Well it indicates you ' re fat so yeah . <| sep |> Life just feels like it ' s not fair amiright ? This literally just happened to me , and she was going to be the first girl I would ask out . Found out the day that I was going to ask that she was already with someone <| sep |> I don ' t go to bars , so I ' m not much help there . I do spend a lot of time at theme parks . One thing that ' s worked well is meal places , especially when it ' s crowded , and just asking to join a table . Then you have the food to discuss , the event , whatever else is going on . Same thing with being in line or otherwise waiting for something . For a bar , try asking if there ' s a particularly good drink they serve , or if they frequently go there .