what ' s exactly horrible in the comment ? The missile cost Turkey Russian tourism , exports to Russia and Turkish businesses in Russia have all suffered . The price was huge with virtually zero benefits . Davutolu is gone , The turkish pilots who shot down the jet are implicated in attempted coup . Tell me a single benefit to Turkey in this story ? <| sep |> I ' m in a hitblock league , so it wasn ' t that bad a move . <| sep |> I ' m looking for ways to meet people who are queer , and at the very least around my age 34 , and whom I can hang out with on a semiregular basis . It feels like I ' ve lost all chance to have that kind of relationship because most people my age have families and don ' t hang out anymore . I ' ve found having friends of a similar age to be overrated . I ' m 27 . My bestie is 20 , I have a couple friends that are 19 , a few in their mid 30 s , and a recent friend that ' s quickly becoming one of my favorites that ' s 48 . As for how to make friends I ' ve made a few through OKCupid , I made tons by attending and then serving as a chair person for a local trans supportsocial group , and while it may be out of your comfort zone I made quite a few at the local LGBT bar . I ' ve also met a lot of friends through other friends . If you ' re looking mostly for queer friends I can vouch for this being a good way to do it . 95 % of my social circle is some form or another of LGBT .