Ok thanks for the serous answer then I ' ll put it there <| sep |> Well , ' musubi ' is written as '', which can be a character used to describe marriage . Perhaps someone with better knowledge of the nuances of the Japanese language can help out . <| sep |> 1 You ' re not deformed disproven 2 You ' re not the ugliest person on here disproven 3 You don ' t have it worse than everyone else on here disproven 4 You don ' t look hideous disproven 5 If you want to be a 6 out of 10 move your ass go do something and stop complaining 6 The obsession with your looks combined with your difficult nature both need to be fixed before anyone will want to be with you . 7 Step by step . The first step is realizing that other people look worse than you . The second step is caring about people . Can you do that ?