Yeah . Need anything ? <| sep |> I ' ve worked with people involved in custody disputes , both men and women , as a legal aid volunteer . By and large , the men are in court because the mothers of their children have drug problems . Many not sure if I ' d say most , but a very significant portion of the women are in court because the fathers of their children have drub problems and also beat the shit out of them . <| sep |> It ' s rather ironic that she ' s insisting a kid should be welcome at an adult gathering when she ' s watching someone else ' s child for probably the same reason . I bet she regrets agreeing to babysit and is taking it out on you . Hopefully she ' ll realize that and apologize . <| sep |> Directly . When a special interest group holds a fundraising dinner and invites all of its wealthiest employees to bundle $ 1500 donations to the political party that was invited . Welllllll . We are in some grey area . I would like to see that sort of behaviour stop and there are multiple ways to do it .