This is actually a valid point , Lakota soldiers have served with honor . <| sep |> I ' ve had people explain to me that saying the nword itself isn ' t racist , because even white people can be ns . How ' s that for missing racial tone ? <| sep |> You are not alone ! My mother in law who I love and respect very much is dropping the question whenever possible . One time we went to a shoe store and I couldn ' t deciede between 2 sizes I have weird feed she said quite loud take the bigger ones when you are pregnant your feed will grow then she turn to the person who worked in the store and says we really hope for grandchildren it ' s time . <| sep |> Which is why US service is so bad customer pissed off ? Don ' t assume there was a reason and try to make things better , add them to an enemy list and make it worse .