I almost feel bad for Mizzou . <| sep |> It ' s a car called the EcoSport . I ' m just guessing but I thinl it ' s supposed to be low emmision . <| sep |> I ' m not sure how stoic this advice is , but I hope this helps . Earlier this month , I resolved a longstanding problem I had with two loved ones . They did things that hurt me and made me lose my trust in them . Prior to me resolving my issues with them , I would act passiveaggressive towards them i . e . silent treatment , not return their calls , keep my conversations with them to a minimum . It ' s hard for me to cut them out completely of my life , so I realized that letting these problem go unresolved as long as they have were doing more harm than good . Eventually , I got to talk to both family members oneonone and I was able to tell them how I really felt about them and why I acted the way I did towards them . Keep in mind that I approached them in a calm and assertive manner . I was straightforward and didn ' t have to resort to yelling , cursing , andor namecalling . It turns out that they didn ' t realize they hurt me and were apologetic about it . My relationship with these two has improved and I ' ve forgiven them . However , I do feel wariness around them , but that ' s more so out of habit . If they do anything to offend me again , I have more knowledge on how to deal with the situation . In conclusion , only concern yourself with what you can control , as many Stoics would do . If there ' s something that can be fixed within these relationships , then I think you should do something about it . For me , just being straightforward about my problems with my offenders is what remedied my relationships with them . Giving them knowledge of my problems with them at least gave them an ultimatum to consider how they treat me or don ' t . Fortunately , they were understanding and resolved to act better , so that warranted me to forgive them . Had they acted differently , I probably would have let them go because I would see that the relationships would be beyond repair , therefore outside of my control . Best of luck to you !