boson ' s and lances ? <| sep |> She says this morning she doesn ' t want to sleep in our bed at all . I think she may be moving her stuff into the guest room even as I type . I don ' t want to go further down this slippery slope . Further ? She ' s already told you by her actions what she values Your material support , your sperm , and your silence . Now she ' s doing an internal moveout . Brother , it is far too late for worrying about going further down the slope you are rapidly approaching the bottom . Your next step is to talk to a divorce attorney who specializes in representing the husbandfather , and after that , you find a woman who won ' t just use you as a free ATMsperm bank . I ' m sure you ' re probably thinking surely it ' s not as bad as all that , is it ? You wouldn ' t be human if you didn ' t our greatest talent as animals is to see things not as they are , but as we want them to be . Unfortunately , that can work against us in awful ways , too , preventing us from seeing the obvious even as it unfolds right in front of our faces . Believe me , my friend , it IS as bad as all that .