If you haven ' t eaten her face by now it ' s never going to happen . <| sep |> judge will likely award the custodial parent whatever they want Small town and lets just say the initial court proceedings did not go at all in my favour even though at that time I was fighting for visitation . custodial parent put a stop to that pretty quick , death threats etc were made towards me and my family members I have 2 younger sisters so I backed out and let them win They were willing to threaten my life for being involved so I said fuck it , I wont be involved than . Years later I guess they got mad cause I didn ' t play to their tune . but still maintained a great relationship with child 1 cause well his custodial parent wasn ' t a psycho . But how do you explain that to a judge who will just look at you and say uh huh , yeah , sure . All I have on record is 2 counts of criminal harassment and a restraining order against the custodial parent from years ago . Now I live 2 provinces away and I keep having the words child abandonment thrown at me . Judge is gonna rape me for everything .