The one with my job training place . I did an IT apprenticeship for three years and after a few months my instructor started to become paranoid that I would try to replace him . just because I wanted to do more and learn more . Over the next two years it turned into bullying , including wonderful sentences like woman don ' t stay in IT anyway , it ' s a waste of time ! . On my last day , after a schoolmarkwise very good apprenticeship , I went to say goodbye to everyone . he came and wanted to congratulate me . So , can we congratulate ? , he asked and hold up his hand for a shake , slimy smile on his face , I turned to him and said . No , no I don ' t think so . and then completely ignored him . Haven ' t seen anyone turn into a huffy puffy rage that quickly since then . Bridge completely burned , but worth it . That guy was fucking nuts .