So . don ' t do it ? <| sep |> There was a time 2 years ago when the colts where superbowl favorites according to every pundit . <| sep |> Holy shit , 25 yards on the first drive . Steelers DST should be projected for 50 pts . <| sep |> Time for a new wife <| sep |> What do you mean ? It ' s the same chord progression as far I understand as the chorus <| sep |> Yeah I agree with some of that . I mean its great to have more of what I love but Id rather have what is closer to his vision as opposed to sequel garbage . Wasnt Miyazaki involved with Darksouls 3 ? <| sep |> You want me to come with ? Vinyl asks . <| sep |> Imo you have nothing to feel guilty about . You are allowed to be happy and you are allowed to enjoy your new home and no , it doesn ' t mean that your previous home is bad , you ' re not a computer that needs to map everything to 0 or 1 . You are not a bad person if you want your kids to have a good healthcare and your husband a steady job . Of course they are sad but fact is , you have your own live now that you ' ve grown up . So do they . It ' s only natural . I have a friend who moved here a few years ago from Russia alone and is now married and has little children . The grandparents got Skype , so they can regularily see and talk to their grandchildren and they visit rather often 45 times a year , I think . My friend also will visit them on New Year with the children they were too little to fly until this year . So situations like that , while not easy , are certainly manageable . And no , my friend isn ' t super rich . You need to communicate to your parents especially your mother it seems , that you love them and would love them to be able to be around your children on a more frequent basis but at the moment this is just not possible . Your live has led you to another country and for the time being , that is the best for your family . That you miss them just as they miss you , but you have also to live your own live . And ask them not to fuck off but to help you through this time . Because frankly , you ' re the one who ' s apart from the family , in another country , with another culture . They still have your siblings . I know it can be hard , but please don ' t let them shame you into a decision . Again , you ' ve done nothing wrong there and are certainly not the villain in this situation . I wish you best of luck anyways .