Yeah we wouldn ' t want that xbox to get hurt that ' s for sure . <| sep |> So , you are in an exclusive relationship right now , but she or you both ? do not want the commitment ? At the same time , she does not want to lose you , because you two are so compatible . I ' d say , in the end it all boils down to how you feel about it . I know form personal experience , that emotions and rationale don ' t always end up with the same result . Maybe you think you ' d be fine with her seeing other dudes and maybe also you seeing other women . But actually SEEING her with antoher guy or knowing that she is with someone might make you feel very bad about it all of a sudden . Looks like you two are openly talking about it , so I ' d say go through all the hypothetical situations . Try and make up all possible scenarios and go through them in conversation . Maybe , that imagination of things will give you an idea how you feel about it . I don ' t know . But I find this conversation fascinating . Thanks for sharing .