The simple way to do this is allow legendaries with ridiculous stats to spawn very rarely . You could customize your entire build around your super item should you find it . <| sep |> if i have the energy i tell people that of course we get attached to the kids , and that people who dont get attached maybe shouldnt be fostering . i point out that im fostering because there are kids who need a safe place to sleep and the pain i suffer when the kids move on is a very small price to pay for the positives hopefully that the child gets from their time with me . <| sep |> Any question really , I find people have a pretty high level of responding due to the common courtesy of answering a question . Also the way you ask a question just opens up an opportunity for conversation . The intonation and eye contact you have after you ask got the time ? or something can lead to you , depending on how busyaffronted they seem , to going on and making conversation .