Thanks both for your replies . Lease is up June 2017 , so I ' m keeping my fingers crossed . What do you think ? <| sep |> My flying experience on Sunday . Spent an hour uncomfortable with my arms pressed against my sides so I wouldn ' t crowd the other passengers my default flying mode . Finally notice my arms aren ' t even close to touching them and relaxed . Nice to not have to go full turkey . <| sep |> Nobody with brains is questioning her character . Just crooked ass CABMMA . If CABMMA is questioning your character , you are probably doing something right . <| sep |> Misleading . I have a mother in law who is deaf , and can lip read at an astounding 75 percent . Almost unheard of . It ' s so direct and simple that members of the family stop vocalizing in front of her . I literally stop making sounds if I am talking to her . There ' s no point .