I agree . I don ' t have a strong opinion about whether men should call themselves feminists or not , and I know a few who identify as such and I have no issue with it . I can see the perspective that they shouldn ' t though would a white ally for black rights call themselves a black activist ? It ' s a similar issue , and I ' ve seen men take over conversations about feminism . Using the term ally can help to center the experiences of those in the oppressed group . <| sep |> Even if Moncrief is in , Luck had his bell rung . Don ' t start him without Luck , he ' s nearly worthless without him <| sep |> It resonated with me at a time when I very badly needed it . And I think it speaks to some truths about the good and bad in humanity .