If you mean behind the paper then it ' s not <| sep |> Selling two tickets for tonight ' s game 1125 vs . Buffalo Sabres , Section 105 , Row P Caps Attack Twice , Row Directly Behind Goat EDITED PRICE DROP $ 230 firm <| sep |> Omar epps . 40 year old virgin , House , Juice . <| sep |> Hearing you say that you are awful makes me so sad and also raises a lot of red flags . Let ' s just take the other side for a moment and say you were completely unreasonable in the way you spoke to him . that doesn ' t make you an awful person . it makes you human , someone with emotions and her own life experiences , and opinions . so you got a little loud or angry but so what ? What I don ' t like is how he said he was going to divorce you unless you censored your opinion from now on , I can see clear as day the threat , the silent treatment and then when you promised to not give your opinion anymore , he said ok . My ex did the same thing ! It starts with one little thing and it turned into me changing my opinions on almost everything or staying silent or being untrue to myself and agreeing with things I didn ' t actually agree with . This is dangerous because you can lose yourself . You won ' t see it but one day you wake up and the old you is gone . And it ' s very difficult to get it back . I ' m not saying not to be respectful in conversation or talk in an acceptable tone , those are all ok but you must be able to be you , with no punishment involved . The fact is , if you have an N mom , there are times you WILL BE triggered by things she does or did in the past and this cannot involve him not allowing you to talk about it . I personally can bet you had some really good points and opinions about the election and I would have loved to have a conversation with you about it because you sound like my type of girl , I am always super passionate about politics and love to talk about it , we would probably have some really great conversations .