Somehow get him to really dig into why he feels the way he does . Dig enough and he ' s likely to find other issues that he ' s using you to cope with . If you can get him to realize that , it ' ll become a mutual decision to split . With as quick as he was to drop the soulmate bomb , it ' s clear he has something else going on inside . Maybe he ' s insecure and uses vulnerable females ' attention to feel better about himself . Idk . If you can ' t have a productive sitdown talk with him , you ' ll really need to bring in whatever form of HR the military has . If he ' s already a superior , he could easily turn sour to you , basically ruining your career . You ' ll need backup . <| sep |> Libary of alexandrea , burning of . London , fire of . Halifax Explosion , the . Texas City , disaster of . Space Shuttle Challenger crica 1139 est , 012886