And have the skills needed in that environment . <| sep |> Gay conversion therapy is all about forcing people to do it . No ones stopping you from talking to your pastor about your rampant homosexuality , but don ' t force anyone else to so it explicitly or implicitly . <| sep |> Ive been with my SO for almost 7 years . We have 2 kids together and I feel like I have wasted a lot of my life staying with him and being unhappy . He has kids from a previous marriagerelationship and Ive had to watch how nasty he plays with their mothers in court trying to get his way . We bought a house only a few months back when things were going good and we were being forced to move from our rental . In recent weeks a lot has happened , Ive found out about several lies and Im done . Today was the last straw . I cannot afford the house alone and it all seems overwhelming .