As a girl , I ' ve been approached by way too many really creepy old dudes hitting on me and general agressive weirdos to talk to strangers anymore . 34 of the time it starts off nice and then they go full weirdo DX thigh grabs , dudes jerking off staring at you , old dudes trying to take you home , guy fixing my jacket collar , stalker , lady yelling me I ' m dying because I ' m pale and my blood is bad , judgy lady who hates young people . I think I attract weirdos ! <| sep |> That was beautiful <| sep |> I was once offered a promotion that would have put me in direct supervision over a particular coworker of mine . This co worker was a really good dude that the owner fuckin hated . Meanwhile , the owner loved me . This coworker was a good , fun guy . Yeah , he goofed off sometimes , browsed facebook on his phone and such . But he always got his work done and he was always ready to help out other people if they fell behind in their work . It was pretty apparent to me at the time that the entire purpose of my promotion would be to enforce the owner ' s vision of a everybody work all the time , no fun allowed workplace . Anytime the owner saw something he didn ' t like , he was going to come to me and tell me to stop it from happening . So yeah , I turned down the raise . Though , if I wasn ' t already planning my exit from that company , I might have taken it just for the pay bump .