Even though I ' m in a tribe I ' m recognized as the loner of said tribe which is just fine . I ' ve known them for a long time and they know that I ' m mostly a lone wolf but enjoy their company even if I ' m not taking part in most of what is going on . The trick is to not try hard and just be yourself . If you ' re naturally quiet , be quiet and engage someone that might be a bit standoffish in the group . Chances are both of y ' all feel the same way and will hit it off . <| sep |> True , I kept putting my parakeet on my shoulder then after a while I noticed she stopped pooping on me . She would poop when I put her on my finger and over the trash can which was cool but if she still shat everywhere else , just not on me .