This guy ' s insight . On point . <| sep |> 4 Chan in the good old days was very interesting to say the least . Over exposure though has turned it into what it is now . <| sep |> Not OP , but I would imagine that it ' s the disrespect for them as an adult , as well as the boundary issue you mentioned . She said no , and it should be left at that . It ' s also hypocritical 11 th article of faith . Lastly , consider if you switched things up and asked them to do something that wasn ' t in their belief system perhaps standing up with hands over head , saying Heavenly Father is most great , reciting a bit of 1 st Nephi , then beginning to say what they wanted . When they decline , continue to press and press until they give in . Would that be considered okay ?