How did you press the button to take the photo ? <| sep |> He is currently involuntarily in a local hospital he does not speak the local language . He was in ICU but has been moved to be monitored for detox and DTs . I have chosen not to visit him during this time because I somehow think it might help him consider the severity of his alcohol use . I am trying to consider any possible thing that will prevent this behavior in the future . In the past , I have rushed to comfort him , reward him , and offer sympathy . I even supervised his detox and withdrawals at home in the pastI thought he was going to die , but he doesn ' t even remember and jokes about it ! So , I ' m hoping that this time alone , in a foreign hospital , will allow him to think about what choices he made led him to that point and hopefully ALWAYS remember the consequences of those choices . He was so violent during checkin and trying to get him to get help that I also need a break , and I am unsure whether he will be violent again or what . Last I asked , he DID NOT agree to longterm preventative care or rehabilitation for this issue , even though he is likely going to lose his job , etc . Do you all agree that I should allow him the time alone or should I visit to show support ? It will only be a couple of days . The doctors that I spoke to only chuckled when I said I would leave him there alone but did not say he was in any danger . I told them to call immediately if there was an issue or his condition changed .