DAE Trump and didn ' t upvote ? xD 😂😂😂😂😂 <| sep |> Ginger does have that bite . I never tried ginger beer though . Thanks , I ' ll check it out . <| sep |> Well , your input has been valuable and appreciated . I was unaware of the degenerative nature of BP . With the hindsight of ten years , I think it is our relative ' s BPD that is the most destructive to herself and certainly to others . It has created a world in her that looks like this one but in which she is always and unassailably right . She doesn ' t need to pursue a correct cocktail of meds because nothing is wrong with her in the first place , YOU ' RE the one with the problem ! Who knows how many episodes she ' s had over that time , how much erosion that could have been prevented . Sad . We know that she suffered extreme trauma that either created or amplified the BPD , which is what made it so hard to give up . But , as you say , there is no saving someone who won ' t save themselves . Hope you have a nice Thanksgiving .