A quantum leap is a big ' leap ' in the sense that a particle can get throughover an energy barrier that a classical particle would not be able to . <| sep |> Think of the children ! <| sep |> If you know anybody who pronounces it , jiff , report them to the police . <| sep |> types for 3 keys <| sep |> First , you are going to hurt for a while . How long , who can say for sure , but allow yourself some time to grieve your loss . When you have had your fill , I would recommend working on yourself . Not because there is anything wrong with who you are , but because working on yourself gives you something to do besides wallow in pain , and because it will make you feel better about yourself and life in general and it provides distraction . When you are healed , when you are whole , and when you are uplifting to be around , you are more likely to draw someone else ' s interests as well . This might be the farthest thing from your mind at the moment , but my hope is that some day you will look back on this relationship and find that while your love may have been intense at the time , you probably did a whole lot of suffering over someone who may not have cared as much as you did . And I say , to hell with that . Build up your self respect and find someone who respects you too .