Everyone complaining about Ryouka ' s breast size , and meanwhile I was wtf ' ing hard with the noses . <| sep |> You only make me cry on the outside . <| sep |> I ' ve known my wife for ten years , married for seven . I came out to her two years ago and it was one of the hardest things I ' ve ever done . It was a little bumpy at first , she obviously had a lot to think about so she was nervous but she never once intended to leave me . She asked a ton of questions and we talked about it a lot for quite a while . I saw a therapist for 9 months and that helped me . We had one kid and both wanted another so we decided together I ' d take things slow and wait until at least a few months into pregnancy two to start transition . Not rushing things worked out fantastic ! She had plenty of time to think things over and we both could see what things were going to be like a little at a time . Now I ' m ten months into hrt , out to everyone , presenting full time , and my marriage has never been happier or stronger . I ' ve been extremely lucky , I know my situation isn ' t the typical one but it does happen ! Good luck !