Welcome ! glad it helped <| sep |> I see your point but logically speaking if you miss with low fastballs it will go into the dirt . If you miss with a high fastball it will be right down the middle of the plate ready to get hit hard . <| sep |> Sit down with her and explain that with the baby on the way , you both have to be a lot more responsible about how you spend your money . Tell her that from here on out , every penny spent must be accounted for . If it isn ' t a necessity , it can wait until you ' re in a better situation financially . It is unacceptable that you ' re broke a week before your next paycheck when you ' re making $ 2800 mo . and living at home for $ 200 mo . The commute to your work IS outrageous though . Is part of that 6 hours you mentioned because of using public transport ? Though , with a car payment , insurance , and gasoline , and upkeep of a vehicle being driven 3 hours each way every day might not be that much more economical . I ' m hoping your commute isn ' t actually that long , and some of that 6 hours you mentioned is due to waiting for various forms of transport .