feildfield and pheonixphoenix , I have to stop and think for a bit when those loathsome words show up . <| sep |> I didn ' t know people defined themselves . I dont see myself as any one particular trait . I dont like to act fake just to fit in either . I just like to do things that I enjoy , and dont give a care what other people think . I dont even think about my mindset or personality . That gets me nowhere and wastes my time . I gain nothing from it . I ' m still trippin over the fact that people would define themselves . That ' s so limiting , odd , and pointless to me . It ' s like they willingly handicap themselves . The whole notion sounds such nonsense , it makes me think it ' s made up bs . Why are we even caring why some people can break up easier than others . It ' s not black and white . there ' s a bazillion different factors that will affect either party in a break up situation . So if I have hard time with a break up hard time is subjective btw , i must conclude that my personality stays the same and that ' s a bad thing ? Do people need more reason to feel bad about themselves when we ' re already surrounded by thoughtless shallow crap like this . People going to read this article and go , wow my personality sucks I need to diversify it . No stop worrying about this crap and just be yourself .