This is a huge point . A lot of other commenters talk about how conservatives think abortion is murder , but few reference the fact that they almost always include the phrase that she should have kept her legs closed , or something like that . <| sep |> The space of minutes ? What are you even talking about ? I said that when I was 90 pounds , PAST TENSE since you clearly don ' t understand how time works , people would still call me fat , and some people do even now , where I am CURRENTLY , PRESENT TENSE , at 100 pounds . Wow , reading sure is difficult ! It is entirely about her . And she ' s not fat , so you ' d just be an asshole for telling her she needs to lose weight . Like you have the right to dictate her life . You did make the argument that she should be shamed because she ' s not skinny enough for you . And I think it ' s funny that you keep saying she needs to lose weight when you yourself said you were around her size . Again , the problem comes down to you . YOU have poor body image , so YOU see her being your size and project YOUR insecurities on her , calling her fat when really you ' re just unhappy with YOUR body . That ' s a YOU problem .