Let me know if you send them out again ! <| sep |> This is the point . It works . Not putting effort for a girl is an old school demonstration of higher value . But it ' s just ONE . RP wise , it ' s probably the most important one . You ' ll see that being said in two fashions here . One is keep abundance mentality , which is supposed to shield you from pursuing a single girl . Pursuing a single girl is a catastrophe . The other is don ' t rely on validation from women , which is supposed to mean you shouldn ' t waste a lot of resources seeking women . It ' s a mistake that will ultimately lead you to a shitty end too . Either way , despite being the most important high value trait RP wise , because it saves your time , effort and resources , game wise it ' s just one among many other traits . If you only rely on that , you ' ll be outgamed . You won ' t be bothered because you are being outgamed , but you will be outgamed . lol Game wise I ' d say the most important are looks and amused mastery , for the immediate attraction . You should strive for both , but if you lack one , capitalize on the other . lol After the initial attraction , status will also play an enormous role for attraction .