I ' ve never had one either . This sub might be helpful . It has a lot of info intermixed with some links to porn . Some people recommend not having an orgasm for a while , some recommend turning off any porn and focusing on what you are feeling . <| sep |> I actually have a moisturizer that contains ceramides that a derm gave me called Hylatopic Plus cream . Would that be better than just vaseline for restoring the skin barrier ? <| sep |> Here where I live it is totally normal that people just walk into a bar and start talking to strangers . There are many situations where it is expected like in bus stops and markets . <| sep |> Sure mate . I ' m off for a piss . <| sep |> This is awesome , firstly I thought its a photo , nice !