From OP ' s comments , I ' d bet good money this is exactly his situation . His wife isn ' t attracted to him and never was . When the chemistry isn ' t there to begin with , there ' s no way to manufacture it . <| sep |> They can request a doctor ' s note . How would you feel if you got sick and got fired because a few of your coworkers abused it . <| sep |> In what world is this a good idea <| sep |> Still working on it , I ' ll let you know when I get some kind of resolution . <| sep |> Sounds like you should break up with him ? ?<| sep |> Well that ' s pretty interesting ! Definitely better than the Courier ' s Capsule I originally considered <| sep |> Arrested Development is an amazing show . And omg . Another Outlander fan ! I ' m probably super fangirl . Did you read the books too ? What about the companion novels ? The spin off novels ? Yay ! Kitty !