No . There are over 300 , 000 users here and growing by hundredsthousands daily . Strength in numbers . Do not be afraid . <| sep |> I find myself resenting women as a whole . Except the problem is with you , and not with women . My confidence with women is pretty much at its lowest of all time . If you have no confidence in yourself , how can you expect any women you want to date to have confidence in you ? I ' m confused , you say this honestly feel like I don ' t need them sexually when I have porn . but also this Obviously I object to porn tooSo . you ' re rejecting women because you don ' t ' need ' them because you have porn , but r eligiouslymorallywhatever , you object to porn ? I guess you should keep in mind that people don ' t get into relationships so they have someone to fuck , they get into relationships because they like the person and enjoy spending time with them , the sexual stuff is just a bonus . It ' s like . What , I get to hang out with you , do fun stuff and we get to be naked together , WHOOP ! You ' re probably putting too much pressure on yourself , I know it ' s such a clich , but take a break from women and trying to date , find things you enjoy doing , I ' m sure there are plenty of clubs and societies at your university you can get involved with ! Even volunteering with a charity will make you feel good . Finding fulfillment and happiness elsewhere will build up your confidence , and will give you things to talk about with everyone including women .