I blame Taima . <| sep |> Never leave home without it <| sep |> I have a tanzanite engagement ring too ! This looks beautiful , and I love that it is really meaningful to you . Congratulations on getting engaged ! <| sep |> We are in Utah but it came up last time my husband was doing the custody arrangement with her ex . She was told that even when the kids are sick they must go with the parent that has the custodial time , unless that parent your dad in this example says he doesn ' t want to take you . In my opinion your mom is kinda being a dick for not switching holidays . You are going to be with your mom and her family for thanksgiving and Christmas I ' m guessing the least she could do is switch a holiday for next year .