My mom always taught me to spell spaghetti speg hetti . as in she didn ' t know that it is spelled with an ' a ' so it wasn ' t until I started dating my husband at age 19 that I learned it ' s spaghetti . and then I had to teach my mom . Her family is Italian . She should have known this . <| sep |> I couldn ' t resist . <| sep |> He ' s a Feig 3 s <| sep |> With a samurai <| sep |> Thanks ! I plan to keep it up writing that all out made me realize even more how much I wanna stay away from that whole lifestyle . When you say ' it hit home ', I hope it was in a positive way <| sep |> Unfortunately that ' s becoming less and less of a norm here US UNLESS you join the military . A lot of people are joining the military nowadays simply because you won ' t leave college with crippling debt . If you don ' t join the military but still want to go to college so you ' ll have a career , you ' re basically fucked .