Yeah I ' m amab and I wear polish and have long flouncy hair and floral blouses . Still identify as cis but I ' m non conforming . I wish every third interaction with a service worker didn ' t involve them saying ' I love your nail ' like it felt supportive a few times and then I realised its not about me , it ' s their reaction to try and deal with their own discomfort . Kind of like when a white person says ' I wish I had your hair ' to black person . It ' s not even necessarily a backhanded complinsult either it ' s just a way for them to remind you that you ' re different . Anyway maybe you ' ve experienced that too . Or maybe you ' re just getting straight up aggressionaggression not passiveaggression ? <| sep |> There is a non emergency line in my town for things like needle clean up . Or human waste . Had to call them once this summer to clean up an area where a kids summer camp was running .