I suppose their really isn ' t . It ' s just that if I hear someone talking about homosexuals or ask me if I ' m a homosexual rather than using gay people or just gay it seems rather clinical and cold . It comes across as dehumanizing , at least to me . <| sep |> No . I tried to have sex with an absolutely beautiful woman and I couldn ' t get an erection . So with a girl I ' m not attracted to , it ' s not even a little bit worth trying . <| sep |> A best friend I had . We were friends for a lot of years , but just before entering high school , he turned really negative . Constant complaining about everything , picked fights with random dudes , then wanting me to bail him out of them . We went to different high schools and he constantly called me at home to drop my classes and hang out . He turned really toxic . Had no choice but to call him on his shit , things got worse , parents got involved and almost turned violent . Life started getting better after that .