Girlfriend trying to clear something up here In all of our communication at this point we had made it clear that we were falling in love with each other , we had never had any fights or falling outs , so I am entirely unsure why he had felt we were on the outs , whenever I ask him he again , says he does not know . Also pertinent to mention He had lied to me every time I asked if he was seeing anyone else . I asked him this multiple times during this time period because I wanted to be sure we were exclusive , and every time he assured me he was not seeing anyone . He probably told this lie at least ten times during the times he was seeing her . I also am not willing to call this girl , because I don ' t believe she knew she was being played , either , and I don ' t see any reason to involve her in something that would just cause her stress , she was also a victim in this . Hope this clears things up a little .