Yeah I definitely do not plan to stretch this out this long . I will try to number close within the next couple of interactions . But I have been around long enough and done this enough times to know numbers do not mean anything , unless there is actual interest and chemistry etc . So I will interact with her more and try to get a vibe with her . I have been in those work place situations , and from my experience it is a finesse game . I tend to work slower as I am more shy , especially in the work place . But I ended up dating a co worker for a short while which took about 34 months to initiate , strictly because I feel its so sensitive and risky . I eventually was able to progress it through the Christmas party .