Meh I ' m not terribly picky <| sep |> Oh for sure , fuck this 2 party system . Even the founding fathers warned about the dangers of that . Now back to the trump thing , everyone bitches . You bitch , I bitch , they bitch . So get off your pedestal because you happen to win this time <| sep |> She is very charismatic <| sep |> Stop trying to kill yourself , dude <| sep |> they come out the 26 th dipshit <| sep |> 100 % agree . There are days that I still see something and think , Oh , she would absolutely love that ! And sometimes , against my better judgment I share it via text because we ' re friendly , but the love had faded . I won ' t lie I was definitely a culprit in what led the relationship to go south . I ' m also focusing on myself and am determined to at least make this a learning experience , because damned if I don ' t get something out of this . Being alone isn ' t completely awful I have more time to better myself than ever before , and I ' m lucky that me getting my joblife back in order is dependent on getting things done . But once that work is done , I don ' t know that it ' ll be very different from your situation . I actually saw a picture of her and her new SO today , and realized that I ' m far less along getting over things than I thought . The funny irony being that my reflex was to message my confidant her and talk about how I feel before I realized that that can ' t happen . She seemed happy , and I ' m happy for her . It ' s been 4 months . I don ' t have sleepless nights or 3 am wakeup mornings anymore . But my mind still wanders when I ' m not busying myself . So it gets a little easier but I don ' t know much more than that . If you ever need a nonjudgmental , nonunsolicited advice ear , you can message me . Best of luck