Is Pepe the mascot ? !<| sep |> I heard that guidebooks didn ' t actually listed motion values before generations came out . <| sep |> As you justly suspect , waiting to see her or worse , having herhim come visit to breakup would be worse and justifies an exception to the rule . It wastes both people time to delay the breakup and creates a rollercoaster of emotions that will just make things more painful yeah we get to see each other blam , breakup and potentially awkward and costly . There ' s no easy or painless way to breakup but I would think the kindest solution in this case would be a phone call , preceded by a text text , email , FB message , whatever you typically use mentioning that you need to talk and when would be a good time for it . This way , you still get to talk to himher directly , you don ' t really need the visual and shehe can know something is up , schedule it when they can talk not in public etc . and prepare for it .