Whoever you marry , this is going to happen you will find other people who you have crushes on . Would you divorce your future wife if this happened then ? Love is more than feelings . Love is commitment , a choice to care about someone . Feelings are fleeting . Love is constant . Feelings are involuntary . Love is a choice . This is the time where you can make a choice to truly love your fiance . You can acknowledge fleeting feelings exist while still knowing that the person you care most about is her , that she is the one you want waking up by you , holding your hand , and growing old with you . <| sep |> A few thousand poorly trained 18 yo minorities who play soldier on the weekend are capable of waging war against millions of heavily armed , well trained patriots who feel they have nothing to lose . Cool story , bro . Also , the police are on our side . Remember when your movement caused a bunch of police officers to be murdered this past Summer ? Yeah , they remember too .