fun pub game are we still talking about dota ? <| sep |> Being unable to romantically engage with people you are sexually attracted to due to social hangups about trannies is something I feel sympathy for . Look , I am certainly not condoning her actions and I think it ' s a pretty shitty thing to do , tbh . That being said , I couldn ' t imagine what it would be like to constantly be rejected by the sex I ' m attracted to due to me being trans . I don ' t buy that people who get sexual reassignment surgery are just trying to get attention . Going through that procedure is an arduous process to say the least . That being said , I ALSO sympathize with the guy . I ' ve already said that I would have probably reacted in a similar way . At the end of the day , I just think this is a shitty situation . I think she acted out of turn by burning him on social media , but I think she probably has it worse than the guy . I ' ve been labelled transphobic more times than I can count it hasn ' t hurt me all that much . Having to live with constant rejection by the people you ' re attracted to is a much worse fate . So , while I don ' t condone her actions , I can forgive them a little bit . Don ' t see a bad guy here . Just a shitty situation