I thought you was jokin , no heli in there . Then I saw the post below . WHAT IS REAL ? ??????<| sep |> Super dank <| sep |> Just dropped a Sasha and Melia after all this rich food <| sep |> My boyfriend is always on my phone . I had the same issue during the first month of our relationship . I stopped going in my phone so much after he told me that I was on it too much that I wasn ' t paying attention to him and this was right . So I stopped my urges and whenever we are together , I would talk or if I ' m looking at something on my phone it would be relevant to our conversation . I noticed that he always is on his phone when I ' m talking to him . Or we are doing anything together . It ' s a bad habit he build . I would talk and he would take out his phone and starts READING A NOVEL . He does this every time . I told him to stop because I stopped the habit for us so that we can bond and now he is doing it . It ' s counterintuitive . He stopped for a week or two . Then he takes me bowling for the first time . I didn ' t have my phone out the whole time . At first he didn ' t have his phone out then 15 minutes in , my turn , I finally got a strike . I turned around selfishly expected a congratulatory high 5 or good job . But he was on his phone reading again . He missed it . A stranger next to us congratulated me instead . This not only made me upset but I started shedding tears of anger . He didn ' t noticed until I went back and sat down next to him and took out my phone and started playing phone games . oh s u made one . I eventually threw the whole set and didn ' t try because I was too upset and gave him the silent treatment until I got home . I was too disappointed to say any thing . I told him don ' t tell me to change if u don ' t do the same . I ' m not going to give you my 100 % attention and commitment if you are just going to half a yours . People aren ' t going to change or make changes unless they really want to themselves . You can ' t force them to change . My boyfriend eventually changed and limited his use because he saw what he did wrong on his part . I was being dramatic too . Small changes are still changes . It ' s progress . So I ' ll take it as a step to success .