Pm me , I ' ll give it a shot . <| sep |> I have full set of painted chainsaws <| sep |> It ' s worth noting that you ' re assigning characteristics to her you don ' t know her at all . You haven ' t even spoken to her . You have no idea if she ' s quiet you want to think she is . Not sure if your defensiveness about SJWs leave in a sub where most users would describe themselves as some title that gets written off as SJW is related or not , but I wouldn ' t be surprised . Go up to her and say hi . Tell her that you ' ve seen her around and you ' re interested in getting to know her better . Have a conversation if possible . Try not to go immediately for the date . At the end , offer your phone number so she can contact you if she ' s interested . Then let her make the decision .