I ' m wearing these ugly neutral oatmeal heather leggings , and a white long sleeve long length Dude tshirt from hm . My husband and I have driven to three different houses , for three different dinners for almost 8 years now . We spend hours in the car because if we don ' t , someone will have a fit . It doesn ' t matter that he and I are cranky , overly stuffed , and exhausted , WE HAVE TO COME FOR AT LEAST A FEW HOURS ! !! We moved out of state in January and then got relocated again last month , so we felt confident enough to say nah we ' re not driving four hours there , spending hours in the car between houses , then driving four hours home . We ' ve spent the day drinking whiskey and listening to romantic jazz music in our pjs while we cooked an amazing thanksgiving dinner for each other . I was going to dress up but . man this was such an awesome day . For anyone wondering , he doesn ' t wear leggings so he went with oversized man comfy pants .