I can guarantee you he ' s going to cancel that bid , or simply not buy it . Ebay is HEAVILY tilted in the buyer ' s favor , and I can think of three different ways in which he could get out of paying for this without harming his ebay standing . In the end , the people getting rekt by this are the resellers , which I ' m all for <| sep |> NC no pics ! Don ' t worry about them thinking badly of you . They probably do and a pic is not going to help . Buy gifts for those you honestly love and care about . The rest , who cares ? There is no rule that you have to give gifts to anyone . I gave Hateful Helga thoughtful , wonderful presents every year and barely got a thank you . One year FIL called to yell that we didn ' t give HH a present . She told him all her gifts came from GC . She forgot we gave her her favorite gift that year ! A gift is not going to helphurt .