The lineup was so good that year it ' s the only year I got the full pass , and it was definitely worth it . Hurray for the riff raff , the wooden sky , hey Rosetta all played that weekend too . I still can ' t believe I saw neutral milk hotel live . They hadn ' t toured in 15 years before late 2013 , played shows from then until mid 2015 and then called it quits again <| sep |> crooked hillary behind bars has been at least as much of a cornerstone and he just went completely 180 on that one <| sep |> Don ' t have a daughter but if i did they would pay ME to take them back . Holy hell <| sep |> The situation sounds a little off base as far as being casual goes . I get that someone might want to see some different people , get to know them , and gauge if they want to be in something more involved with any one of them . You enter into someone ' s life , and it can ' t be expected that they immediately drop other connections or people they were exploring . It sounds like she has a very disrespectful way of going through this process , though , which is getting to you . She can certainly explore people around her and make her own decisions about who she wants to be with , but why involve you in that process in the way she is doing ? If she ' s on a date with someone else , why on earth would she think that you need a live update ? Would you be ok if it were the opposite , and she was texting someone about your date ? Similarly skipping out on your date because of her short meeting . It ' s not just that there was another guy involved , its that if your hunch is correct she cancelled your plans and then lied to you about it . This is someone who wants you to settle for being best friends , but would you tolerate a friend who treated you like that for very long ? If you want to try to do the open or casual thing , or even if you want a more significant relationship , you ' d do well to have a talk about boundaries and respect . If she ' s hanging out with you , she ' s not on tinder or liveupdating some other guy . If she ' s with another guy , she ' s not liveupdating you . It almost sounds like she ' s trying to get your tacit approval for what she ' s doing , which might feel good for her , but it ' s degrading for you . I ' ve known people who come off as free spirits . I ' m not saying this is everyone , but sometimes , this type of personality can be unintentionally hurtful to those around them . They try so hard to avoid feelings of conflict or negativity in their lives , that they avoid actively dealing with tough issues , leaving the fallout for later . Relationships can require some tough choices the choice to be exclusive with someone , the choice to work together with someone through challenges , and in some cases , the choice to end things in a respectful and clear manner . If she ' s not ready to make and commit to such decisions , you may set yourself up for pain later if she commits to something she can ' t hold herself to .