Maybe not as much for much longer <| sep |> Aside from the obvious ones like being a filthy cheating piece of shit or a scumbag golddigger , one thing that kills it for me is a lack of manners . Two quick stories . 1 . A buddy of mine has a wife who has no problem burping or farting in front of others . And she laughs like it ' s the funniest thing in the world . Even worse , she shows not an ounce of regret or embarrassment . Even worse than that , no excuse me instead , there ' s always a follow up of that was a big one or Whew ! Clinched it at the last second before I shit my pants ! And still worse . I recently discovered that this wasn ' t just something she does in front of friends and people she ' s comfortable with . She has no problem doing this in public surrounded by strangers . We don ' t go out to dinner with them anymore . 2 . Dated a girl who was absolutely atrocious to anyone in a service position . No please , no thank you . Demanded things like these people were slaves . Went to dinner where she was a total cunt to the waitress about everything . Just the way she said things and how she looked at the waitress was insulting . Went to a movie afterward and she treated the guy at the concession stand the same way .