Pretty much every antigay argument more nuanced than Da Bibble sez so ! takes the following form If I was allowed to have sex with other men , I ' d never need to grudgingly have sex with icky women again . And neither would any other man ! If everyone stopped pretending to be attracted to the opposite sex , no one would ever make any babies ! Therefore , we must ban homosexuality or the very fabric of society will collapse ! Do you really think that this is something that straight people waste their time worrying about ? Homophobes are people who assume that everyone is just as deep in the closet as they themselves are , and don ' t have a sufficiently mature theory of mind to realize that anyone out there is actually straight .