The Man From Nowhere . <| sep |> Sounds cool ! I also saw pineapple leather too <| sep |> OK , Rosey O ' Donnell . <| sep |> Day ruined tbh . That was the biggest buzz kill ever and I ' m not even buzzed <| sep |> In general promised might not be enough after he abused and betrayed your trust . What specifically has he promised to work on in himself , that he owns is lacking such that he chose to cheat and be dishonest and keep secrets ? In fact your use of ' it ' sets of red flags for me . Is that your uncomfortableness with his betrayal or does he also come across vague and hand wavy about core character issues he has such as selfishness , entitlement , shamefear he is handling poorly ? Chumplady might be overkill for your situation since he at least seems to want to be remorseful , so the survivinginfedelity website resources might help you articulate what you need . If you feel pain , you feel pain you were HURT by his choices , in a deep and profound way . Healing from that take time and his remorse . You have work to do as well and being willing to do that work really hinges on him doing his part .