doesn ' t really add to the challenge casters just miss a lotand half the loot is completely useless <| sep |> Thanks , I was worried I was being a little harsh there , LOL . Because it might seem like I was malebashing , let me add that I think the beta husband has a female counterpart let ' s call her the beta wife . This is the SAHM whose house is always a mess and whose kids are poorly parented because she wiles away her days with soap operas and social media . But she nevertheless perceives herself to be very busy and working hard , and will be the first to tell you and her husband just how hard it is to be a SAHM ! That ' s why she needs a cleaner to come in every week to help her , and why she doesn ' t have time to fix herself up or exercise to stay in shape . She ' s a poor economizer , spends her husband ' s earnings foolishly and runs up debt on credit cards . She ' s very statusconscious and wants to make sure her and the kids are keeping up with the Joneses . Like the beta man , she ' s lacking in selfdiscipline and passiveaggressive . Oftentimes she senses the contempt her husband has for her and it makes her angry . She demands ' respect ' from her mate and children , even when she hasn ' t done anything to earn it . I ' ve seen a few of these types , too .