Gaslighting is when something happens then he tries to convince you it didn ' t happen or it happened differently than you remember . As an exampleWhy did your ex call at 3 am last night ? Nobody called me last night . I ' m not comfortable with you being so close to a woman who ' s sent you 3 suicide notes since you ' ve known her . You said you were going to minimize contact What are you talking about ? She ' s never sent me any suicide notes and I never said I ' d minimize contact . <| sep |> Wouldn ' t the relevant numbers be 121 ? I thought advent calendars counted down <| sep |> Any Criminoles down for a signatureflair bet ? I am open to suggestions <| sep |> Ettan seems to enjoy her suggestive licking of the hydrospanner , and grins as she tells off the droid . Nerfherding clankers drive me crazy all the time . But you get used to it . He decides to return her favor by doing something suggestive with his tongue as he pokes repeatedly into the air with two fingers .