When I was around 10 a guy 6 years older than me and his friends tied me to a fence , pulled my pants down and fondled me , said they would make me into their pet , and that they would break me . I got away , told my mother and nothing happenedMy own mother didn ' t call the police on a teenager who was planning on making me his slave Years later he rapes two girls at a party including a family friend and she gets more sympathy from my mother than I didI ' m not going to lie , I stopped playing outside after that , I felt let down and unsafe <| sep |> Nah , farther east on the no 1 <| sep |> OP , you should accept your boyfriend ' s mom ' s offer and allow yourself to leave your emotionally and verbally abusive mother . Today it ' s cut off your hair , no Thanksgiving dinner , Don ' t go see the relatives , but the ultimatum will not end there . Everyday will be a different ultimatum she will place to intimidate and shame you into never seeing your family and mutual acquaintances again to save her own pride . She does not deserve your time until she faces the hard fact that this is who you are . It might take years , and unfortunately in this case there is a chance she might not ever come around . In any case . Try to start saving up so that no matter what happens , you don ' t have to resort to your mom ' s house again .