My wife and I are in our twenties . We ' ve both gotten in better shape since we got married a couple of years ago , especially in the past year , although we were never in terrible shape she ' s lost about 10 pounds and can ' t lose much more and I have been lifting weights enough to have a little more definition . We got so many comments , but the weirdest was from my grandfather who had seen us a few months ago basically the same , including my wife in a bikini plenty of times vacation by the water . He went on and on about how skinny she was and how I wasn ' t feeding her enough and how he thought my job as an engineer should pay enough for us to stay healthy . It was bizarre . But we were the only people who weren ' t kids or weren ' t in the forties or older and some of the only ones near a healthy weight . It ' s a good thing my weight isn ' t genetic .