Yes , as long the person you are trying to marry is single . <| sep |> It ' s about how they were raised . If they had grown up in the 40 s , or any other suitably challenging time they wouldn ' t be like that because they ' d be off fighting a war or helping provide for the family . They grew up in a very safe environment . No real struggles . Always had mommy and daddy to fall back on . Never lost at anything because schools and kids sports teams don ' t have losers anymore . They were parented with sensitivity . Bubble wrapped kids with helicopter parents . And they have never learned what manual labor is like . In short , they ' re whiney entitled cunts and they should try picking up an ax . <| sep |> I ' ll do walking or laying meditation when I can ' t take the pain of sitting . Sometimes when the pain is really bad I ' ll use it as the focus on my meditation .