They ' re all for the evolution of dishes , until you put ham in a cheese toasty then holy fuck ! <| sep |> Why are you using a throwaway though ? <| sep |> I hate museums and think my uncle is pretty attractive . Don ' t judge me . <| sep |> I ' m with you . At some point I realised that I actually don ' t want to go through all that again , possibly ever . I like living on my own , coming and going as I please . I like having quiet when I want quiet . I like doing things at my own pace and in a way I ' m happy with without having someone else endlessly prodding away at me about arbitrary things . I do miss companionship sometimes , and I miss sex too , but when those moments come upon me , I just think back to my last girlfriend and remember that , for the larger part of your relationship I wasn ' t really getting any ' companionship ' more dependency , tantrums and selfishness and there wasn ' t sex unless she was happy and she was almost never happy . I ' d like to make it clear that this definitely isn ' t an issue about women generally , it ' s just that my ex is a horrible person who also happens to be femaleSo whenever I feel a little blue about being on my own in the world , I just think back to what it felt like to not be alone , and suddenly I feel quite content to ramble on through the world without having to drag someone else and all their baggage along with me . Turns out that I definitely don ' t need to be in a relationship , and that I actually don ' t really want one either .