I think I get what you ' re looking for . I had five siblings growing up , and so was always expected to share by default and never had anything that was just mine . I grew up to not be selfish , but more possessive ? Like , I ' ll buy something for me and no you cannot have any because it is mine but I ' m perfectly happy helping you get your own . This is probably why I like Harry to have a bit of an edge in stories . It always seemed unhealthy to me when Harry goes into full martyr mode and automatically puts everyone ' s else ' s needs and wants before his own . <| sep |> How the hell do the packers keep getting commercials ? <| sep |> It ' s not genocide , so it ' s not really an issue . That what you are trying to say ? <| sep |> I ' m not disgusted by alternate perspectives . I am disgusted by the blatant echo chambers in rp %!$ cs and rn # s which seems to be supported by the userbase , probably because they ban anyone who doesn ' t like it .