Sorry , gonna have to run counter jerk on this one because I think a big part of the issue is the inability to see the other side as well . As crazy as it may be , they literally think of abortion as murder . No one cares about the opinion of murderers so it stands to reason that the thoughts of the hypothetical mothertobe wouldn ' t be on their priority list . Everyone and everything else , however , can make a strongly emotional case against if that ' s what you ' re looking argue for the people you want to argue to . Calling them crazy or insane like many on the sub are doing are dangerous over reactions that alienate the centerright we in the US literally just saw hand Trump the presidency . It simply weakens the cause of prochoice . Why not instead argue that it isn ' t a bad thing for everyone else involved ? The benefits to the woman are obvious anyway . We have a long historic precedent of desperate women going to horrible illegal chop shops . That is horrible and dangorous for everyone , not just the involved woman , and is worth arguing .