I would wait to go in before making a full judgement . Remember you are in control just as much as them . <| sep |> Here are a few resources that might help explain . and you might look for a supportive gender therapist . transgenderexperiences . pdfYou might simply say you have feelings questioning your gender assigned at birth . Its nobodys place to question that . Additionally there should be a school psychologist . It may be an idea to ask to talk to them , and tell them that . They might help explain to other people . Concerning yourself . you might look for a supportive gender therapist . they could help along . If its connected with depressions it might be covered , or it might be covered because its included . hugs