Whoops . I linked instead of 10 works for me . Happy JBing everyone <| sep |> It sucks , but if he wanted to leave over this , it ' s best to just accept that . Some people have a very , very narrow vision of family and children . You ' re health meant you considered thing with a more open mind and other totally reasonable options . A lot of people will just refuse to even think about those things . It sucks , but if his idea of family is so limited that he ' d end a relationship over this , then he ' s not the right person for you anyways . Not just because of your body , but because his values are different and he ' s closed off to other great options in life . <| sep |> Its legal in most countries . Its only America that has this weird idea that people are totally incapable children until 18 . And yet you try children as adults and have toddler pageants . A truly fucked up culture .