Ever heard of inheritance or nepotism ? <| sep |> I ' m not advocating him judging you for being in the closet , but I really hope you have more empathy than this for someone whose partner can ' t validate their relationship publicly and who won ' t enjoy the subculture that supports them and the freedom of their lifestyle . I ' d never ever date someone in the closet because it ' s an enormous burden as a notinthecloset queer person . And someone having disdain for every aspect of gay subculture would be really incompatible with me . Maybe that ' s how your ex felt too . <| sep |> I disagree re the flu arc and Tara , but I ' m so happy that finally someone else liked the tank scene . <| sep |> Suicide don ' t solve anything , it just transfers the pain you had onto someone else bro . Life is about highs and lows man , im at a low right now as well but stay positive friend