The CFO at my work bought a new Mercedes this month . It was the 4 cylinder model <| sep |> How is she subhuman ? <| sep |> Nope , no SSD and 4 GB Ram , not worth it . <| sep |> oh , if they haven ' t actually asked you then no . Make sure they know that you don ' t have anything to do and is up for anything , if they get the hint and wanted to invite you they will . The important thing is that people know you ' re up for it , instead of thinking that you just don ' t want to . Don ' t be too desperate and force the matter either if people aren ' t responding . It ' s one of those social dances that I personally find annoying , which is why I just always say what I ' m thinking so there ' s no ambiguity there . But I wouldn ' t recommend that for people you don ' t have a firm grasp of the situation and know exactly where people stand from just observation . I guess in the world of adult it ' s easier and more straight forward . person 1 i ' m hanging out with a few friends this weekendme doing what exactly ? person 1 well you know , blah blah blahIf that interest me oh , that ' s interesting , I never did that tell me how it is after I might try it next time The idea here is that you make sure they know that you ' re interested in the activity and would consider doing it based on their opinion of the result with or without them . And I would actually recommend following through on some activity you actually find interesting alone and just find people at the location to make friends with , but baby steps I guess . If that sounds dumb to me that sounds retarded broAt this point , they ' ll usually ask why is that retarded ? and the conversation moves on . This response will probably only work for me just because I always say whatever I want and get away with it because people know it ' s honest and I don ' t care what they think .