I was dating a girl in high school and she got mad at me because I was uncomfortable with her going to another school ' s prom with another guy . I didn ' t say she couldn ' t , all I told her was that it made me uncomfortable and would prefer if she didn ' t . Massive fight ensued . <| sep |> Yeah and Italian pizza is good but NY pizza is like a whole new league <| sep |> I don ' t know . I ' ve got to find out some day <| sep |> This is so true . I know it ' s changing , but there ' s still a lot of pressure on men to be the primary , if not sole , breadwinners and support their families . Stayathome moms are fine , while stayathome dads aren ' t always looked upon favorably even though they ' re great too . Right now , I ' m not able to work because of chronic pain . My husband supports me , and even though I feel like crap about it , society really doesn ' t view it that negatively . Men in similar positions have so much pressure , from both internal and external sources , to get out there and support themselves and their families , that the guys going through the same thing I am have it far worse in that regard . Also , I ' ve been stuck in , and rescued , from some abusive domestic situations , but men are unfortunately not taken seriously when it comes to being the victim of abuse sometimes , even though they deserve to be every bit as much . On the other hand , while there are more shelters for female abuse victims , there are less shelter spaces available for homeless women . Here , in Tampa , I couldn ' t find anything at all when I looked . Men are also pressured to be physically and emotionally strong at all times . If I cry when Mufasa dies in The Lion King , it ' s one thing , but if my husband does , it ' s another although I wouldn ' t judge a guy for this , because it breaks my heart too . When a relationship breaks up , I think women have more support from their friends , while guys are pressured to get out and rack up more sexual conquests . Speaking of sexual conquests , guys are expected to be the aggressors , and that has to be hard sometimes too , especially when it comes to dealing with rejection .