I put my phone , cards , and cash in my bra when my clothes don ' t have pockets and I can ' t carry a purse like at crowded concerts . Same thing and it makes pickpocketing a lot more difficult . <| sep |> what do you use <| sep |> You are strong . Be you and it will be fine . Doesn ' t matter what disagreeable people think you are just fine . <| sep |> Yeah it is . Sushi seems to be where the money is <| sep |> That was a hard sad cringe <| sep |> It would be very immature and harsh decision to cut the cord over this where he is still telling that he wants to sacrifice kids to be with you so what you need to do is have a proper discussion over it and tell him all what you are thinking about his answer . At the same time you should stop over thinking about this because over thinking causes problem that was not there in the first place . Even if you find a partner who says clear no for kids may change his mind for years to come so I would like to tell you stick to your boyfriend who is willing to renounce kids thought for your happiness .