Didn ' t Frankenstein ' s monster kill a whole bunch of people ? <| sep |> I think others covered it well it can be REALLY hard to be around pregnant people after a MC . It isn ' t your fault , and she probably feels really bad about those thoughts and that jealousy , but that ' s just what it is . On the other hand , some people heal more quickly than others . For my first miscarriage , I was sad but it was easier on me , emotionally , then the subsequent miscarriages . If you want to get her something , a meal is super nice . I didn ' t want to MOVE after miscarriage # 2 and # 3 . If someone had made mebrought me dinner , I would have thought they were the best human being on their planet . <| sep |> You know what I mean <| sep |> Bragging about having sex . It ' s like , I get it , you ' re cooler than I am , just shut up about it .