I have a funny literal example of this , with pie . My husband ' s boss gave him a pie on Tuesday . I , about to start my period and having some serious cravings , REALLY wanted to eat the pie . I also wanted to bring it to my inlaws for thanksgiving . Ultimately I caved , and ate some , and now I feel shitty that I don ' t have a pristine , giftable pie to bring today . I cannot have my pie and eat it too . <| sep |> i hate it , dont really have a reason I just do , im no debbie downer so I usually shut up and forget about it . dont want anyone thinking im a negative nancy . <| sep |> In statistical terms riding a motorcycle 60 miles is roughly the same as skydiving for risk of fatality . <| sep |> not like ure in rush somewhere i fused like 7 in ~ 2 months , skilled up her 3 rd and enough . sharks come occasionaly , and when they do , u go for it , simple . much better option than waiting for some hoh that might never come D