soft like Ted Ginn Jr , The hard G would be the Cotton Gin pronounciation <| sep |> Sagan ' s book covers this too , although I ' d say Thomas were more prominent . <| sep |> You are calling him a bad guy , you are treating him like one . Therefore , not only did I refuse to lend him the money even though I don ' t really have the amount he asked and told him so , but I also refused to lend he and a mutual friend a cell phone to call a friend of theirs to ask for the money my phone had money on it , but I didn ' t want to lend the phone for that purpose , so I said it didn ' t , our mutual friend wanted me to show him my phone . You wouldn ' t even share a phone call . And there is standing up for what you believe and there is being an ass when it ' s not your baby and he can ' t handle it .