Maybe there ' s something to the wait for marriage thing . <| sep |> omg I ' m so sorry to hear about this . I ' m so sorry I ' m not in the UK and I don ' t know how to help you with your parentsdepression resources etc . but i want to comment on here just to see if it gets more attention and reaches somebody that can help . i hope everything gets better . <| sep |> I didn ' t get this message so unfortunately I cannot help you . <| sep |> I think the KKK , westborough Baptist church and Scientologist etc use the same argument . We use those around us to gauge what is considered acceptable and fits within normal boundaries and society . The current snowflake culture breeds extremism in all sides . I believe in a flat earth <| sep |> Thank you very much ! I appreciate your input . Dietitians as far as what the internet has told me typically start out at about $ 40 k a year in the hospitals , with the median being ~$ 60 k , and some can make a decent amount more if they build a good client base and eventually move onto their own private practice . I really , more than anything , just want to have a holistic knowledge about nutrition and be able to help people with their diets to improve their lives . Unfortunately , the title of Nutritionist can be adopted by just about anyone with little to no qualifications whatsoever , provides a joke of a pay , and is easily scoffed at by the majority of people for these reasons . It ' s a shame , but it ' s the truth . The National Guard is something I definitely haven ' t considered . I might look into that . I ' ve worked in restaurants for years now , though I was a kitchen worker , which if you ' ve ever worked in the kitchen , you know that they make absolute crap money but I have considered being a server or bartender . I hate the idea of going back to restaurants because it can get real stressful at times , but I ' ll definitely consider it . Right now I work a laid back job at a sports club and I get free food and access to an amazing gym , so I sort of hate the idea of giving that up , but it doesn ' t pay very well at the same time , and we ARE talking about money here . I ' ve definitely considered the youtube thing before , but I don ' t want to be just another health and fitness channel . Even the people who have stories similar to mine where they used to be super overweight are all crawling out of the woodwork and saturating that particular niche as well . Something I DO possess that most of these other people don ' t , however , is pretty decent cooking skill . I ' m also a huge fanatic of the low carb ketogenic diet , and people often complain about their limited food choice on it . So , combine the two ? Healthy low carb cooking channel with a lovable former fatty you ' d watch that , right ? Hahaha all jokes aside , I would need a decent sum of cash for a good computer and camera of course . but I ' ve definitely teased at that idea before . Hmmmmm .