party breaker BOOO <| sep |> Just one more thought for you . When I was in my early 20 s I became good friends with an older gay man . At first I was leery of him I ' m straight and used to feel weird when men hit on me , like it was saying I ' m less of a man because of it but my experience with him changed my mind . I learned to just accept the love he offered and return it . He ended helping me in more ways than I can even begin to explain . Basically , he taught me to be a more complete man . I wrote about what I learned from him and the other gay friends I ' ve had the pleasure of knowing . Here ' s the link if you ' re interestedUnderstanding homosexuality as a soul e x p e r i e n c e h o m o s exualityasasoulexperience <| sep |> Bw would still be fun and fair with infinite unit selection .