Eh , whatever . Let them think what they will . If they don ' t recognize the value and effectiveness of it , then that ' s not our problem . I just got back from a road trip with some friends and one of them has always kind of doubted bjj , he acts like it ' s some bs karate type stuff . Him and I started wrestling on the trip , he got kind of aggressive and was slapping me on the stomach , so I got him in an ankle lock and that seemed to wake him up a little bit . Most people will probably see BJJ as just another BS martial art unless the experience it , unfortunately . E words <| sep |> Are you in the process of filling out the FAFSA ? If so , please sit down with your dad , who appears to be the one handling the money , and go through it line by line together . There are good resources online for helping you , and some high school counselors can help guide you through it , too . Also , you might find this valuable .