Turkey can also hate rebels . if US gives them what they want . <| sep |> Okay , good luck and have fun ! <| sep |> Your husband might not have understood what a big deal it was to you at 2 weeks . I found that I had to do sobriety only for me , not for anyone else . And when I finally decided that , things got better . Because , ultimately , I have to be happy in myself . And in contemplation of what went on when I was drinking , I discovered that I was just avoiding , and wasn ' t ever really happy , instead at best numb . So now , I don ' t drink at all , ever , FOR ME . Because I know from lots of practice that any drinking will just make me fall back into my old patterns . Congratulations on 31 days . I am rooting for you !