never would i ever get a car with a g 60 looks like a good time to do a 2 . 8 swap <| sep |> If she ' s stressing , have you considered some more relaxing stuff beforehand ? A little cuddling , some calm music , and my best recommendation some relaxing massage . I cannot emphasize how much difference a good long massage can make beforehand . Get out all the stress , knead your girlfriend ' s muscles until she practically melts into the bed , then snuggle up against her and slip into her . No frantic , intense fucking , just very slow , very gentle sex . You may be surprised at where things go . That ' s my suggestion anyway . Beyond that she may need to go on a bit of an adventure of self discovery to find where the mental block is , if there is one . There may also be an actual sensation issue at play if she can ' t orgasm even from masturbating .