Thank you so much for responding . I ' m trying very hard to not offend people needlessly , and you ' ve said a lot of things I couldn ' t really say . Like . it ' s one thing to be an asshole or a bigot . That shit needs to get shut down right quick . But as a society , we ' re doing pretty damn good . When I was a kid , trans people were ostracized , which sucks because you folks have the best fashion and generally amazing outlooks . Now we ' re arguing , not about people being trans , but about what to specifically label someone . We ' ve come a long way , I understand that the fight for equality can never stop . But it seems like some people are needlessly getting sucked into the angry wake of sjw ' s . <| sep |> Really what happened