I just started having to pay for car insurance and utilities all while living with my father and I ' m 21 . I ' m going to school and working and I still can hardly pay those bills . I can ' t imagine what it ' s like to live by myself or with a roommate with so many fucking bills . <| sep |> I can live with that so long as they never sink the ship in canon , either . <| sep |> Played solo and with one friend , all fine but when it came to raiding I decided to join a clan . I have also dipped my toe in to the world of weird websites as you call them . Lfg has so far been ok for me . Never too late to start , make your own lfg post asking for a refer a friend quest buddy as a brand new guardian . Look at the bungie website for full instructions . Guardians will offer help and there will be some exclusive loot .