Yep , definitely would recommend trying it first . <| sep |> Also only 23 %??? Bit really the best odds tbh . <| sep |> The compromises can be like if your wife starts working parttime , not full time , in order to spare more time for the childcare . Doing most of the groceries herself and also the child care . Dropping and picking him to school herself and so on . It would provide you a lot of relief . I was myself raised in a setting where my father was super busy in his profession and my mother was a housewife . I got 910 th attention of my mother and 110 th from my father . All my needs were met and all my problems were addressed . My father loves me a lot and his attention towards me was good enough for me in the limited time he had .