Wrong , not when the subject is a person . <| sep |> Fired it up last week ! I forgot how much they hold your hand with tutorials in the beginning , but some of the best games I ' ve ever played . <| sep |> ily all you dravens <| sep |> they carry pistols with a straight face , but cry when they have handcuffs on . <| sep |> I ' m mixed race , so a little different from your situation , but I ' ve always just felt a little out of place with my family . I think it ' s partially human instinct to want to be with others who are like you , and also partly tied up in the various implicit biases people hold against those of other races . Therapy has helped me tease out how I feel about this and how to be constructive moving forward . It ' s also helped that I ' ve met more people in my shoes since I ' ve moved out too . And seriously , congrats on the ivy leagues ! ! That ' s damn cool and I ' m proud of you .