Genetically modified eyes for Cowboys players ? <| sep |> But how does she know that the guy is okay with her stripping in front of him and pulling him into the shower ? I just read an article about this swdish discussion were also men started to talk how they just wanted to be close to a friend and she basically said you make me hot and not fuck me ? and than he felt preasured to have sex with her . Same goes here with she strips and pulls him into the shower . When it becomes a danger as such to be accused of rape because you didn ' t ask for a verbal consent before you approach the other , than having sex at least for the first time will become really akward . So , as long as the signs the woman gave are just misread by the man , or were not that clear and he had a reason to believe that she wanted to do it and going home with someone you met at a party is a strong indicator that you want to do it , than the one that does not want to have sex is in the responsibility to clear the situation up with clear signs or signals , such as NO !