Is there a strategy or progress that will incrementally help with my internal confidence towards making decisions based on my desires with my life ? Not really no . You basically just have to keep doing it . Sometimes things work out great , other times they don ' t . You need to learn to roll with the punches whatever happens and not worry about it all too much . It ' s hard . It takes time . It ' s good to question what you ' re doing , but it ' s important to always work hard on doing something <| sep |> And if ever i needed proof that you are a clueless kid who never watched us play back then here it is . So many people on here running their mouths endlessly while being blatantly ignorant of basic facts . There were many other midfielders in the league far better than Carrick There were some but he was top 10 . Daley Blind is sure as fuck not . He ' s done fuck all in cm outside of the shitty Dutch League Hargreaves Basically never played in CM for us outside of a few meaningless games vs dross . He played for one season , was shit at the start and then fell out with SAF , then spent months out of the side and finally came back in the last few months mostly playing right wing . AndersonNever played more than Carrick did . Carrick played 40 games every season at United while SAF was here . Anderson never played as often and definitely never played as much in the meaningful games . You look at all our key UCL games , title deciders etc . in that period and Anderson is usually riding the bench and Carrick is almost always starting . Park . Don ' t make me fucking laugh . Park played in a handful of games in central midfield his entire career at United . Fletcherthe only candidate which isn ' t a total joke but even Fletcher only really had one season where he was better than Carrick and that was 200809 .