Oh I ' m 100 % sure he wants it , and I ' m sure you ' re right that he thinks he can play the friend angle then swoop in at some point . She speaks of him like a friend . She has no inhibitions about talking about him , so she definitely isn ' t hiding anything . Honestly she ' s completely out of his league . And she ' s definitely not promiscuous . Only slept with people she ' s been in a relationship with . She ' s honestly one of the nicest people you would meet , and I know she wouldn ' t cheat . But she ' s naive , and I know she just doesn ' t see what he wants or that what she ' s doing is pretty weird . Appreciate your advice I ' m thinking something along those lines . <| sep |> It is evident in their everyday attitudes that they have not experienced your trauma . We ' re all very happy to have this background , double the culture . I personally prefer being mixed to being fully white or fully Asian , I relate to a great deal more people and variety of experiences .