Arma PTSD is a thing ! Our group often laughs about our members suffering from it . Obviously real PTSD is no joke but Arma has for sure had some effect on our players . Symptoms include jumping at loud noises IRL , thinking everything is an IED in game and thinking every civ is a suicide bomber . My nongamer brother watched a mission and after we were done he demanded to know Why do you play that thing , its so stressful ! This is why you jump every time you get startled ! <| sep |> Sadly , they never seem to understand that has yet to happen under any liberal administration . <| sep |> Thanks for the clarification . I ' m not hearing anything particularly unhealthy sounding about your approach to women or your continuing desire to sleep with them . I ' d challenge you to examine if there are other areas of your life that need improvement , or if your social skills still need improvements that you can ' t get from women . 23 is a weird age for a lot of people , and so perhaps you ' re feeling illat ease due to the life changes that tend to hit around that age .