Valentimo was asked what his favorite Thanksgiving food was . His response Ice cream <| sep |> That ' s funny a lot of the feminists I talk to just want wageequality or to not worry about getting raped when they walk home from workAnd you won ' t find a single person disagreeing with that . It ' s just radicals who give real feminists a bad name . I ' d consider myself a feminist . <| sep |> What he did before being with you is his business and isn ' t an indicator of how things will pan out for you and him . I was wondering if he had some sort of abusive or manipulative relationship with another women in the past , but it just seems like he dealed with his situation by exploring other women . Everyone ' s different . Everyone deals with their emotions differently . That being said , you ' re right that snooping is a big nono . Trust your boyfriend based on his actions and words during your relationship , not his manwhoring stage .