They get up in arms about arms <| sep |> No , this was before cell phones were really a thing . I didn ' t have one , and I couldn ' t see the license plate from my vantage . Probably around late 90 s I think . <| sep |> It is indeed Monsoon season here . Mythrils are the unexpected part of this weather this year it seems <| sep |> Stella , Ran or Fuco as DD . Personally , not a great fan of Briand front . Would put Darion instead . If your runes are good , I would even put Chasun BL . <| sep |> I ' ve gotta say , Maria won this one , on many levels . Cruel Hunter ! xD <| sep |> Isn ' t shaq the most gifted ? <| sep |> I think the fact that you feel happier when he ' s not around is a big sign . He definitely isn ' t doing anything to help with your depression , and the stress you feel to support him is only going to make it worse . As for him never bothering to find out anything about you , make you feel special , or make sure you ' re taken care of sexually , that ' s also a huge red flag . He ' s using you . He sees that this relationship can benefit him and he feels like he doesn ' t need to put in any effort . That ' s not okay . Moving out of state to be closer to an ex is also a huge red flag . I ' m not an expert or a counselor or anything , but in my personal experience , nothing good has ever come from a boyfriend who ' s friends with an ex or has a really close girlfriend who ' s like a sister . I ' m not saying that he ' s cheating on you , but I would keep my guard up . It seems like you have come a long way since the terrible things that happened to you and it seems like you are a strong , independent person . Maybe take some time to be with yourself and be happy alone for a while . I hope everything works out for you , you deserve better than this !