Wait , only while driving ? I tend to do this all the time . <| sep |> Keep asking in the IRC support channel . Nothing else do to . Only they can disable 2 FA for your account . <| sep |> I ' m not a racist but , black ~~ people ~~ comedians are funnier than white ~~ people ~~ comedians . <| sep |> No speech of any value , hell even any content , was censored . Getting trolled by the admins of a private forum because you abused them is not offensive to the tradition of free speech . It ' s not even noteworthy . <| sep |> I do , I ' ll upload it soon . <| sep |> This is a good example of how ah tiong ge can squeeze our balls whenever they want to <| sep |> I ' m not sure why he thought they would . <| sep |> Well here is the thing the pdoc just sits in his leather chair when we are sat sometimes in tears at how difficult things are and he smiles and says yep that ' s bi polar and doubles her meds for a bit . Absolutely zero practical help therapy etc . We have been on a waiting list for 18 months for a family bi polar course but it never comes . It ' s hard for me not to be logical because I literally provide everything for her . Sometimes she just sits somewhere eating and drinking from bottles wrappers etc and I am cleaning up around her . I am there if she wants to talk , I back off if she tells me to , I fix her financial messes , I do the lions share of the childcare etc and she always seems perpetually dissatisfied with me or her life etc . Then for a few days when she is well she says she realises I am the best husband ever and a great dad etc and she doesn ' t mean it . However when she is feeling low she certainly seems to mean it and of course I fall into the trap of trying to remind her of all the good etc . Also on a very personal note she has periods where she is unhappy with our sex life and makes me feel very inadequate . I try to make it interesting or more frequent but often she will wait until the next day and say something like You only had sex with me for your pleasure or I didn ' t really enjoy it but at least you did or you only had sex with me because you had to . That makes me feel awkward about approaching her about being intimate and then she criticises me for the lack of sex . Is it the case I just can ' t help her and I just have to ride it out with her and be there when she feels better ?