A safari is an expedition to hunt or observe animals . <| sep |> I don ' t want one . It ' s not even like I ' m so fulfilled with my current life that I don ' t need a relationship to be happy . That would be nice , but it ' s not true . I ' m just uninterested in intimacy . I prefer to spend my time and effort on my passions . Reading , writing , science , philosophy . I would so much rather study the biology behind sex than have it . The psychology behind intimacy and the sociology of how that psychology effects our societies . It ' s all just as interesting as the next thing , but it ' s all about losing myself in the gorgeous complexity of the world around us . That does sound like a bunch of hippy bullshit to some , but it ' s my replacement for a relationship , and it works for me .