If you post a link to another sub and then a bunch of people go and downvote , that ' s vote brigading . To stay out of trouble with the admins , they just don ' t allow the links . <| sep |> Except that none of those stalkers are similar to mine . Same name , different meaning . <| sep |> Sorry for the late reply . So I was pretty youno around highschool and made some pretty racist remarks to a liberal friend ' s father about how lazy black people are and why they are always poor and why they always steal . I used the word kaffer specifically , which is the South African equivalent of the n word don ' t want to type it out because I don ' t want my comment autoremoved but worse , if that makes any sense . He was pretty pissed and told me if I wanted to talk like that then I can sleep in the dog house where I belong . I didn ' t really change for a few years after that , I was just more careful about who I was talking to .