Aren ' t you able to tell them no ? I know they ' re your wifes relatives but just because she can ' t say no does that mean you can ' t either ? just saw your comment that they are extended relatives rather than immediate family . even so , it may feel like its not your place to intervene but it seems like your wife and MIL would like to tell them no and feel obliged not to so maybe you would be a good person to step in on their behalf afterall <| sep |> Just a lazy tropical paradise I guess . Like , everyone ' s too chill to be in a rush , man . Seriously though , I have no idea . Its bizarre really . <| sep |> What ' s up bro . Y ' all get good trees up there ? <| sep |> Louis CK , John Mulaney , Eddie Murphey , Emo Phillips <| sep |> Washington D is not very good tbh