Nah , it was her turn . <| sep |> That ' s so nasty I actually accidentally downvoted <| sep |> So if we beat C 9 tomorrow we ' re through and facing Godsent ? <| sep |> Thank you for your input <| sep |> Hey , I get the defensiveness . I was in an age gap relationship for 6 years it sucked . I think you should read some age gap posts here to get why some people are really quick to jump on the creep trigger . Most people who date people without experience are doing so for shady reasons . Not saying your guy is guilty nothing really stuck out to me as a flag . You ' ve barely interacted with this guy . I say go on the date . See if there are any red flags . So far so good . Just be careful . I think you should question his motives a little more than anyone your age . He ' s likely aware of the gap and what it could mean so if he ' s serious , he ' ll be treading very carefully . He should get less leeway due to his age . If things progress , have fun ! But you should be careful even if he ' s not a creep in the end so many people get into horrible situations because of an abusive power imbalance in their relationship . Age gaps are an easy way to get that imbalance . You ' re likely able to juggle being careful and pursuing this guy with ease it sounds like . No one here will be able to read his intentions like you will be able to on that date and subsequent meetings .