Well , I ' m Aussie , so no Thanksgiving here , but . Toilet training # 1 has been a fail . Undies , regular reminders . nada . Mind you , I haven ' t had time to be terribly attentive , but I do know he ' s peeing roughly every 30 minutes , give or take . It ' s not yet 1 pm and he ' s been through 8 undies and a swim nappy when I couldn ' t find the other two undies . Why so inattentive ? Cleaning . Aside from having an epic clothes moth infestation , I ' ve got to get this shithole clean for MIL ' s arrival on Sunday morning , and I have a birthday party tomorrow to go to . The yard realistically is going to need mowing , but hubs might be working at the paintball field , so we ' ll see . I sure as shit haven ' t got the time , let alone the energy , to do it . So floors have been vacuumed and the Mortein has been in full fucking swing to kill these fuckers . I did some shopping birthday present , bug killer and a few other bits , cleaning and so on before I even ate breakfast . at 11 am . I have a tension headache coming up through my left shoulder and I ' m just now realising I still haven ' t fed the poor fish . My mum ' s due to arrive here in around 30 minutes , stopping in on her way home from her mother ' s grandma had her 4 th polyp removed from her bladder on Wednesday . I still have a tonne of cleaning to do in the kitchen and clothes to fold and put away plus general tidying . And present wrapping . Argh . tldr no thanksgiving , just a fuckton of cleaning , attempted toilet training fail and battling clothes moths .