Ahh , sadly I ' m on NA . I ' ve also had a hard time doing em the only times I did it with friends , they pretty much fucked up the runs lol . Good luck ! <| sep |> Totally . It ' s just a day on the calendar . We can have family time any day of the year . The first and best step I ever took towards NC was this one , and it was liberating . The first few years of this stance I made sure to get out of town on the actual holiday dates , just to make sure there were no surprise drop ins or calls insisting I come over . Ooooh , sorry , nope ! I ' m four states away ! Even when I was flat broke I ' d get on a bus to visit a friend way out of town . <| sep |> I ' m sure I ' ll get shit for this but I love Fever Pitch with Jimmy Fallon and Drew Berrymore