Aka my home town <| sep |> Oh good , a PP will remind them how to connect passes <| sep |> Varlamov just try to headbutt the puck . Please keep trying to do that . <| sep |> Smash a baseball bat into some concrete <| sep |> Thank you , but nobody will come again . <| sep |> You literally keep changing half your post every time you post . You obviously understood what I was referring to so I ' m done arguing if you ' re going to keep being so pedantic over something that is so unimportant in this discussion . Also please don ' t tell me how to use language myself , I ' m not you and you aren ' t me , literally EVERYONE uses language differently . <| sep |> As someone living in a bigger , liberal city , people all just think that I ' m fashion forward . There really isn ' t much stigma against non gender normative dress where I live . However , I used to live in a fairly rural corner of Japan . Back then , people would often murmur about my hair and my style of dress . Their murmurs were usually more confusion or curiosity than criticism , but I still often felt like I stood out . The thing is , even though I live in an accepting area now , I still feel a good bit of anxiety over how I should present my gender . I haven ' t worked up the courage to wear my new binder , and I get quite anxious when heading to fitting rooms at the mall . If it ' s difficult for me in such a welcoming place , I can only imagine how exhausting it is living in a place where people actually comment negatively on your gender presentation . Just remember that even if you can ' t summon the energy to show your gender on the outside that day , doesn ' t mean that your gender is in any way undermined . You ' re still you on the inside , and that is what matters most .