I ' m working on making a botanicalthemed park right now and these biodomes are saving my ass ! Thanks so much for this awesome work ! <| sep |> Have you considered that you are still the same person you were before you met her and that this is the person she clearly has enjoyed and that this person you are is why your relationship happened ? I hate to be a downer but if your stuff is getting messed up because you have jumped up a new level and don ' t know how to juggle it yet that happens . Life said , hey you know what ? You ' re cool have a girlfriend . It is up to you to make it work for yourself . I think you ' ve got that concept mostly down but it sounds like you may have needed a refresher . That said it is up to you to keep the version of yours that you like best . Do you think she is aware of the work you put into being you ? Are you aware of the work she puts into herself ? You ' re considering the consequences for yourself , have you considered the same for her ? Additionally , if this is a lasting relationship how can you contribute to the things she values and can she do the same for you ? It probably sounds like I made it more complicated but in reality I am really saying this if you want this relationship to succeed don ' t gobble it up like it is going out of style help it grow through yourself .