Well sorry for wanting adequate and equal care for these people who you all seem to forget also pay taxes . <| sep |> Because your girlfriend is speaking with queer women , aka , more open minded . You ' re speaking to , and I ' m assuming here , just heterosexual women , who ' re much more closed minded , hence differences the reactions . Some women are too closed minded , they think it ' s wrong , full stop . Others might think yeah , I have a girlfriend , but it ' s toootally open ! As long as you approach it appropriately offer a meet up with a new girl and your girlfriend , so that any new girl is relieved of being the other woman , and be mindful of the kind of girl you approach , then you should have better luck . <| sep |> Ugh . I hate this . It ' s a two fold problem . 1 seems to be normal around here that as soon as a woman starts the ttc journey , her body decides to change and throw out symptoms that NEVER EVER happened before . W . T . F . Body . Grr . 2 Hyper awareness . It drives me nuts . All of the sudden I notice every thing about my body . The struggle is real .