Brother , thanking you for sharing your story . I too have had dark times in the past few years but am at a loss for words as to how good things have been turning around for myself , and my beloved team . Go Raiders ! <| sep |> Yeah but what does he gain from that ? <| sep |> On one hand , yes , it is annoying to be approached for favors even when that only happens occassionally . On the other , pretty sure it ' s rude to refuse to sign a 10 year old ' s birthday card , even if the kid is a total stranger . If someone on the bus asked me to sign their kids card , I would do it . It would be weird , and I would use a fake name or something , but why not ? <| sep |> Yea not to be a smartass , but go to school and become a cardiologist . That ' s what they do .