Buy cheap , buy twice <| sep |> I can totally relate . I am not trying to sound arrogant at all when I say this , but as a 22 year old woman , I have had a number of my male friends confess romantic interest . I am by no means a physically attractive gift from the gods , I firmly believe this is down to my personality a lot of which are the ENFP traits . For me it ' s the natural openness I have with people , irrespective of gender , and my thirst for deep connections . I can ' t help but get excited when I ' m talking to someone and I can feel the exchange of emotions and ideas . It ' s the natural intuitiveness that I have to read people , to sense their feelings , and to be really socially aware . I know that my social intuitiveness is one of my greatest skills but something that is so innate within me I never think twice about it . The interest from male friends has ranged from wanting to try a date to a friend confessing his love to my best friend who then told me . As quite an introverted ENFP , who values deep connections in romantic relationships , the confession of love I found very difficult to deal with , jumping from a platonic friend to that , was just 0100 too fast . With these relationships , if I didn ' t feel the same way , some managed to bounce back quickly and others have noticeably changed . This is natural . I have gotten better over time with rejecting people heck , I ' ve been rejected myself , it ' s a fact of life . But it something that some people don ' t do well with , and then feel like their relationship with you has to change . I think with regards to trying to appear less interested I ' ve found this hard to control . It ' s because of my natural way of being with people , those social connections , whether man or woman , that to do so would be trying to correct such a big part of my personality , a part which is find to be a gift and therefore don ' t want to change . Instead , all I can do is be humble and honest with your feelings if you don ' t feel the same way and at the earliest opportunity , when they make their feelings known .