After you log on to the amex website , look at the right side in the useful links menu . There should be a link there saying Cardmember Agreement . <| sep |> Definitely lesson . I went from shooting my best round , 82 , to slowly but surely creeping back over 100 in three years while stubbornly refusing to take a lesson . Finally did this spring and reversed the curse , but getting back to the right grip and alignment , basic stuff , feels weird and takes a lot of work since I put it off so long . <| sep |> give me two Moncriefs <| sep |> Try the two duos methods . Do not do the mirror method . Not because anything bad will happen necessarily , but because you might see something slightly offputting that will trigger you . Im pretty sure that you can do the mirror method during the daytime when you ' re skilled enough but the night time is the optimal condition especially for begginers .