Hey , I hope you ' re doing okay . I ' m sorry I can ' t offer you any monetary assistance but I ' ll give you some advice . Your SO ? No bueno . He ' s not an adult so don ' t depend on him for an adult presence . He ' s scared of the oven ? Seriously ? How is someone like that survive medical school ? The medical landscape consists of blood , feces , urine , any number of bodily fluids . If he can ' t clean up basic trash or do basic things because it ' s gross I have bad news for him . He ' s not gonna make it . And you ' re basically tying yourself to a sinking boatget out as soon as possible and find someone who has the mental capacity to take care of you and the home too . <| sep |> Interesting . Confused why it says find out if it ' s fairly valued when you ' re just showing historical financials unless I ' m missing something ?