Glad you liked it I think . I am unsure if ' Ugh ' represents positive or negative feedback ! <| sep |> I had a friend who was going through a messy divorce in grad school . Any time he had to go meet a lawyer or something related to the filing of documents , his PI told him that he was letting his personal life get in the way of lab work . This same PI also complained about how an undergrad volunteer was putting her coursework before her lab work . The adviser in charge of the undergrad research program told him that is as it should be and he had another fit about it . <| sep |> Yeah fuckin chill . I bet ur daddy doesnt love you because your a fag . Hurts doesnt it ? <| sep |> I get what you ' re not so subtly asking us . Basically you ' re asking how do I make sure my sons do not end up like you guys ? . I can understand why you ' d want to make sure your kids are not like us but nature is more important than nurture . Basically just stay away from extremes blatant abuse , complete neglect , helicopter parenting and your parenting will be fine . However , like it or not your children ' s potential for success for the most part lies not in your parenting but in the coding of the deoxyribonucleic acid that is present within every single nucleus of your children .