rule 15 no objections . <| sep |> I think being in a relationship you should be able to enjoy things you both are interested in . You seem like you want some activity adventure in your life . I don ' t think you ' re being selfish at all , it ' s important to look out for numero uno yourself . If you want to salvage the relationship you would need to make compromises . You don ' t have to do everything together but should be participating in some kind of interest related activity with each other . If you ' re willing to play video games with your bf , would he be willing to go out and do what you want to do ? If your relationship doesn ' t work on agreements like this then that ' s a good indicator your relationship would not work . Time to let go . I know some people get into a relationship and because they ' ve invested the time and energy with the person they feel trapped and struggle to move on . This could be a learning experience for future dates , seek out people who are more active and have energy to do fun things you enjoy . I dated a guy for a while who quoted a very wise saying Never settle for anything less than you deserve . A few months later when I discovered how incompatible we were I moved on .