Sometimes that is only to discourage men from doing that to them regularly . How would that even work ? The next guy doesn ' t know that she did that to the last guy . <| sep |> wow , perfect . love <| sep |> It ' s normal to come to a place where you see faith in God as a coping mechanism . Mainly , because it is . But because it ' s a coping mechanism doesn ' t mean that ' s all it is . God is real , and faith happens to be true . One of the great tests is to come to this place and still hold onto God , even though you can ' t see daylight yet . If you can do so , you will protect yourself from a world of woe in terms of sowing and reaping in the flesh . God ' s promise is that He does His greatest work in us during our times of weakness 2 Cor 12 , and He has promised to work all things for good , even when we are weak , as long as we hold fast to His love Rom 8 . 2628 .