Look to the cookie ! IlLPAIrmqvE <| sep |> change the word ' have ' with ' feel ' and I agree , but it also depends on how you define ' mind ' and how strong the feeling of different minds you ' have ' isBtw , many people start to ' think very much ' and also weird things before they fall asleep but the OPscreenguy doesnt know that apparently <| sep |> Should I start drinking under the radar to cope with family ? Upvote for yes , down vote for yes . <| sep |> I just go really far out of my way to avoid the topic . I deleted my Facebook , I avoided Thanksgiving with my dad and his girlfriend , and I basically didn ' t talk to anyone until this week when I had to reach out about Thanksgiving plans . Not fun . I have some very nasty people in my family , one of which is a former Sheriff not even a deputy ! It ' s disturbing to me .