No , we don ' t do that just switch locations and use the same content . We know that ' s not quality . The content on each page is specific and is not copied to other pages . <| sep |> Not really . Tbh I ' m probably what these people would consider and aromantic definitely don ' t label myself as such though because that ' s weird af lmao and it ' s really not lonely . I prefer being by myself tbh , being around others gets exhausting . <| sep |> You ' re welcome . It ' s hard to get a real sense of feelings and my version of the story in a couple of paragraphs . I have always understood that when someone tells you something , it ' s only one part of what has happened in their perception there are three perceptionsopinions , his , hers and the truthI try to be a realist thinker now , life is complex and nothing is just black and white . When my friends want my thoughts and opinion on subject close to their heart they understand that I ' ll never tell them what they want to hear , I ' ll tell them what they need to hear and often it ' s not an opinion but a different set of scenarios . If you get what I mean . I do hope that people who come from abusive or broken homes can see that there is light at the end of the tunnel , it took me a lot of years to realise that you cannot be happy in life until you accept the past , and understand that you ' ll never be able to change it , instead , turn that into the driving force and motivation to be better . I ' d never want to make another human feel the way I felt back then in my dark years . When I turn up to work I always say hello to everyone , be happy and treat people how I want to be treated . You have to want to wake up with a smile and see the good in people . Abuse can so easily consume you and create such a barrier between yourself and others so quickly , people just think you ' re and ashl without realising the demons you carry in your head . Don ' t get me wrong , I ' m not perfect , I still carry my own demons in the form of my temper . I ' ve never raised a hand to any of my partners , however I know I can be very quick to get angry , my girlfriend has been very good with this m , although she will never understand as she had a very good happy normal childhood with her parents and brother her words not mine to be honest . What I have learnt , I have to want to be happy , I have to want to be motivated , I have to want to be better than that people who attacked me physically and mentally to break me down . I ' m mentally stronger than them now and it will always stay that way . I do lose myself every now and again , but who doesn ' t . Hate will only consume you if you let it it ' s no different to peer pressure of doing drugs . Fight it and you will win , however , don ' t be fooled into thinking it will be an easy ride ! NuggetNik .