Thank you random internet stranger ! And you ' re goddamn right Bionicle was amazing ! <| sep |> Is she seriously asking why don ' t you care about THEM ? Just because I married my husband and had kids with him doesn ' t mean that I woke up the day after my wedding full of love for my inlaws . That shit only happens after having a good relationship for years , which they have put zero effort into and haven ' t given you anything to build off of . They should count themselves lucky for everyday that you don ' t spend researching the state with the best antigrandparentsrights laws and moving there with your LO . They probably spent your late DH ' s entire life conditioning him to run after them for their love , and have forgotten that you and LO didn ' t come preprogrammed to kiss their asses . Oh well .