Thanks . It is actually one of my prouder moments during my 4 years . It was otherwise a very routine and workaday job . Let ' s face it , nothing happens at Japan in terms of military crime . You get a few domestics and drunk ' n ' disorderlies but other than that most of the time you are checking ID ' s and vehicles Papers Please really resonated with me . That story sorta taught me to just keep doing your job no matter how routine it gets every day . You ' ll get the moment eventually . Of course , I was already burnt out and counting down my days for civy life but in the end it worked out because the guy was both persistent and stupid deadly combo . <| sep |> When I was peaking in high school <| sep |> I really respect people who are able to acknowledge this and hold off on dating for a while . It shows a lot of compassion and respect for others , even others you don ' t know . I don ' t think that this is permanent . Hopefully your stresses reduce and you ' re back out there dating soon .