Saw a set of stairs within a mile of each other . they were the exact same but the thing is we were in Montana hunting 60 miles from the nearest towncivilization <| sep |> Start a fire with flint and steel <| sep |> I would like to point out that the first picture is how I brought it and is not my conversion work . <| sep |> Sorry to be the cynic here , but consider the possibility that the health condition andor treatment are a scam attempt . Be wary . It ' s wonderful and right that you want to help , but don ' t let that overcome your judgement . You might choose to help anyway , even if you find below our it is , but if you are deceived into doing so it ' ll likely turn good feelings into resentment and anger . Maybe they ' re trying to to pull one over you because they are desperate and don ' t believe the truth would be sufficient , for example . Or the son is doing it but of his own accord . Most likely it ' s truthful and legitimate throughout . Just keep your ears and mind open to other possibilities You should also speak to a lawyer about the implications of this on child support arrears . You and your family may suddenly owe a lot to your ex andor the government and it ' s better to prepare than be blindsided by it . It might be possible for example to declare your help with the medical stuff as child support in arrears . None of that stops you helping as much as you and your wife want to , way above any legal requirements that may exist . Rather , it helps preserve the choice that your help is freely given , uncoerced and something you ' ll be happy with rather than resent .