I ' ve noticed she seems to kick up a fuss anytime I try to help people , but her complaint is usually that we should be focusing on the big blight problem rather than all the little problems we encounter along the way . She ' s not really wrong . It ' s just sort of a convention of the genre . You do a thousand tiny quests and then it all comes together in a way that helps you complete the big quest . Plus once you ' ve visited all your potential allies it becomes clear you ' d have pretty slim pickings if you just abandoned everybody who had some bullshit problem that prevented them from fighting Darkspawn with you , but I can appreciate that wouldn ' t be immediately clear at the start of the journey . <| sep |> All I remember is that I wasn ' t prepared nor old enough . It was good though .