Chael is a real gangsta trusting Jones with the knife <| sep |> GIFV linkI am a bot . bot <| sep |> According to merriamwebster webster . comdictionaryviolence it is an destructive action or force . It can refer to words meant to insult , offend or hurt people with no intention to be constructive or to actually inflict physical force to hurt others . etc . Maybe there is no severe physical damage but damage can also be done in a nonphysical level to the point where it can cause a person to become mentally ill or emotionally stunted . Stress can also contribute to different kinds of sicknesses . Abuse can stem from emotional blackmailing , gaslighting , shaming , to full on violence . etc . There is a lot of info about relationship dynamics of abusive relationships out there that you can read about . Usually the victim of the relationship always has a hard time leaving because they are afraid to do so . The abuser always has something he can use to control hisher victim whether it is culture , financial security , or shame and guilt . I suggest you research it if you would like to know more about it . But it is abnormal to resort of violence when you have a disagreement with someone or if you feel offended . Violence is a failure in communication . There is really no point in reacting violently except to satisfy one ' s own emotions . Also with incidences involving abuse , if a person hits you once , heshe is much likely to hit you again and maybe even worse than before , hence why people who have had one or two incidences would feel compelled to leave the relationship early before they are in a dangerous situation . Hitting , rough shoving out of anger is a big red flag . I am not saying that is the truth for every case as there are many cases in which there is no endangerment involved and the danger perceived is trivial at best . But for a person who feels endangered , it is hisher responsibility to get out of the abusive relationship as best as one can manage because abuse is cyclical . This behavior can be passed on from person to person and should not be accepted if you wish for a decent society in which people respect one another . Since you asked whether or not abuse is wrong , I highly recommend that you research different types of abuse and human behavior .