Do you not have air conditioning . ?<| sep |> Has he really ? I havent watched wreslting in like 67 years , but i just googled AJ Styles and i cant picture that dude being more popular than John Cena <| sep |> Yeah I slip very easily into I don ' t care mode . I find it makes it easier to get away from the BPD because cold detatchment comes very easily . The decision to cut someone out of my life is done with a cool head , it ' s not impulsive or reactionary , it ' s measured and carefully deliberated in a very logical way . I look around here , and realise most people are deeply mourning the loss of the BPD , I don ' t have this feeling , I don ' t need the personal connection like others do , it doesn ' t hurt that much to break it . I genuinely like people but I don ' t need them . I find my interest in Personality Disorders has become academic rather than personal now . It ' s one of the more interesting maladaptations . I did read Jaak Pansepp neuroscientist say his research indicated that highly reactive people like borderlines are at a survival advantage in very dangerous environments , where their extra sensitive threat detection system warns them of trouble and causes them to deal with it with extreme prejudice , it keeps them safe . So in a sense it can be an adaptive survival advantage . The problem occurs when they live in a safe society where the hair trigger on their super sensitive threat detection capabilities are triggered by non threatening stimuli .