When lost , do a barrel roll . <| sep |> The Witcher 2 <| sep |> They are living together until she finds her own place . <| sep |> Johann Strauss II The Blue Danube Waltz <| sep |> Het is een drieluik . Ik snap wel dat ze het zo doen , een reportage stijl is voor NRC . Next interessanter dan n groot artikel . <| sep |> They are true because of arguments I am not providing . <| sep |> Don ' t know why you ' re being downvoted . It is a valid question because it can be hard to understand . When a person is abused physically or otherwise it takes a toll on them . It isn ' t intentional but after having to keep going through that you start to change to survive the conditions you are in . This means a change in the way you act , the way you react to things , what you consider normal and what you consider to be acceptable limits a person can go to acceptable remarks , actions etc . . It also serves as a coping mechanism to help you process and go through all of it . It ' s not that people want to act like jerks or hurt loved ones . They want to be able to do it but often simply don ' t know how anymore . They weren ' t shown the same kindness or had a model to follow who did the same thing for them . Instead of having a calm , understanding father who made dad jokes to help with nerves and make it easy to talk to him they had an alcoholic . Instead of a mother who tried understanding what they were sad about , they had a mother who would hit them if they made any noise . All of this starts rubbing on them and results in how they act .