Ele abordoute porque a algum nivel a tua postura mostra insegurana . Esse pessoal tem um faro para isso e apenas ataca em casos como os teus . No p , estes gajos fazem isto a toda a gente . Velhos includos . Querem passar . Talvez se virem um gajo com um caparro enorme talvez reconsiderem . Estes mecos sentemse invencveis nos bairros deles e quando esto em grupo . <| sep |> repudiate to reject the truth or validity of something to deny <| sep |> I don ' t believe you . Now i gotta go through my comment history and see if any of my posts have been edited . This is a ridiculous betrayal of trust . <| sep |> Whether or not he went through your phone , I find a couple of things concerning . 1 You don ' t trust him and 2 communication seems lacking . I personally would talk to him and be direct about these concerns , because over time it will continue to chip away at your relationship . It ' s hard to trust someone , but I think the fact that you don ' t trust him and already feel he lies with halftruths frequently is concerning . A good relationship needs to be built on trust , and while it ' s completely human to occasions have doubts , this seems to be pervasive from what you wrote . Communication also seems to be difficult for you two . It is NOT typical girl feelings to feel as if you aren ' t being listened to by your SO . If he cares about you , you should both be able to make time to listen to each other and he should not b cutting you off or interrupting you . My boyfriend and I had a similar problem and had to talk about how to make this happen . For us we had to make a few boundaries , such as when one of us gets home from work give them time to decompress don ' t talk to me the second I walk through the door , if one of us really needed some support by talkinglistening then we would be direct in saying so , etc . Not that this requires hours of active listening and attention , but even five minutes of providing you spacetime to be heard is important .