It ' s for the simple fact that the other person has to registerlook at an unattractive persons featuresflaws while listening to them or being around them . It ' s sad but true , if you are unattractive it helps to have or develope a good personality . Depending on your age you can also find a look that accommodates your features or flaws , I . e . a girl who may not fit into the plastic cheerleader look or personality may make a very pretty grunge girl . It ' s just my take on things as I see them . I ' ve hung out w friends that are fat and unattractive but because they are great people and ensure that other have a great time in their presence they would pull girls that would otherwise be out of their league , and others will associate them with the good timesfeelings they have when around them .