Witten is love , Witten is life . <| sep |> Sorry you had to be humiliated like that . It ' s so wrong when people get angry at a kid for wetting the bed as you say , it ' s not like it was a voluntary action with a conscious decision made to do it . It ' s just part of growing up for some kids . We ' ve had kids sleep over who have wet the bed and are so embarrassed , and my own kids have done it too , but a warm smile and a quick not condescending don ' t worry about it sweetie while you just whip the sheets off and put new bedding on is all it takes to limit the embarrassment . No fussing about , just get it done and move on as quick as possible so they can get on to trying to forget it ever happened . <| sep |> Why did you put computer scientists in quotes like that ? J . Alex Halderman is the the director of the University of Michigan Center for Computer Security and Society . He is more than qualified enough to merit the term Computer Scientist .