That ' s actually a pretty hard question , most subs lean at least somewhat right or left . A lot of the defaults seem to be mostly occupied by centrists though so I ' d say this one . <| sep |> It ' s her friend ' s influence that makes her reckless , I know for a fact if she said guys I have to limit myself because ithinkiknowstuff really wants me to watch myself their reactions would be fuck him ! Why does he control your life do what you want ! I feel like you ' re really taking the responsibility off of your girlfriend . I know you have rosetinted glasses and find her to be the victim here , but she ' s not . And honestly , if she did say that to her friends , no shit that would be their response . Because SHE needs to limit her own drinking for herself , not because her boyfriend is babysitting her and will put her in timeout if she doesn ' t . Even if she has a hard time saying no , she ' s aware of that and chooses to put herself in a highpressure situation . She chose her friends . She chooses to get dressed up and paint the town . She chooses to put the drink to her lips . She ' s an adult and all you ' re doing is giving her excuses of why she won ' t stop or why she won ' t listen to you . You ' ve only been dating her for two months . You have no idea if she ' ll take your advice or decide to change or continue to use her mean , bad friends that she chooses to be around as a scapegoat . She ' s only as good as the company she keeps .