I ' ll admit . I ' m really in to being called m ' lady . I don ' t think fedoras look too bad . I appreciate the blade and have a couple ornamental swords including one I bought in Kyoto . I speak Japanese and I do like my tendies . I also play tons of vidya . I still wouldn ' t date the average neckbeard but there might be some I would . They also wouldn ' t date me because they probably think that I ' m a whore , I don ' t shave too often or wear makeup , and I took MMA as a kid and can probably kick their ass so sometimes guys are intimidated by that . A guy who looks like a viking and whose name rhymes with Chad married me last month though so the joke is on them . I am going to DD tonight with my husband and his coworkers . I started playing a decade ago . Out of all of the men involved , one sort of looks like a neckbeard and he gets ton of tail from Tinder . Neckbeards like to think that their superior interests and sparkling personalities are so rare and special when really there ' s tons of guys they just can ' t compete with who like the same things . None of these guys are model quality . Just average and not creepy or openly hostile .