She definitely panicked . I don ' t suspect any ulterior motives to her actions besides finding out the best course of action in that situation . I ' m bothered by it because upon not being able to reach me , she went to him or maybe it was before ? . Albeit , you ' re right in that many would not disclose that information at all . What also bothers me is that they haven ' t spoken in a couple of months , ever since we started officially dating , but their relationship was one of four years and I see it as a thinly veiled excuse to reach out to him again , conscious or subconscious , and speak to him again . I ' m not jealous , or mad , but rather , I ' m annoyed by her decision to reach out to him . <| sep |> Not possible in my state . . 223 . 556 .