Maybe , just maybe in her case , she was an 11 year old girl who consented to be with this 19 year old . even though a child at that age does not have fully developed decisionmaking skills , thus making consent impossible , but regardless , let ' s treat this as a hypothetical . Other 11 year olds in her situation are very likely to be at risk of being taken advantage of . She ' s advocating that a person who is far more physically and mentally developed should be able to legally be in a relationship with a child that could easily be physically and mentally taken advantage of . She ' s trying to justify fullblown pedophilia with her anecdotal situation . <| sep |> She wanted to be intimate with me but in a different body . but at least she admitted my face looked okay . This is simply cruel . No reason ever to dig down that low to resort to pure cruelty . If you want out , get the fuck out and leave . My guess why she said it ? She can now openly resent him for her OWN BUYER ' S REMORSE . She did not love him , she never loved him , she only was attached to what he represented to her and how she felt about herself given the specific time and place . Even if he was shredded , even if she stayed , her base character is the problem , not her level of attraction for him . And not his fitness level . The lesson here ? If you have to leave or want to leave , on either side , there is no reason to be cruel . You can be firm , hold frame , walk away and not basically shank someone ' s entire world along with the rest of the damage inflicted . And this is the hard part of guys , and guys have to do it save themselves , guys mostly just find the prettiest girl that will have sex with them and say Yes and roll with . The hard road is walking away , knowing the woman there doesn ' t really love you and is not attracted to you , but wants you for some other bullshit reason .