Glad to see I ' m . not the only one who hates this long drawn out bull shit <| sep |> This is incredible ! !<| sep |> I think she ' s purposely making it sound bad to protest police violence . <| sep |> I ' d discuss it before you started messing with her feet . Gaining pleasure from doing something to someone without their knowledge or consent can get kinda icky . Just discuss your needs openly with her and then ask if you can give her a massage or play with her feet with the very real understanding that if she feels uncomfortable at anytime you ' re more than willing to stop . <| sep |> Are sticky mod comments the new desperate cry for attention ? Make your comment and let it stand on its own , or make a community discussion about it to put yourself at the top is so disrespectful of the community . Edit and I was even ready to downvote this post and move on because I agree with you , but mod comments at the top are a much worse offense .