Yeah I missed out the all important hit to my confidence . I ' ve always thought of myself as being attractive and never had any issues with woman IRL but I was seriously reevaluating myself after a bad stint online . I guess some people are better at it online than in actual social situations . Maybe people like you and I would feel good meeting people at a party but someone might get the negative response we ' ve got online . I dunno about you but the issue is I don ' t have the time to socialise right now but I really needed a bit of affection to get me through my stressful life atm . Going online is just making it worse lol . Go out with some friends and I ' m sure you ' ll feel better about yourself , it definitely helps .