The Complete Guide to Monica Petersen ' s mysterious death in Haiti last week are you talking about this person ? <| sep |> That , internet stranger , also happens to other cultures . As a Black person I ' d normally be expected to address another Black person in whatever language is mainly of vernacular importance in that region I happen to be in . But for the life of me I can ' t tell what language the person would be speaking out of the nine possible languages that Black people speak here so I ' d just address them in Engels . I get wired stares after they find out that I can speak their language , especially when I happen to understand five of these languages . <| sep |> Life well spent . <| sep |> I definitely get emotional when I crash but ive been working on decreasing the amount of negativity I feel . The most effective ways I ' ve found of doing this are utilizing acceptance and meditation .