Damn dude . <| sep |> Going to have to shut this down before long ! <| sep |> It ' s been showing $ 170 for the last 5 hours <| sep |> I think you should give yourself some slack . I would have been shocked enough that my filter wouldn ' t be working all that great as well . I ' m a stranger and even I ' m concerned for her working in a prison . They will validate the shit out of her feelings and if she is open to that , she shouldn ' t be in there . For your friendship , I think you should give her some space and when she gets over the embarrassment , sit down and have a conversation on what happened . Focus more on finding out why she was embarrassed and that was definitely not your intention . If she keeps going down that road tho , I would definitely consider letting the prison know what ' s going on .