What do you expect him to do ? Other countries have rules about who they allow . I ' m not in Europe , but here you have to be young enough not to be a drain , have a needed skill set , etc , OR a sponsor , which does involve $$. They have to WANT you , not so much you want to move there . I got a whole lot of can I come live with you during the election , and I was like , no you ' re too old ! And no country is a utopia . Everyone has problems . <| sep |> Bonfire . We cut down a measurable FUCK TON of trees for it . <| sep |> Yeah nah , fuck that . I like commitment from both ends , and I commit myself because I like the sense of intimacy . I declined my ex offering to let me have an open relationship because it felt weird as fuck , and especially during a pregnancy it ' d be even weirder . It ' s a giant mindfuck no matter how sincere you try to be , and no good is likely to come from it .