shoot it from your chair <| sep |> Guess what ? I ' ll probably end up doing all of this stuff by myself because I care about our guests , and I love my husbandHow is teaching your husband that being an asshole gets him what he wants an act of love ? You ' re doing him a disservice by making him think it ' s ok . He ' s becoming a worse person . Not to mention you ' re also doing yourself a disservice . Go enjoy your party tomorrow night . <| sep |> I honestly think the death penalty shouldnt be viewed as a revenge . Its a form of recompense . In certain situations its wholly necessary and in others it isnt . Of course , if this were to happen to me I would want her tortured for life , but I dont see that as rational or helping the situation and that would purely be because I would be driven by my emotions at that time . When people say , 2 wrongs dont make a right , or implying that taking vengeance wont bring them back , they are correct and I agree , but I think its a mistake to refer to the death penalty in this way . These 2 things cannot be equated . The way I see it , a life full of torment is what they really mean when they utter the aforementioned phrases . Giving someone life in jail or torture as a punishment for killing someone , or whatever that ' s what seems irrational to me . Death isnt torture or torment . why waste your time , energy and resources on something as petty as that ? She can either be alive and in jail or alive and free , and in either situation you can never truly move on . Thats why its always been a false dichotomy to me .