He also still has his wand , so something happened after the expulsion where he was able to graduate and keep his wand . <| sep |> Apologies , I did not intend to imply there was anything in the Laws of the Game about this . I meant that there ' s a protocol in place that is dictated by the relevant authority supervising the match or competition here , MLS or USSF or perhaps PRO . <| sep |> Four times is plenty to decide if you like each other . More than that and you ' d have to ask if he ' s just enjoying having a lady like you on his arm . If it ' s his first time then I ' d cut him some slack but either way you ' ve invested enough time and energy so he needs to show you how serious he is now <| sep |> Like most JJ Abrams stuff , they wanted to hit specific plot points scenes , and wrote around those points no matter if any of it makes sense .