From a former employers perspective , did you make the classic mistake of only talking about yourself ? The ADF is a team venture . If you spent all your time talking about what you want , it may not demonstrate that you get it . All employers want to hear more what you can do for them , not what they can do for you . The ADF can give me purpose versus I have purpose and will contribute is a narrow , but important line to walk . Did you talk about our current recent deployments ? Where we might be going next ? Where you ' re likely to go for training or be posted ? This kind of thing . <| sep |> niiice another person who voted for starlight vega for the villain in need of a hug award <| sep |> Props to anyone that can resist Sana ' s charm . My God .