I guess I don ' t really get how the forced sterilization at birth fits in with the emphasis on the importance of natural life . And if somebody ' undesirable ' wants the reversal done , are they allowed to ? You haven ' t had any interaction with the foster system or foster kids have you ? There is plenty of cruelty in the concept of committing masses of children to the foster system as it is merely because you just think they should exist . <| sep |> Wow , that ' s useful to know . <| sep |> It seems like the Rebel 250 would be the cheapest option , I was thinking about looking around my area and seeing about used ones . Is there anything super worrying I should look out for ? <| sep |> Have you tried talking to him about this ? Not in a nagging , judging , complaining way , but just in a direct , observational , inquisitive way . For example , you could ask him I notice that you don ' t often initiate physical touch . This surprised me ? Is this comething you don ' t like to do or is there another reason ? The catch is , once he gives you his answer , you ' ll just need to accept it , at least for awhile . It might be something you decide you guys need to figure out a compromise about , but I wouldn ' t recommend directly transitioning into that conversation without some planning .