If your only point is that biologically speaking , a male is a male and a female is a female , sans hermaphrodites , then yes . You are absolutely correct . The points I am making are a bit more abstract but shouldn ' t honestly be that difficult to comprehend . 1 The differences between male and female personas is not as great a divide as commonly represented and is clearly made more profound by societies preconceived nations of what is expected of both sexes . I . E . nurture 2 You and I should not care in the least how our neighbors wish to identify themselves . so long as they are not leeching from our own personal freedoms . There are also many , many documented cases of men exhibiting stereotypical female behavior and women exhibiting stereotypically male behavior throughout history . Even in the animal kingdom . That said , what does it really matter in the end unless your only goal is procreation ? Who fucking cares how your neighbors self identify ? Fuck I ' ve got to let this go and get some sleep 😖