it is true that the effects of HRT aren ' t permanent until roughly 6 months , It really depends . Trans men can have permanently deepened voices in less than that , and trans women can have permanent breast buds as well . Also fertility . <| sep |> Do you have trello access ? We have a feature board there . <| sep |> So I watched the video a second time and this is just my personal take based on my style and what works for me . First , I don ' t give a flying fuck what the girl thinks or feels or why she feels the need to not come off like a slut . Way too much emphasis placed on analyzing the girl and not enough practical advice on the mind set you should have and some real world counters to her comment . The second big problem is using this advice you would just come off as a pussy and playing the nice guy , which is great if you ' re playing the long game and trying to get a girlfriend , but obviously that ' s not the goal . It sucks but girls love confident guys that are fun and a little bit of an asshole and that give them very little validation .