Scrap that previous answer , I might be interested , I ' ll make a decision soon . <| sep |> I ' m sure there ' s a reference I ' m missing <| sep |> Except 0 . 5 % of 1 . 5 bn Muslims is still millions of people . White supremacists only make up like 0 . 05 % of the US population , thats only like a couple thousand people . Like in terms of scale and threat its not even in the same universe , the rate doesnt even matter when the quantity is so large <| sep |> Your first concern right now needs to be yourself . Do not factor this guy into it ' sDo you want this baby ? Are you prepared to sacrifice a lot of your future to avoid terminating this pregnancy ? If your ex wants nothing to do with it , are you prepared to do it all on your own ? After you ' ve made The Big Decision since it ' s way more time sensitive , then you can think about how to handle your ex . If you choose to abort , I would not tell him . He ' s long distance and he might try and ask you to keep it people get impulsive and emotional and reactions are unpredictable when you get that news which only confuses things . I ' ve known more than one woman convinced to keep a baby by an ex , only for the guy to get freaked out or too stressed and then he bolts . If you ' re going to have the child , then I would inform your ex . He should know that he had a kid . If he doesn ' t want to be involved , you should still get child support , because kids ain ' t cheap . Don ' t worry about ruining his happiness or whatever . It took two people to get you pregnant and just because he ' s far away and partying doesn ' t absolve him of his responsibility in that . His new girlfriend has a right to know too , because if they get serious and ten years down the line he finds out about this kid , then whoever his SO at the time is is going to have to deal with the fallout from that as well . If this is a deal breaker for her , she should know now , while it ' s early in their relationship .