Could be be overpaid ? MaybeNot maybe . Definitely . Objectively so . <| sep |> She has depression and perhaps some anxiety . I think you should help your brother if you can . If your father can take over the care of your brother , it will be better for your brother ' s mental health . I would also suggest that your brother and you seek some professional help because her attitudes will manifest and follow you into your adult life . If she is threatening suicide , please report it to the police for handling . Suicide attempts are illegal . If she follows through it is not your fault . YOu will need to slowly disconnect her from your life to properly heal . We have choices . If you want to help her , you could alert her church pastor and inform him before hand you will not help her in any other way . Side note FYI $ 6 is not a lot of money for tuition and 2 instruments and household bills . Especially if you live in a condo and not managing the expenditures because of depression or anxiety .