The example of the high baller lifestyle is only an extreme example used to prove a point , and should not be taken as a realistic goalpost . I can guarantee you that the vast majority of the guys in TRP sub do not have that degree of status . If they say they do , they ' re lying . Yeah , women go for high status , but that ' s just fantasy . Most dudes want a big tittied housewife that ' s always down for sex and doesn ' t complain . That ' s fantasy too . Real people aren ' t like that . When you get into the real world , they ' ll either find you attractive or not . If a woman doesn ' t find you attractive because you ' re not on par with her fantasy then simply walk off the lot . She ' s not the kind of person you want to shack up with . It doesn ' t take a whole lot of effort to be better than the average guy . You don ' t need ultimate baller status to get a decent girl to like you . Just work to improve yourself and make positive changes , and the rest will fall into place .