So , they ' re asking for it ? The world is not the masturbatory fantasy land you ' ve concocted in your head . Women do not want to be groped unprompted by lecherous old men , no matter their station in life . One day , when you grow up , I hope you find a woman you love very much . Then I hope you have a daughter . Then I hope you think back to these days of your life with at least a small amount of shame when you ' ve actually understood what some women with little choice put up with . For a start , try walking away from the echo chamber of male fantasy inside your computer . I find it impossible to believe that anybody who lives and works out here in the real world for a significant length of time can still hold such regressive attitudes towards women in the company of powerful men .