Imagine this in a biracial family . In my adolescence I grew into my African American features , but as a newborn I was 100 % aryan . My aunts always joke about how when they first saw me their reactions were all along the lines of oh god , his father won ' t be able to take him anywhere . <| sep |> In my family , freezer ice box . Also refrigerator ice box . <| sep |> It ' s actually the TV , glass is exploding out because what was holding it together was suddenly broken . <| sep |> He should have told you , but it ' s not uncommon or weird that he didn ' t . People feel differently about these kind of things . He may have looked at it like it was no big deal because he never had feelings for her , or worried that you ' d be uncomfortable if you knew . Plenty of innocent reasons not to tell you , even if it wasn ' t the right way to handle it . Talk to him and explain exactly what you ' ve said here that you ' re okay with him hanging out with people , and you ' re not expecting a detailed list of everyone he used to bone , but that you expect a heads up if he ' s going to be hanging out with someone he has a romantic history with .