That exactly it . I hate those who keepleft with a passion so I keep track . Mostly New Jersey plates , however a disproportionate amount of PA , NY , and CT plates can be found keeping left too . <| sep |> A flair system and an updated sidebarFAQ would be nice . I would also prefer some rule about med posts or at least prominent links to lists of common side effectsinfo about crashesetc . The med questions are the only ones that really frustrate me , since there ' s tons of them and so often the answer is google it or talk to your doctor . A stranger on the internet is not an effective source of information about your ADHD meds . As far as the ventingranting posts though , I don ' t really think it ' s a problem . ADHD is classified as a disorder for a reason , and having it can be a bewildering , frustrating , hurtful experience . I ' m annoyed by those posts sometimes too , especially the people who seem to have given up and reject any help or advice that ' s offered , but having an understanding place to vent is important , and I don ' t think there ' s any need to admonish this sub as too whiny or try to get people to change their attitudes . Being able to talk about all of the pain and grief my ADHD has caused me has been a really comforting and relieving experience for me , and I don ' t think there ' s any need to regulate those kinds of posts beyond a flair system . The stream of consciousness ones just sort of get ignored so I don ' t see them being a big problem , and the ADHD is like x ones generate some interesting discussion . And anyway , I don ' t really see a problem with posts that just provide validation without solving a problem . Sometimes that ' s really , really just what you need . I know a lot of the time when I ' m looking for comfort , all I want is for someone to pat me on the back and say it ' s okay , I get it , because I can think of practical solutions myself , and people trying to provide them just frustrates me . So I think that those types of posts can really be left alone , since I don ' t see how they do more harm than good . Anyway , if you want more positiveupbeat posts , start making some ! Maybe other people will catch on and start sharing encouragementsuccesses of their own . It ' s not a very effective strategy to tell people you ' re annoying me , be different ! anyway . I know that ' s probably not how you intended it , but that is sort of how that bit comes across . The rest of it I mostly agree with though , especially about providing more factual resources to cut down on the number of people running around the sub with a lot of misconceptions about ADHD .