I ' m aiming to save towards 20 k for a deposit but apparently unless you and your SO have a combined income of 40 k you can ' t really get a loan for a place , would you be able to elaborate please ? <| sep |> A piece of carbon fibre <| sep |> Are you sad people going to do this for the next 4 years ? <| sep |> Happy thanksgiving ! Working 4 am 3 pm tomorrow . Hope it goes smoothly ! <| sep |> I don ' t think this has much to do with how people dress as much as it has to do with the kind of social interactions these men typically seek out and have with one another . Sometimes , when I ' m not trying to say the politically correct thing , I think a deeper rooted issue is that a lot of gay men are more prone to mental illness . I ' ve been through it myself and I think many men are struggling with their own mental health but fear rejection and never face it correctly .