Lol no , just woke up in sweats <| sep |> I think there was a mix up because i haven ' t seen mine since I left Montreal . I wonder if they have a lost and found <| sep |> Half hearted effort is the best <| sep |> She ' s emotionally immature . When she starts giving you the hypothetical questions just refuse to engage . Say oh no . I do not want to answer hypothetical questions . Let ' s talk about what is really bothering you . Then be a very good listener , don ' t disagree with her or give her advice to fix things . Just listen and empathize . Like I ' m so sorry that happened to you . Or I understand that you are feeling this way . Reassure her that you love her . She wants someone to listen to her . She ' ll be happy and you ' ll get better sex as a bonus too .