I just think that most guys could relatively easy improve their SMV to fit hers . That ' s possible , debatable maybe , but I was talking about that guy . Dating will be a struggle for him . If you consider her to be above average , especially considering that she is 26 years youngAs I ' ve said previously , people have a completely warped idea of what average is . It ' s not a high percentage of the population that are slim and facially attractive , even among younger age groups . She will definitely get attention , and she will definitely begin to take that attention for granted , and she definitely won ' t settle for someone less than her ideal easily . That would be true anywhere , but she probably lives in London , which is just an insane place for numerous reasons . I ' m not sure if dating is tougher over here than the States , it ' s extremely difficult to judge . In a way I think it is easier for me because Britain is somewhat more of an introverted country than the US , although I know regions of the country vary vastly culturally . On the other hand , in America I have an English accent and seem exotic , whereas over here I do not seem exotic ! I just think dating is challenging full stop because we don ' t have the mechanisms to meet people any more . It seems as if we should , as if the opposite should be the case , but electronic media has made us remote from one another . As I said , you join clubs , you don ' t meet anyone . And do you really want to do femalecentric activities ? I certainly don ' t , not least because what happens if you do meet someone ? Are you going to pretend to be interested in yoga indefinitely , or just be honest and state that you only joined the stupid class to meet women ? And then you can approach women in either a daytime or nightscene setting , but that is challenging too , not least because women often have their guard up and quite frequently have very high standards . And you can try Internet dating , but you have no guarantee of getting anywhere . I have been relatively successful here , probably very successful compared to a lot of guys , because I have a massive writing advantage . I know how to write emails and I know how to write a profile , and that gets my foot in the door . But you still have to invest a lot of time and effort to get anywhere . I wouldn ' t even bother with something like Tinder , it just seems like an utter waste of time . So I doubt it ' s that much easer or harder to date where I am compared to where you are , it ' s just generally challenging wherever you are .