No I ' m down the pub in a hours time we could have drunken rants <| sep |> Dan Bilzerian skin confirmed <| sep |> A note before starting would like to know what MALE sex workers have to say on this so often people associate just women with sex work , and forget men get paid for it , too ! As for the question . I had been a hippie teenager free love ! and enjoyed sex . When I got to the point I was doing sex work , it seemed like a sensible second job . Clients were almost aways older , with few guys near my age at the time 2122 . There was a range of much older men 49 oldest I went , middle aged guys varying from passable , avg , and ugh grosstho very few of those , and the handful of young guys who were average looking . Some notablesolder guy who was disfigured in a motorcycle and wanted to feel desiredReally hot young guy mid 20 s who had an extreme and embarrassing fetish that isn ' t typically well receivedSo many decent looking guys that if they had the $$ to spend to be with me , could probably have a girlfriend but either didn ' t or she wasn ' t enough . Satisfaction and discretion were my selling points , so I didn ' t ask too many questions . As for the sex itself , I enjoyed it as much as I needed to . Extra sound effects or involuntary shudders get most guys really going , so it made them not only feel better but finish faster . My favorite guy was one who only took 15 min to complete and was out . One of those decent looking younger guys . But what some people don ' t seem to understand about women in sex work is the tricky girl that is our vagina . A guy sometimes has mental issues blocking him from getting hard , but usually once you ' re stiff you are good to go save for some big boner killing moment . Women ' s vaginas will naturally lubricate themselves when something is inside strictly for protection , yes , but it isn ' t always enough in itself for sex . Therefore it is necessary to maintain some level of desire beyond mere consent . When a vagina goes dry it doesn ' t just suck for the guy that freaking hurts ! But it seemed most guys just wanted to feel desired . My bestmost regular paid extra to be able to take me out and parade me around , I guess to feel better about himself that he had me . It was fun he was very respectful . Luckily I had no bad encounters where I ever felt unsafe . One guy was kinda shitty and tried to make his pittance paid stretch into more , but even then it didn ' t workwouldn ' t let him . Eventually tho it became like how many others unfortunately view sex this sex act is worth this much , my time is worth money , everything was about the $$ and a constant haggle for what clients would think timeacts were worth . On top of that I didn ' t want to keep it up as a business . I wanted to enjoy sex again and be with someone because we BOTH find each other extremely attractive and just want to please each other not determine how much I will be into it based on how much he paid , what he looks like , and how he treated me in the few exchanges we had during the vetting process . I have always been sex positive , but like probably many others had only a general opinion of sex work that could only vaguely be described as bad before I actually sid my homework it is one of the oldest known professions and walked that road myself . So I am definitely more empathetic to those in the sex industry and their clients . As for sex itself , I also learned it isn ' t about necessarily being better in bed , but more what are you willing to exploretrydo . Meaning you may have perfected a perfect head technique that makes one guy cum in 30 seconds , but a different guy won ' t even stay hard from it . So a good rule for anybodycouples explore your sexuality to the fullest . Know what turns you onmakes you climax , and don ' t be afraid to share that with the person you want to have sex with . Bring instructions if it helps ! Some reading I suggest for all 5 whores who changes history found on Cracked . com