What switches does that baby have ? <| sep |> devs want it guessing based everyone liked it reactionary based . But we just deal with it <| sep |> You haven ' t mention your and yours BF ages . But I ' d guess early 20 s . If so , dont focus on merriage . Sure I imagine having kids and family with my GF after a month , just for the sake of is it possible to even imagine ? But overall , I wouldn ' t put any focus on that . If hes in early 20 s , you asking or being curious about merriage is probably scaring him off and a ultimate bond , maybe triggering some of his insecurities . Enjoy the relationship you have now . If you are both in love , doing what you want , why would you need a paper to say , it ' s legit ? You both know it is .