He always been bitter against us cause he couldn ' t make the grade and got released <| sep |> But . brotherly love . <| sep |> We ' ve been offside a few times tonight including for the goal , so fair enough really . <| sep |> I don ' t think you ' re an asshole but you were very presumptive and that was your mistake . From the sounds of it you aren ' t entitled to leave early and it was at the discretion of your boss . They had every right to keep you until your usual time . I have found a similar thing with people that have worked under me if I give them something they expect it and more next time . Sorry but that isn ' t always possible . If you had asked what the plan was earlier , you could have planned yourself appropriately and then your ride wouldn ' t have been kept waiting . Perhaps you felt you couldn ' t ask , this would have been a failure of management to be approachable and accommodating . In either case , any issue your transport had was yours .