Nigga looks like the hunchback of notre dame <| sep |> Banned for what ? <| sep |> But TFSA obviously would attack SAA if they got the chance . So I do think it appropriate for SAA to preemptively strike them to slow or stop their advance , .<| sep |> I ' ve often been curious if they really actually want to die which is very unhinged or if they just say it to get you to feel guilty also unhinged . I suspect it ' s a bit of both . I ' ve just never felt like this . Not either possibility . I can ' t really grasp it . <| sep |> I was not only shy , but hadhave anxiety issues . There were a few things . TLDR is to start a martial art or other physically intense team sport , volunteer at focused events like painting a house , go to networking events , and practice , practice , practice dating , online dating makes that easier . The simplest part is Starting to learn a martial art BJJ in my case . The structure of going to class and being accountable to my coach helps me keep with it . In addition 1 The tough workout reduces my anxiety and makes me look better too skinny in my case . 2 I was , and am , over conscious of personal space and disliked being touched , both normally and romantically . BJJ involves a lot of physical contact , it forced me to get over that awkwardness quickly . The adrenaline of trying to avoid being choked out or submitted by someone else helps . 3 I go to early morning classes . It ' s a smaller , regular group , so I quickly felt included and that I couldn ' t duck out if I didn ' t feel like waking up . So that helped a lot on keeping with it and building some social skills . For other social stuff , I would go to volunteer events where there was something specific like painting a house . There ' s a lot of work to do , and it ' s easy to interact with people that you ' re working alongside . I ' d also go to networking events and just start talking to people . It ' s actually really nice , because there ' s often at least a few people standing around awkwardly , so it ' s easy to go up to them and talk about work . For girlsdating , I went online . I used Ok Cupid and Coffee Meets Bagel . I researched the fuck out of how to make a good profile , and eventually started getting matches . From that , I eventually started getting better at chatting , and asking girls out on dates . Even the worst ones were fine , just awkward . After a bunch of dates , and some breaks from dating , I got to the point where I felt pretty confident going out on a first date took a year or so . From there , I was eventually able to find girls who wanted to go out more than once or twice . Crucially , I eventually dated some girls who were very open with PDA and the such . I still feel awkward and self conscious , but I don ' t freeze up like I used to . That did A LOT to improve my self confidence . I didn ' t do all of this at once , this was built upon over several years . And I ' m still making progress . But I ' m far happier and less stressed than I was before .