Download Opera VPN . Set location to Canada . Download update . <| sep |> Thank you for your response . I must say I feel the same . I don ' t think anyone will have anything for us . My older cousins are the only ones I know with kids , but I don ' t think any of them are done having their own yet . I ' m a poor kid who has made it into the middle class and I don ' t think I have figured this all out yet ! Ha ! We ' re the first in our friend group as well . But , you are probably right . We probably have more support than we realize . This will also be the first grandchild on both sides . We discussed it a bit we ended up just getting the Sorelle crib at Toys ' R ' Us , because it was a good price and , besides a car seat , probably the biggest purchase . Now to figure out our insurance costs . Hmm .