Lies ! ~~ Pls who could resist that fluffy reddish purple hair ? ~~ You were working alone , so we don ' t know how much of your assistance was secretly a setup . ~~ Obviously you got some of dat sweet booty with your stealthy defense to keep you warm and cozy in dose arms . It was more of a crit hookup than a crit smackdown . ~~ <| sep |> If you ' re in the Willamette Valley , you have a seat at my table . Also anyone who reads this and is alone . <| sep |> I was out of commission for weeks 616 and I also have a 2 year old . It was so hard , I felt like such a bad mom ! My husband constantly reminded me that it was ok , I was doing my best . I was growing a person , who was going to be a friend for our son . A few months of mostly watching shows on Netflix was ok lol . He helped me look at the bigger picture while I was feeling so bad , and he really stepped up and took care of things so I didn ' t worry as much . We did hire a cleaner to come in every 2 weeks , and we sent my son to a day home in the morning while I was sick . We couldn ' t really afford it financially , but it was just temporary . The cleaning helped hubby and having someone really pay attention to and interact with my son was great . I felt less bad that I had to lay on the couch and watch him play during the afternoons . My husband also made sure he took my son out often in the evening and on the weekends . You are doing your best too , make sure you don ' t get too burned out . Is there someone who can come give you both a break once in a while ? Even getting a babysitter for a few hours at night so you can get out with some friends and your wife doesn ' t have to worry about the toddler .