Mine feels like that sometimes , I ' m not sure what to do about it . I definitely play with it , but I never ever touch it to my teeth . <| sep |> I play like this . Though usually it means I miss % 90 of my shots . <| sep |> So he ' s talking about getting drunk and cheating <| sep |> The Championship spent more on transfers than Ligue 1 this past window . <| sep |> There ' s a difference between male and female friends . I ' ve had female friends before . They sap the life out of you . I ' m not saying that to sound sexist or like a dude , I ' m just saying it plainly . In scenarios like the OP , the girl is just leading him on . It ' s the guy ' s fault too , he should recognize that he ' s in a losing situation and opt out , but at a young age you have to fail in those situations and then learn from it . She doesn ' t owe anyone anything , but neither does he . It ' s absolutely his fault . But at the same time she ' s not being a normal friend , she ' s getting way too close . Men don ' t operate that way . Just look at a typical man and his friends . I ' m nowhere near that close even to my best friend , and I would jump in front of a bullet for him . When a woman puts that much emotional energy onto a guy , he ' s going to take it to heart and let it get to his head especially at a young age it ' s just how we work . Men don ' t have nearly the level of social skill and finesse that women possess . Women are people , you ' re using weird arguments . But theres a difference between having a friend that ' s a girl and a girl that ' s trying to take your life over without giving any support or intimacy in return .