The BUClassicXT side of things is recognized by the Chinese miners as an approach that , on block limit and other changes , would not leave them hostage to a single development group as they are now . I can see that realisation as being critical . The key item that the block size debate has highlighted is project governance . The current situation where just 4 people have almost absolute veto commit access to the code base is a situation just begging to create a disaster . <| sep |> I was thinking this . If we get to keep we have the option of Lancaster county rednecks or Philly thugs . Or eagles fans . Anything works <| sep |> That ' s the social hangup that I ' m referring to . To be perfectly blunt , that isn ' t a social hangup it ' s biology . She can look like a woman and call herself a woman , but she will always have XY chromosomes and the other things that comes with the territory fairly important if you want things to go longer than a single night . And to make sure I ' m clear , I don ' t hate trans people , I just don ' t want to have sex with them I ' m just not comfortable with it . He had no problems during the act and the only reason she even brought it up was for the reaction . Either way , this is a loaded situation and not an example of her clearly being in the wrong . It ' s only loaded if you look at it like lying by omission is acceptable . The woman here had her fun and then chose to fuck with the guy ' s head by letting him in on her secret . Even then this was bad , but not horrific . Now everyone knows that he slept with a trans woman because of her bullying . Everyone has their quirks , but now his family and friends all know and they might not be as accepting as others . Can you imagine being part of a super conservative family and this coming out ? This is a loaded situation since she set herself up to be the bad guy while trying to get some unneeded revenge . If she ' s worried about getting turned down for being honest , that ' s just how life is and she ' s got to get used to it . No one should ever expect sex and supporting that attitude is just swinging to the other extreme from where we came from .