She just would have ruined dinner anyway . And by the way Sarah , about Christmas . <| sep |> You spelled grey wrong <| sep |> She did all this to him and he still listens to her problems , when she calls him ? She ' ll never get her shit together . Treating her well an listening to her problems , will only make her think , that they have a chance to get back together . He ' s leading her on . That ' s the reason why she came to your citytown to spend thanksgiving with him and his family . I don ' t think that the courts would be okay , if he doesn ' t get to see his sons ? Also it seems like he is feeding you bullshit . He is definitely not over her ! You deserve so much better , someone who has his shit together . <| sep |> My grandmother She married my Grandpa after my Grandma died thought it would be funny to give me beets on my 18 th birthday and then on the following Christmas . I didn ' t get anything else just a jar of beets for the following 2 birthdays and Christmases .