If it fits me right . Can you measure the length from the front collar to the bottom ? And link me to the Grailed post if you ' re keen to sell tonight . <| sep |> its like the CTE in bf 4 <| sep |> Have you asked the person running the shop to order the volume version Which I believe have 7 issues per book , or looked if they have the volume versions ? <| sep |> I ' m not disagreeing with that first point in the slightest . We wanted to keep pushing through as insane as it sounds . If I could redo it I might have walked out earlier but I feel like we handled it the best we could at the time . I wanted to go ahead and get it all on the table , see if she was at all capable of any sort of remorse , and once I realized she wasn ' t , I wanted to soak up the proof . I wanted to soak up that she was toxic , abusive , and manipulative . I wanted to remember ever bit of it so in a moment of doubt I could look back and keep my spine nice and steely . I could do that for the wedding if I really wanted to . It ' s something I have considered . Bottom line is , there are parts of the family that FH wants there . The most important person being is elderly grandmother who is basically a ward of MIL . If we don ' t invite SIL she will raise hell , make life unnecessarily stressful , and show up and my house . It could also jeopardize the chances of MIK coming and bringing GMIL . If I wait until after the wedding then we can just phase her out . There won ' t be this big event that she ' ll be concerned about . Afterwards we can start building up that stone wall of NC and I think it will be far less of an issue . Still drama of course , but much less of it .