Your mother sounds like she ' s a screw loose and also , her son can do no wrong I take it ? Don ' t want to pry too much but what got you into being a carer , as you say it ' s long hard hours for piss all money . Do you get to spend any on yourself or are you kicking it all back into the house ? Do you want to get out of there ? Also , WTF is going on with the heatingfeck that plumber and get someone else ASAP . Nothing more depressing then a cold house . <| sep |> Or earlier <| sep |> Based on OP ' s opinion of us , I should just never invite Arkansas fans into my tailgate , offer them food , or share my bourbon with them ever again because they all think we ' re rude and obnoxious anyway . <| sep |> I worked at a studio that constantly harassed its employees , distrusted us , called us ' schemers ' behind our backs and installed security cameras to watch our monitors . The boss was bipolar and would chew us out for minutiae one week and treat us like pals the next . The manager was a gorilla who would sneak up and shake your chair just to mess with you . He chewed us out over using Youtube or Facebook while playing WoW in his office or watching Netflix . I got thrown under the bus and blamed for an nonperforming product despite working to 1 am some nights . When this lead to my being laid off , they asked if I would work there again if given the opportunity . I said a big old ' no ' and never looked back .