This sounds like when I pitched my ftl campaign <| sep |> I wanted to be in a relationship with this girl I was seeing but she wanted to be young and have fun . She finally asked me one night while she was drunk , to be her boyfriend , I told her she was drunk . In the morning she said that she still felt the same about what I said last night . Later that night I tried to confirm it and she said something about not wanting that or something . Eh , I didn ' t cry or crawl up into a ball but I felt the mental equivalent of that . So I hope that qualifies as an appropriate response . <| sep |> My family used to do this exact thing . All like nasty mommy says no but we would let you . So my baby sees me as mean and them as treat givers ? I don ' t think so , I actually stood up for myself and told them not to say things like that . Toom a few times but they stopped eventually . Still get it on the odd occasion though