Growing up doesn ' t mean the same thing as getting abused by your crush who has the majority of your family die and then being forced to pretend you ' re the daughter of a man who ' s in love w your dead mom <| sep |> My generation didn ' t consider whether a wife and kids was on the cards they got the wife and kids because that ' s what you did , then they figured out how to get by . <| sep |> Wow another Matt Stanford game winning drive , amazing . <| sep |> It ' s more you just said something and won ' t give any evidence to back it up , almost sounds like you have just seen someone complain about it and are just regurgitating what they said with no actual substance <| sep |> From what I saw , Jonah was generally pulling his weight . Any other takes ?