But it ' d still be a Suburban Express bus ride . <| sep |> LGBTQI LGBTIQ Sounds better . Or LGBTI <| sep |> I can ' t believe we ' re still having this conversation in 2016 . I ' m 55 and recall debating this when I was in my teens in the 1970 ' s . Geez Louise ! When men open doors for me , I smile and thank them . When I open doors for men , I smile and usually they thank me , although I ' ve gotten a few glares over the years . Everyone should open doors for everyone else as a simple , nice gesture . The chivalry thing is silly but also not worth having a huge battle over . I think your date ' s parents are ridiculous . <| sep |> Mods , pls add turkey feathers to the football in the middle . We need an entree . <| sep |> There is no weapon ?