I was raised on Red Dwarf , I have not seen season 11 yet though , I need to download it at some point . <| sep |> For sensitivity , it ' s good to have a sensitivity index if you know what that is somewhere around 800 1000 . For desk space , try to have enough that you can do about a 180 ingame comfortably . <| sep |> USA is America , non USA America is just the parts that we haven ' t gotten too yet . <| sep |> The fact she is an escort to me in this situation is the same if I found out she was cheating on a guy in an affair . I couldn ' t care less that she ' s an escort as long as she ' s honest to her partners about it and they accept it . You are disgusting and are a terrible friend . Doesn ' t matter what you in all of your selfrighteous and stalkerapologist glory ' find out '. It doesn ' t matter because she does not owe YOU any explanation . You are not part of the relationship . that has now dissolved . YOU DON ' T KNOW WHAT THEY DISCUSSED IN THEIR RELATIONSHIP . THAT IS BETWEEN THE TWO OF THEM . IT HAS ABSOLUTELY NOTHING TO DO WITH YOU . YOU DONT KNOW IF HE AGREED TO HER BEING AN ESCORT . IF HE DID , PERHAPS HE ACTUALLY KEPT HER CONFIDENCE ABOUT SOMETHING SHE WANTED TO KEEP PRIVATE . Also , you keep conveniently skirting this , but there is no excuse for video taping a partner without their knowledge or consent . Even if you suspect cheating . Even if you are correct . That is criminal behavior . It doesn ' t matter whether what she said or didn ' t say to you is true . You aren ' t part of their relationship equation . It ' s none of your business .