Go to rthathappened <| sep |> I don ' t think it meant what you think it did . It sounds rather harmless , it was not like she was ditched by a guy she was crazy in love with and with whom she used to have the best sex of her life . I think you are seeing it as such due to your current sexual frustration , and you want some excuse in order to be able to think of other possibilities beyond your marriage without guilt . But yeah , it ' s perfectly normal to feel that way , you just want to feel lived and desired , and just not taken for granted . I am afraid that may be a rocky road though . Visit rdeadbedrooms to see what your odds are here . <| sep |> I ' m dealing with five , seven , nine , ten and seventeen year old nieces an nephew this week while visiting my family for Thanksgiving . I can ' t deal with so much loose enemy and currently hiding in the guest bedroom pretending to be sleeping in . HOW DO YOU DEAL WITH THEM ?