It ' s weird actually , with # 1 I didn ' t feel it at all , but with LO # 2 I ' m totally feeling annoyed . A lot . Part of it is that she keeps offering too much unsolicited advice about LO ' s colic , all of which is either outdated or I already know about since I am familiar with google searches . Another is that they have come by the house every weekend that DH has had off since LO has been born he was off for the first 4 weeks and they came over every weekend , now he works every second weekend . But the worst part was that under the guise of giving mommy a break she snatched my sleeping newborn out of my arms . Didn ' t ask , just grabbed him right off of me . I seriously almost punched her ! I ' m sleep deprived , healing from a csection , have a defiant toddler and a baby that likes to make my ears ring with how loud he screams . do not mess with me ! But just that little act was enough to put me on the defensive , and she dropped quite a few points in my esteem on that day .