Maybe we should ask them and see what they have to say . <| sep |> Could you put a vertigo trigger warning on pictures such as that in the future ? Bah gawd , damn near had an aneurysm <| sep |> Right , but that still wasn ' t the focus point of her emails during the time that Bernie said he didn ' t care about them . The big thing that the GOP was trying to bring up was what did she know and when did she know it ? regarding Benghazi . <| sep |> Don ' t blame yourself . You trusted him because it ' s a normal human instinct to trust people . Lots of people miss warning signs . He may also be really good at covering them up . I ' m sorry you ' re left with this feeling . You want to resolve it , you want to control what ' s happening a bit maybe , or get some kind of recognition from him . still feel involved , because this just happened , it was a shock , it ' s natural . but he ' s doing this because he wants to . He ' s selfish , and doesn ' t care . I wouldn ' t ' try to numb it . I think it ' s good to feel it , while he ' s away . Then gather yourself up and don ' t give an inch or let him see you sweat . You have to stay angry to protect yourself against someone you love who hurts you like this .