I wouldn ' t be okay with my bf doing girly things like doing my hair , my nails , emotions , that kinda shit That ' s for GRILLS YO ! <| sep |> Hi , more than an advice , I ' d like to ask for some of your opinions about thisAfter 4 years of university , I will soon graduate with a BA degree . However , it ' s not like I been studying in these years but it was more like finding methods to pass the examspresentations . so basically have as much knowledge as the guy who only knows about economic stuff by reading the news and articles on the internet . I told my father that I ' m afraid that I won ' t be qualified for any wellpaid job even if I have a degree . He said Don ' t worry , the job will teach you what you need to learn , what you learn at university is just little comparing to what you ' ll learn from your real works . Besides , you will likely catch up more quickly on than those who didn ' t go to university . This might be a sound advice for someone but not me , because 1 . Like I said , I have NOTHING skillsknowledge . so I ' d be the same to those who didn ' t go to college but with a degree . And that ' s will likely catch up more quickly is bullshit because my internship experience told me otherwise . 2 . I completely agree with you when you said about how they train . It happened to me during my internship , too . And because of that , I ' m afraid that I won ' t have my luxury time to start learning from beginning like my father claim . For example , who the hell would hire a broker who can ' t even tell the differents between stocks and bonds ? 3 . This is more like a feeling . My father ' s advice usually too vague and aren ' t really helpful . They are usually like You ' re depressed ? Just stop worrying about the past and focus on the present , stop being sad or You don ' t have any friend ? Just be friendly and people will like you ! . I think you understand what I mean . Those kinds of advice are not wrong , but . What do you think about my father ' s words ? After knowing my situation , what should I do after graduating this is my last year already . Thank you