The one that got away for me was an Australian woman I knew in university but it wouldn ' t have worked out anyway as she lived in London for half of the week . This was in November 2004 . <| sep |> In fact it looks like it was zero , since in all the wiretapping cases I could find the cops listened to the defendant ' s phone calls secretly . So you lied about that . <| sep |> Isn ' t is silly ? You know you shouldn ' t be nervous , but you are ? I was the same way leading up to the appointment with my family doctor to talk about fertility and basically whenever I have to go in for nonroutine check up , she ' s super sweet but I always fear I ' ll be told it ' s nothing , and then I was even more nervous leading up to the appointment with the OBGyn the family doctor referred me to . My husband thought I was completely nuts . It ' ll be fine . He the OB is a great doctor . and so on he ' s met the OB before and really likesrespects him . Of course , husband was right , and it was fine . Anyways . all those words to say you ' re not alone . It ' s normal . If you wantfeel the need to , write down all the questionsconcerns you have so you don ' t forget to bring them up during your appointment If you want , I think there ' s a link somewhere for a Google doc in rinfertility ? that has a whole list of questions you could ask .