Were you appropriately positioned at the start line ? If you know you ' re going to be faster than most , then you should start near the front . That reduces the amount of passing you have to do . And in my experience , even in the crowded races , only the first half mile or so is bad . After that it thins out pretty well . <| sep |> Oh god , I ' ve only done anal a few times . Was nervous bc my bf at the time was pretty big . 1 st time he had been away for a week and he liquored me up and I almost enjoyed it for like 57 min then ofc whined are you almost donebc it was starting to get uncomfy . 2 nd time at his mom ' s house , no one home all weekend but us . Got lube and he rammed it in my butt . I seriouly have never felt so violated and I completely understand the term sodomy and why it ' s such a horrible term . I obviously knew what the word mean , I ' m referring to the difference between butt sex and being sodomized even tho I wasn ' t raped whatsoever I sat in a corner crying for a good 30 min and for like 4 days I wouldn ' t let him touchfuck me . No idea why this happened . HE didn ' t violate me or do anything wrong prob only time lol as he was a dbag . I don ' t know why those emotions came out of nowhere from consexual anal sex that we had the same way minus alcohol same lube , same toy to stimulate me etc that we had like a week before . Kinda funny how badly he felt considering it was my idea to begin with , when he put huge efforts I to trying to destroy my life he had zero remorse . That day , however , I ' ve never seen anyone feel so horribleguilty .