It ' s like wearing a dress because your friends told you it would be funny , then your parents show up and you start to feel like a fucking idiot . Then the girl you like shows up and you realize what a huge mistake you ' ve made . <| sep |> I ' m bad at it , and it ' s a dealbreaker for me even white lies . I suffer on occasions when I have to lie , or even just have to be diplomatici . e . job interviews , first dates . It feels like a huge betrayal to my sense of self . I wish I was better at embellishing stuff . I consider white lies to be good wishes or compliments you don ' t necessarily mean . I sometimes use them to avoid conflictyeah , your new hair looks nice , but I never use my usual emotional wordingand squeaking sometimes , ha ! in these cases . I find any kind of lying to be a misuse of trust , really . If you always say nice things when I ask your opinion about something , and I sense that you either don ' t care or are lying , I ' ll just stop asking for or trusting your opinion . I respect you trying to be nice . I ' d just prefer if you worded your opinion nicely as a constructive criticism , instead .