Yeah . While that ' s a nice ideal , we wouldn ' t have nuclear weapons and militaries and such if we were able to do that . You may want to reconsider your relationship with her , because you can ' t really force a person to see . She reminds me of someone I dealt with in the past , who was pretty naive as well . Hey this guy has done a ton of bad stuff in the past , but he deserves a second chance , even though he ' s shown no remorse over his past actions ! Like he never ever apologized to my friend for the way he treated her . I was like , lol okay , because people don ' t change for no reason . And I was right . She agreed with me later that I was right about him . He was a douchebag who just put on a nice guy persona to fool people .