He eats like he hasn ' t eaten or seen food in weeks . <| sep |> Big disclaimer I am not at all successful in any kind of romance . I have brief stints . I have no idea if this is for my personal reasons , or if I ' ve adjusted to the fact I don ' t do well in that department , or both . Anyway IMO , as somebody has already sort of said Bear in mind your brain is pumping shitloads of love drugs into your system , so that you feel a bond for the person esp . if you ' ve done the hankypanky . It ' s a biological fact nobody feels the same way after approx 18 months enough time to bring a child into the world . We ' re biologically programmed that way , for that exact reason protective effects of feeling of bonds protect the pregnant girl from wild beasts , do the hunting etc . . Passion will subside , and you will either retain your shared interests and perhaps be best friends which is awesome ! but you won ' t feel massively loved up , or the person will become dull , and you ' ll wonder how you ended up there . If you are a nofapper , maybe break that policy for a while , in order to restore some balance . 1 fap a week might help you out . Bond with your rascal a little bit . totally unsubstantiated . I have no idea if this will help . I just suspect it might . A healthy frequency . All that might not help at all , I have no idea . Sorry if it seems like a ridiculous and unhelpful opinion . It ' s not meant to be .