How do you feel about Hans Zimmer ' s place <| sep |> In an ideal world , yes , but in Florida it ' s to show off to his other poser dipshit friends instead . <| sep |> but why though <| sep |> I think that Amordys nailed it my young comrade . Be bold , and don ' t get discouraged if someone turns you down . 99 % of women will be flattered , and will very politely turn you down . If they do , just take their hint and move on to the next girl . Be confident in yourself . You are a great person , and you deserve someone who treats you well . Don ' t appear desperate , or try and settle . If they are mean , then don ' t worry about it . You don ' t need someone like that in your life anyways . It was always difficult for me to approach women at first because I was afraid that they would either be mean , or everyone around would notice and laugh at me . Neither instance has ever happened . If it did , I wouldn ' t be worried . Anyone who makes fun of you for asking a girl out is just insecure and probably too afraid to do it themselves . Believe me , they won ' t be laughing when you ask a girl and she says yes .