THEN WHO WAS PHONE ? <| sep |> I know I ' m a month late , but you are my new diety . <| sep |> Before you bring this to your wife , you need to have some serious introspection and reflection so you know where you fall with all thisWhat she said in the past is irrelevant . You are now married to someone who wants childrenAre there circumstances in which you would consider raising children ? Having children to make her happy is not the right move . But , having children because as a couple your goals changed , that is a more healthy outlookAre you willing to walk away from this union for the sake of remaining childfree ? If you stay , it ' s the decision of a free , rational adult , and not something you should emotionally hold over her head