I would love a woodlandforestmushroom background ! <| sep |> I think we are all winners <| sep |> Will price go up or down <| sep |> My first crush as a kid was Johnny Fever . It was sort of creepy I guess , because I was like 10 , and he was at least 40 . He was just so cool . <| sep |> No it was last Saturday . There ' s a CC at the Kansas City Auto Museum on the first and third Saturday of every month . <| sep |> Don ' t just expect advice , try offering it . It may well be that you don ' t feel particularly qualified to offer advice , but you are . You ' ve suffered similar things to the rest of us , or you wouldn ' t have dived into this neverending flood of shit . And because you ' ve suffered similar things , yet remained an individual strong enough to read RbN , and post in RbN , you ' ve got your own perspective on all of this stuff . Every now and then , your perspective is going to be just what someone else needs . Equally as important , you ' ll find that the advice you ' ve offered to someone else is exactly the advice you needed to hear for yourself . All it took was someone else ' s problem , rather than your own , to draw it out of you . Don ' t worry that your advice is going to be inappropriate . No one else is obliged to take it . They ' re going to sift through and find what works for them . Obviously I ' m not about to tell you that posting in RbN is the only thing you need to do , but I can tell you this I ' ve only been here a fortnight , but I feel I ' ve made more progress in that time than I have in years . So talk to us . We ' ll listen .