I tried to suicide day before yesterday , didn ' t work . I can ' t even kill my self properly . I suck . I hope you can put your life together . I really wish you the very best in being happy . Don ' t worry about me . Im just tired . Sorry <| sep |> Well you ' re framing the entire thing specifically from a male perspective , which is by definition chauvinist . lol no . That is absolutely not what chauvinist means . He ' s framing it from a male perspective because he , assumedly , is male , and is also addressing other males . Men date . Men have perspectives on dating that are different from the perspectives of women , specifically flavored by their existence as men qua men in the realm of dating rather than existing as women . You then go on to encourage people to not wonder what they can provide their date , but what their date can provide them , which is again definition chauvinist . You ' re oversimplifying and misinterpreting and again , that ' s not what chauvinist means .