WILL YOU PM ME THE PMZ THAT OTHER PPL PM ' D U ? <| sep |> Why should they ? They want to protect their image and that ' s a way to do it . <| sep |> Holy shit , I use an argument often and fairly rarely find people willing to look past the words used in the argument to see the point behind it that the reason people have gut reactions to words like nigger and cunt are the rarity in which they are heard . The example I always use to illustrate it is that people in Harry Potter seem to get slightly nauseous , or wince at the mention of Voldemort ' s name . By making a society feel like some words cannot be used , we make those words painful . We give those words power by attempting to reduce their impact . It makes it so that they are offensive regardless of context or intent .