Tara is definitely a fatty <| sep |> Ahora si , gracias . <| sep |> That is a . <| sep |> Presumably you like care about your girlfriend , and if this is part of her behavior carefree then curtailing it seems like a counterintuitive thing . If she isn ' t going to fuck other people , that ' s a solid guarantee she isn ' t going to cheat as she understands it , and as you mostly seem to understand . It seems to me you ' re both upset that she did it without thinking you might be upset by it , and also you ' re a little upset that it happened . You ' ve admitted if she ' d let you know prepared you beforehand you ' d have been less upset . Tell her that don ' t tell her necessarily to stop it altogether , but say Hey , I wasn ' t prepared for this feeling so I ' m a bit upset , it was a bit out of the blue and I felt a bit betrayed doesn ' t mean don ' t ever do it again , just means we need to talk about these jealousy feelings before anything like that happens again , just to clarify what ' s alright . and if she does mind , maybe that ' s a sign you ' re not super compatible , or need to have more clarification in communication to find what ' s right . How about thisShe tells you , now , that she might from time to time get naked in games or activities like this but she explains why she does it , it ' s for whatever her reasons are . And then says Is that chill ? Cause I like doing that , and as far as I define cheating , that isn ' t it . Would that be more acceptable ? Feelings are signals they say Hey , I need something ! ! If you ' re feeling a bit jealous , and also a bit neglected here she didn ' t tell you about things that she should ' ve known bothered you til after she did them you ' ve gotta suss out what the need is under the feelings . Do you want her to never be nude around anyone else , ever , or do you more want her to reconfirm she ' s not doing it to fuck other people ? Are you a little conservative ? Some people are more conservative than others , and explaining this might make it so you both go about this sort of thing more slowly til you find the right spot . Maybe she still plays striptease or whatever , but it ' s only after you ' ve talked a few more times and you know it ' s innocent , etc . Anyhow , OP , good luck . Avoid the trolls and horrible advice , I hope .