Sometimes with the requirements for the visa they may ask for proof of funds , that is if you look dodgy as shitEdit , I know of some who have traveled here only to be sent back the next or same day . Don ' t make it look like you are abandoning your home . <| sep |> playing an FPS on a console is like jacking off with the business end of a claw hammer . Jimmy let me introduce to a little something we call the prostate . <| sep |> He might be content with his male role , but at least in the case of my ex , that didn ' t stop him from identifying as transgender it seemed to be due to his autogynephilia and dysphoria about his genitals that he claimed to have sometimes but not during sexmasturbation while enjoying the benefits of male privilege and not seeking to transition , and I suspect that ' s the case with some other transwomen . Trans and autogynephiles are not the only category of womanhaters . I am aware . I get that I might be wrong but he reminds me of my ex so much that I feel it ' s worthwhile to be like ' what if their thought process of ' I hate women because I can ' t be one ' is similar ? ' And that leads to me being like ' oh my god he ' s a total autogynephile who is jealous of women and angry at them because they have what he doesn ' t '. I ' ll admit there ' s no more evidence for my theory than there is for him being a runofthemill misogynist , but something about him creeps me out in the same way thinking of my ex creeps me out so I still suspect he ' s an autogynephile . More than suspect . I don ' t KNOW , but like . I strongly suspect .