When they offer you their help , tell them . <| sep |> my maths teacher . he mistook my boredom with the work as arrogance , and instead of realising that i had potential to do well in my best subject , he actively did everything he could to stifle my progress and damage my future prospects . well fuck him i have my degree despite him . he ' s probably one of a very small group of people i ' d gladly physically assault without provocation . <| sep |> Just noticed in a comment you said you tried breaking up with her before and backtracked because of her reaction ? If I ' m reading this right you ' re delaying the inevitable that both of you already know about . Because you ' ve tried before and failed she already knows you don ' t love her that way . Worse , she knows how to make you reconsider and stay together longer and has been manipulating you this whole time . She ' s happy even though you ' re unhappy this is a girl that only cares about herself . Not worth your time , regardless of how fragile she is . You seem like a good guy but she may be using you as her comfort blanket , regardless of how you feel about it .