Always memorable videos . Never memorable songs . <| sep |> If you want to improve , be content to be thought foolish and stupid . Epictetus BasicsMorning routine X Ready X BreatheDrank water ? Consumed a vegetable ? Went outside ? Benchmark Did you work on a skill today ? XTiny Habits Bathroom pushups x 3 visit X Morning stretchNext Steps 8 tomatoes of ML an unrealistic goal Thanksgiving Cat stuff LogisticsReminders More Important Less ImportantMore Urgent Kitty ? Post next plan Do dishesLess Urgent Schedule next driving lesson <| sep |> A couple quick points on WillowTara and Oz . This is why I mentioned how addiction was the primary conflict between Willow and Tara . Willow was a user , and her vice eventually destroyed the relationship . Her actions were the actions of an addict and must be viewed as such . The addiction crept into the relationship slowly and was touched on several times even as early as Se 4 . I ' m certainly not going to condone what she did at her lowest point , which was indeed rape . I understand how you would find her irredeemable after that . I just want to point out that she also nearly killed Dawn and ended the world under the influence of magic , and while it was their common ground at first , magic isn ' t what brought Tara and Willow back together briefly after the fact . Oz however , I will defend to my dying breath . He didn ' t go batshit because Willow was gay . He went batshit because he excommunicated himself from society to fight his inner demons alone for a year , only to return and discover that he could no longer have a relationship with the woman he loved . I mean . come on . If anything , the worst thing about Oz in my mind was that he had no glaring character faults besides being a bit shy . I could see sexism in Dollhouse but I dare you to find it in Firefly . Kaylee , Inara and Zoe and to a lesser extent , River were deep , three dimensional characters with unique and valid perspectives . I ' ll pick this back up soon , but I need to turn in for the night .