Or I knew it was coming out at 11 so I queued up songs 13 in time to hit reminder at 11 . btfo <| sep |> EVERYTHING SHE ' S DONE IS INTERRACIAL IS MY POINT . <| sep |> My meta is my partner ' s partner . Sandy and I have met twice , yeah , but we are Facebook friends and have occasional conversations , same kind of stuff the guys do . Checked my last message from her directly last month , about Eddie having a bad cold and not to let him overdo things . And obviously we know a lot about each other indirectly . She cheered the election results in my old state a couple weeks ago not that I have much effect there now ! . And just last week Eddie and I split an impressive dessert , and of course my first thought was that he should take Sandy for one , she is passionate about dessert . With my previous partner , on the other hand , over time I came to treat my meta as part of my family . Not just that we all lived together briefly , but before that , stuff like introducing her to my parents and my extended family . Sometimes I wish I ' d had the kind of breakup with our mutual partner where exmeta and I could remain close . So , there ' s definitely no single model for metamour relationships , it ' s up to those involved . As long as my partners and I have good relationships , all is well . If a partner and I don ' t have a good relationship , that ' s about me and them .