I agree with you about the actual reason rejection hurts , but what you ' re saying basically boils down to you can ' t lose if you don ' t play . Definitely true , but you can ' t win either , and most people would say that it leads to a pretty bland life . And like . Would you really rather not know if there ' s a negative trait you have and could fix ? I definitely would . <| sep |> Yeah I ' ve been off for like 2 weeks now I ' m playing catch up <| sep |> Forcing ? More like you ' re given the opportunity to watch all 8 movies wyour glorious leader , uclutchyball <| sep |> Sounds like the claim for a certain UK scifi with a blue box . <| sep |> This is the first time I ' ve heard a cuber mention that you don ' t have to be smart , thanks for that , might give it a go !