Is it showing item processed in Richmond BC ? I just ordered from them Monday and for 2 days it was stuck on that , I emailed , they emailed back saying it ' s a problem with CP . Call CP if you are comfortable with that and they will able to track it with their internal system . Today the tracker was working properly showing my town and this afternoon it showed up . <| sep |> I did feel my ex was like a giant six year old and I realized from reading rraisedbynarcissists , she was six . I also learned to see instead of her telling me I am self centered , she was just having a temper tantrum while she was telling me that . Same as when she would call me miss anti social when I would put on my headphones in her car because she had on music I didn ' t like and she and her son were talking and it was nothing I was interested in and making a big deal out of it , she was just having a tantrum because she wasn ' t getting her way . She is only six . If I knew what I was dealing with then , then I might have handled it better than just assuming I was dealing with a normal person and I might not have even bothered to try and get her to see her own hypocrisy and her double standards and trying to keep on trying to communicate with her and trying to change my approach with it so she won ' t get defensive and take things the wrong way and twist what I say and add words to things I have said . Plus I might have left sooner too and she wasn ' t see a doctor then either . I did try to help her then too but it was no use and I realized only she could help herself and I can ' t always help people . I feel like I was a white knight . Someone who wants to rescue someone who has problems and thinking they could fix them after giving them reassurance and being with them and their depression goes away because they have them now and their support or thinking they could just be their psychologist and they will get better or being their teacher . So new rule for me is never assume things will get better when you are dating . What you see is what you get , don ' t assume it will get better so make up your mind now if this is how you want to live and if this is how you want to be treated . But then again you are supposed to be honest with your partner because imagine your partner suddenly leaving you due to X , Y , and Z and he didn ' t even tell you it had been bothering him and how he felt so you had assumed everything was fine so this makes it a difficult situation .