Als er sowieso al iets goeds uit zijn hometown komt ben ik al fan . Ze hebben iets goed te maken . <| sep |> Well when you have to put yourself through 9 months of having something leech off you , make none of your old clothes fit , make you feel illsoretired , cause mood swings , possibly fuck up your chances for a promotion because you ' re having to take off work or your boss thinks you ' re babycrazy , put a financial strain on your life because now you have drs appointments and wierd cravings to tend tonot to mention another body to feed , and then have to go through the incredible pain that is childbirthincluding shitting yourself , ripping your vagina and the financial burden of going to a hospital and having to take off work yet again then maybe your opinion will be justified . Until then , I think we should let people decide for themselves what is best . I mean it sucks that people are on waitlists , but there are a lot of kids who want loving homes and don ' t have them . Maybe since they are already alive we should focus on helping them instead of forcing women to carry unwanted babies through childbirth