ELI 5 Nocturnal Enuresis which is medical lingo for night involuntary urination AKA bedwetting is thought to be due to children sleeping very deeply . Thus the cues from the bladder don ' t wake them up , and the bladder releases the pressure . Every child I see that is a bedwetter , the parents also say are deep sleepers . I ' ve sure had nights where for some reason I get a super deep sleep , I wake up with drool on my face , restful sleep , and a bladder that is about to explode . Further explanation things like stress , trauma , constipation , disability , etc . also contribute . <| sep |> Well , he is awesome , but he ' s Aspergersy . He ' s goodlooking , brilliant , funny , goodhearted , but Aspergersy , and he treats me like a puzzle to solve . Overall it works . Sometimes it drives me crazy .