If he did come to CFB it would clearly be as Dantonio ' s new OC because he just wouldn ' t be able to resist the urge to beat his little brother again . <| sep |> just put my vote in to even it up . <| sep |> In a perfect world , wrongly convicted people don ' t get executed , either . I get what you ' re saying , though . <| sep |> I don ' t think it has anything to do with gay shame . This entire situation has nothing to do with being perceived as gay . The majority of gay men and lesbian women don ' t want to date trans people . Both groups tend to react badly when unknowingly being with a trans person . It has nothing to do with shame and everything to do with sexuality . Heterosexuals have a natural sexual aversion to the same sex . Homosexuals have a natural sexual aversion to the opposite sex . Neither can be overridden and neither is a moral decision . If it was able to be overridden then sex conversion therapy for gays would have worked . It didn ' t and is viewed as inhumane for the psychological trauma it caused . The main problem is that some trans people want or wish to override that natural sexual aversion . Which I think is the real reason for not disclosing . Hoping there is a chance to override those natural urges . I don ' t think there is any fighting those natural urges or aversions . Either you ' re open to dating trans or you ' re not . I don ' t think there is any way to make room for it , it ' s there or it ' s not . It ' s one thing to change your gender , but it ' s impossible to change your sex . So even though a transwoman is a woman , she is also a male . I don ' t think that natural aversion from heterosexual men or homosexual women is going to change . I don ' t think it ' s able to change . Although I recognize sexuality is a scale , but I don ' t think your place on that scale changes . And that scale is just a measurement of your natural attraction and aversion for the same and opposite sexes .