I have the same problem , been waiting over a day for my order . I used the phone option and got someone right away . Unfortunately he said they couldn ' t do anything other then refund and try again . But that would have taken longer then just waiting . So in short , don ' t bother contacting them , won ' t change anything . <| sep |> ohhh damn , that isn ' t nice . It SUPER isn ' t nice that your wife doesn ' t have your back , I guess she isn ' t getting how much its hurting you . I wouldn ' t go to Thanksgiving and I would make it very clear to your wife and her family that you do not feel welcome and if they can ' t keep their fat mouths shut then you have no interest in hanging around them . This is going to be messy because your wife is going to be angry and blaming and you can ' t back down because they need to GET IT , that its not cool to keep talking about your size . Like if it was your WIFE getting talked about , ' oh you ' re so TINY , do you EAT ? look at them tiny hands , I could stuff you in my pocket , how ADORABLE ' yeah , how much would she like that ? Its going to be a rough Thanksgiving , I ' m sorry stick to your guns and I wish you the best