Both are correct <| sep |> T 23 E 3 is great , don ' t listen to his nonsense . <| sep |> You got trophies for losing . Am I right or am I right . <| sep |> And why might that be ? <| sep |> I ' m not one to mince words , so let me put this simply You ' re being a horse ' s ass . Allow me to illustrate My parents are huge TBM ' s who hate my guts and reject any world in which I am not a perfect mormon and will do anything in their power to make me come back to the church . take away any financial help health insurance , car insurance , my carSo your parents are paying for your health insurance , car insurance , and vehicle , yet they ' hate your guts . ' You take somebody ' s charity , you play by their rules . And frankly , expecting you to pay for your own car if you ' re moving out with your boyfriend is perfectly reasonable . So , onto my suggestions End the hyperbole . Like , now . If you can ' t understand why your parents wouldn ' t want you to move in with your boyfriend , then you ' re doing just as bad at empathizing with them as they are with you . To be sure , it ' s your own life . But as long as they ' re paying for large swaths of it , they ' re entitled to an opinion . Mature . That means both financially if you don ' t have a job , get one and emotionally there are reasons people behave in ways you disagree with other than hate . Have a plan . I moved in with my boyfriend is how half of the sob stories my female relatives tell start . As in , I moved in with my boyfriend , he was a slob , but I couldn ' t afford to move out or I moved in with my boyfriend , and he didn ' t want to work , and I got sick of him mooching . Unless you guys have some kind of budget laid down and a long term plan , this is a mistake . Be honest without being an ass . I no longer believe in the church is fine and in good form I no longer believe in the church , and those that do are racist misogynists that I ' m ashamed to be related to is not . Understand the difference and how to convey it .