I told my husband I want to be a tree ! He wants to be buried . Very important to discuss . Though if mortality terrifies you as much as it does me , discuss it in short chunks over a long period of time so you don ' t end up sobbing . <| sep |> All the way to the giblets . <| sep |> Stop This Train John Mayer . I think about my dad when I listen to this and I tear up every time I listen to it . <| sep |> getting amazon cards is the workaround <| sep |> sounds like they don ' t care enough to personalize the response , and assume everyone has given , andor its a guilt trip for those who didn ' t give anything . edit I find it interesting how churches , taxfree organizations in america , always seem to be short of cash , or need their members ' money . I guess jesus isn ' t good with money or doesn ' t know how to invest .