I think the problem is people trying to quantify their likedislike of a thing in an attempt to make those who disagree seem wrong and in turn , solidify their own interestdisinterest as real . I ' ve definitely been guilty of this , the trick is to be enthusiastic for the things you are into , rather than lamenting that which you don ' t like most of the time . If people see your genuine enthusiasm for something and how it goes far beyond the surface level and they will notice way more often than not , they ' ll catch on and realise that there has to be something more to it . I don ' t think it ' s wrong to want people to experience the same enjoyment listening to an album that you like on a deep level that they may not fully enjoy on a surface level . I ' ve wanted my brother to get into Kid A for years now because for me it was a musical epiphany I felt the need to seek out as much different and challenging music as possible because I found some new level on which I could appreciate music way more than I ever had before . What matters though is patience , and enthusiasm . Anyways , I ' m gonna go listen to 22 A Million again