I ' m so sorry . That is devastating news to get . I hope you figure out a good path for you guys . My hubs and I talked about this the other day as I had mentioned asking his brother to be a donor for him , and we decided we ' d go donor sperm , or possibly donor embryos . Such a weird and hard conversation to have . I think a little time will help to process things . Wishing you all the best . <| sep |> Unless it is form bad enough to ACTUALLY lead to damage , don ' t correct them . Seriously . I ' ve stopped sets early because I could feel a critic watching me dying to give me a tip . Or , unless you would still correct the person if it was a guy and not a girl , don ' t do it good rule of thumb . <| sep |> You are not who you think you are