Wouldn ' t say even , but I think it can work for both sides . <| sep |> Gotta go with awkward the first time . My wife spotted my twin walking towards us in a resort town . We even had on similar clothes . We kinda smiled as we passed each other and my wife was speechless . Another time I rendered a woman speechless the mom of a girl I dated briefly because I was a twin to her cousin . She broke out pictures to show me . The creepiest one was in a bar . I was having a beer , this man and a woman approached and asked my age . They went on to tell me that I looked just her young nephew and she had this fantasy about him . yup . you guessed it . I politely declined the offer but had many fun conversations with them . <| sep |> learn to be honest , open , and say no . sometimes no is to your boss , sometimes coworkers , sometimes wife . but you cant be a yes man . people run over you then .