A friend of mine brought one of her friends to my birthday party last year . We ended up talking a lot and had a great time , at the end of the night when she left she asked for my number . It was the very end of the semester right before finals so we didn ' t do much but we texted or snapchatted every day , she would send me teasing stuff like pictures of her right out of the shower or saying she was cold and needed somebody to cuddle with . I finally got a chance to to hangout with her again , not really a date but we cooked dinner and watched a movie , and we had a great time . I then asked her out on a real date and she turned me down , saying she was too busy . After the 3 rd time asking her out and she saying she was too busy I kind of got the hint and asked her directly what was up and she said she didn ' t want to lead me on and that she just wanted to be friends . I ' ve talked to our mutual friend and she says this girl is telling her she ' s still into me but is a little overwhelmed by school , work , etc . We still talk a lot but I still don ' t know what ' s happening .