Can I see a picture of this Slim with a optics port ? Edit easy way to tell . If yours has a top HD Bay it ' s OG . If that ' s a matte finish is its fine . telps 4 pro 9 . jpg <| sep |> So which one won ? <| sep |> God you ' re so brave . <| sep |> Dumper to dumpeeSo , I originally started as the dumper , but looking back probably just more of a jerk that wanted to stay fwb needed more time to make a more serious commitment . I wasn ' t seeing other people during this several month time frame . Only several months later she told me how much I hurt her by not stepping up our commitment level and she was considering dating other people . I felt terrible when she told me this , last thing I wanted was to hurt her , we just had really poor communication . After that , tried to reconcile , gave her flowers and tried to talk it all over . She still wanted to see other people andor just be friends at that point . Lots of mixed signals after that as well . Have to say , I felt pretty shitty both times , still not back to baseline .