Maybe he wants to be the only one in the sub with the name Sydney . How sad . <| sep |> Then you are going to need access to a hostbot if you want to host games for them . Alternatively you can use the normal way to host but its really not that good and makes for a laggy and unstable game If the host leaves the game disconnects , bad ping and delay etc . Or you can simply all find a game on the custom game list on battle . net and join . Most will have a ! votestart command so you guys can start it without having to wait for other people . But yeah if you want to make a private lobby for only your friend you should get a hostbot . <| sep |> You ' re the one comment that tries to be serious . <| sep |> Grew up in a house very similar , yelling was for when your in pain and only when it happens not after . In my earlier adult life it gave me massive anxiety issues that required medication . I have since been able to move past those troubles after a lot of thought and some other experiences , the yelling is mostly just bluster for how ineffective the person is , sometimes legitimate but usually its just chest thumping ive now learned . I didnt learn this until i found out my workmates were terrified of upsetting me , many people do not handle someone who is angry visibly yet completely calm in their demeanor , and apparently i get these im gonna fuck you dead eyes when im angry , the problem with this is thats just my quick thinking face i can usually keep to myself but shows itself off in moments of anger or rage when im considering my next course of action . Was told they could handle yelling all day long , that was nothing unfamiliar to most of them , but my demeanor also resting bitchface was exceptionally unnerving as they could never tell what was going to happen after delivering less than good news to me , jokes on them because apathy rules my subconscious , i just dont actually give a shit i just do workwhatever , still get paid .