Omfg . Wow . You . Are . Fucking . HOT . <| sep |> She hasn ' t talked to this person for four and a half years out of pride and spite . People do stupid things , but her comment here was not about being trans . They had a fight , big whoop . This was a performative rant for an audience who shares her prejudices , made without even the basic level of selfreflection you ' re granting her . See below No that ' s true sorry , I was pretty emotional when I wrote that last night . I hope she ' ll come out the other side of this a better , more complete person , but I know her unfortunately and I ' m not going to hold out any hope . Sorry I guess I worded it badly . By no means did I mean to imply that her attractiveness was the most important thing about her OR that it was the main reason I ' m sad she ' s decided to transition , but she ' s a beautiful soul , inside and out , and given how much I ' ve read about the emotional changes that can occur when you start taking T , I don ' t know how much she ' s now the person I remember her to be . Poorly worded , like I said She obviously cares , shes just angry and sad . Also known as grieving .