But BOTH of the mirrors display the same exact image . They ' re the same . And the post says One makes me look short and fat when that is not true . They both have her looking the same way . Her distance from the mirror changed . Thus your theory of every other mirror being slimming is wrong . Because she thinks one of these is normal . <| sep |> That ' s been on my mind for weeks now . <| sep |> Iirc that was kind of the point . They do gags like that a lot . Chandler ' s goatee , his college hair style , Rachel ' s nose , Ross ' s afro , etc <| sep |> Oh I haven ' t had any problems with that <| sep |> Here are a few resources that might help explain . and there is a coming out letter transgenderexperiences . pdfAdditionally there might be people from PFLAG for example helping www . pflag . orghugs