I can never hold as much in between my legs . My gym luckily has two dipping belts and I also own one myself for when I go to other gyms . <| sep |> But at least you didn ' t die yet ! <| sep |> Have you ever brought up the idea of counseling together ? There is obviously something going on with her for her to have that kind of reaction , therapy is probably the best way to bring it out into the open . What you are doing is not working , so couples therapy sounds like a good idea . <| sep |> So don ' t worry about me Eim Fein <| sep |> My dad has been unhappy ever since I can remember , but he stayed for us kids . They ' ve been unhappily married over 45 years . But his sacrifice of his happiness is expected because he ' s a man . When I left my ex , virtually everyone I talked to assumed that I just wanted a younger tighter piece of ass . Even the people who knew what a lazy slob she turned out to be . I wanted my kids to grow up in a better environment at least half the time , and so far that is working . Women are allowed to be bored and destroy families , men had better have a damned good reason to be acceptable .