His ruined life had nothing to do with you . You gave him a chance , you covered his ass though you had no real connection to him , and you were perfectly fair . Some people just can ' t be saved . It ' s nice to try though . <| sep |> No offense intended to anyone , but if I ever dated anyone who explicitly stated that they are looking for marriage in the beginning , I would think they are batsht crazy and run away . I ' m dating to meet someone new , develop a relationship and see how serious it can get AFTER some time . Marriage talk in the beginning sounds desperation and turns me off . <| sep |> I agree 100 %. If everybody on their team uses jug and last stand then fuck that shit im outta there plus i dont give 2 fucks about WL ratio .