Must have missed the tweet thanks ! <| sep |> This all great but there is a higher level than this . You need to be ok WITHOUT 8 WOMEN IN HAND . People have a hard time understanding this because it doesn ' t make sense emotionally . The mentality that you have when you have 8 women in hand should be the same mentality you have with 0 women in hand . YOU DON ' T BECOME A DIFFERENT PERSON IF YOU HAVE MORE WOMEN IN YOUR PHONE NUMBER . YOU ARE STILL YOU , YOU HAVEN ' T BECOME RICHER , SMARTER , MORE KNOWLEDGEABLE , YOU ARE STILL THE SAME PERSON . The problem is that we need validation and choice to feel secure in ourselves because our egos are so fragile . A beautiful girl is just a beautiful girl but people see her as key to happiness and the end of misery . If you see a girl as the end of your misery , of course you ' re gonna put so much value on women and be needy . The takeaway from all of this is the following In the end YOU ONLY HAVE YOURSELF . The hallmark of bad relationships is codependence , people depending on others to feel whole . This is very difficult to understand because it doesn ' t make sense emotionally . Heroine feels good emotionally but it kills you in real life . Emotions are misleeding and just because you feel like a better person when you have the validation of 8 women , if you don ' t understand that you only have yourself , you will creep out all 8 women one by one and lose your mind in the process .