No dissonance , okay , if you play games all day you will waste valuable time that you can use for someting that would actually help you , this will all add up and soon you are going to find in the place where your parrents will set you on your own journey and you were not prepared for it , cause you stood in your comfort spot without making radical decisions impacting your life , and thinking for yourself , you can ' t play video games forever , and you know this , so instead of playing games now awaiting for the day when your comfort will be gone , you should do the 4 steps , to be more than prepared for everything life is gonna bring at you . Another thing i want to tell you is that it remained a trait in the human brain to be part of a collective for safety , this developed in our brain during the cavemen era and it still translates to what you do today , but now you won ' t need this , because you won ' t die cause some people don ' t like you , does this mean to dress in ragged clothes and wear no pants , nope , just don ' t dress and draw comfort from fitting in , cause it doesn ' t make sense . You can ' t click for the wrong reasons , because if you do for the wrong reasons it means you have flawed ideas that are preventing you from fully absorbing all the information needed to put you in the click state . Hope this helps you , feel free to ask more questions if I didn ' t explain this properly .