Newsgroupdirect are having a sale friday <| sep |> I know you don ' t want to hear this , I ' ve been through similar situations , but the more you hang on to this girl , the more hurt you ' re gonna get . Don ' t let your happiness depend on a woman who doesn ' t love you . Cut her off . Better to feel like shit for a month than to continue this shitrollercoaster for months while in the end still cutting her off . Believe me , I ' ve been there . Girls love a male companion they can trust , and be friends with without it ever going further . She wants your friendship and attention , you want her love . Why give her your part if she doesn ' t give you her part ? Unless you ' re prepared to only expect friendship from her , continuing with this is only going to cause more pain . Cut her off , focus on other things , try to selfimprove gym , studies , work , whatever , if you ' r ambitious girls will cross your path either way . By the way , if you think this hurts , try seeing her with someone else which will definitely happen while you have front row seats to see it .