I did ! Idk this game definitely has a better player community then a lot of f 2 p rpg ' s i ' ve come across in my short time of playing any of them . <| sep |> In my experience , it took 16 months for my mom and 17 months for my dad to start using the correct ones . If you haven ' t seen them and haven ' t been in constant contact , I wouldn ' t draw a line anytime soon . As much as it hurts , they may just need time to adjust . On the other hand , if you see someone who hasn ' t known you your entire life often , they shouldn ' t be taking too long to adjust . Cis friends should do their best to correct themselves asap . If they mess up on accident , correct them , move on . In my experience , my friends started as soon as I saw them in person , although many accidental slip ups early on . Basically , it ' s up to you to read the situation . Someone who doesn ' t see you in person often can ' t get used to you being trans in person right away . Make sure to talk with them about it though . Pick a time when they have time to sit down and talk . Express your feelings about it . Hell , use I feel statements even . Keep the conversation calm , and do not put them on the defensive . If you put someone in the defensive in any conversation , that conversation is already a lost cause .