No gotenks , but this is feels very nice to have . Now I will safe up for kaioken goku ! <| sep |> He ' s Scared , She ' s Scared by Steven Carter and Julia Sokol . They ' ve written several books on the topic , but this one I think might be a good one to start with . Men Who Can ' t Love is actually the best one IMO , despite being sexist in its focus on men being the ones with commitment issues the authors acknowledge that it ' s outdated in later books . The website Baggage Reclaim is also great for understanding and healing from relationships with emotionally unavailable people I forgot to look up the site address before starting this post , but it should be easy to find by googling it . Hope that helps . <| sep |> could be worse , could have gotten 3498 season high like me