Thanks man ! Very informative . <| sep |> Nothing is so unnatural as a talkative man or a quiet woman . ScottishMaybe that ' s why people are so uncomfortable with how quiet I am . <| sep |> Seriously , I feel like you could guide spaceships from orbit with those flags . <| sep |> How about don ' t get fucking pregnant , or impregnate fucking anyone , if when things dont go as planned you just decide to kill off a child only to try again later . If you are of OP ' s mindset then cool but just abstain from ever even having a kid naturally and start looking into adoption instead . I am not a crazy prolife or antiabortion as it should be called nutjob but deciding to abort a baby for reasons like OP ' s are shitty at best and dangerously irresponsible at worst . If you have this mindeat adopt . Adopt a child with no mental disability , if you cannot afford to adopt or foster kids then newsflash you can ' t fucking afford to have ANY kid at that point in your life anyways .