Do you like Dire Straits ? You should listen to Telegraph Road . Times are changing , Willie and his shine box are going away . The sooner you accept that life changes the easier it will be for you . Sell your house , your assets , borrow money from your family and purchase the land there . Lease it back to Willie for $ 1 month . You want to help him right ? It starts with you . <| sep |> I ' ve heard teachers say , She doesn ' t seem the ADHD type at all to me . She just doesn ' t do her work and loses everything . She just needs to put in more effort and be more organised . It was a statement exactly like this that led me to my own diagnosis at age 47 , after I ' d been teaching for 25 years . I looked up the characteristics of an ADHD to help better inform that colleague , and I almost passed out that description should have had my picture beside it . The diagnosis was confirmed by my physician .