Honestly , this is all a huge red flag for me . If Herman refuses to let Charlie Strong serve out the season , and is so anxious to bail on his team midseason that he ' s pulling this political bullshit already when he should be prepping for a game being played tomorrow , I really don ' t like what that says about him or what he might try to do once he ' s got the job . <| sep |> Boring Beta Not exactly attractive Extremely shy Her words Too slow to take initiative Social Anxiety <| sep |> First , I ' m sure the officer was welcome to attend , just not in uniform . It is an event for transgendered people , not a police parade . I am certain that the officer has the best intentions and is just trying to show their personal and work pride , but maybe every event doesn ' t have to be everything for everyone , especially if one ' s choices make other people feel unsafe .