Um , no . It ' s not controlling to expect respect and support from your boyfriend . She ' s a bitch to you , she ' s into him , you don ' t want her near him understandably , and he knows all this and is telling you fuck you . This guy is an absolute disgrace . No guy I have ever met would treat their girlfriend this way . I know the effect of anxiety in a relationship , and put up with a lot until she left me because I could never be the one to end it . Looking back the pain I caused myself was immeasurable . Please find the strength to break it off with this guy and never speak to him again . <| sep |> Intresting read . Didn ' t know aisa bhi kuch hua tha <| sep |> i love that he went to become an assistant women ' s golf coach at Stanford .