Keep the side length and grow out the top . I am honestly a fan of not having a specific style per se and instead keeping in a controlled mess . <| sep |> I ' m hoping you at least acknowledge some of my criticism towards your personality , and realize that they exist for a reason , and are most likely opinions others have . There ' s a reason everyone always jump on you for slight mistakes and take things you say out of context . Its because you can be , or rather , are annoying . Dont just accept that as a part of your personality though . Try and better yourself , think before you post , actually try to follow others line of thought , and dont just spew garbage . You need to seriously reflect on yourself and actually think about what you say and how it may come across to other people .