Yeah . You are right <| sep |> Yeah , I think the gallons of water he consumes daily have really improved his flow . <| sep |> can get it on FDroid , there is a link on the dev page <| sep |> its mostly made of air , so when the plastic bit melts it looks like there is nothing left over <| sep |> It seems like girls have such a short attention span these days that if you just be yourself and go on well planned dates it ' s still not enough to keep them interested . I live in London but goddamn if a guy was nice , kind and true to himself and took the time to take me out on planned dates , I would defintely give him a shot ! I have never been in a relationship as of yet I ' m 21 but I have been on ' dates '. The only reason they didn ' t work out was because of personal reasons . How should I approach dating ? Dating should be seen as a stepping stone to a relationship . Do not date just because the girl is pretty or she is a good friend . Date someone who challenges you , who inspires you to be a better person . Date someone who supports you and cares for you . Do not date for the sake of dating . Like I said , dating is a transitory process which should end in a relationship . Once you finish the dating process you can call the girl your girlfriend What kind of mindset should I try to have to help build the chemistry ? Have the mindset that it should be natural and not forced . If the girl is not replying or making too many excuses then I would drop it . You don ' t need passive aggressiveness in the early stages and you should be able to recognise red flags such as addiction , toxic behaviour , lying , paranoia etc in order for you to filter out what you want . Everybody has a type but eventually you meet someone who either ticks off some of the things or defies them . The person you end up loving is a human and should be treated as one . Do not idealise a girl you like and make excuses for toxic behaviour . Learn to look at things from a third perspective and do ask your close friends for advice if you having a lot of trouble . Should I keep doing what I ' m doing until I find a girl that things work out with ? Remember to initiate more and follow through . A lot of girls expect the guy to do the asking out and confirming the relationship so you have to consider this . You ' re doing a couple things right but there ' s room for improvement . It might just be you are dating the wrong girls or it ' s not your time as of yet . You are still young so don ' t worry . You seem like a very nice guy so I have lots of hope for you for the future . 😊