First of all , some people aren ' t worth fighting . In other cases you have to take some actions to even the playing field so that it makes sense for both people to want to fight . This doesn ' t apply in places where you ' re relying on their inability to escape . Even if you weren ' t the one to initiate the fight you should either choose to accommodate or make it obvious you have no intention of fighting . You can abuse the mentality of at least it ' s a fight to keep a slight advantage but protection prayers push it too far . The main thing to understand is both people need to want to fight unless they ' re dead too soon to make that decision <| sep |> What , are there other ways to make children ? ? Also , fitting username here .