My wife and I just had a baby and wanted to get her something from her birth year . <| sep |> Ive seen someone who literally had a flashbang land in the seat next to them and go off . The injury was superficial and had him limping , but it looked NOTHING like this . I sincerely doubt a flashang did this . <| sep |> Oh , totally . And I think a lot of the hate that these new gender neutral pronouns are getting is because there are SO MANY of them and not many people use them . If you guys could all band together and agree on ONE set of gender neutral pronouns , I think it would finally be able to get done . <| sep |> I know a lot of people my age who first got into metalcore because of Underoath ' s album They ' re Only Chasing SafetyjLgmGe 68 Mec . Classic blend of metalcoreposthardcore with poppy clean vocals . I ' d also recommend Erra ' s new album bEWH 9 LIZueE . It has great , catchy clean vocals , but also has some amazing guitar work that I think could help a firsttime metalcore listener really get into the faster pace and unique instrumental aspects of metalcore .