lol at the downvotes . Must be BF players that remember my tag ! <| sep |> My cat deadbolted me and my SO out of the apartment once . We had to call maintenance to let us in and he didn ' t believe that we didn ' t accidentally lock the handle on the way out . He went to unlock the handle and then realized it was actually deadbolted and said , holy crap , your cat really did lock you out . Still had to pay the $ 25 fee . <| sep |> in general jerking it , either to porn or not , while attempting the 90 day nofap challenge . Beyond that things are up to you what to define them as . A relapse ISN ' T . a sex with a partner nonpaying . b a wet dreambut ive read all kinds of ' excuse ' questionings . ' dude I was looking at porn on day 5 of nofap and I wasnt touching it but I just came ! . I didnt touch it so it isnt a relapse , is it ? . Yes , it is . It is still addictive , compulsive , timeenergy wasting behavior . Does this all answer your question ?