Lana from Archer . <| sep |> That could work but then wingmates would just wait 24 hours then get the free kill . <| sep |> Why can ' t he come first ? Because he falls asleep 3 minutes later and will lose all interest for hours . Because you will need a few minutes to recover then can go again . Because he ' s an easy orgasm , you aren ' t . He really needs to stop masturbating or at least reduce it . 90 % chance he ' s doing it nearly daily or more . That ' s taking all of his sexual desire out of the relationship . He has to want to put in the time and learn . Sometimes no matter how good he is , you just won ' t be in the right headspace . It happens . Distractions help lighting , music , lots of foreplay , spanking , whatever it takes .