I definitely see where you ' re coming from . Just a couple things , may or may not matter , I ' ve met her mom and talked to her over Skype , was one of the things we did in the beginning before she came to see me to settle her moms fears . She lives with her mom and her moms close friend and I ' ve talked to both . Also we had tentative plans to meet up for the holidays before everything , I definitely didn ' t just decide to plan it myself after lol . And It ' s mostly people like auntsunclesgrandma that she never really talks to that she ' s afraid of their reaction I think , which I didn ' t mention up top , but she hasn ' t added me on social media either because , and I understand but maybe I also kinda feel like she ' s hiding me ? In the beginning she didn ' t want to because she ' s had issues with guys stalking her through it but then it changed to the extended families reactions . But I don ' t really know how I feel about it I guess . And yeah you may be right , I might be making it into a bigger deal than it is , but I feel like if it wasn ' t a big deal she wouldn ' t be ignoring me like this , as the only other time she has we had almost broken up , but idk . But you ' re probably right , I should probably give her some space and just see what she wants when she ' s ready to come to me . Thank you for your input , and feel free to add more if my additions change anything . Much appreciated .