is that true though ? i imagined this would help me since it shows im stoic and unemotional . <| sep |> I really need him to do my eyeliner for me <| sep |> Thanks . That made me laugh <| sep |> Yes that would be a better wording . I ' m at work , so I ' m typing this on my phone . <| sep |> Regardless of whether it ' s mental or physical he definitely needs some kind of help . At 33 my sex drive is noticeably higher than it was at 27 . For me it was being overweight that was holding me back . I ' m sure that depression was a part of it too , and that it will probably increase even more if I ever figure out how to deal with it . The fact that antidepressants are bad about decreasing sex drive and causing weight gain sure didn ' t help though . Losing weight did more to make me feel good about myself than any drug or therapy ever did .