I asked one thing of you , to give me biological grandkids , and I don ' t even get that . shudderYeah , OP , come on , how dare you not just pop out a couple ' a spawnlings so your mom can . uh . ruin their lives , I guess ? Pit them against each other ? Use them as trophies in her weird social circle ? I ' d recommend just not letting her contact you at all . You can ignore her , you can pretend it ' s not happening . It ' s difficult at first but it ' s worth a lot of spared grief later on . <| sep |> My buddies ex wife had a majority of male friends . Guess who she is dating now that they got a divorce . There is a difference between friends and friend . Her friends have crushes on her and they ' re either dudes on the secondary burner or she likes the attention .