You ' re a caring human being . People attach way too much to the idea of woman , and that ' s very annoying , but human has way better and more understanding ideals attached , so don ' t forget that you are one . It ' s not fun to fail to conform to stereotypes as it means people will have more trouble categorising you and often get mixed up along the way e . g . woman wants kids , and it ' s like they ' re just reading from a script instead of recognising you for who you actually are , even when you ' re right there in front of them , but that ' s just how people cope . It ' s annoying and kind of isolating , but it ' s not personal it ' s just how people simplify the world around them to cope easier . Gender stereotypes change all the time anyway . The ones we know , including the a woman ' s true place is motherhood ones , are ~ 200 years old a far cry from being biological facts as old as the species , and they ' ll certainly keep changing .