Wow he did actually push the dude down <| sep |> Love James and Natalie together and they definitely do seem really into eachother but yikes I ' m apprehensive about every relationship which turns into an engagement this quickly . 5 months is a short time . <| sep |> They delayed the shipment for mine <| sep |> socially retarded would be a very small stretch I have some bad news and some good news . The bad news is that being socially retarded is a huge , huge problem both for your career and for your emotional well being . The good news is that with effort , you can learn your way out of this . I also used to be socially retarded . Like every other skill , to some people this comes naturally and easily . You and I are not in that club . But if you make a conscious effort to get better at it , you can . Start observing people and their behaviors actively try to figure out what they are feeling and why they might be acting in the way they are . Look to charismatic people and see what it is that they have that makes people feel drawn to them . I was quiet , introverted , and a total awkward weirdo , but now people say describe me as a natural leader nothing natural about this , but I appreciate the sentiment . You can do it , too !