Nostalgia is a powerful thing <| sep |> I really like this color combo . My dad got one just like this about 12 years ago or so and they only offered the solid color with stainless handles . <| sep |> Got an amazing one of my youngest cousin fishing . <| sep |> Haha . I hate tomatoes though shh don ' t tell Yui , they make me sick to my stomach . <| sep |> Yeah , if he did a trick 20 times in a row they had cameras covering all the angles , it ' d be easy to figure out what he ' s doing . <| sep |> Everyone is fawning over you guys wtf are you talking about ? <| sep |> Yes , because when done on a large scale it shifts the level of detail . If someone says I like organicallygrown green apples and someone else says I like sugar pears that melt gently in your mouth , you ' ll stick out and be odd if you say I like fruits . It would no longer be a satisfactory or accurate answer . Same with gender . Now there ' s the sense that the words ' man ' and ' woman ' are exclusively for cis people , because trans people can never embody those genders as fully as they do . I ' ve fought so hard just to be able to say I ' m a man , no qualifiers . But the way things are going I ' m going to need to delve deeper into the nuances of my gender identity to work out just how it differs from cis men and the trans men more manly than me , and perhaps conclude that I ' m really a androgynous genderfluid demiboy . For all I know it might be true . But I don ' t want to be . It makes me extremely , extremely dysphoric to realize I might not actually be a man . So I want a world where even ' androgynous genderfluid demiboy ' still falls under the category of ' man ', such that even if that ' s me , because I still fail to embody conventional manhood , I still get to call myself one . But if even assumedcis men far more masculine than me whom I ' ve always understood as male are starting to use all those terms as well , because honestly I don ' t think any person is 100 % binary , then what right do I have to call myself a man ? And as this spreads into common parlance and the definitions of ' man ' and ' woman ' get even stricter than they currently are , it would eventually be incredibly ridiculous for me to insist that I ' m one of the few actualmen in the world because lol look at me . And then I ' d probably just kill myself . So yes , it makes a difference in my life that people are making gender definitions narrower and narrower to the point that I ' ll no longer qualify for the gender box I spent so long trying to be accepted into , and have to find another box that accurately describes my failure . I ' d always thought trans advocacy was about expanding the definitions of man and woman , not shrinking them in a way that disproportionately disqualifies trans people . I do think there should be a third nonbinary box , plus maybe another couple or so . But at that point you ' ll have covered everything . one of my secret greatest fears is that one of my male role models might come out as nonbinary or a woman . Because if he ' s not a man , then there ' s no way I am , and that thought makes me feel physically ill .