Oh . When my wife was pregnant . twice . I found her irresistible . There was something about her carrying our child that made her . glow . I think if you ' re worrying about your guy ' s reaction to your changing body and desire , you should talk with him , not us . Sex isn ' t just about getting off , even for guys , it ' s an overblown myth . There ' s an emotional component to it as well , don ' t assume that part will be even more absent as you lose your figure or interest . <| sep |> I second this . <| sep |> Its worth giving this some thought . What are you boundaries in a relationship , what do you need ? What do you want ? What compromises are you prepared to make ? It ' s good to write this stuff down to really solidify it in your mind and ensure your own needs are met .