And that rap crap <| sep |> Welcome to $ team <| sep |> Colored person . Wow <| sep |> One of the most common characteristics of abusers that I noticed when I worked with people with disabilities was the attitude that the client ' s resistance to the abuse was itself thought of as justification for the abuse . Once that feedback loop is established , control is justified through both acquiescence and resistance , and there ' s nothing the client can do behavior wise to escape . The same holds true for abusive relationships , prisons , police , or any other kind of authoritarian regime . The broader message is Your resistance to my behavior is the reason I behave this way in the first place . Remember this over the next four years when you hear the trope See this is why Trump won . If you call his appointees racist , that ' s why Trump won . If you boo Mike pence , that ' s why Trump won . If you protest in the streets , that ' s why Trump won .