It ' s a developmental impairment . Everyone has problems , yes . Not everyone has an impairment which compounds those problems . Running a marathon is hard , not everyone has one leg . People have a choice to not run a marathon . We have no choice in the demands of this world , we are forced to deal , and it is hard . ADHD isn ' t an excuse , it ' s just a fact of the matter , certain shit is harder . I don ' t look for sympathy , I don ' t look for free passes , I only look for compassion . If she lacks empathy , I ' d feel sorry for her . You will get through this . All you can do is educate , and if a person wants to remain ignorant , there is nothing that can be done . <| sep |> That bathtub is one of the cleanest ones I ' ve seen on here .