Why ? EditNVM , saw your other post . <| sep |> Hope he isn ' t too affected by this . It ' s not the end of the world after psle ! I ' ve seen my secondary friends who came from normal stream to express to scoring single digit in O ' s . Now I ' m in poly and I ' ve seen people from ite , N levels and people who deferred for NS getting GPA 3 . 5 and above in addition to the singtel scholarship they ' ve secured . Some people just need time and the field that they have a passion interest for to excell . <| sep |> Those deals are trash <| sep |> I ' ll second the post on setting up website for her and offering to keep it updated . If you have the funds you could also get her a tablet , so she could facetime with you and anyone else , so she could feel connected to the world wether she ' s home , in the hospital , in a treatment chair , wherever . Also , you can do some errands and stuff for her from across the country . If you know she is having difficulty getting to the supermarket offer to set up a delivery service like peapod for her , or if you know she will be home certain days let her know you ' d like to have dinner delivered from a restaurant of her choice . Most of all just let her know you ' re there . Keep in touch with her . Talk to her about life other than chemo . Let her know you are only a phone call away whenever she needs it . You sound like a wonderful family member to have and I ' m sure she will benefit from anything you can do .