Yes ! So much this ! We endured four years of unexplained infertility , 9 failed rounds of clomiphene , 6 months of chemotherapy a long story in itself ! and finally endured painful and emotionally difficult IVF before conceiving our wee bubba . when she finally came out after a bloody traumatic emergency birth and spent 3 weeks in SCBU she was prem . i got , so will you have another ? .??!!!?? Either they simply do not get it , they have nothing better to talk about or they actually think that in some twisted way they are helping . Whatever the answer , my advice is to rise above it . Focus on you and your liferelationships whatever . Fertility is hard enough without other peoples input . On our journey we have learned that there will ALWAYS be a new goalpost , if you ' re single its when will you find someone , When you ' re dating its , when will you get engaged , whens the big day , when will you have kids , when will you have number two , oh you ' re pregnant a third time isn ' t that being greedy . why wont people just fuck up ? ?! Smile , nod and walk away . If they continue tell them to fuck off . Its your journey not theres . Seriously though , I ' m sorry about your pet and the miscarriages ? . Wishing you guys happiness , love and light x