They could get a lot of benefit out of just setting up a 1 second cache of the inventory pages . I ' m only salty about the generated HTML because they don ' t allow client side sortingsearching and it is a pain to parse compared to JSON . <| sep |> As a Canadian , you should be very afraid of TR . He had seriously contemplated an invasion of Canada in 1912 , partly for creation of what he called The American Shield , partially for revenge on the 100 th anniversary of the war of 1812 . <| sep |> ldlinge Are you fucking narc ? Sorry , I decided that narc means retarded now <| sep |> ohthen , nevermind xD <| sep |> I declined to talk to anyone but my mother on the phone yesterday , usually they pass the phone around for an hour while I talk to each individual there . I felt a little sad , but not really . I just wasn ' t up for the emotional BS . There have been times when my husband and I have opted to cut holiday visits short even when I was home from combat on leave . We would retreat to his parents house for our sanity . The inlaws are staying at our house this time , and they are delightful . We were up until 1 AM drinking wine and playing Cards Against Humanity with three generations at the table . I am grateful every day for these people . They make maintaining boundaries with my family so much easier .