End all contact . The best and only thing to do with narcs ? End . All . Contact . Even if she starts talking to you . Ignore her . And then say something like what ' s that , I wasn ' t listening . Make it clear you don ' t play her blame game . What you did was perfect . Ignore her . Narcs hate that . She does not AFAYC . About the guard just do as you did before . Be nice to him . The narc doesn ' t change that . You might want to ask the guard has my coworker said something bad about me ? . Then just downplay it like I was just wondering or don ' t believe everything she says or you know there ' s always two sides to a story , smile , and walk away . It ' s all about the upper hand . Narcs want to have the upper hand . Always . But in fact they are weak and insecure persons . YOU have the upper hand now . Remember that .