Have a good shift ? Let them have a goal , you did a good job . # JustFlyersThings <| sep |> meh . this build is so unfairyou can stand pretty much in everything and survive <| sep |> I think you ' re overreacting . No good kiss has ever come out of a truth or dare game so whatever happened is rather unimportant . If this truth or dare thing makes you so nervous , pretend it didn ' t happen . You like her , she might like you back and your friends know this . Go for it before it ' s too late these are obvious signs you have a chance , and if you let go , looking back you ' ll only regret not haven taken the opportunity . Good luck . Also , I would advise you not to get high if everyone else in the group is sober . <| sep |> Makes sense . Sometimes I think this happens with women naturally , depending on her life experiences . I find myself being attracted to men that are very different than my previous few boyfriends , but I ' ve also changed as a person and starting taking better care of my appearance . I ' m 35 but looking better than I did at 25 . My standards aren ' t higher now , just different . I find different things attractive , both physically and characterwise . I don ' t think you can force it though , it has no come from a place to being honest with yourself and being willing to put in effort to your own personal development .