No , it ' s like me paying a guy to shit on my passed out friend , but if I film it we have to cover my friend in plastic wrap beforehand . <| sep |> There ' s a difference between blaming someone for something and questioning why a person hasn ' t exercised caution . Though there is a line and victim blaming is definitely an issue , I get that . But for example , an exgirlfriend of mine would never listen to my warnings since she had a terrible habit of walking home through shitty parts of the city , absolutely wasted at all hours of the night . If she hit the town to have a girls night and left me at home , I would always tell her , get a cab home doesn ' t matter if you drank all your money I ' ll pay for it , she would then call me 15 minutes after lockout because she ' s freaked out in a dark deserted street half way back to our house and it was ' scary ', then she would wonder why I ' m flipping my shit at her . Didn ' t seem understand why it worried me so much . I ' m definitely not saying that it ' s OK to blame a victim of a scumbag rapist or implying that it was their own fault for putting themselves in danger , but there are worse things than rape that can happen to people . Risking it because you should have the right to do whatever you like without fear of freaks doesn ' t erect an impenetrable barrier around your body . The world is full of monsters .