We ' re unique in the way that when we compare current experiences to past experiences , no one does it the same because we all have a different life story . There ' s billions of things to say , behaviors and actions possible . What is socially acceptable and proper reduces that amount to a much smaller fraction . So that ' s less means of expressing that uniqueness . And i think most people really want to fit in . I still think some people are more unique than others , but i think we ' re all unique in a way , so i wouldn ' t worry about being unique , that ' s already taken care of , but maybe sometimes it ' s good to stand out of the crowd , or not be too much part of group mentality . There ' s still a lot of leeway people have to express their individualities while still being socially acceptable . Art for example is allowed to be more free and expressive .