Men wearing women ' s clothing whatever . Men wearing their 19 year old daughter ' s clothing gross violation , though perhaps more common than anyone would like to think . Men sharing pics of this on Instagram , including their face , while claiming their community wouldn ' t understand utterly bizarre . I ' m not an Instagram user , but I really can ' t imagine that the privacy settings have ever included don ' t show these images to Asian Americans from the Bay Area . Leaving aside the violation which really is repugnant is there any possibility that there ' s some sort of mental health issue going on here ? If nothing else , it suggests a serious lack of judgment . Edit when I say mental health issue , in this case I ' m not restricting that to something psychological .