It really sucks being the SG and then watching a sibling not get crushed the way Nparents do to CON ' s . My brother is now a junior in high school we are ten years apart . ANY college he wants to go to . and ANY field he wants to be a freaking cryptozoologist . is just wonderful to them . I could never bow down to what they wanted , had a relative ready toEven pay for school . I decided to travel , and learned a lot about life ' s lessons , different cultures , AND business . That will just have to be enough for me , and them lol I commend you for at least having a career though , to be honest . I am now a mother , and sure I learned a lot , but it would have been nice to have a career in back up . <| sep |> Too bad the EC determines the winner and has for 225 years .