Don ' t judge me , I just underwent a sex change operation . The hormones haven ' t kicked in yet <| sep |> I thought it was like 5325 , I ' d just snort it <| sep |> intersted in a unicorn set ? <| sep |> All sorts of problems with this . First , societal expectations are far more pressing on men than women . The latter can stay at home , be a single mom , a working mom , married , not married , career oriented or not and will have a cheerleader squad saying you go girl regardless of their choices or outcomes . Men have a lot more pressure to conform to certain expectations and if they they get razzed or can go die in a fire for all that anyone else cares . Hence the lopsided suicide rates as between genders . And the respect given to men who are selfreliant is a disincentive for guys to seek help , even when they need it . Secondly , we don ' t know if hypermasculinity causes mental health problems or if mental health problems lead to hypermasculinity . Similarly , we don ' t know if focusing on work will give you better life satisfaction , or if happy guys will naturally focus on their job . For TRP ' S part , the balance of thought is not about controlling women . Finesse , yes or what bloopers would call manipulate , but it ' s common knowledge that trying to control a woman is a losing proposition . The other points are a bit more complicated . TRP emphasizes work and career , especially when you are young . Equating the playboy lifestyle with spinning plates is a bit dodgy given TRP ' S emphasis about not pedastlizing or obsessing over pussy .