So you ' ve never read the rules . <| sep |> Never really say to anyone that you have money . When fam member asks me if i have spare , I always say I have none atm . <| sep |> My area is severely lacking in mental health resources . I ' ll see if I can get a few appointments in at home over my winter break . Again , thanks so much for the kind words and support while I ' m struggling with this . <| sep |> I would advise against Arlo if you were considering it the free storage is nice , but I had nothing but trouble with it the night vision hardly every worked , particularly outside , and I couldn ' t find a sweet spot for motion alerts , they were either constant or never . Returned to Amazon and the hunt continues . I might wait for a good HomeKit solution now they must be coming soon ? .