Sweet . I need more of that energy <| sep |> As someone that did most of my break ups , I left my relationships receptive to all my old boyfriends . I have yet to have a horrible break up as they are all pretty amicable , albeit sad , but I am friends with all my exs after we all get some space . Using absolutes in life is not good , life is full of varying degrees . Cutting off all contact seems silly unless things got incredibly dramatic . To me , all my relationships are also really solid friendships and even though we may hurt each other , sometimes friends have to help each other heal . <| sep |> Break up this week . I broke up with her . It ' s tough , but I ' m hoping the unpleasantness passes soon . <| sep |> you mean that ' s her phallus sticking out into bambai ' s skyline ?