Really I feel bad for the poor kid . He has to deal with a joke for the rest of his life <| sep |> oh god that second one . I got chills reading it . I ' d love some fan art to capture the spirit of that story . <| sep |> Yea but I ' m in a real need of a wr and I ' m in some must wins situation <| sep |> People will play where they want , it ' s not a DICE problem . Plus there are server filters . <| sep |> Because . its totally a harmless question . <| sep |> I ' m not sure if you ' re secretly sking for permission to breakup , or are really committed to making this work . I ' m generally opposed to LDRs , but they can work . First , you need an incredible amount of commitment from both parties and it has to be equal . Any imbalance will accelerate the relationship crashing into the ground . Not jsut ' I really , really , really want this ' but ' This relationship is honestly integral to my future . ' Such as for kids , for religious conviction , or for some other solid reason you can point to . Continued happiness , I ' m sorry to burst your buble , is something you can find elsewhere . Next you need to constantly maintain this commitment through sacrifice communication , in person visits , forgoing social circles and friends at school . And you need to be constantly shaping and directing your relationship despite the misunderstandings of your communications and lack of physical contact . It ' s an impossible task without the highest commitment . I think most couples make the mistake of thinking this will prove their love , when in fact it destroys their love . In my book , the smart thing is to take a breakend things and promise to look each other up in the future . Give yourselves permission to expand and fill your environment , not stay in the same tiny box you are used to .