If they put ' natty ' in their bio or hashtags they ' re on shit . General rule of thumb . <| sep |> I think . men have a propensity to associate the sensitivity of the penis head with the sensitivity of the clitoris . They just aren ' t aware that the clit ' has many many times the nerve endings jammed into a much smaller place . Understanding a little bit of female reproductive anatomy has helped me so much over the years . can ' t be overstated . Oddly enough . I ' ve found , at least a couple of times , that I know more than the woman involved . Not in ' every ' respect . the girl knows what she feels , but if you haven ' t seen a diagram and read an explanation for clitorallimbs as an example then you just can ' t know how it all kindof works . My SO and I did some studying together . and she was just as surprised to learn things as I was .