I wish it worked on people too . <| sep |> I should have included it in the post , sorry . He said that neither I nor he knew about it , to which his mother replied that she communicated with me and not with him she didn ' t . He was calling me to confirm , since he wants to have a conversation with his mother about it , and just wanted to make sure she did not talk to me . <| sep |> You . Have . Friends . Obviously they see something in you . Downplay yourself all you want , but you ' re lying to yourself . And nobody said you have to have sex . But you don ' t have to be skiddish around girls . You have value dude . Just be you . Everyone talks about NEEDING to find common ground . You really don ' t . Just be yourself , and like minds follow . But putting yourself down is lying to yourself .