Damn anything you want ! <| sep |> Leonardo Dicaprio in Titanic ! <| sep |> I don ' t know man , if you both feel this way and have been for 7 years , then maybe you should decide to give it a shot . Both of your relationships are still in their early phases . Unless you ' re both perfectly happy in the relationships you ' re in now , it may be a good time to break up your individual relationships and try a relationship together . If you know you ' re going to continue feeling like this , and it ' s very likely , then why live a life not knowing how it couldve gone ? Your chance at this will be over if either of you takes the next step in a relationship kids , engagement , living together . Sounds to me like this moment right here is your chance to try and make it work . And if it fails , at least you ' ll move on knowing you tried .