All i wanted was an unstressfull post thanksgiving victory but NOOOO , the steelers want to make it as stressfull as possible <| sep |> Same thing happened to me . On my birthday . I hated her at the time but in hindsight I ' m glad she had the gusto to do that instead of cheating on me . We had also dated long distance for three years before she moved to where I was to go to school , we lived in the same location for two weeks before she broke it off . It sucked a lot for a long time , but with group and individual therapy I ' m better now than I ever was when I was in that relationship . I ' ve also since learned what a healthy relationship is like and learned that the one I was in was far from that . Stick with it man , I don ' t tell people '' it '' gets better , but with a little self care your outlook will get better .