Such a cop out . I am actively seeking clearer explanations to your trivial wordings and you refuse to give them because I will unlock them someday like King Arthur ' s sword . Let ' s not even call it personal attacks on my character . I call them baseless misinterpretations . I can go back piece by piece . Your first message . Mostly decent . The last paragraph on it ' s own is even pretty solid . However , you promised to follow my style of thinking , which involves introspection regarding our reasons for doing certain things . You mention high standards as being my excuse for judging others . Actually , although you did not directly accuse it of implying to me , the fact that you decided to included it is enough to make that connection . Today I learned that high standards seems to be some sort of trigger phrase on relationships that I should stay away from in the future . Just like I said in my message , I wanted to know what standards you find acceptable since you seemed so against setting standards . Your second message dismisses the relevance of accusing me of being arrogant , despite the fact that it seemed integral to your point in message one . You continue to delve further into the theory of the standards being excuses , which , by the way , seems to be completely different from the theory in the first message , but still relates to this conspiracy theory that setting standards always ends up being rooted in alternate motives . You continue to paint this picture of how you view my life going based on my original message , where I am calculating my every move and incapable of having a normal conversation . I continue to urge for a clarification regarding what justifies such rash assumptions being made , but continue to be denied my requests . You ' re not even considerate enough to provide these clarifications , jumping around the issue every message until ultimately saying , muh , your messages aren ' t relevant to what I ' m saying . And also that if I don ' t perfectly interpret what you are saying , I wasn ' t ready anyway . Well here ' s some news for you the only response you would be happy with is complete agreement . There was never any potential for intelligent discussion here because you came into this thinking you had all of the undeniable right answers to life . With all due respect , sir , but it seems you may need to remove your head from your butt as well , because if you think a few years extra on this planet has given you infinite levels of perfect knowledge , you may need to rethink things .