Man , kinda gonna suck around here , for at least four years . <| sep |> Everyone says stay because good relationships are hard to find but . The curiosity will morph into discontent and resentment . Plus , you will wonder until it hurts . It ' ll drive you apart and crazy . Life is about experiences . And you haven ' t really experienced much . I say really figure out if you can be happy with not knowing . Last person I knew in your place decided to stay . At 28 she married him . Within a year she started an affair , left her husband and move in with the new guy stating the wonder and draw and change and trying new people and things drove her to it . But only you can decide for yourself . I left my bf at 19 , after 2 years because I wanted us both to grow and experience things without being bogged down by each other . 5 years later we had lunch and he thanked me and said he was happy about how it went down and that if I was willing he was ready to give it a more mature go . I passed but the point is , change isn ' t bad , and staying in your comfort zone is confining for a lot of people .