with a weapon . <| sep |> Holy creepy ! If I were you I wouldA get a security cameraB come up with a family plan . Making sure doors and windows are locked etc . C cyber stalk the hell out of this guy . If you know what county he lives in , go to the state judicial records and see if there are any criminal cases against himD research how you can do a background check on someone without their SSN . I ' m sure there are ways . Not that you can do anything about his past actions but it might shed some light on what kind of person you are dealing with since you know nothing about this guy . E . heck if you have the money , hire a PI to figure out his deal . A little extreme perhaps but you are obviously on a crazy persons radar . Good luck !