So did the Khmer Rouge , so did the murderers carrying out atrocities in East Timor , so did the contras in Nicaragua , and presently so do the Saudis . They ' re all friends to our government . Don ' t fall into the doublethink trap <| sep |> Think of it this way , when you withhold this truth from her in fear of her leaving you , you are being very selfish and denying her that right to make a decision on her own . Who knows , maybe she ' ll stay with you if you are truly sorry and are willing to make the relationship work and never make this mistake again . But you can ' t take her choice away from her . She has every right to know . And the sooner the better . <| sep |> RemindMe ! One Week <| sep |> Also in this game with carbink and sableye .