My ex was able to change moods far too often and far too quickly . She would decide one day to act like a bitch and if I didn ' t like it then I should just fuck off . There were days when she would pretty much ignore me , start a fight and then start talking shit about me . She craved attention so much , usually from guys . If we broke up , I knew that she ' d be with someone else within a week . She was able to forget everything about our relationship , forget everything she ' d ever said and completely change in an instant . I think that was the worst part , that I knew that if I was upset and we had a fight , she ' d gladly go and hook up with one of her asshole friends who only talked to her because they thought they could get with her . So I kept my mouth shut and in case we happened to get in a fight and break up . Honestly , looking back now , I was an idiot and she was verbally abusive . She ' s not a nice person , she ' s immature and she ' s no different than her mom who I absolutely despise . I could write a book about all the mistakes I made being in a relationship with her for so long .