Hey sister , it ' s not you . You ' re doing your best , and sometimes your kid is an asshole for a while . An exhausting , combative little shitbag who you could swear is solely on this planet to make you miserable . Hang in there . If you ' re just at the end of your tether , can you offload her for a few hours ? Maybe see your GP for help for you or her ! and be kind to yourself . Sometimes it gets easier , sometimes the fight just changes . You can do this . <| sep |> Funny thing is . I was told it hurt and I was crying like hell . But personally I can not remember it happaning because I was 4 or 5 years old . <| sep |> It ' s my favorite ! Or at least the real one is <| sep |> My side from I 10 to 45 only has auto . <| sep |> So glad to give a little bit of positivity here to chat whenever ! Wishing all the best ! !