Do you enjoy the tighter worker placement games over looser ones ? <| sep |> Until some jackass comes along and throws something wicked heavy into your backpack trashcan . BECAUSE SOMEBODY WOULD DO THAT . <| sep |> Uitel m pe sta cu dublu standardele lui . <| sep |> They ' re not mispronouncing , they ' re taking a stand <| sep |> What kind of butter do you use ? <| sep |> You sound like a perfectly reasonable daughter and your mom sounds like a total horror . She ' s a controlling , narcissistic , manipulative person who doesn ' t want you to have any agency in your like . She doesn ' t like it when you don ' t do what she wants , so calls it defiance . I think it ' s highly unlikely you have ODD , but even if you did the suspected biggest cause of that is strict parenting . So it ' s your mom ' s fault anyway . Just get on with your life , do what you ' re doing , and if you can get some counselling through your school try it . I think it ' ll help deal with the fact that your mom isn ' t ' normal ', at least compared to the why moms are depicted on TV or in books .