I can ' t find someone that I like . I ' m finally getting to a point with dating where I feel confident that some people like me . I just don ' t seem to like them . I try to give every girl a chance , and I see opportunities where I could force myself to be with someone by saying and doing the right things , but I just don ' t feel anything for them . And the thing is I ' ve met people that I feel that way about . Girls that I feel chemistry with where I feel like we have the making of being best friends or lovers or both . But in each of those few instances it just never really took off . Either I screwed up somewhere along the way or the timeplace was wrong . But the number of people I ' ve met that I feel so strongly about is so small . So for now I feel like I ' m consigned to a series of horrible first dates and if I ' m lucky ? eventually flopping into a world of mindless sex and loveless relationships to fill the void .