I ' m saying he admitted to doing something he didn ' t actually do to cause TD to lose it ' s collective mind . <| sep |> Deine Kollegen sind wohl fefisten 4272 . <| sep |> I can ' t be the only one who thinks Ramsey doesn ' t deserve to start for us . Would much rather a Xhaka Coquelin pairing . Ramsey hasn ' t performed to the standards he should since 1314 , he turns the ball over way too much , and tries to over complicate way too frequently . He doesn ' t fit into our formation as we currently play it , and I sure as hell hate him outside . <| sep |> Agreed , and I actually like that beer . <| sep |> This has been going on for so long ! You don ' t get financial support from him , or a partner in any of the work of running your lives , and it sounds like that has led to you feeling emotionally unsupported as well . He on the other hand , is getting all of that and he has the audacity to complain that you are willing to give him another chance now ? You have been running the show for years ! The raising of two small children at once is enormously taxing , he knows that when your son was 10 months and is unwilling to do anything to balance that out , even now . You don ' t have much tethering you here , he eroded that away over a long period ! It is clear he goes through his day without regard for you and his own children . He may need counseling , but has had ample time to make a change and go through his recovery process . His cancer may have postponed this , but he needs to understand that he is an adult with an obligation to care for his offspring . He should also be taking care of himself , and in order to create a healthy relationship with you , he should be doing the work of mentally and physically supporting you as well .