Hi there . I think you missed your chance to make a move . However , there ' s always time to resolve differences . Escalate as much as you can and see how far you can go . She isn ' t going to be around for long so she isn ' t worth trying a long relationship with . Worst case , move on . Simple as that . <| sep |> A year ago at Thanksgiving I was getting down and out . My family is strained due to my mom ' s health so holidays are difficult to manage . She has brain damage among other things . It gets nasty sometimes . Lots of emotional stuff crops up during this time of year . Anyway . I was getting lunch on my break at work and went to a little mexican place by the local Wal Mart and noticed a guy who walked in with a group of other wal mart employees . He had one arm held to his side and a limp like a neurological disorder or maybe a type of palsy and I watched as the group dispersed into smaller groups to eat and he sat alone . I caught his waitress after he ordered and asked for his ticket . I paid his check and gave her a decent tip . She asked what I wanted to tell him and i said to tell him that I hope he has a wonderful holiday . That a stranger loves and values him and only wanted to see him smile . I made sure she didn ' t point out it was me . He still works at that Wal Mart and I see him sweep the floor some days . When I see him it reminds me that even when we hurt we can help raise others up . I get ridiculously happy if someone opens the door for me or meets my eyes and smiles . Doesn ' t take much to make someone ' s day . Just genuine .