argument of a 4 year old he started itYeah they were holy wars fought for land and wealth , but the Crusades went further than just combating the threat of invading Muslims . Do yourself a favour and google Albigensian Crusade . Not all Crusades were to defend their lands . <| sep |> What a bellend <| sep |> Do you let overweight people eat ? <| sep |> I mean , you could try thinking and talking it through when you ' re calm and rational , but lets be honest if you ' re that opposed to her being around , why did you get involved with him in the first place ? What was so great about him that you decided to go ahead with it ? I ' ll attempt to be civil and suggest that if you really like him that much , maybe you should try arranging to meet up with her for a bit if that ' s any sort of possible road trip hooray ! to see how you really feel about her in person . But to be thoroughly honest , my immediate instinct is that you put yourself somewhere you know you have no desire to be . Calm down first anyway , then decide what ' s more important to you your lifestyle choices , or your man .