This is important . You have to say something to get past it . Then you can either decide if the friendship is more important or if you wish to opt out because it might be too painful for you . Had this exact situation happen to me but I chose the friendship . Now we are great friends , we even double date , and no feelings involved . Everyone happy . <| sep |> But one of the reasons he can ' t be trusted with the office is the very fact that he won ' t do away with his conflicts of interest . It ' s precisely that lackadaisical attitude toward morality and duty that make him so dangerous . <| sep |> Oh lord , the it was fine because he was Christian line got me . That ' s how it is , example Cousin has 4 children by 4 different dudesshe just turned 25 , doesn ' t work , had an affair with a married man , stole money from our grandma , the list goes on , but it ' s okay because she ' s a christian and Jesus forgives her Haha I ' ll be okay , Its a weird empty feeling but I have a great boyfriend , two beautiful sisters sadly they live a ways away and my cats Also good for you for getting out of that abusive situation