YES . In my experience . I have a mousy brown natural color , and i always go blonde . For about 6 months when I was 25 or so , I went brunette . It was a pretty color and looked ok , but I could count on one hand the number of times I got asked out . However , I did get hired for a marketing position in a wellrespected company and noticed that oddly , all of my female coworkers were brunette . When I went blonde , I was laid off several months later . Probably a coincidence , but who knows . <| sep |> I . should have specified . I ' ve been really digging a cappella lately but honestly I ' m interested in any sort of organized singing thing . I just don ' t know what ' s out there . <| sep |> Nikki scares me the most . If heel like the guys are just there to keep here in check .