Most likely edited in the DB itself which makes it really , really stupid . <| sep |> very good post , totally upvoted , completely agree . <| sep |> but . But . Tuition fees ! <| sep |> Yeah of course ! Great movie . <| sep |> I honestly hope not . Seems very unlikely and would just feel like an extremely cheap way to break up Jarco . <| sep |> Congratulations ! Same for us ! Now your list of names can be cut in half ! <| sep |> You are not responsible for your bfs actions . If he goes to jail , he is the one responsible for putting himself there . Trust the police and justice system to handle it . It is there job . They know its his first time too . they got records they can check . Leave it to them . I get it . I think you have all these conflicting emotions . You have all these positive feelings and good memories of your bf . and now the horror of this violence . This is the time to put feelings for your bf aside . deal with them later . Go support your brother and make sure he is ok . You should dump your bf . Its going to be tough . its hard to just stop loving someone . But you will find someone better . Find someone that gets along with your brother . He will always be your brother . BFs come and go .