I like the cut off your jib , friend <| sep |> A get a security cameraI ' m going to talk about this with SO as soon as the holiday is over . We ' re having a good time aside from my cringing just now hearing SS downstairs in the kitchen coughing up phlegm and not covering his mouth and I ' d like to keep it that way . C cyber stalk the hell out of this guy . If you know what county he lives in , go to the state judicial records and see if there are any criminal cases against himI ' ll do my best . Normally my google fu is pretty amazing , but I ' ve never had to dig into someone ' s past . I don ' t want to shell out money for scammy websites and the like . E . heck if you have the money , hire a PI to figure out his deal . A little extreme perhaps but you are obviously on a crazy persons radar . This is . not a terrible idea , actually . If I can ' t find anything I ' ll consider it . We are pretty sure we ' re fine right now since the kids are here and he won ' t do anything when the kids are here .