I don ' t have any mindset at all . I put my sign down and auto invade in the same area . I don ' t help summoners gank unless I ' m certain they ' re just trying to get through the area . There are obvious tells for this entering someone ' s world to find it devoid of all enemies and the host just squatting somewhere . Very often I ' ll find myself invading someone i just helped . People overthink Dark Souls way too much . It ' s a game that encourages conflict and fun by giving you tools to fight . Use those tools , kill whoever your opponent may be . Fun . Anything beyond that is just ascribing too much to a videogame . If you don ' t enjoy a certain aspect , refrain from doing so . <| sep |> Yep , this would be nice . Currently at 620 AS and my preferred method for checking is via the clicker lister . Which just seems strange to me .