Ah yes , the constant conservative misunderstanding of feminism . Pretty sure mainstream feminism I can ' t claim to speak for all has absolutely no problem with being a stayathome mother . If that makes you happy , do it ! We ' re just opposed to it being the only option , or a socially coerced option and this article is leaning heavily towards the coerced side through guilt . If you wanna raise your kids , awesome . If you wanna be a rocket scientist , also awesome . Do your thing . <| sep |> Not saying otherwise . I just don ' t think any of Aoki ' s wins have the weight of those 2 penn fights I mentioned . He has 2 over Hansen but also got stopped by him . His win over JZ came after the controversial end to their first fight . He ' s great , and in the conversation for top 5 certainly . But I still put penn above him , personally .