Right , but getting all I didn ' t do anything everyone should quit talking about this shit like it ' s my problem just makes you sound weak and defensive . When has anyone actually pointed a finger at you and said ' you did this '. They just say early white settlers did this or white people did this . To this day black people have unequal housing access in some cases , it was rampant just 3060 years ago . So just saying it ' s not me is stupid and besides the point . <| sep |> no , the one she cheated with was Ron Melvin , he was interviewed in the second video in OP ' s link and said I don ' t see this side of Brandi , she ' s a great person , as well as brandi , we ' re all behind you no matter what , you still got friends out here , we still love you .