I can relate to you . I have no close friends . The best friend I had , I also lost start of last year as we had a fight and could never go back and then all our mutual friends decided to side with her granted they were never that into me . My boyfriend is also my closest friend and my everything basically but I too can ' t spend all my time with him and has other business and friends and studies which I understand . I honestly have found a way to deal with this . I just really started to fall in love with myself and went on a journey to realize who I am , what I like , what I ' m about , what my goals are etc . It starts with maybe taking some personality tests , surveys and starting a journal . Knowing who I am as a person has made me feel more alive . I became aware of my qualities and things I can offer and am good at . If you don ' t know what qualities you have or feel clueless , read up on people , things , youtube random videos , dig deep to find the things that excite you . There are things all around us to explore and to learn more about . Hobbies develope through interests so once you can find what interests you and what you enjoy , hobbies will fall into place . If you are clueless , ask your boyfriend what he thinks you are good at and even ask him to maybe join you in your journey for selfexploration . Ultimately , please don ' t give up . Friends will fall into place when you start to be happy and confident in your skin . Once you start working or even go to the gym for classes you can meet people . I met people now through the BBG fitness program and joined a group on FB where girls in my area also dit . I ' m now going on a hike Sunday with them and will be meeting lots of girls to became potential friends with . I know there is also other meetup sites . Go to these things ! If it kills you , even ask your boyfriend to go with you and to be your wingman .