Nice ! May I see your stats with Clicker Lister ? D <| sep |> I ended up getting in this same discussion a month or so ago . I personally think neither is cheating but that doesn ' t mean those actions weren ' t hurtful to the other person . I personally think that what Lorelai did was way more hurtful cause it cut to the core of one of their problems . Luke worked hard to trust Lorelai with Christopher and that completely betrayed that trust . I also feel like the timing was extra awful . But I think Lorelai made it clear she was done even though it could be argued that Luke didn ' t take it that way , whereas Logan seemed to have accidentally made it clear through his sister that they were broken up . I will never understand how Rory thought she could ignore Logan for three weeks after a big fight and expect that they are still together , and it blows my mind that she knows that the hook ups take place after honor called her the ones we know about anyway , so in reality she was clued in to the fact that he was done . But it seems like an accident that that happened so i still fault Logan on that for crappy communication too . But I also have less of a problem with someone seeking companionship post break up with a few random people versus the father of your child that you ' ve always had a thing for and has been a sore spot in your relationship before . I know girls that would seek out their exes so their number wouldn ' t go up , but didn ' t mind mindfucking those dudes by always coming back to them . So in general id prefer people to be a little slutty versus using their exes for sex .