I understand that , but it ' s also some personal responsibility on the barista ' s part . Having mgmt breathing down their necks to remind them to be engaged from time to time doesn ' t fix this problem . Actually , now that I ' m saying that , it really is a management problem because a lot of these sourpusses probably shouldn ' t have made it through the interview process in the first place . Listen , I don ' t expect nor want a clown behind the counter , either , but a sincere smile and attitude of what can I get you goes a long way . <| sep |> I am black and I am cool with that being a deal breaker . My brother likes Asian girls and only dates them . I prefer girls of any race with petite frames , also o . k . Who you want to fuck should be a decision you are always free to make as long as you don ' t like illegal stuff .