Ohhhh boy was his is gonna be a good ole fashioned shootout . Hope my family is ready for my drunkscreaming come 4 th quarter time . <| sep |> Thank you so very much . I really appreciate you taking the time to respond and by giving some great advice . You are right about me keeping him in the dark . I am trying to hard with coming clean , but some days are much more difficult than others . I might send an email your way actually if you don ' t mind , I could do with all the support and advice I can get right now ! <| sep |> I agree but there white ones are iconic <| sep |> The crumple feature in a standard guardrail is all those posts in the ground . The steel acts as a tension member , and drives the force of your car into the posts and into the ground , which yields . A good barrier absorbs energy . This new barrier will turn highways into pinball machines .