It got sniped . <| sep |> If you run a business that cuts corner by using leadbased paint in your product , and everybody quits buying from your business and thereby stops you from running said business , has your business been made illegal ? <| sep |> You should try harder to be funny . <| sep |> So he ' s a man that Is much older than you . Is unable or unwilling to become more responsible . Is manipulating you . Is interfering with your family life . Blames you for his personal problems . Doesn ' t enjoy or has difficulty having sex with you . The answer to this one should be so , so clear . There ' s nothing necessarily wrong with being depressed , living with your parents or entering a relationship with an age gap . But in combination they create a situation that you should not be obliged to tolerate for the sake of sentimental feelings about the relationship . You need to end this . So long as you handle the breakup properly I don ' t think you should be concerned about helping him at the age of 31 he is in a much better position to take care of himself . You sure don ' t owe the guy favors .