We split up solely because of college after highschool . Neither of us wanted it to end but knew itd be pointless to carry on a relationship through college . I got out of college and did my 4 years of service because I went to a military academy . I retired from the military and got in touch with my old girlfriend thru a friend of a friend . Cut to a few years later and were happily married <| sep |> It ' s going to be worth the weight . <| sep |> Ah ok . Thought I ' d ask . Thanks . <| sep |> Personally , I like the versions of Batman that seemed to believe in ' save the sinner '. I remember seeing this more in the Animated Series and related comics , and more with tragic villains like Harley it seems to have to been lost more with the dark and gritty versions today . But at points , it ' s been more like Batman is genuinely committed to trying to reform his rogues gallery , that beneath his menacing exterior he views them as people to be saved as well . Never been sure if I just was reading into some scenes and letting nostalgia cloud my memory . But those moments seemed like a better explanation than a selfish desire for moral purity IMO .