Nothing . Not even some XP . <| sep |> thanks for the help guys ! <| sep |> It is a bit of an endless circle , you can ' t get better because you can ' t practice a lot because you are lousy at it I got dumped very recently so it is still very fresh haha <| sep |> For me , I was 19 when I got married the first time . I had been with him for about a year or more and got pregnant . I wasn ' t going to marry him but we wanted to go stay with his parents up north and they wouldn ' t allow it unless we were married . We didn ' t stay married long . I didn ' t marry again for a long time after that and I married a man that I truly loved . We separated four times in four years over his kids . We eventually divorced . I am still married to my third husband even though we ' ve been separated since 2011 . I wasn ' t going to marry him but he wanted me to put him on my insurance policy so we had to get married . Yeah looking back I shouldn ' t have gotten married . Ever .