I like girls like that too , many of us guys do . I used to do the same thing when me and my gf got together . We were teenagers though , now I feel naive and stupid for acting that way . She also has a similar build that you ' ve explained . If you want to bulk up like you said then that ' s cool too , he ' ll appreciate that . Over the years though I ' ve learned that the person inside is more important than being my exact dream looks type , and as long as you guys connect emotionally then he will appreciate you regardless . Ive actually come to like more of her type too because of her . Point is , I would just keep doing you , being confident with what you have and work the attitude gives off a vibe that is sexy af and he ' ll appreciate you . The nonsense will slowly fade away , If not then he ' s too much . If a girl that is IG model status walks by now she just gives me a look see if I ' m lookin , she might get mad and punch my arm but it ' s just playful it doesn ' t go any further .