Aren ' t we forgetting something ? The brides family had black money from which they wanted to buy these things . <| sep |> I signed up for them a few months ago now . Were you using the Europe or USA store ? <| sep |> People cite that they can ' t control who they ' re attracted to as a defense , but it definitely doesn ' t have to manifest as wide , swathing generalizations and exclusions of entire ethnicities on dating profiles that ' s the textbook definition of racism . Even beyond the level of tact displayed none , claiming you would never be attracted to an entire race of people is still racism . If you want to turn someone down , do it on an individual basis . It isn ' t problematic to turn a high ratio of a certain ethnicity down because you aren ' t attracted to them but it most definitely is when you set up a race barrier for entry because you ' ve reduced them from an individual to a set of prescribed traits before you even talk to them again , this is prejudice , this is racism . If you can ' t see how this is harmful , how it alienates and dehumanizes , how it is little different from homophobic bigotry , then perhaps you need some serious reflection .