I love dancing and music and going out with friends . I don ' t really like the people there though . I don ' t like that people have to dress a specific way . I don ' t like that guys praise the diva kind of girl . Maybe I don ' t like them because I am looked at like I am a freak because I dress and behave differently . I am not the kind of kind of guy that will look at a girls ass first thing nor I fantasize of the blowjobs if she has swollen lips . I don ' t like hitting on girls in general , I like to approach them as friends like I approach everyone . I don ' t like that girls accept this . Maybe I feel this way because the friends I had back when I was going to clubs had a completely different mindset of mine . I was wondering why I was so sensitive compared to them , why objectifying women like they did didn ' t feel right at all .