I do think white Americans have grown far away enough from their roots to have a unique identity . <| sep |> I too have PCOS , and let me tell you , you do have options . It ' s not going to 100 % fix everything and make you look exactly like how you want to look , but it will make things better . Talk with your doctor . See what options there are . You may need to see a specialist too , but there are options . And as for the boyfriend thing , fear of losing someone will absolutely and utterly destroy your relationship . If he ' s been with you this long and still loves you and regularly shows that , then he ' ll stick around . Don ' t let your fears get the best of you , they will eat you alive . Just love him in return , and try to focus on the good things about your relationship .