THATS A 50 FUCKING DKP MINUS <| sep |> Lol . This is how I would be acting if Hillary won . Total douchebag , dude . Much respect . <| sep |> Who says reposts are a bad thing . <| sep |> Having grown up in a rough area , I got to agree with you that these guys were already looking for trouble . Sadly , I don ' t think your girlfriend really understands how some of the world works Totally agree ! OP , I think like your girlfriend so I thought I ' d speak a bit to why I think the way I do , in case it helps . I ' m very Let ' s all be friends no need for violence which stemmed from growing up in a uppermiddle class , privileged life . I wonder if maybe your girlfriend had a similar upbringing ? Even now , in adulthood , I am surrounded by people who are kind to me . I struggle to empathize with my fiance or others who livedlive a rougher life , because of how sheltered I wasam . While part of the issue is my upbringing , the bigger part is that I don ' t want to let go of my Disney ideas . I try very hard to keep believing in a blissful world because that ' s how I want the world to work . Of course , I don ' t want to be that asshole who can ' t connect with people because they ' re in denial so I do my best to always seek confront reality . But it ' s always a struggle to balance conflicting ideas of what reality is and what you want reality to be so I do think many people including myself will pick the easier denial route when faced with hard situations . If your girlfriend is similar to what I ' ve described , she may not realize how cruel she is being to you . However , I agree with many posters here that you shouldn ' t be bending yourself backwards to try to make things right with her when she hasn ' t tried for you treating you like the bad guy without trying to understand the position you were in is not a good trait in a partner . I think she ' s struggling and instead of trying to work through her feelings , she ' s lashing out . If you do want to try and stay with her I suggest approaching her letting her know that you guys are very different people don ' t apologize explain your way of thinking , ask her for hers , and see if you guys can grow some understanding for each other . But . even in my sheltered life I don ' t know anyone who thinks martial arts street fighting .