She has broken up with me a dozen times for me just wanting boundaries . Why are you still with her ? This lead to her assaulting me a couple of times and being arrested . Which she blames me for . Why are you still with her ? ? Everything in the relationship was always blaming me for whatever consequences she suffered . She would do things like drink , then blame me for her drinking . She would talk to other men , then without having any evidence of the contrary claim i was doing the same . She would always turn the blame on me ALWAYS . If she stole something she had to my fault . if she did anything illegal she had to my fault . If she assaulted me had to my fault because I tried to stand up to her . Why are you still with her ? ?! What is making you so incredibly desperate for a relationship that you would take someone who is physically and mentally abusive and has this many issues over literally almost any alternative ? Don ' t fall into the sunk cost fallacy . Don ' t stay just because you dealt with it for two years and want something in return . all you ' re going to get is more of the same . End it . Block her . Move on . Your life will be better without her .