I plan to retire well before 58 . Currently plan to retire before 50 although when I actually retire depends on a lot of things and could vary heavily . <| sep |> I don ' t think you ' re supposed to like Subaru . Just putting it out there . <| sep |> Thank you for your insightful story . As someone who is married to a spouse who is coming to this country LEGALLY , the process is extremely difficult and time consuming . However coming to this country legally and is one of the greatest honors on earth . We wait patiently and adhere to all of the requirements because eventually once the time comes up that the application is processed we know that we have maintained our reputation , integrity and are viewed by this country as legal , productive citizens . My spouse has had to wait years because of the limited resources available from DHS and ICE whose budget is obliterated by border control , enforcement , detainment , etc of Illegals . Those loyal government workers are doing the best that they can with an overwhelming backlog . This puts an extreme strain on legal immigrant applications . Of course we want legal background , biometric and employment history on every person coming to this country . Please as an SJW do not even try to say that those tests are illogical or unconstitutional . While half of my family lineage has been here since colonial times the other half did not arrive until they went through Ellis Island where you had to be tested for Polio , TB , lice etc . I am so sorry about your friend ' s loss of his son . His actions indicate that he is a person of HONOR . That is something that cannot be bought or sold . I applaud him immensely for accepting that unfathomable loss in order to follow his family ' s dream to come to the US legally . He is truly the embodiment of the American spirit of strength and fortitude . So just remember when you have been told that President Elect Trump said something racist you better look into the actual speech transcripts and find out exactly what he said before you disagree with his stance , because there are thousands of families , your friend ' s and mine , who have willingly sacrificed and waited to be legal immigrants while millions of others have drained our country of immigration resources and public funds . Thank you for your open letter of support that was brave and very much appreciated . Have a MAGA day and we hope to see you around this sub .