Wearing it to show your freedom of expression is very inconsiderate to the millions of women who have to wear it because they are oppressed by their governmentmale companion . Sure you could make the argument but it is the opposite of everything that the spirit of this freedom stands for . <| sep |> Did you get sol lol <| sep |> This could be so many places ! Any more hints ? <| sep |> It ' ll get better . Puppies need a lot of attention but when he hits 69 months the puppy separation anxiety is supposed to get a lot better . Mine is about 5 months and she ' s whined every time we ' ve left her alone but it ' s taking her less and less time to just chill out and fall asleep . She ' s also stopped whining when we leave the room and only sometimes sits by the baby gate to watch us . I ' ve read that the separation anxiety that puppies exhibit is mostly normal and likely to go away it looks different than separation anxiety in adult dogs , too . Look into it . We practiced by walking around from room to room and ignoring her and , soon enough , she wasn ' t jumping at the baby gate during dinner anymore . We regularly crate her while we ' re home for at least 20 minutes at random times switching up whether or not she ' s wearing her harness randomly because we take it off when we leave and we don ' t want her thinking they ' re taking off my harness , must mean they ' re leaving me alone forever . Leaving him in his crate while you ' re home will get puppy used to being alone and you can supervise to make sure he doesn ' t have an accident . Also , make sure his crate isn ' t too big ! The general rule is that they should be able to stand up and turn around and lay down with their legs stretched out . If there ' s room enough for them to walk around , there ' s room enough for them to designate a corner of their crate as their potty zone . Especially if your puppy is a rescue , he might already be used to pooping in his home . If the crate is too big , you can out up a cardboard divider or whatever else to get it down to the right size and adjust as he grows . Switch up the bedding if it ' s very fluffy and puppy pooped and maybe tried to hide it in the fluff ? , take out the fluff so there are less hiding places for poop . If there is no fluff , add the fluff to kind of trick your pup into regarding his crate as home and not his potty . Most importantly , patience . It ' s hard . I haven ' t had a full night ' s sleep since we got our pup because she ' s still going out at night to potty . BUT she only goes once a night now and soon enough , she ' ll be sleeping through the night . It gets better you got this !