Throw some xanax on top of that booze and while you ' re way my likely to piss the bed , you ' re way less likely to care about it when you wake up . <| sep |> And both against Felix . <| sep |> Seriously . There ' s something honestly fishy about this whole story . How is it that your wife is having an absolute meltdown about you seeing your family and you ' can ' t even remember the issues '? I think here ' s something you ' re not telling us . You ' ve said My wife feels very threatened by my familyShe feels that they gossip about her and not loved by them . she feels a lot of pain from my family . And you don ' t know how this began or where it ' s coming from ? And how do you know those things are minor things when you don ' t even remember what they are ? You ' re using a lot of vague language and glossing over a lot of stuff . My wife feels very threatened by my family . She feels that they gossip about her and not loved by them . Hearing about this my family wants to talk with her to it resolve this , but she refuses to meet . Sooo . where exactly did they hear that she feels threatened and that they gossip about her ? Did you tell them that ? Did you tell your family your wife ' s personal feelings without her prompting ? Because that is basically gossiping about your wife to your family . You ' re either oblivious or there ' s something you ' re not telling us . Your wife ' s reaction is very disproportionate and I think she might need some kind of psychiatric intervention , unless there ' s something you ' re not sharing and she ' s losing her mind and feeling like you ' re not listening to her which you may very well be as you sound absolutely clueless and baffled by the whole thing . I just don ' t understand why your first suggestion to your wife ' s issue is her father passing away a freaking decade ago and not something that happened 23 years ago with your siblings that you supposedly don ' t remember .