Will to live restored <| sep |> Maybe you just don ' t try hard enough . <| sep |> Asking women individually to lower their standards isn ' t going to work . Even if a woman personally feels sympathy for unattractive guys and the unfair treatment they receive , and even if that motivates her to give an unattractive guy a chance , she ' s still going to see how even extremely unattractive women date men way above themselves , she ' s still going to experience peer pressure , she ' s still going to question that relationship eventually which will lead to a dead bedroom . What could work , I think , is a clear message that would encompass all of society and promote the idea of . I dunno , looksmatching . How such a message should be worded , I have no idea . Can such a message work ? Also , no idea , but it hasn ' t been tried , so there ' s no certainty it won ' t work either . The point isn ' t to force women to step over their own sexual preferences . The point is to nurture more realistic preferences in women .