I gotta ask , what kind of response were you looking for to this ? <| sep |> I mean , i am not in position to argue about sitewide rules here , but to make it clear . Posting public information is considered a dox ? Dayum . <| sep |> Did he specify that it was casual or did you assume that just because you had sex on the second date that it was casual ? Most guys don ' t think that way . Also , if someone doesn ' t end up respecting you after sleeping with them on the first or second date then forget about them . Why the fuck should you judge someone for doing that when you obviously did it too ? <| sep |> Know how to take care of a newborn . Seriously , the amount of posts that pop up with people completely taken aback by what is normal in regards to sleep , pooping , crying , etc is very high . Do your research !