Here ' s what I don ' t understand you ' d think that people who study political science know it ' s bullshit ? <| sep |> As a parent I would try to resolve this while the child is young . I do fully understand keeping it under wraps for now but if he is definitively and permanently out of the picture I imagine it ' s be easier for the child to recover the younger they are . A relative of mine with small kids divorced and she was stunned how her kids went from missing daddy to completely accepting the reality of daddy ' s home and daddy ' s girlfriend vs our home with mom and why don ' t you have a boyfriend already , mom ? . in a matter of weeks . Maybe she was lucky . I ' d seek advice from a professional . <| sep |> Meh . 54 M , ain ' t no billion