This was at Great wolf lodge . Wasn ' t it <| sep |> is this actual ben Affleck ? <| sep |> Yeah that would be crazy ! It ' s a pretty rare occasion really , kind of lucky . <| sep |> That is such bs and I am so angry at your family for you ! When I was young we were stationed overseas for six years . It was preinternet . Letters took a week to get back to the States , and international phone calls were hugely expensive . And you know what ? My grandparents were so excited that we were living overseas and got to experience unusual and new and interesting things ! They were fine with the letters and the occasional phone calls , and my mother would take pictures physical pictures , which would take a week to get developed , after you ' d finish the roll , and every once in a while relatives would save up money so that they could come visit us ! And these people , who live in the age of Facebook , Snapchat , and Skype , where their phone calls are free and they can see the children and talk to them like they were right there in the room , and they can get all the pictures they want , right away . They ' re complaining ? You are giving your kids a fantastic opportunity , hell yes stay there , why would you want to come home to such an ungrateful , selfish family who can think of nothing better to do with your awesome decision than to hound you mercilessly ? I ' m sorry , I know they ' re your family and you love them . But I want to slap them ! Slap them all !