I wouldn ' t have even known about it if it wasn ' t posted here . I usually avoid rall like the ~~ plaque ~~ plague , ha . But 18 posts about the same earthquake are okay . <| sep |> There is still sex . I just don ' t agree that the LL should have to meet the HL person , which I feel this sub advocates . <| sep |> That ' s plausible in general but I don ' t think in her case . We were family friends and both extremely conservative Christians I ' m recovering , dunno what she ' s up to , plus she seemed really truly devastated that I would do such a thing . But now that you mention it , two things come to mind . Her brother my age had access to both locations , and while he wasn ' t a mean guy I was dating his little sister , so yeah . And also she dated a friend of mine later . Maybe this was a frameup from one of those two .