Usually just skip the address all together . Where people would say hello sir , how can I help you ? we would say hi , how can I help you ? instead of one moment sir , I ' ll be right with you we say one moment , I ' ll be right with you even then , depending on the location that kind of talk might be considered too formal . <| sep |> I would hope that you haven ' t been abused ! That would be sad . However ! There is something to be said about the popping while being penned to the ground to have something so painful , released . And you don ' t have to yell geez . It ' s not sick . It ' s not sad . It ' s pain . And as a Human Being , you Will have pain . Living is not for the weak and closed mindedness of coddled children . I will end this conversation now . But remember ! I bare no ill will . Be well and stop bring drama !