i doubt many people really like you <| sep |> Possibly stupid question what is potpouri , and does it get used in category names ? <| sep |> When HRC said she was for the Defense of Marriage Act , way back in 2000 or whenever , she stated that marriage was between a man and a woman , however , she also stated that she was for civil unions which would grant gays all the same rights as marriage . She firmly believed the word marriage carried a religious manwoman context . She was not against gay people having rights as spouses , she was against the use of the word marriage to define their partnership . Here is her quote in 2000 . gtMarriage has got historic , religious and moral content that goes back to the beginning of time , and I think a marriage is as a marriage has always been , between a man and a woman , the First Lady said in White Plains . But I also believe that people in committed gay marriages , as they believe them to be , should be given rights under the law that recognize and respect their relationship . Date 1112000 Source n i xessamesexmarriagearticle 1 . 864728