Since I ' m Canadian and we had thanks giving back in October the Dinner conversation was about how much the Canucks suck this year and who we should support once they are inventively eliminated from the playoffs if they even make it . We decided we shall shift our alliance to what ever Canadian team is left Jets , Leafs , Oilers , Canadians , Flames , or Senators then to Pittsburgh , if they are eliminated then to who ever is not the Black hawks , Kings or Bruins . And yes I know it ' s only November and the play offs aren ' t until April . <| sep |> You ' re really milking this joke aren ' t you <| sep |> Hmm , that ' s a little too 90 s for my tastes but it ' s in the size range I ' m interested in . <| sep |> Rape victims have the decision to disclose , to seek prosecution . Right , they can report a crime to the police , but the police or a prosecutor depending on jurisdiction decide whether to bring charges . Rape is the only crime where we assess a victim ' s responsibilityAre you kidding me ? Selfdefense is an immediate counterexample . Someone is injured or killed but because of something they did , their assailant is not guilty of a crime . There are other examples that are more directly analogous the most obvious is harassment unwanted social contact is only harassment if you tell someone to stop contacting you . If you don ' t tell them to stop they haven ' t committed a crime . This is because social contact , like sexual contact , is not inherently harmful unlike being threatened or subject to violence , so it ' s important for the law to carefully examine whether the instigator knew or should have known that the contact was unwelcome .