She said she ' s worried each time she rides her horse that she ' s doing damage to its undeveloped back . I ' m like wtf stop riding her then . Did you actually say something or have you been biting your tongue the whole time ? Report it . Yesterday . <| sep |> It ' s not inherently worse . However , generally something is required to be triggered in order to cause someone to say those things to a man . Which still isn ' t okay , but is drastically different than saying Hello on voice chat or even something like Reaper flanking left and having people immediately shit on you . That ' s the difference . Both men and women get harassed and flamed over mistakes which is still wrong and should still be confronted , muted , and reported . The difference is , women seem to the be the only ones that get harassed purely for who they are and thus are harassed far more often . This is why prerecorded voices saying completely standard things result in 3 times as many negative comments for women in this study for example . problem of harassment and trolling isn ' t nonexistent for men and no one is suggesting it is . It is however uniquely bad for women in a way that is entirely a result of their gender .