Don ' t forget we also got a first rounder <| sep |> Sweet what orgs you guys in <| sep |> It ' s not going to be alright you ' re about to have a very big struggle just to tread water in life . <| sep |> Party structure has kind of collapsed . <| sep |> Hi ! Well first is very important to keep a leveled head now , this is top 3 in the shit girls do that make no sense so beware it ' ll probably never make any sense to you . You have two options actually 3 but the third is lower the head and keep status quo , so fuck the third 1 . Go Sneaky , do it the Lorne Michaels Way , say she is right , tell her that is ok with you , and you agree , but keep on talking flirty stuff , tell her she looks great and ask her if she is happy with you around her , tell her that you are kind of insecure , tell her that you love being around her , mirror her attitudes physically , make her laught and keep it very funny and interesting but clearly flirty . DONT BE RAPEY , just being there , causing trouble in her head odds are she ' ll fall and or give you an open if you stretch that in the right way . 2 . Be upfront , tell her that you are kind of hooked , that you would love to be with her , and try something , tell her that you clearly see she is interested , and that because some deuce fucked her over you have to pay the bill don ' t seem like a fair friendship . you need to cut her off because you are hurting with this situation . If she likes you a little at least , you both would try something , she would try . you dont promise to be perfect , you dont promise the perfect relationship , you promise youll try to be with her and for her . and that ' s it . if she don ' t bite and goes for the nuke , is fine . cut her of socially , but be friendly , be fair and keep a life that she would love to have with you can ' t stress this part enough . this is the long game if you really are into her You need to be hurt by her , but keep a life that looks enjoyable from her pov . at the end , normally she ' ll reconnect and open up to it . or now you can implement plan 1 Hope this serves you well did for me at least two times , both plans n 2 first and then n 1 has a hail mary . and consider this the only way out of the friendzone , hope she becomes a great girl and both of you have a meaningful and rich relationship , or at least you don ' t have a very bad time doing all of this .