This thing is diamonds ! <| sep |> I don ' t like the altright guys either , but stop calling them nazis and white supremacists . Start addressing people as individuals . These kind of things are used to generalize people so that you can disregard them . Pay attention , and if you disagree with someone then explain why . Stop dismissing people . If you don ' t like Trump , chances are you have yourself to blame for this election . You didn ' t listen to people . You dismissed them and put them into groups so that you wouldn ' t have to listen to their opinions . You made it so good ideas got thrown out of the window because it was more important to contrast the opposition , than do what ' s best for everyone . <| sep |> I spent a lot of time wondering why people do the things they do . Was it me , was it this , was it that . Bottom line , some people are just shitty people . I ' m glad that her best friend spoke up to you though , she sounds like a hugely decent person . Cut your fiancee out of your life , she doesn ' t respect you . I know it ' s shit right now but it ' ll get better . Why not just stay where you are , get a job for some money and explore for a bit ? If you need anything please do PM .