Not reading them is a possibility . That is a possibility , right ? To ignore the posts that you don ' t care about and read the ones you do ? <| sep |> That i ' m not a good boyfriend and that i should work on the basics first before getting into something as involved and delicate as a relationship again . Regret is a blessing because it motivates me to learn from my mistakes and not repeat them . I can ' t ever let a girlfriend be my sole raison d ' etre . people feel soffucated when they feel like your entire happiness depends on them . Keeping secrets creates a guilty conscience and hurts a relationship . Much better than telling the truth is not fucking up in the first place . <| sep |> Won ' t Pence be doing all the actual work though ?