I wouldn ' t directly ask them to come hang out with us at our place . Remember that for later , and you will probably not leave you because she got no attention . I ' d do this a couple more times but mentally keep in mind during all of this , you tell him basically the exact same situation . <| sep |> They WILL try the ' Alien thing ' before the shit hits the fan . <| sep |> if its strategic i dont see how it doesent excuse it lmao a million dollars is on the line . morals and shit go out the window . i mean if someone told you hey you gotta be an asshole to someone nice and youll get a million dollars you mean to tell me you ' d be like nah its fucked up I ' m going to do whats right come on <| sep |> Well for one , I would call CPS on the fact that they may be educationally neglecting their kids . But other than that there isn ' t much you can do They are adults who have made their decisions , unless he is mentally ill to the point of needing care but I am not sure where you could go to get him help .