Thank you so much I might seem more negative than I am , just trying to remember those lessons before I get caught up in total giddiness over having made my first bag , and being really happy with it . <| sep |> Honestly I dont see what you highlighted there as BPD . I get that sometimes people who get burned by BPDs see them as the epitome of all evil , and see every evil thing women do as being a symptom of BPD . I ' ve had bad experiences with them , so I get it . Being BPD is a very particular kind of crazy . It focuses on splitting , fear of abandonment , selfharm , impulsiveness , unstable extreme emotions , playing the victim , and a kind of moodshifting behavior . Not all of them have all these things or to the same degrees , but this particular woman doesn ' t seem to fit the profile much . I would guess that she is more a control freak with various mental issues . I wouldn ' t rule BPD out completely , but she could just as easily be bipolar or something else .