we live about an hour and a half apart . So , if he were interested , he ' d be focused on making the most of his time with you , right ? The entire time he was here , he was texting and snapping other guysBlatantly disrespectful . But , if you ' re okay with being disrespected , then I guess wouldn ' t be that big of a problem . One time I saw that he was talking about me and mentioned it , but he wouldn ' t tell me what he was saying about me . DISRESPECT . I feel as if he may be hiding something from me . My guess would be that you ' re the butt end of a joke and that you ' re too naive to realize or understand what ' s going on . We celebrate our two weeks tomorrow . I ' m really concerned for you that this is so new and he ' s already doing things that you ' re interpreting as dishonest . Listen to your gut instinct . It ' s telling you there are red flags ! If it weren ' t , you wouldn ' t be here asking .