It ' s only considered good , after being fried . <| sep |> Then he used to live under a extremely brutal psychopath and his even worse sons . <| sep |> If it was a square bubble , it would have been perfect . <| sep |> Is the art book worth it ? Just curious . <| sep |> It sounds like you have a pretty good sexual relationship with your girlfriend presently . Sex and relationships are a constantly evolving journey . There is no ' perfect ' plateau or ' doing things right ' and if you end up reaching one it usually means that a new mountain of exploration is just around the corner that you would never have imagined existed before . To keep things exciting between the two of you , just keep communicating about sex very important , try out new positions , new kinks , and engage in researching and studying about the topic . There is a nearly limitless amount of things to try out there ! For your more specific Q ' sShe can ride me but has to be bent forward towards me because being up and down is painful for her . Very normal , you may be hitting her cervix which can be very painful . My partner and I have this same issue . For women , grinding angled toward their partner helps get stimulation to the clit , which often feels better than an up and down motion . As a guy , while this is nice , the sensation of upanddown feels better to me so we do a mix of both with careful angle adjustments . If your girl is somewhat athletic , she could try squatting over you with her feet flat on the bedground , then controlling the depth with her leg squats . Just experiment with different angles to find something that you both like . Doggy style is kind of uncomfortable for me because we can ' t seem to get the angle right ? I think ? Try to get her to position her head and front further down , maybe put a couple pillows under her to have her lie down on them and get a sort of head down , ass up position . You want her to have a downward arch in her back , like a cat stretching yoga position . This should help you get a better angle and view of where you ' re inserting yourself . And the condoms I wear always end up getting pulled on tighter during sex and we have to stop multiple times to pull it off slightly so it ' s not so constricting . You might want to try a looser fitting condom . I never imagined it before I started using them , but I ' m actually girthier than average , and I have to use large size condoms in order for them to feel comfortable . Check out a condom sizing chart sometime to make sure you are getting the right size . Also , your girlfriend might be getting less lubricated at times , and condoms have a tendency to increase the dryness maybe buy and use some waterbased lube not oilbased cause that can make the condom rip and use it whenever things are getting a little dry .