You know the answer and that is good but if you choose to be with her in present conditions then you should make your ready to be dumped anytime as she already hinted it and you cannot blame her for that . It sounds that she realizes that you are not the man she wants so she made it clear before you invested a lot yourself into the relationship , which you should welcome . You can be with her but it would be very unfair of you to hope that she will change her mind so if you are with her in hoping that she will change her mind then you should stay away from her as I do not see that she will change her mind . <| sep |> Many women have physical flaws which do prevent them from dating , and many men have ones that don ' t .