Because they are a magazine . <| sep |> Just love yourself , hun . My advice Stop worrying about what is normal , or the why behind it . A lot of that will lead you into unhealthy spiraling , in my experience . If it helps The way I see it , Normal is really just a synonym for boring anyway . You have absolutely nothing to feel guilty for and you aren ' t hurting anybody at all seeking a little bit of comfort this way . If anything , you ' re actually helping yourself . Don ' t you actually feel better , refreshed afterwards ? Moreover , wouldn ' t you even feel better if you could do that without the guilt ? It ' s all in that mindset , and yeah , it takes a lot of work , but you will get there . Just keep in mind that there is nothing you are doing that is hurting anybody , and that anybody who says otherwise is simply wrong , and that anybody who criticized you based on normal doesn ' t get that normal isn ' t a good reason to do something . If anything , normal is a damn good reason not to do something .