I will not drink today ! Life is too good without it . Woke up this morning NOT hungover to a bunch of Happy Thanksgiving texts . Not too preoccupied by booze to enjoy life ! <| sep |> Can someone explain the story behind this gif ? <| sep |> Taliyah Illaoi reveal your cruel lack of taste . <| sep |> I ' ve been with Josh for almost 1 year it will be our anniversary in 2 weeks . We get along fine and we usually hang out on weekends with our mutual friends . I ' m a little confused by the second sentence are you saying that most of the time you spend with Josh is while hanging out with mutual friends , or do the two of you see each other oneonone on weeknights in addition to the group hang outs on weekends ? If most of the time you spend together is while hanging out with mutual friends , then it sounds like this is more of a friends with benefits situation than an actual relationship regardless of what labels you agreed to put on it . Time with the friend group is the priority , and sex or the occasional oneonone date with you is a bonus or something to do when there isn ' t a friend event happening . Which would explain why he didn ' t much care about having made plans with you to go to the party in his mind the decision was old friendgroup vs . new friendgroup instead of girlfriend vs . friends he was still being rude to bail on his friend ' s birthday , of course . After a year of dating , I would want to feel like we had an actual relationship and that I was a priority to him . It sounds like you want the same thing , in which case he ' s not the guy for you .