Dude . I ' m so glad you posted this . I never knew this was a thing . I always thought you had to do them in order from left to right . wow . I thought doing the Lb Rb thing was just to view your challenges in general . <| sep |> they are beautiful tbh <| sep |> My MIL blames me completely and doesn ' t fault her son at all . In reality , my only available contraceptive method aside from the condoms is NFP and is only 75 % effective my body wasn ' t suited for an IUD and hormonal BC is dangerous for me . We lasted 75 % of a year before I got pregnant , lol ! SO ' s mom didn ' t know about my health issues and took it up with me like I was an idiot for not being on the pill . No thanks . I don ' t really interact with her much anymore there were other issues . but good riddance .