Let her shower and clean up before you join her . And also , shower sex . <| sep |> I hear he was a big Linkin Park fan <| sep |> So then given that we haven ' t nationalised it , why isn ' t any of this being sorted ? That was kind of the whole idea of privatisation to sort this mess out <| sep |> I started out learning the bass finger style , and will always default to that . But these days I tend to enjoy playing with a pick . I tend to write in a different style with one . But in the end , there ' s no RIGHT way to play the bass . Long as you got the key right and the groove you ' re playing bass ! Though I would urge you to learn finger style too . Just cause why not be adept at everything . I seriously need to get my slap down but I haven ' t been bothered to learn something so new and different . But if you take it slow you will build up the technique .