I want to do a lot of things . Have been holding off from getting costa since a looooong time in fear of the 5 th yellow . So that ' s pending too . <| sep |> KMF I usually leave reasons , but with the glasses , I can ' t bother . <| sep |> I hate remembering that I ' m obligated to participate . <| sep |> When I was a senior in high school just turned 18 I got arrested with some friends who were stealing shit . I didn ' t know they planned to do it when I went with them , and I didn ' t join in , but I got charged right along with them . 6 months later I ' m riding as a passenger with some better friends trying to get one of the girls home before curfew after a dance . So the driver is speeding and of course we get pulled over . Cop DEMANDS all of our IDs , goes to the cruiser , then comes back and again , DEMANDS I get out of the car . I ' m emphasizing it because this wasn ' t a firm Would you step out of the car , please ? it was , YOU ! Get out of the damn car ! I asked why seeing as I ' m just a passenger and have no warrants , nor does he have any probable cause giving him reason to believe I ' m doing anything wrong . He puts his hand quite deliberately on his sidearm and says , Because I told you to . Now get the fuck out of the car you little shit . So I get out and he immediately spins me around and slams me against the car door and starts patting me down . I was like , Hey officer , how about you tell me what it is you ' re illegally searching me for ? His answer was to shove me again against the car , and say , Goddamn smart ass , think you just know everygoddamnthing don ' t you ? Where you hiding the weed ? Did you stash it in the car ? I ' m like , WTF ? I don ' t even have any drug charges on my record ! What makes you think you have any probable cause for this search ? I had just taken government class the previous semester and gotten an A , so even back then I knew my rights pretty wellSo basically he assumed because we ' re teens and we ' re out late , that we ' re up to no good , and probably were into drugs . So because I was the only one over 18 and the only one with any kind of record at all he decided to single me out as the one who ' s 4 th amendment rights he ' d shit all over . BTW , this was in North Dakota and I ' m about the whitest honkeyass cracker to ever jitterbug his way out of BeaverCleaverville . There ' s asshole cops everywhere . But I ' ve met plenty that were cool as hell too , so it ' s a crap shoot . I just wish the departments were better at keeping those shitty guys with god complexes off the damn streets . But that doesn ' t happen without complaints . ALL OF YOU ! Stop just accepting it , or just complaining about it on the internet . Go to the department and file a complaint and don ' t let them try and bullythreaten you out of it either . In the end I filed a formal grievance against him , and he got a letter of reprimand and a suspension , because they saw it pretty clearly through the idiot ' s dashcam .