More than likely been to a Spirit Cooking party , too . <| sep |> You ' re right . I mean , a dude that publicly mocked a reporter with a disability is about to hold the highest office . These stigmas aint hiding . <| sep |> Maybe you can salvage your marriage later but you are clearly not thinking clearly right now . First she slept with her boss after clearly drinking too much . Alcohol doesn ' t excuse your actions while drunk . She clearly cheated and didn ' t show any remorse for it . Then she ' s on various dating sites and lies about it . I honestly don ' t know how you could possibly trust this person after all this has transpired . On top of this mountain of shit she has dumped on you , would you still trust her when she says that the men she ' s cheated on you have been clean ? Do yourself a favor and cut her out of your life . If you ' re really set on repairing your marriage give yourself a few months of no contact so you have some time to heal and aren ' t blinded by griefangeretc .