For me , i dont identify as trans so people see me and see a man and that ' s what i am so my medical history is irrelevant . i ' m not trying to be stealth so much as i dont want people to assume that i ' m trans because for me it isn ' t an identity any more than having had an ulcer repair surgery or having to take any other medications . it ' s like people looking at me and assuming i don ' t have a wheat allergy and can eat normal bread . while i have to out myself as wheatallergic all the time , i am thankful i dont have to out myself about my genital medical history ! my girlfriend was born with her vagina sealed up and her mom had to rub a hormone cream on it so it would eventually tear and open up . she often experiences pain or sexual difficulty cause of it . so she was born with wonky genitals but it isn ' t a part of who she is . i was born with wonky genitals in a different way , but that ' s all it is to me , like a birth defect .