My pup used to chase the cats when we first got him . I would always correct him . Occasionally he ' d be sent to another room and put on a short stay as punishment . In the beginning we would keep him on a leash . And when he started to react to the cat , just step on the leash so he can ' t chase . We just kept correcting him until he got the idea , it gets him no where . They aren ' t best friends still . But , he ' s learned to ignore them for the most part . <| sep |> 24 male here and I would love too <| sep |> Is this what you are looking into the relationship ? You both are not on the same page which is a red flag and you should not overlook . You are not his priority so do not be with someone who does not consider you as a priority . Don ' t you think that you are wasting your time and allowing him to have fun with you ? By revealing his intentions show that he does not want to be with you and want to get rid of you but do not want to put blame on him so he puts the ball in your court to decide and he probably knows that you would not be with him in this circumstances . Overall , he is not the guy for you so you should not waste your time and energy after him . Better to find another partner who wants to be with you on the long run . You definitely deserve a better partner than him .