Neither will doing what you wanted <| sep |> Your feelings are valid . But you should not let this define anything in your life . You were 19 years old and did not know what was going to happen , don ' t blame yourself . <| sep |> Too long is definitely unattractive for hands , and it is a complete turn off for toenails , no matter how well pedicured . However , I do notice well groomed and prettypainted nails , specially on nice looking hands and feet . <| sep |> And then we found out the admins ceos were editing the comments of people that offended them or that they didn ' t like . hmmmm . <| sep |> I have some friends and I ' m between jobs , but I have way too much time on my hands . I hate TV and video games so I read my ass off and it ' s awesome .