I ' d stay far away from 11 . <| sep |> I miss it for sure . I had times where I wanted to real bad , and other times I wasn ' t interested in it at all . Now , even when I want to , I ' m fine with daydreaming about it and leaving it at that . I feel like the further away I get from my last orgasm , the less I miss it ! It doesn ' t hurt at all at night , because I found a configuration that works well for me . # 2 base ring and the smallest spacerAnd since I don ' t have a keyholder right now , I have the key . But I keep it locked away in my basement . While that ' s not very far away , it still makes me feel like I can ' t instantly unlock myself , even if I wanted to . I ' m looking into trying out one of those timelocked containers sometime .