He can masturbate without an issue , it ' s also fine if I use my hands too with a light grip . We have actually talked about the death grip hence why we have tried to make sure we have sex and if it doesn ' t work then only I use my hands . He says he no longer masturbates to help this issue and I do believe him it takes him a couple of days to recharge . He ' s had this issue with all partners and was very open about it from the start . I know some men just generally struggle . He ' s quite unconfident of sex due to this issue and body image . So I understand the anxiety to stick to the tried and tested . Just hoping there ' s something I can do to get around this issue ! <| sep |> I said it ' s only our point of view because I share it . Donald Trump does not have a good character in my opinion . Edit Replyer wrote ' your ' before he changed it to ' our '.