That she was a nice person . Dated her for a year , the happiest year of my life . Shortly after getting married which I swore I would never do a second time she started to change . Giving me the cold shoulder , not speaking to me these episodes would go on for literally months at a time . One word answers to questions asked . Swearing there was nothing wrong . Slowly chipping away everything about me for fear I would do or say something that would upset her . Walking on eggshells . When asked why she wasn ' t that way before we were married she replied I had to suck it up and be on my best behavior . WTF ? So she moved out two weeks ago . I wish I could say I didn ' t miss her at all , but I do . Yesterday was tough . I need to remember the daily reality was rather than those moments where she truly was the love of my life . She was awful 80 % of the time and wonderful the other 20 %.