The honest truth has to be they either don ' t care and don ' t care about lost sales for some reason or the people at the top simply have no idea what they are doing . <| sep |> Hey , Just wanted to send some support across the internet cause as hard as it is for the one trying to break the habit , it is incredibly tough being on the support side as well . First off even if he ' s admitted it ' s a problem , he can be the only one to really decide when he ' s ready to break it . Furthermore , he has to break it for himself . Look into counseling . See if he ' s open to it . Books mending a shattered heart and your sexually addicted spouse . I ' m not particularly religious so I skimmed over any bits that have that because honestly it is hard to find nonreligious material out there for the spouse 🙄 . I will say that these books were great at helping me validate my feelings and realize there were other people going through the same process which was healing in itself . Workbook better to do with therapist I think but still valuable facing heartbreak which is the spouse equivalent to facing the shadow which may be helpful for your fianc . Sorry for the brain dump and any grammarcapitalization errors I ' m typing on my phone with a toddler attacking me intermittently . Sending good thoughts your way .