inb 4 downvotes , and men offering their wives to other men <| sep |> Tied with Mali . That ' s . something I guess . <| sep |> Just messing around man , no worries . <| sep |> Rivalry ? But it ' s not Wednesday . <| sep |> My Grandmother was schizophrenic , she could be the most amazing woman one moment and the embodiment of pure evil the next . The week before my moms 12 th birthday Grandma told her that she could have a party , and sent her around the neighborhood with invitations , and sent more with her to school . My mom had really poor self esteem , she had never had a big birthday party , I don ' t believe that she had actually had friends over to the house . So this was a big deal , she thought that finally she had a way to connect with some of these kids . On the day of the party Grandma had my mom wait in the front yard , and keep all of the kids outside until she was ready for the big surprise . She kept them out there for a half an hour and then came out screaming that my mom was a liar and that there was never any party .