Link To Original Submission I Am A Bot . Please Message uccd if you have any feedback or suggestions . <| sep |> Good thing neither of those options are necessary . <| sep |> Niveau perf a donne quoi ? Apparemment c ' est la cata . Ils ont repris pas mal d ' lments de gameplay de EYE ? je sais qu ' il y a au moins un pouvoir psy , et la possibilit de hacker des dfenses <| sep |> I ' m not able to give you some sort of magic bullet ammunition that will fix this , because this isn ' t caused by Thanksgiving , it ' s caused by the larger dynamic in your relationship . There ' s no equal division of labour and no equality in the decisionmaking . Jerry started going off to me how he wants me to make this and that , you respond like any sane personI told him that he needs to helpand that ' s where the magic happenswe got in a pretty heated fightI ' m sorry but WTF ? In what universe is it is okay to demand your wife perform endless tasks for you and then get angry when she asks you to help . ? You need to stop creating that universe together , OP , and you need to stop agreeing to live in it . Because so long as the logic is like this , the same old things will keep happening . Guess what ? I ' ll probably end up doing all of this stuff by myself because I care about our guests , and I love my husband . Nope , nope , nope . This is not a measure of loving your husband . Not acting like his kitchen slave does not mean you do not love him and it does not mean that you don ' t care about the guests . You ' re getting tired and resentful , and he ' s asking things of you that people don ' t really ask of people they respect . Being his maid is not helping your relationship . There are three much better options here and I suggest you take one of thema You produce a reduced menu and he does the lion ' s share they are his guests . b You relax and order in some pizza . c You go out with your friends instead .