Because I am married . <| sep |> Yeah it ' s not trolling when this is an international forum where people can be , and have been , prosecuted for posts made on their accounts . <| sep |> This is awesome ! Can I still sign up ? <| sep |> The final piece in my retirement plan comes together tomorrow . Finalise the contracts on my house in rural France . Exchange won ' t happen till mid march , and FI for 7 years after that . I know not everyone agrees with buying a home but it ' s part of my plan and am super excited . <| sep |> All done ! ! Oh man . Good predictions ! !!!!<| sep |> You can apply that positivity to your bullshit premed classes as well . <| sep |> was curious about your comment , so I looked it up . It ' s pretty well an even split it seems , with fathers slightly ahead . That being said , it is so unfathomable to me that any parent could do something like this . Jason , if you read this comment please know my heart breaks for you like so many others here . This is not on you , at all . There was no way for you to predict this outcome or prevent it , and I truly believe your actions were completely reasonable , you couldn ' t have possibly known . I am glad to see you are surrounded by family and please know there are thousands of people all over this earth reading your story and sending you love and support as well . If you ever need anything , or just feel alone and want a lot of people to listen to you and support you , we will all be here for you . Just let us know . You probably aren ' t ready for it right now , but there is a wonderful book written by a mother who lost her two sons . The circumstances are quite different , but the insight in it from a parent losing their children may one day help you on your own journey . If you find one day you would like to read it , let me know . Anyway , I know I ' m just a random internet person , but I am sending you so much love . You are never alone in this .