Yea , its usually his administration that tells him if his goals are feasible or not , and if it is , they show him how he might do it . He could always reject their advice , but most likely he won ' t . Then again , he is picking some stupid people for other departments . Who knows what will happen , he is the black swan . Or shall I say orange swan , lmao . <| sep |> Open mouth , insert meds . <| sep |> Chances are you weren ' t as bitchy as you think you were . Can you check in with your boyfriend to get his opinion on whether or not you were out of line by being c o n d e s c e ndingunappreciativebitchy ? Chatting with him might make you feel better . If you genuinely want to be less bitchy , try going out of your way to offer everyone in the room a genuine compliment at least once per event Say nice things about other people behind their back ex Susan is such a funny person , I hope she makes it out tonight and finally , try your best to make the people around you feel good about themselves . Boost their egos , listen to them , and put as much energy as you can into making them happy . It ' ll be draining at first , but eventually making others feel good will become a habit