So anyway , multiple times throughout the day today I enforced my feelings about the fact that I DONT WANT TO BE SEXUAL WHILE IM AT WORK and we can have sex later after my shift and I ' ve expressed how tired I am and how stressed I am to get all my work done before the long holiday weekend . She is allowed to eat lunch with her SO and not get touched sexually after saying she does not want to be touched sexually . He does not get to have 247 access to her body just because she is in the house . <| sep |> Well now society has moved on , and most would not count being able to catch a bus as a luxury but , in many cases as a necessity . Times change and I think it ' s reasonable for us to change our expectations along with them . Social participation now could include the cinema , enough money to eat out or go to the pub , even go on trips away . We have legislation to guarantee paid time off after all , so clearly there ' s an expectation we use it on some kind of holiday .