Up vote just for using a character from banner of the stars . <| sep |> Yeah and who is James Carville married to ? Sometimes spouses don ' t agree politically . <| sep |> ustonetear . He was Hillary ' s IT guy who asked people for advice on how to delete some emails . He ' s on trial now IIRC . <| sep |> Almost 3 months out of an 8 . 5 year relationship . I have good and bad days . Still more bad than good , but there are at least spaces between the bad and I ' m grateful for that small progress . Although I know that I still have a long way to go . <| sep |> In my opinion , yes . People everywhere have drama with each other , and there are shitstirrers who don ' t stop . The better and nicer cosers aren ' t recognised , or have left . <| sep |> I wish I had the answer for you . Im the kinda guy that has his life SORTED when single . Rich social life , check , good job , check , hobbies , check . But when I meet someone Im into . Jesus christ , its like I funnel all my priorities into that person and live and breathe on their attention and investment in me to the point where it makes me neglect the aforementioned aspects of my life . Id say try to force yourself to give time to your meactivities . If you can do that without getting too much relationship anxiety sounds like your girl is a pretty sure thing so you should be ok that would probably be the healthy thing to do .