For real , I haven ' t been able to talk sports with anyone for the past year . <| sep |> He shrugs . We broke up ages ago . I haven ' t actually seen her since then . <| sep |> How does somebody say something this stupid and still think their opinion should matter ? I feel like Brad Pitt in Seven when I see something like this . <| sep |> What does the post or my comment have to do with the divide between sport BJJ and selfdefense BJJ ? My objection to your picture of yourself standing with Pedro Sauer is that Pedro Sauer is a wellknown figure who I can obtain a picture of by googling Pedro Sauer , and you are someone I have no particular reason to want to see a picture of . <| sep |> wadup cats <| sep |> I ' m going to let you in on a little secret , its not .