Yes , if you don ' t believe me , you don ' t want to know . Try not to use the term dem referring to me . The dem party is nothing more than a corrupt soapbox for largeompanies and banks . <| sep |> First , you did nothing wrong . I know logically you know that it ' s biology and that there ' s nothing that you could have done to prevent it . But you are not a failure . You ' re entitled to your feelings . If you feel bitter and angry , then that ' s exactly how you should be feeling right now . You have every right to be angry . Your uterus had one job and it fucked it up . Fuck that shit . Take care of yourself , do what feels right for you to heal from this , and if you feel like you ' re not coping well there ' s nothing wrong with seeing a therapist . If it makes you feel any better , there ' s a stranger on the internet sending you hugs .