Im asking for trade <| sep |> I can ' t see any comments <| sep |> I ' ve heard about that country . That ' s beside the city of Canada right ? <| sep |> cert type S darkmatter adds ? <| sep |> Yeah . Now that it ' s getting to be around the holidays , and I ' m working a lot , when I ' m not working , laying in bed is all I do . Being depressed and feeling very . unemotional . I just feel empty . In the end I ' m glad I have my family , otherwise I ' d really have nothing <| sep |> I have a diagonally relative storyMy husband has adopted my kids from a previous relationship . He is black , they ' re both white and we have a biracial child together . Maybe not to this extreme , but i see my husband lower his standards for his adopted children , and expects a bit more from his bio child , even at their ages all under 10 ! . In my home , i don ' t think it has anything to do with race and everything to do with the fact their biofather was so absent , they NEEDED him so badly , he was playing catch up on getting to know them on top of being their father . With our baby , no one else has ever had the chance to do her wrong like that so he knows she doesn ' t feel like she needs him as desperately as the others do , so it ' s easier to give her higher standards . Now , i say diagonally because i cant understand why your parents would be anything but brimming with pride for you . Hell , i am thrilled for you ! You are very successful and not even a quarter of a century , yet . I suppose while my husband internalized and dug out a soft spot for our kids , your parents . did something a lesser person would and are now putting a wedge between you like they ' ve no sense . Maybe , eventually , they ' ll come around , and treat you better . Then you can choose to forgive them or not . Personally , I ' d probably keep someone who thinks so little of me at arm ' s length anyway until they can learn to be more respectful . You , of all people , have earned it . Not that you needed to , but there ' s no doubt they are treating you like an invalid .