I create youtube videos showing very simple recipes , step by step . I ' m not the best cook , so they ' re recipes that most ppl can do and I show really simple food ideas ! EmFu 6 SJy 9 s 8 <| sep |> I think a lot of us overcompensate in the beginning before settling into our style . On the other hand , a lot of us may also be discovering new things about ourselves . I , for one , never thought I ' d really want to wear dresses or tons of makeup or be interested in painting my nails . I was pretty convinced I ' d be perfectly fine with sticking with girl versions of what I already wore cargo pants and tshirts . And while I do still prefer to wear those casually , I really do enjoy finding a dress that makes me look good and getting my makeup just right still learning that . I think its different for everyone , and there ' s nothing wrong with that .