Go to counseling . The divorce rate for parents of special needs children is higher than average , but it sounds like you are both trying to make it work . <| sep |> Link To Original Submission I Am A Bot . Please Message uccd if you have any feedback or suggestions . <| sep |> Oh , uhhhh . well , how about a metaphor where the thing the pendulum is hanging on is actually pushed in one direction , therefore meaning that the pendulum is always slightly more in one direction no matter how much it swings ? <| sep |> I will try the chair method you suggested . I have a bar at home and I can make it work here . Thanks for the advice . <| sep |> I had someone link me this on their slightly undergeared mage . I figured , eh , I ' ll give them a shot , they are mythic raiding , they must know fundamentals and mechanics . how fucking wrong I was . He was absolutely allergic to his counterspell . So much so that on shade , he would rather switch to his Druid to tank it than interrupt .