I think this post shows insight into yourself and that you are able to set boundaries for yourself . I ' ve had to cut people out of my life who I felt were unhealthy and felt guilty about it at the time and since being diagnosed with BPD perceived it as splitting . One such person was a pathological liar who used her lies to one up me in any way possible and another spent 2 . 5 hours telling me all these transgressions I had committed against her , as a way to diagnose me with BPD . The point being is that we are not always the toxic person and have just as much right to end toxic relationships with people as nons without it being judged as part of our illness . <| sep |> How much is shipping the evolve to 11204 ?