USE YOUR MEMORY <| sep |> From the same letter and earlier in the piece . In any nonviolent campaign there are four basic steps 1 collection of the facts to determine whether injustices are alive 2 negotiation 3 selfpurification and 4 direct action . Nonviolent direct action seeks to create such a crisis and establish such creative tension that a community that has constantly refused to negotiate is forced to confront the issue . Violence done in the name of BLM has ruined any hopes of it having the same effect as MLK and the civil rights movement of the 60 s . <| sep |> Good lord that took soooooo many tries ! Finally got through ! Can ' t wait for my new shadows ! <| sep |> My understanding was that he was trying to do something nice for her by cooking it all by himself because she was upset about her family . Like , he was trying to treat her so she wouldn ' t have to worry about it and could come down to a fantastic meal that was already prepared . I could be wrong though .