god bless america <| sep |> I love the surface of the neck , very well done . <| sep |> Something I always keep in mind . It ' s your choice , not theirs . I never understood why some feel what they want for you overrides what you want . As others pointed out , there is a reason you did not want to tell them . That should be a concern of theirs instead of how to steer the situation . I know this is out of context , but I don ' t think If they find out , what they say , how they feel , ect . should come into play in your decision to seek help . You can inform then you are getting help , but it is not in any way their prerogative to have a say in who or how . They should only step in if you become a physical danger to yourself , and it sound like you want to move away from that . As of now , they need to give support or get out of your way .