That ' s a very common mistake for a first 5 k , especially if you don ' t know how fast you ' ll be . I made the same mistake , and spent my first one doing the same damn thing . Next time get yourself up closer , even if you have to kind of jam in there . Probably aim for between 13 back and 12 back , if you ' re trained at all , and depending on your speed . The better races will have signs with expected times . <| sep |> You last paragraph holds the solution stop giving a shit about the expectations of your family and society . Once I made that decision , life really improved . I am at the happiest I ' ve ever been in my life . <| sep |> How do you gift another player a Pokmon , without trading , in Sun Moon ? <| sep |> I mostly prefer playing healers , from tanks i mostly play Zarya . Overall i feel like playing tanks without a healer is a total waste , and if we dont have two healers , then i rather play healer myself . As for people asking me to go to competitive queue , part of my issue is that even competitive right is the same right now . Most games people just tell me its offseason and the same goes on .