I don ' t think you should confront him . If people ask you or your family about this directly , then you can tell them what you want them to know . Do so seriously but briefly and without anger , this way people see that you are setting the record straight . When a man like that is telling lies about you , it will not be the first time he has told lies . There are probably already some people in his community who know that he is a liar . As time goes by , more people will see that he is a liar , and they will not believe the things he says . So this lie will not hurt you and your wife as much as he wants . <| sep |> Nirvana had their one and only gig in Budapest opening for TAD on 21 November 1989 . Until today there were no known photos of the event . These were taken by Zsuzsa Fejr who attended hoping to sell some photos and pay off the loan for her camera . She didn ' t sell them and had no idea that these are important in any way until her Nirvana fan hairdresser told her . submitted again due to typo in the date