Well shit I did my traits like they show on icy veins it ' s the only site I know for things like that . Thanks for the tips ! <| sep |> All that is entirely true , and from a purely economic standpoint , it makes sense to keep working . From a practical standpoint , it becomes a matter of quality of life . My brother and his wife made this call , and my wife and I are making it , too we ' d rather not work for some stranger to raise our children . We ' d rather have a happier household with half the income than two overworked , stressed out parents who struggle to form a connection with children they barely get to see but for an hour in the morning , a few hours to get them fed , bathed , and in bed , and a little time on the weekends between errands . Their formative years are the most important , and life will have to pick up once they ' re old enough to be in school and are subject to the same rigors of our regimented society as the rest of us .