watch Filthyrobot ' s tutorial videos , they help a lot <| sep |> Using the mod A Matter Of Time <| sep |> As far as I am concerned , that person that I reincarnate into , isn ' t me . True . But also , your future self , say the person who you will be in 10 years or 10 hours , is not exactly you either . And yet you care enough about that person ' s happiness to plan around that now . Similarly , any potential reborn self will care a great deal , and so you might want to take consideration of that now . For buddhist about acheiving non self or something , where I already achieved that goal from dying . Unfortunately not . Nonself is , in the first place , an unchanging fact of reality . This is not something to be attained there just is no self . On the other hand , the realization of this truth , the untying of the delusional construct of the self , is something which needs to achieved , and the passing away of any given form is not enough to achieve it . Forms are passing away all the time , and yet the ego goes on reinvesting itself , which is what it will tend to do during the rather more dramatic change at death , unless you train the mind otherwise .