When you are pregnant or have a young child is one of the easiest times to make new friends and have more of a support system . There are so many baby groups and mom groups . And if you are in a city than the onecar thing is much less of a problem . You could line up a doula andor a teen to help for a while after the baby is born . Whatever you guys decide I think you should be firm about setting up a good budget . Spending on dinners and movies and getaways is maybe not the best choice when you have bad credit to fix . <| sep |> Seriously , Israel represents the woman who would rather see the baby cut in half just as much as the Palestinians do , so I don ' t know why he would think that is a good analogy . Israel still doesn ' t want to let go one bit .