I think you have every right to be pissed off about this . When my son was born , my fiance sent a text to both sides of the family to let them know that he had arrived and that we were both alright . The following day when he came in to see us , he told me that his brother had put a status up onto Facebook announcing , not only that our baby had been born , but ALL the details . His gender , his name , his weight , time of birth etc . The whole shebang . To say I was livid would be an understatement . I politely asked my fiance to tell his brother to delete the status as it wasn ' t his place to be announcing our baby ' s arrival on his Facebook page , especially as my own mum did not know his name yet . I wanted to wait till she came to visit to introduce them properly . His brother threw a hissy fit because he didn ' t understand why I was pissed at him and , the first time they came to visit after we had left the hospital , he didn ' t actually come and see us . He sat in the living room with his parents , sulking because he felt pushed out . Other than asking my fiance to tell him to delete the status , I hadn ' t said anything more on the matter because I was so elated at the birth of my baby boy and I didn ' t want to ruin it . But he just made it feel awkward because he was sulking that I basically scolded him for being an idiot . I know your case is a bit different with the breach having been done a pediatriciannurse , but I still think you are entitled to be annoyed . I hope it doesn ' t affect the celebrations though . Congratulations on the new baby !