They are conspiracies and they ' re bullshit lol <| sep |> It ' s like when your dad yells or puts his foot down like that . I was lucky enough to have a father kinda like Kev gentle , calm , loving , funny . However in the rare instance he lost it and raised his voice , it is fucking scary . Nothing like my mom yelling at me . He got all big , literally , in stature , his demeanour completely changed and I actually felt scared . Under an evolutionary framework this makes sense . When men get truly angry , they have the strength and mass to kill you . That ' s why when Kev yelled I MEAN IT everyone in the group shut the fuck up , listened to him . Vee was like ok . When a gentle giant like that gets mad , everyone shuts up and listens . Source of evolutionary stuff is me , psyc degree , took classes on evolutionary psychology