Why did he recognize FIL and not MIL ? That seems odd . <| sep |> Right now you need to only contribute enough to your 401 k to get the company match . The rest needs to go towards debt . <| sep |> I dumped someone for a pretty stupid reason . She really wanted me to go horseback riding with her on a trip we planned that weekend . She kept nagging about it . Dumped her just before we were supposed to go . I don ' t like horses . Not really afraid of them , but just don ' t like them . We ended up as exes with benefits and were still friendly to this day . That ' s kinda nice . <| sep |> Racism is being used in a PR campaign by the left to assassinate the character of their opponents . The problem was never racism to begin with , but hatred , violence , and other actions that bring injustice . The left no longer has the moral high ground because they use these same tactics against regular people now , while racists at worst shit post or hold a parade . They are the morally repugnant assholes now , not racists .