United States Canada Mexico Panama Haiti <| sep |> That ' s an odd nameI ' d have called it a stickilidoo <| sep |> I went through a similar situation to you , and I now have this setup to ride to work . ' s an old board with some enuff skateboard trucks , 14 inch riser pads and some big ass 72 mm 78 a wheels . <| sep |> Only Jiraiya , Hashirama , Kabuto , Madara , Minato and Naruto can use Sage Mode effectively . Fortunately most of these characters can use clones as distractions or hide during fights to gather natural energy . <| sep |> The problem is that first you need to convince them to get past their own selfloathing , and their judgement of other men . They rob their own lives of value , and project that on to the world . I agree , some of them do indeed come down very hard on other men . That mentality didn ' t come from out of nowhere . Also true . Many of them lack any kind of positive reinforcement , and aren ' t able to conjure that kind of emotion and energy out of poison , much less inspire it in others . I ' d argue this point a bit . It ' s not that they lack positive reinforcement of any kind , but that they lack positive reinforcement from women . What seems to work are challenges . Something that unites them , rather than something that ' s good for it ' s own sake . And codes of honor , that allow them pride , even when the world tries to take it away . These would be excellent options . But how do you do all that ? I ' m too feminine , and very unwelcome in the manosphere . You ' re a trans man , and they can be very tribal . True . Even in the forums where they know I ' m transgender and very proMGTOW , I ' m still denied a real membership and have to comment in the guest section . Perhaps if I said I had genital surgery , they ' d let me actually join and I could do some good work there , but I don ' t want to lie to them . Those who struggle the most with empathy , first need to see themselves reflected , in someonesomething good . Yes , exactly . It is another horrible cycle . Many MGTOW lack empathy towards women because women haven ' t shown empathy for them , but then new women they meet see the lack of empathy and just assume MGTOW were always like that . It takes a woman or at least someone with a vagina showing them kindness and compassion to break this cycle . Unfortunately , it doesn ' t happen often enough to make a difference .