Nope , still crashes . c <| sep |> Not really interested in regular lightning , any other offer ? <| sep |> At least to me suggests that he ' s allowed to say , yeah , I though I ' d be cool with living with someone who ' s trans , but it turns out that ' s not for me . If I misunderstood you , my bad . My point was just that it ' s totally fine to say , I ' m fine living with a trans person , but this person is a fucking jerk . But if your reason for leaving is that they ' re trans , that ' s not ok in my opinion . That is what I was hinting at . And that doesn ' t make this kid some kind of bigot , either . For context I ' m completely fine living with straight white males . Or at least I say I am until you put me in some place like a frat house for example purposes , they ' re all white . Then I am no longer fine with it because for me , that ' s a cultureshock and one I ' m not ready nor willing to get used to . I ' m sure that individually or in limited amounts I ' d be able to handle them . This is effectively the same thing it ' s a cultureshock for this kid . The thing that people get prickly about though is that this particular culture is tied heavily to gender identity . It otherwise seems we either understand or agree with eachother on the remaining parts .