Death is the best cc after all <| sep |> My PC never dips below 40 fps in any FATEHunt . On my ps 4 I see dips into the 20 s in Idyllshire all the time . <| sep |> Honestly , an arranged marriage plus living so far from home would be difficult for the majority of people . What you ' re seeing now is probably decades of repressed emotion . She ' s getting older and she never got to live the life she wanted . And again , whomever is on the other end of that phone is an outlet for all that emotion . I can ' t imagine what that would be like , and I don ' t want to . Every time she says no one likes her , tell her you love her , she ' s your mother and whenever she ' s ready to talk you ' re there . Done . Don ' t get roped into long sessions of her crying and you just trying to figure it out and getting frustrated . Short , I love you , I ' m here when you ' re ready . And go about your day . If she says she wants to go live somewhere else , obviously we don ' t want you to go , we love you , but you ' re a grown woman , go if that ' s what you want . She won ' t . Short and sweet answers . Keep doing this , don ' t feed the crying or anything else . This prevents you from getting overly stressed , and more than likely she ' ll start talking .