And just wait until you get to see London , Stockholm , Bali , Tokyo ! I truly believe that only a few people dare to live extraordinary lives . Most people settle for whatever it ' s most confortable out of fear or because they just don ' t know better , but you right now have the opportunity to expand your horizons and live a little . Almost every single person can make babies , but how many can actually go out and see the world ? It ' s New York now , maybe it ' ll be Cancun tomorrow , maybe you hate it when the novelty wears off but then you can always go back home , find a decent guy and make babies , just like every other lady and their mum ' s and grandma ' s did in your town , but at least you ' ll have stories to tell and a different perspective on life . What I really do not condone is running away . If your guy is as awesome as you claim and you love him as much as you do , the least you can do is let him know you are leaving and say goodbye . If you are going to be brave , don ' t start your journey by leaving a coward .