This can never be said about Chinese or Indians <| sep |> Or just go to G 2 A . com and buy it for 10 bucks <| sep |> I ' m pretty unattractive and I ' ve gotten at least a kiss if not gotten laid every first date I ' ve gone on from Tinder . Like someone else said you just have to assume it ' s on from the start , and just think of the date as the pregame . I usually just go get coffee and then invite them back to do something literally anything in your room after less than an hour on the long end , and keep a constant sexual but not creepy ! vibe going . Just touch her at the right moments and flirting ' s your best friend . I ' m personally really goofy and smile a lot so I just try to tease them every other line and stay faux cocky .