All I ' m saying is that the outdated and backwards literature used to justify my mindset is backed by plenty of people who undoubtedly tested these methods , if it wasn ' t valid it would of been buried among all the other verbose PUAEsque posts that waste space on this sub . Most of these outdated posts have some basis of social psychology in them , concepts such as frame and amused mastery arent backwards , you most likely implemented them incorrectly in your life which resulted in you foolishly posting these comebacks out of anger . So I ' m going to recommend the IRC once more , maybe that will unplug you . I only hope you can place as much energy into self improvement as you do into winning an internet fight