Meanwhile RSPnKiOAuH 8 . But seriously the Chasers is a wonderful show . <| sep |> I understand your point about the topless beach being different than playing strip neverhaveIever . I also understood why she might not have realized that you would react differently to the two things . Especially if she ' s with the same group of people , if they ' d already seen her at the topless beach , I could see how someone could think oh , no biggie , they ' ve seen it all before and still be a good person with every intent of being faithful . She sized the situation up wrong , but she ' s not a mind reader . She had reason to be confused by the fact that being topless around these friends in a different context had been OK in the past . Use this as a discussion point to help the two of you understand and define boundaries , but let go of the hurt feelings over this one .