No problem You too <| sep |> Hope the debit of these wider wet wather tyres will be greater , so we get some more wet weather racing ! <| sep |> whys it bad ? have you used it ? <| sep |> My parents were both immigrants although they lived in Canada before they came to the US and had me . They taught my older brother our ethnic language but when he started going to preschool and refused to speak it he would answer them in English when they spoke in our language , they stopped trying and I never got it learn it as I was the younger sibling . I really regret not learning but I don ' t blame them because it wasn ' t their fault , nor was it my brother ' s . I think because my parents were immigrants , they didn ' t realize how important distilling a sense of racial identity was . Plus we lived in an area with very little Asians , much less South Asians , so I didn ' t have the reinforcement of a community growing up . But I started figuring out my identity in high school so that worked out at least . My parents were more focused on giving me a better life than on worrying about identity . They definitely pushed me towards the healthcare field because they recognized its stability and job opportunities but ultimately let me make my own decision in that regard . I ' m really grateful and fortunate that they were able to support me throughout undergrad and tried not to pass their financial hardships onto me . Relationship wise , I learned how to identify what I wanted and didn ' t want in relationships , both friendwise and romantically my parents divorced . My parents had very different personalities and I take after my mother so she has influenced me most in how I deal with interpersonal relationships and navigating social circles in general .