That ' s disturbing And for some scary reason i feel like theres a sub about it thats allowed to run freely <| sep |> I feel like normal people don ' t say things like I ' m so socially adept . But people with BPD say stuff like this all the time because they ' re trying to define who they are . Same for why she ' d feel more validated if you said you ' re not socially adept . Who the hell talks like that ! People with BPD can make intense bonds very quickly , but these are not healthy dynamics and they rarely last . Don ' t let her jealousy get in the way of your perfectly normal ability to form attachments . I tend to get along with anyone I meet . My friend seemed similar at first , but it was a bit heavy handed in the beginning over the top , sweeping flattery , gifts , etc . The difference was , I remained on fine terms with those acquaintances . She inevitably found unending problems complaints with those same people . It sort of sucked being associated with her after a while because she ' d have crazy blow out fights with people that I really liked , and then any time I saw them after it was just awkward because I ' m her best friend .