Okay that makes sense . Sounds like fix is the right choice . Thanks for the advice <| sep |> I just read a few of your recent comments , dayum . I almost went down the T path and without TRP I might ' ve . I found it during the same Summer I threw my career away for my oneitis . all TRP truths confirmed then stopped me in my tracks . I confided in a close friend that maybe I was a girl because my behavior is so feminine , not long before I tried to finally win my oneitis . This friend , not oneitis , is a solid gold female friend . AWALT in mating strategy but women can be solid people no matter what TRP says . She didn ' t discourage it but just heard me out with no encouragement thank god . Friends of a friend from college are going down that path and it ' s increasingly clear to our mutual open minded friend that this shit is a mental illness . Thanks for sharing your experience man , lots of vulnerable men out therehere need to hear this stuff in a world pushing for normalizationbefore preschool now , eg . with Safe Schools program , barf . Cheers bropost story former oneitis is now a long distance plate who is TRP aware , winnnnnn