Who is this guy ? Never seen or heard of him before . <| sep |> yes ! It was a hell of a build , I worked for the production department , but got to watch them build this for 2 weeks . Pretty cool ! <| sep |> Yes , you ' ve been used . It stinks and I ' m sorry . Good news is , she ' s gone and you never have to see her again . Don ' t let her worm her way back into your life focus on yourself and building up the life you want . Telling you that you ' re doing nothing or have no direction is an incredibly clear bit of projection on her part . She feels guilty for how she ' s treating you and is trying to get you to take the blame . Here ' s what you learned from this experience that you can support yourself and another person , that you ' re a generous person who gives without expecting return , and that you ' re a strong person who can survive a lot of emotional turmoil and upset . This are strong positive qualities . Don ' t let her get in your head and make you feel bad about yourself . Your life is only going to get better now .