i know for a fact this issue is much less trivial than you ' d think it would be at first . when people are against hunting , nothing will change their minds about it . it ' s part of their character , just like that desire inside you to go hunt is part of your character . it might be an irreconcilable difference between the two of you . and it ' s also never worth it to continue changing yourself for someone who apparently has flatout refused to change for you . good luck man , i hope it all works out in the way that os best for you . <| sep |> yeah , this is a horrible idea . absent information that the family will react well , you are not wrong to be anxious . <| sep |> That ain ' t hockey . <| sep |> They ' re totally worth it . I hope you ' ll like yours !