I ' ll never understand the inability of this sub to identify traps . Obvious men are lusted after while the top tier of flat women like in OP ' s picture are questioned . No , it ' s not a trap . Look at those hips . brownbikini 3 . jpg <| sep |> dauphne in scooby doo <| sep |> Lol . This is what I struggled with when talking to my familySomehow everything had to have a purpose . Like , even a hobby was ok to do for enjoyment , BUT you have to quickly find a way to make that hobby useful , otherwise it ' s a waste of time and just screwing around . Somehow that rule didn ' t apply to soap operas being watched by the adults in the family . They had no explanation for it , and just got mad at me when I asked <| sep |> I guess I have my answer then . My original comment still stands .