As others have said , the best response is no response . That was my tactic when my nsis tried to get me to talk to my nmom a few months after I went NC with them both , and I just didn ' t respond and blocked her everywhere . She ended up using her husband ' s Facebook account to harass me , a friend ended up fielding the insults , and I said okay , this conversation is over and blocked her there too . Best decision I ever made , not giving them more nsupply to work with . <| sep |> Heck yeah . We have the best death metal . Check out Penis Grinding Swastikopter Who could go wrong with a name like that ? They ' re a super badass old school HM 2 swedeath style band . Damned by the Pope is also really excellent . They kick ass all over town . They ' re almost like sort of a blackened grindcore . A Plague in Faith is amazing too but , unfortunately , they just broke up Still worth a listen , though . Super fun , no frills , death metal . Torn the Fuck Apart is an absolute staple of KC death metal . They ' ve been around forever and are still killing it . is yet another another staple of KC death and grind . I think they ' re about to hit a decade of grinditude . That ' s a pretty decent little sampler platter of KC metal but there are a ton of other awesome bands . Go check ' em out .