okay heremehehe , take a picture it ' ll last longer <| sep |> I ' m in my 30 s as well and in a similar position . Still living withcaring forsplitting the bills with momgrandma . Haven ' t seen other family in many years even though they ' re close . No kids , no wife , no social life or even desire for one really . On disability . Feel completely smothered but can ' t get myself to leave due to a combination of what ' s the point ? them needing help with anything physical the house eventually being solely in my name . Wth ? Could be another 30 years . What a goal . I blew people off who were interested in the past because of how i felt about myself and now when i look at those sites it ' s like i ' m a child in a world of adults with children almost old enough to be in college themselves . I pissed away a decade cooped up inside the house because it ' s safe here and nothing is particularly appealing . Anyway , just wanted you to know you ' re not alone in coming up on mid 30 ' s and not having a whole lot to show for it . Graduate school is quite an accomplishment though if you ' re able to push on through . Try not to be too hard on yourself if you can help it because you are doing something . None of us choose to deal in this disease .