Pretty sure u could be in Canada in that amount of time , even in an area that speaks a different language ! If you look at major cities , I can be in Baltimore home , Philly , DC , Richmond and NYC in about 3 . 5 hours maybe less on the train . I think the next major city is either Pittsburgh or Boston , I think Pitt is closer . I mean it isn ' t tiny England but it ' s pretty dense out here by North American standards . <| sep |> Aw , thanks . It sounds a lot worse on paper than its really been . To me , it ' s just normal . I don ' t really remember not having my little brother , or not knowing how my older brother died . My parents never hid any of it from me , nor did they hide the whole ' if you ' d been screwed up you wouldn ' t have been born ' thing . It never messed me up or made me feel bad , because I always figured it ' s not like I ' d have ever known if I wasn ' t born , you know ? And seeing my brother struggle , it makes sense sometimes . Before anyone lights torches or sharpens their pitchforks , let me clarify I love my brother dearly , and am very happy to have him . But it rips my heart out every single time he notices that I ' m doing something he can ' t , and says ' three years isn ' t that long ', because he recognizes that he should be developing skills and can ' t , and will never meet certain milestones even though he is only 3 years younger than me . That ' s why I just won ' t do it to a baby of mine , if I can help it .