One thing that helped me endure 5 years of attending , but not believing was the understanding that the church is constantly lying to me , its ok to lie back to them to support my relationships . All their stuff is made up , if it helps in your life to go through the motions , then go through the motions . Take away their power and authority , don ' t let them guilt you anymore . Make your decisions based on the people and relationships that do matter to you . <| sep |> I ' m happy that he ' s getting some recognition . I ' ve seen him offer people rides and food on rpittsburgh kind of often and its so sincere <| sep |> I ' d be happy with that debuff relic . But being a big tactics fan , I ' ll pull at least once to attempt having TG Cid with either OSBBSB . Also , the BSB for Agrias is a tool I wouldn ' t mind having .