This all sounds pretty normal , and like a non ' problem ' that will fix itself before you know it . At least the kid sounds normal . What doesn ' t sound healthy He blames me for the way she is . He says she ' s spoiled You can ' t spoil a kid with love dude has some bizarre thinking on this . And you both need to stop blaming and nagging . There ' s nothing wrong with the kid and if you spend the early years sniping at each other you will miss out on a really lovely time that flies by really quickly . I would do more reading on normal babies pdlposbsdpss 1 ? p f r d p telpfrdslpotopstripepfrdt 201 pfrditelpfrdmA 3 DWYIK 6 Y 9 EEQBpfrdr 2 FP 63 NVRWGYV 08 JFD 6 V 3 is something you might both read together . When I ' m home and I try to hand her off for a bit she usually cries . So don ' t hand her off . Stick around while she gets to enjoy both of you . Have family meals have dad provide any needed assistance with solids . Play games together as a family . The more secure she is that mommy isn ' t just going to take off and leave her with daddy and never return , the easier it will be for you to leave . Keep building a good secure foundation , and don ' t force things she ' s just not developmentally ready for .