Nothing wrong with that if marriage has been tlaked about anyway , and both people want it , but only one takes the initiative to buy a ring etc etc I proposed to my wife , made it really rmantic and was quite traditional . asked her dad for her hand in marriage , got down on one knee etc etc and that person happens to be the girl then so what ? If my wife asked me to marry her rather than the other way around I would have been so touched and so overwhelmed I would have probably had a bit of a watery eye moment . And , of course , say yes . <| sep |> I just got 2 and it ' s been up for almost 24 hours ! <| sep |> I ' d say loan it . That way you can shard it with others and still keep it in the family . <| sep |> This is everything I wanted here . Thank you .