how that happened since my eating has definitely NOT been on point either . Oh well , I won ' t question it . Currently sitting down for breakfast with a mug of black coffee , and plain oatmeal with berries , peaches , walnuts and hemp hearts . Gonna do a 30 min set of pilates after this . The quicker you get back on the wagon the better , right ?