I just joined Mastodon and so far so good . My impressions are very positive for now . Nice community . <| sep |> She was a cook at the local bar restaurant , had met her when I ordered a totally plain burger and she couldn ' t comprehend who would do such a thing . Randomly bumped into her for a few years in the neighborhood , was always friends and friendly but I thought she was out of my league and both of us thought we ' d instantly end up in bed if we went out . I moved to Arizona to help my grandmother towards the end . After she passed and I was alone selling the house and tying up loose ends , I was meditating , asking what my next purpose in the universe was . Had a super vibrant dream , so much more real than this life makes this world feel like a waiting room . It was her and I lounging and floating in a cloud like substance , catching up on life for what seemed like years . Towards the end , she said , when we wake up , ask me about an old poetry project I was working on . I thought about it for 3 days before sending her a message explaining the dream , which I still have saved . Her project was something she had been meaning to work on again but hadn ' t touched in a long time . She had been in a jam and needed to move to the city for legal reasons immediately , I had an empty apartment in my house which was rare , and she quickly moved in . We spent a few weeks maybe months hanging out every morning and evening , drinking coffee and talking about the world . Eventually , after what I consider a proper courtship , we hooked up official . Since then , we had a child she was supposed to be infertile , got married , and have grown a real estate empire while literally living the dream . Also since then , I ' ve had 7 other dreams that have matched the intensity of that first one , ranging in issues from the secrets of Mars to the wellbeing of others , but those are their own stories . All is spooky but very real .