Hey now I know youre feeling shit right now but the things you said are just not true . Yes , looks help you attract someone to begin with , but no one wants to stay with a boring , brainless bimbo , they fuck and chuck . Nor do they want to be with someone who is vile , mean person . Think about older people , there ' s so many people who get married in their 60 s , I don ' t know anyone in their 60 s who ' s particularly good looking . Heck , I know girls and guys who have a face like a inside out are who have had more partners than I can count and you know why ? Confidence . Yes , it ' s clich and cheesy but in my experience , shyness or isolation stops you talking or meeting anyone who would be interested . Get out there ! People give you shit ? Laugh in there face ! Get rejected ? Fuck them ! They ain ' t worth your time anyway ! Hey I know it ' s not easy , but stand up strait , hole your head high and fake that confidence , fake it , fake it , fake it and when your sat in a bar chatting away with friends , guys , girls or whatever , you ' ll feel that confidence for real .