I ' d record them go at you like vultures on a carcass . And play it back for him . The new smartphones have this feature . To make it worse , I was working all by myself in a dept in a dept store because everyone decided to quit including my sister I hired because she needed the extra $$ for the holidays . That was the last straw and I called and BEGGED her to stay until after the holidays . This was the beginning of December and I miscarried the middle of Dec . Hubby called sister and of course NAbusing exBIL got on the phone and offered to tear off his head and shit down this throat because DH called my sister out as being lousy . Most of it was stress , but also I was hypothyroid , didn ' t know it at the time .