Tu aurais propos du sursis plutt ? <| sep |> China is going to have to pick up some slack cause America is going to arguing with itself for the next 4 years . <| sep |> You can pay a law firm to act as trustee of a trust you set up now not when you die . If your lawyer hasnt suggested this get a better lawyer from a bigger firm . You can set up a trust with terms along these lines pay her a salary annually . require her to legally undertake not to financially support abusive family have a provision giving the whole thing to charity if she breaks the undertaking some kind of monitoringreporting provisions . The lawyer ' s fees to act as trustee will be taken from the trust pot . You also need to sit down with her and explain all this . Tell her you want to give her all your cash but you cant trust her not to cave in and support your abusers . You could even try asking her to go no contact .