Sounds like he knows he fucked up and is acting out because he feels guilty . That , however , does not obligate you to go along with his dickery . I second what other posters are sayingget some kind of takeout for Thanksgiving dinner and remove yourself from the stressful situation . Later , after all the relatives are gone , perhaps some couples counseling would help him relate to you in a more healthy way . If he refuses that , well , your instincts might be right here . <| sep |> 36 and 45 are the ideal statlines for a 4 mana minion . A 36 is stronger vs aggro decks as 3 attack is typically enough to trade into their minions and 6 health keeps it alive longer . A 45 minion is better vs control decks as it threatens more damage while still being difficult to clear a lot of classes can ' t clear 5 health easily and the ones that can tend to be aggro classes Hunter and Shaman .