1 . Deal with your shit . Get over your issues . Literally any sign of fear or self consciousness is going to turn her off exponentially more than if your face looks like Harvey dent . 2 . If she makes a comment about your scars or whatnot , respond with they ' re actually scars from the coat hanger . I have a complicated family dynamic and say it with fucking confidence , a light grin , but don ' t laugh , never laugh at your own jokes . 3 . Don ' t tell her . Shell probably look worse in person too . 4 . Do things that are cool . Go skydiving it ' s 150 . 00 , it ' s cool , and fucking say you ' re scared . sack up tale a vacation found a 120 . 00 round trip ticket to Colorado this week , take salsa lessons 50 . 00 on Groupon , take cooking classes women love en who can cook . 5 . Go to a dermatologist . Do what he says . Go to another one if you don ' t see results . 6 . Audible . Read a book . Talk about it . Be interesting . I suggest how to win friends and influence people .