my advice try an efficient , ondemand vaporizer . for microdosing , I recommend a mflb . perfect for sipping . <| sep |> Dont listen to that guy , youll be fine . The potential damage it does isnt severe short term . Theyve even said theres no proof its really that bad for you . <| sep |> Yea , if you actually have a problem with something , do something about it , don ' t just whine <| sep |> Should have an e , but it isn ' t there ! <| sep |> Oh , one more thing . I highly recommend you agree to take penetrative sex off the table until she gets comfortable with foreplay and hopefully oral sex . Focus on the ability to spend time exploring each others ' bodies without shame . It takes a lot of psychological pressure off as intimacy isn ' t about achieving a goal PiV sex , it ' s about the journey . You guys haven ' t built any true intimacy as far as I can tell and that ' s where you have to start .