For someone you barely know you sure think you know her enough , and indeed , you do know a lot more details about her life than you could ever just happen to know by accident . You know how you could stop knowing so much about her ? By not seeking it out ! Don ' t pretend you aren ' t . Clearly you ' re eager to talk about her whenever you can with whoever you can . Hell , you even do it here . You are actively seeking out this information from people and participating in conversations to find out . Yes , clearly all you were looking for was agreement . That much is clear . What , did the people in your town finally get tired of you talking about her ? Oh quit with the ' you didn ' t read my post ' whining . People always do that when called out . I didn ' t get a single thing about your post wrong . Yes , you spent most of your post going on about events that have nothing to do with the actual topic of this sub or the title of the post itself , before spending a few sentences on the actual point . You ' re not venting about anything related to being childfree or any interaction related uniquely to CF perspectives . And that ' s not your purpose for this post . You just wanted an excuse to gossip about someone you do not like , with way more detail than anyone should reasonably have , all while desperately trying to dress it up as a CF issue and that you ' re selflessly concerned for a child you don ' t even know . With half the details , that might have been fine . But with that much ? That ' s some nextlevel obsession .