Yeah I don ' t shave any of my body and it ' s not even for the reason of posting all my hairy arm pit pics and getting thousands of likes from all my extremist tumblr feminist friends . I think once you come to the realization you don ' t have to do anything with your body , you can do just that . Shave or don ' t shave , do whatever the hell feels good . <| sep |> I didn ' t get my first kiss till 21 and my longest relationship before that was for 3 months . Now I ' m 23 , I ' ve had sex multiple times , and am in a happy relationship that just hit a year and a half . It ' s different for everyone . <| sep |> Did you end up liking it ? <| sep |> Huh , that ' s an interesting way to do it . I have tried this , sort of , like my partner will be out for the night and I think oooh , I should watch some porn and have an involved wank session but I tend to forget . For me masturbating is more of a hmmm , I could go for some masturbation right now then I ask and go for it .