Top comment is good . And you should remember how superficial your crush is compared to this guy you ' ve been with for 6 years . You know almost nothing about your crush , so youre most likely assuming he has little to no flaws , or are assuming what you don ' t know about him must be perfect . This is almost never the truth . You will undoubtedly discover things about him you don ' t like if you choose to date him , and they may be huge deal breakers for you . Compare that to your BF , who you know very very well , his flaws and strengths , and you two STILL love each other . There ' s no right or wrong answer here , just a huge gamble vs a safe bet . <| sep |> why would you want to live in a place with so many things that can kill you . its not like you ' re prisoners anymore you can move , why don ' t you ?