Which ever you want it to be <| sep |> He smiles faintly . Sounds like you have a tough night . Or maybe that ' s just your attitude about life now that you ' re the matchmaker . Heh . Anyways . uh . He lowers his voice . Remember that thing we talked about one time ? With . you know who . <| sep |> Yes , but he asked why they aren ' t selling them anymore . I ' m well aware you can ' t SLI them . <| sep |> Dude I ' m in the exact same boat as you . Except we were together for 7 years and engaged . She dumped me a month ago . Still have a box of love letters she wrote me and the ring . She wants nothing to do with me no matter what I do . I ' ve been channeling the hurt into trying to make myself better . I made a rrateme post and am working on what people said I should work on . I ' m hitting the gym and working with a personal trainer . I ' m snowboarding and climbing harder than ever before . I hope that these positive changes i ' m making for myself will bring me confidence and maybe a girl I ' m meant to be with someday . But dude , you have to do YOU as hard as you can right now . If she left you dude , screw her , she ' s not the one . It ' s hard to accept but there are BILLIONS of girls out there that are looking for you . You and I may look back on this one day and think it was the best thing that ever happened .