Very good , skeleton . This needs more attention . <| sep |> I ' m leaving the apartment and he is staying . We reached a settlement that we are both okay with which includes a provision that I am allowed to take anything I want from the apartment to either keep or sell and keep the profits . There ' s a lot I ' m leaving because he paid for before we were married , and I feel that ' s fair . But this whole provision means that I can take whatever I want and that is a huge amount of stuff that I just don ' t have space for . Part of me wants it all because I worked hard for it but it just doesn ' t suit my life moving forward . Thank you so much for your kind words and advice . I ' m taking care of myself and trying to heal as best as I can . It ' s hard to make decisions like this when you are dealing with all sorts of emotions .