There aren ' t even any ~~ M ~~ INOR rivalries there . <| sep |> Unfortunately DB has significantly reduced their exposure to Italy which would have been the easiest company to buy puts on . I haven ' t seen a lot of Italian banks on the NYSE with options although I haven ' t spent a ton of time researching them either <| sep |> A month is indeed pretty long and we are still not sure why she wants him there till christmas . He doesn ' t have a spare phone but I think we can sort that out easily . In an update I posted I ' ve explained that we are continuing the relationship and that he is going to get emancipated , which due to the holiday season is going to be January . He is staying with his parents because his mother only wants to consent to emancipation if he spends the holidays with themextended family without mentioning him being gay . Because of this I have decided to book a hotel close to his parents home if things don ' t turn out as they should . He was against it because he felt guilty about me not being able to see my parents this holiday but I know that it ' s safer this way . I have started to read more about self harming and alternatives and I see that a direct approach might drive him away more . Also , I know the couch situation isn ' t ideal but he is fully emancipated in January and Pennysylvania has this corruption of minors law . So if we would share a hotel bed we can ' t guarantee anything and people who know him in the area might wonder why he is staying over with a guy who is 10 years older than him but there is a certain degree of intimacyI ' m just trying be there for him