I ' ll share my Gazpacho soup story . I took a girl out on a first date to a Mexican restaurant . I had been there once before so I knew the atmosphere was warm and the prices were reasonable . We ordered drinks , she a margarita and I a beer . Hers was served in a flouted goblet with a salted rim and a wedge of lime . My beer arrived in a can with a glass full of ice , a glass full of lime wedges , and another empty glass . I was mystified . I ended up shoving the ice and lime to the side and chugged the can . I later found out it ' s called Cerveza preparada and you ' re supposed add the beer to the ice and lime and nurse it , slowly adding more ice , lime , and beer as the ice meltsMy date was not impressed <| sep |> Similar experience . also on Jack ' d . i really don ' t get ppl who are needy then ghosts out of the blue .