Exactly . We need to worry about pizzagate and where is assange . There are rumors something big happens in 23 days . <| sep |># YOU ' RE A FUCKING HETEROCHROMIC MAPLE LEAF <| sep |> I ' m not really sure what I need to do . If the abuse is ongoing keeps recurring over and over , then you need to intervene . Doesn ' t sound like that is the case . If the abuse is NOT ongoing , the best thing you can do for S is to let her decide how to handle it , and support her . If that means not talking about it much , go with that . If it means pretending it didn ' t happen , go with that . If it means raising a stink , or trying to get her cousin prosecuted , support her in that . One of the key things about rape , and also about sexual assault as was reported to you , is that the victim can feel powerless . Making their own decision about how to handle it is a small step in regaining that power . Also , creating a stink about such an allegation can make one ' s life extremely difficult imposing that on someone without them making the choice is not a good thing . On the other hand , if the abuse recurs , that is a whole different story under that circumstance I would choose to intervene in one fashion or another .