I ' d just like to point out that I rather enjoy Mica and I was just pointing out the difference between what the guy said and how the other guy read it . Mica not personally forcing anyone to listen to her is something that I can see go both ways , depending on how you look at it . You could make the argument that when she appears on a podcast that you really enjoy listening to then she kinda is forcing you to listen to her , if you want to be able to still listen to said podcast . Although that depends entirely on how literal you are when you use the word force . Same thing applies to your clothing scenario , I think . If someone wears an awful jacket then it ' s not their fault if someone gets annoyed by it . But it is their fault that they ' re wearing the awful jacket . So it just boils down to what angle you ' re looking at the whole thing from . tldr The whole thing is just a matter of perspective , and it ' s really all boils down to semantics . No one ' s wrong , and no one ' s right .