Feed that man <| sep |> Well Lexy ' s response is just what Zed expected . No surprise . <| sep |> I never liked how J ! 6 is presented as multiple choice . <| sep |> I ' ll play with you . I usually play dva and symmetra tho but I can play healers and have been practicing my Ana game <| sep |> It ' s interesting that many men feel that way ! I ' d love to hear more from them about this . A women who is sweet to them , but a bitch to everyone else would be unattractive ? Well , I have stopped dating some women and ended friendships over this , so speaking for myself , yes . What is it about that , that would off putting , while a man who is nice to a woman but an asshole to everyone is still attractive to her ? It ' s funny . A few years ago my answer would have been That ' s because women suck . They don ' t care how he treats others because she , as a woman , is selfish and only cares about how he treats her . She doesn ' t care about other people , so she won ' t care about how he treats them . But my view was changed . I talked with a female friend about it and then thought about it a lot . Not judging somebody seems to be a way for women to show loyalty and closeness . Like you are my friendmy bf and I won ' t judge you for doing something bad to others to show how much you mean to me . That ' s basically what she said . And as logically as it sounds , I could have never come up with that explanation for myself , because in my circle of friends we show loyalty by holding each other to very high standards . If one of my friends acts morally questionable we will judge him harsher than somebody we are not friends with . We basically say you are my friendgf so I will judge you . Hope that makes sense .