There ' s a pair of underwear under my bed that has been there for a couple of years . They fell under there one day and I ' ve been too lazy to fish them out . <| sep |> Thoughts ? He puts readers last . How ironic . <| sep |> Because that ' s what they call themselves . <| sep |> Try a different machine , or if you ' re just focused on a single playlist and not trying to implement a solution for the future then you can ask a friendsomeone online to pull the list manifest for the playlist and then you can widdle that down with your favorite text manipulation tools to get the video links . Then just run that list through wget or your favorite mass downloader tool . <| sep |> He is obviously being affected by my actions , but I ' m playing his game now . He isn ' t even trying at all to do better . He has actually been trying to bate me . A few nights back he disappeared to the basement and never returned . I called down once to let him know dinner was ready , but he didn ' t respond . He has NEVER done that before . He always tells me when he ' s going to bed and when I show up shortly after , he will wake up to give me a light peck , tap or squeeze before he goes back to sleep . He cares for me , but it ' s not enough to sustain a marriage . Yesterday he brought me breakfast then snuck off to eat it in another room while I waited for him to come back . Eventually I gave up and ate mine cold . He has never done that before either . I didn ' t say a word about it either . I don ' t have the energy for his denials and gaslighting when I complain . He ' ll yell in circles about how hard he ' s been trying and about how he can ' t fix this alone . It ' s going to be quite laughable , considering he hasn ' t tried at all . He has done that a couple times before . If I ' m not immediately ready to makeup and try again , he gets belligerent . As long as I stay quiet , he may never confront me . If he does , I ' m going to just say we ' re sexually and emotionally incompatible and that it is no one ' s fault . Except I have been telling him what I need for a year and offering compromises I can live with and he has been promising change that NEVER happens . He never should have promised what he can ' t give me . That is his fault . I can ' t stay in love with someone who won ' t touch me sexually , have sex with me , or make an effort to be any good at sex . He is beyond lazy in bed . Not only does he ignore me sexually , but he also ignores me when I ' m talking . When we are the only people in the room . If I don ' t say his name or make it an obvious question , he will ignore me . He won ' t engage me in any conversations ever . It ' s like he has no opinion or soul . This all hurts really bad and I have been telling him for months that he wouldn ' t like it if I treat him the same . Well , I started treating him the same and talking a whole lot less . NOW , sometimes when I say anything at all , he will say what did you say ? . So maybe he is trying , a little , but I am still waiting on a conversation from him and his gameplan to fix this .