As long as they can relate to your problem . It ' s not for all men , so much as those who feel a burning urge to define themselves as representing all men . And even then , you need to filter out all the bad advice . But yeah , for some people , it ' s done the good that others wouldn ' t . But still you ' ve got women around who in their solipsism can ' t understand why guys don ' t ask for help . Cause derr when I ask for help everyone helps me . Most people never get past their own experiences . If we ' d been switched at birth , the odds are good you ' d be asking me to seek out help , because it was always repaid for you to the point of overkill . And I ' d be just out of prison , having learned that it doesn ' t pay to confront a system that doesn ' t give a shit about you .