Accepting Red Pill truths does not mean you have to give yourself angst over the male equivalent of what feminists might call impossible beauty standards . The fact is that , if you can do one thing right , you can attract women , and then it is game and personality from there . If you want to bang supermodels , spin 5 plates who are 7 or pick up a new girl every week for casual sex , then ya you need to have a lot going . Personally , I am more of a serial monogamist I have some down time , I date , maybe an ONS or STR , then I end up in something resembling an LTR . At worst it ' s bittersweet given the odds of any given LTR going the distance . There is nothing toxic about accepting the inherent limitations of relationships and women . Managing your own expectations is on you , no one else .