Have you read Tolkien ' s essay On Fairy Stories ? He talks about the benefits of fairy tales by which he means , basically fantasy literature being escape but also recovery and consolation which seem to be some of what you ' re getting at . I recommend his essay , if you haven ' t already read it <| sep |> Don ' t you know that what applies to men doesn ' t apply to women . Men cant post that they are looking for sex . Men can ' t send short messages . Men cant put up selfies . Women don ' t have any of those rules cause they are in the position of power <| sep |> I ' m missing something . Why is privacy a big thing with makeup ? Do people not like seeing other people put on makeup ? <| sep |> No updates yet . The rep said it was on it ' s way to YYZ airport to be sorted then to be delivered but I ' m very skeptical . Congrats on getting yours !