Let ' s just enjoy our own ride and appreciate whatever pick we end up with . I just hate rooting against the Nets on a regular basis , they ' re a fun team to watch this year with likable players . <| sep |> Wait . So now you ' re turning on CNN ? Have we reached cannibalism ? It amazes me the willingness to blame EVERYTHING else instead of considering you are the problem . <| sep |> One of my favorite philosophical accounts of romantic love and love in general likened it to musical improvisation in jazz bands . Where you have two artists improving off each other . Each is fundamentally apart and distinct from the other but each is intertwined with the other . When one makes a move A the other might respond with move B , invoking C in the first players and so on and so on . Neither player knows what the other will do but there is still an expectation . Each player is aligned in their goals and so long as they continue to align as they develop they remain in harmony . The goals , the end results , the performance , are decided on as they play the music , the goal changes as they play and react to each other . Romantic love , I think , is quite a lot like that . So although it might look irrational their is a particular type of rationality to it .