Wow we ' re getting deeper with Kreeper . <| sep |> L ' eroico popolo piemontese non ceder , bagna cauda , a noi ! s <| sep |> I was probably early 20 s . That would make this in the early 80 s in eastern IA . I think the highway was 218 at the time . I was 6 3 and about 150 lbs then , I doubt the kids noticed I was skinny and young , tho . The oldest looked maybe 8 . Now that my beard is mostly grey , I may get a suit and drive around doing random good deeds around the holiday . I smiled for a month just thinking about the kids faces so it ' s not completely altruistic . <| sep |> Indeed , this is a good problem to have . <| sep |> Hi , thanks for the kind words , they really mean a lot to me and my wife . We do have to go for therapy in a couple of weeks , hopefully that will help some more . I know this might sound harsh but it doesn ' t seem to have affected my wife like it had me . I don ' t know if this is because the child can still be hers genetically or if she is bottling it up ? We have been told that our sperm bank is fairly small too but I ' m sure it will be good enough . It ' s just a bit shocking to have your whole life changed in as little as 18 months from being sure you ' ll have a baby to being told no .