So someone has to get angry or violent for it to be discrimination ? You ' re right in the fact that , based on the OP , he didn ' t seem to get angry or threaten her , which is why it was her wrong to go on social media and say This man is a piece of shit , and I hope people are shitty to you as well . But that doesn ' t change the fact that he had no problem with her , and seemingly quite liked her if he slept with her , right up until the moment he found out she was trans . Obviously he ' s not me , so I can ' t just assume that if he didn ' t know if he had a problem , and needed time to think things through and whether he was comfortable with this . But the fact that he , upon learning about her being trans , told her to leave , instead of waiting for her to leave , collecting his thoughts , and then moving forward at a later date once he got over it , suggests that he is not comfortable with it , in my opinion .