I hit puberty while being heavily involved in sports , this caused me to look great , people treated me differently so i slowly began to act differently . Eventually around the end it was an active effort in the beginning it was just going with the flow of others . your team mates ask you to go do something , girls suddenly notice and talk to you . You suddenly don ' t have to be the starting conversations so you get alot of practice . Communication is a skill that has taken me a long time to learn and i ' m still learning more nuances to it . Without sports i doubt i ' d be anywhere as competent at it as i am today . <| sep |> My gates are open for you . <| sep |> I ' m wondering if it ' s a combination of software the fact that batteries naturally deteriorate with use , thus 1 year old phones that have taken a beating having substantially worse battery lives than our replacements .