. they keep expanding the definition of the word to include verbal , financial , psychological etc etc so that any disagreement with a woman becomes abuse . The power of this truth cannot be overstated . <| sep |> Well that is the main issue with SA isnt it . Inconsistencies to the maximum degree sadly . <| sep |> tfw dp is so shit people dont even remember she is boring <| sep |> is that fewer fever really supposed to be funny or do i just not get the joke ? <| sep |> I think the same idea applies to both Vicki and Kelly . If you really want someone to be gone , you have to ignore them this applies to both HWs and viewers . Being super outraged and talking constant shit about people just makes them seem more important in the narrative of the show . The only exception I can think of is RHONY Season 4 . Half the cast was fired that season because of social media backlash and negativity .