engineers are actually ok , but only in part cos they are socially incompetant <| sep |> Because drama in ranked is too much fun to pass up . <| sep |> Theilen or Crabtree ? <| sep |> All MDMA is a pain to snort <| sep |> most of what is considered vanilla sex is in fact soft sadomasochism . The whole point of conservative Christians baring in my mind that your typical conservative Christian nowadays doesn ' t actually give a shit what position you have sex in so long as you ' re heterosexual and married historically advocating missionary position sex which as the Tumblr discussion highlights is ironically mocked by the BDSM community is to ensure that men DOMINATE women during sex , so how is missionary position the opposite of BDSM ? Ok hold up there Andrea Dworkin . If you ' re going to do PIV sex , there is just no way for it to happen without a penis penetrating a vagina . If you want to look at that as dominance , I can ' t stop you , but I think it ' s a little warped . Lots of vanilla positions feel good , to me , because of the particular combinations of sensations and pressures on different parts . Weight from above , from a particular angle , increases pressure on the clit and the entrance to the vagina where there are lots of nerve endings and perineum . Legs tighter together increases the area exposed to friction and the strength of that friction . Like there are some mechanics at work that can make it feel good for people . Being on top , which a lot of people feel is a more empowered position , can be good but requires more effort . Personally I dislike the insistence that women are expected perform empowerment this way . If I enjoy that less than missionary , how empowered is that ? I am lazy and like feeling good , and I ' m guided by my enjoyment . So that ' s what ' s up over here .