I caught one from a pidgey . My wife caught the same one at the same time . <| sep |> many aces want to have kids , even other sexaverse ones , and other simply don ' t and not as a choice like childfree . sex drive libido and the will to have sex and children are different . i ' m sick of hearing people associating everyone ' s sex drive to the desireneed to have kids if that ' s your experience with sexuality , it ' s totally fine and i support you but those are very different feelings to me because i have a libido , and i even draw porn a very unreal and fantasylike kind , but still , but the association of sexdrive and kids never made sense to me . even as a kid , when someone would ask me about my future , i ' d mention adopting and i ' d be ambiguous about marriage because having kids through sex and marrying someone never seemed real to me i may like it in fiction , such as shipfics , but that ' s all it is to me , and i was just trying to convince myself i ' m a human too . nowadays i simply don ' t care what my relavites are gonna say when i tell ' em no , i ' m not gonna marry and have kids you ain ' t getting nephews from me and that ' s not your business .