I was reading his post about the story , and the neighbor ' s WIFE said the texts and pics sent to her husband by his wife were no big deal ! ? That alone is pretty telling . Not only is the murderous mother psychotic , so is the neighbor ' s wife for sticking up for her . Women have this sick hive mind mentality that other women need excuses made for them . By saying what she did , she enabled the bad behavior . Then the guy makes the right choice and leaves her . though it ' s over a year after the cheating . Every woman I ' ve dated except one pulled what she did when it came to the texting the neighbor . They were so full of denial and also full of crap . Even funnier , when I pointed this behavior out to my most recent ex , she said I was a sexist for generalizing women and that I probably deserved it somehow . I am so glad I never planned to have kids with her . She wanted them , but something in me kept tugging at me , saying DON ' T . DO . IT . She probably would have killed my kids , too . Heck , a bunch of my exs might have .