Shout out to everyone whose families have already broken out in politics arguments <| sep |> Fair enough . Either way it ' s not like those calls are deciding the outcome . <| sep |> Thank you for listening . <| sep |> I wouldn ' t mention it to anyone but spouse and then let it go . I have a similar story said no one was allowed to come . One of our best friends , a man , works at the hospital and showed up in scrubs with his id badge on to say hi on way into delivery . I had a csection so he couldn ' t follow us into surgery but was there again when we got out . He got to see what no one else did not even my mom . I was pissed at the time . I let it go . He ' s still one of our best friends and was here just last night . The point is , shit happens , it ' s in the past and cannot be undone no matter what they say or apologize for , so try to accept it and let it go .