THIS is just me being too lazy to remember how to do this or do this ! <| sep |> Also , Austin , I thought of this possible example for men . Let ' s start with the idea that for the purpose of this metaphorlarge breasts f social confidence msymmetrical breasts f intelleigence mSo , a person might want a man who is smart and confident , right . Because if a man is confident he puts himself out there socially , so it ' s easier to see whether he ' s smart large breasts make it easier to see if they ' re symmetrical . And there are plenty of men who are smart but not socially confident , and plenty of ment who are socially confident , but not smart . But the guys who are going to get Alist mates are confident and smart . But men who are EITHER smart or confident do plenty well . So you get plenty of guys who are Steven Hawking smart , but maybe not so outgoing his family all brought books to the dinner table or some sports figures , who have normal intellects but are outgoing and lovable . Plus , in terms of evolutionary genetics , I think reproduction is a lot more winnertakeall for men than for women . Edit I ' d love to know why this got downvoted . It took me ages to think of this example . Anyone ?