yep and nothing helpful <| sep |> I mean , why is anyone here ? <| sep |> Long term , it probably is worth it for women to settle , which most of them did historically , but getting over that hump of actually doing it is hard . That ' s probably true , especially if she was very attractive at one time , and didn ' t use it to help secure her future , and now is approchaing or has hit the wall . <| sep |> I don ' t want to keep coping with life ' s problems . I feel my coping days are over . Yet I cannot find the strength to put an end to it . So I guess I ' ll have to cope until death takes me , hopefully in middle age . I DO NOT wish to cope with crippling old age . <| sep |> Yes . People pretty much give acceptance speeches for internet points . WOW this blew up ! I can ' t believe my most upvoted comment is about . Literally no one cares .