the bee movie in 1 second . <| sep |> Warning ? You mean blessing . <| sep |> Is the kids ' table outside ? <| sep |> I told you no , I explained why , I told you when there would be a yes . You ignored all of this you pushed and pushed and pushed . And now , I snapped , as people who are pushed and pushed often do . But you still want to double down , and do a big baby performance and try to turn this around as if I am the one at some fault here . I ' m not . You can sulk , you can whine ' fine then I won ' t ever touch you again ' like a 4 year old instead of apologizing to me like an adult but the only thing any of that will do is make me lose even more respect for you than I already have . that was my response in a similar situation . Don ' t apologize to him . Retract any apology you ' ve already given . Let him sulk . Do your part to train this rapey asshole that that sort of bullshit won ' t fly .