try rSampleSize , it ' s an entire sub dedicated to people who don ' t mind filling out polls . <| sep |> She ghosted you because she ' s a fucking heroin addict . She ' s an exaddict . Stop tying people to their past . She ' s now living a clean and successful life . She ghosted me while she was clean . I ' m pretty sure she still is clean too . She now has a house , a decent job , and a 2014 car . Most heroin addicts can ' t afford all that shit and hold down a job . Nobody thinks you ' re cool for hanging out with druggies , dude . She isn ' t anymore . But people thought I was cool by hanging out with a very sociable , fairly attractive woman . Stop pinning this on women . Women have not caused this problem . Yes they have . I never get matches on Tinder , I never get messages back on OKCupid , and women don ' t approach me anymore at parties . It is absolutely women ' s fault that I hate myself .