It ' s not motivational at all , it ' s It ' s alright to not have set goals or deadlines for yourself . I write a blog and you best be damned well sure I ' ve got deadlines for myself and if I ' m late I ' m pissed . The soul enjoys deadlines . <| sep |> I would like to raise that point with her , but if she doesn ' t want to , what can I say <| sep |> You ' re correct in thinking that experience is not a guarantee that the person ' s knowledge is current or uptodate . There could be new research that contradicts what we ' ve always believed to be true . The bottom line is that we as a collective must be good consumers of research so that we can check each other . <| sep |> That sucks <| sep |> isn ' t there anything u want to do before u die ? maybe u could try making a bucket list of things u want to do , and try to complete some of them before u die , it might even make u want to live js