That ' s too bad . It would be awesome to setup a recipe to turn on the Christmas lights , turn down the room lights , throw a little Christmas music on and something festive on the tv or something like that but to do it with a single command . <| sep |> Have some more selfrespect and do not let a person who treated you so badly be in indirect charge of your happiness . Remove him from social media or adjust the settings so that you do not see the content that he posts there . Do not go back to his social media profiles to check how he is doing this will just slow down the healing process . There is no point in dwelling on the past . What is done is done , and it certainly sounds like you are better off without him .