Thank you 3 Happy Thanksgiving ! <| sep |> I get noticed by benpai though <| sep |> Or maybe you ' re the liar <| sep |> In the real world the strong make the rules . I mean what was the legal basis for invading Iraq by US and UK ? and it happened anyway . <| sep |> Wouldn ' t a neutron star be more perfectly round ? <| sep |> Well normally you want to start with something pretty non aggressive and see how comfortable they are with that . Like just a tap on the shoulder and then slowly escalate depending on how she responds . Since you are blind and can ' t easily read body language I would suggest making sure to ask a question at the same time as you are making the move and see how the pitch or tone of her voice changes or reacts .