Yea that ' s exactly it . It was on discovery kids . <| sep |> Sounds like your wife is the problem <| sep |> I know what they are . They ' re doctrines . They ' re not part of the Constitution . <| sep |> Was there heavy smoking involved ? MY group of friends has done that . Living room table ? <| sep |> Thanks ! Glad to help <| sep |> i wear hipsters and bikinis but I think I ' m gonna stick with hipsters for a while . <| sep |> you mean red ' s hat . ash isnt in the game <| sep |> This series is the best vanilla there is . You who haven ' t seen it are in for a good ride . <| sep |> Best to get them used to pain <| sep |> But shouldn ' t I have some say in how we spend our holidays at this point ? Holidays are a time for families we ' re in a serious longterm adult relationship . I guess it begs the question of whether your boyfriend sees you as family yet . If so , then yes , you should get a say but you should also be more generous gracious and support his decision to spend Christmas with his family if being together over the holidays is important which I understand , it is to me , then you could offer to go with or even insist on going with . To give you some perspective , my boyfriend and I always spend the holidays together but a couple years ago , my parents were flying from overseas to visit us and celebrate with him . His dad had cancer and was deteriorated though so we decided that he should go spend it with his family and I had to stay to host my parents . Likewise , my mother is now sick and upon realizing we couldn ' t go together for Christmas , he offered that I could go alone I declined though as spending Christmas together is important to me , like I said , and I was able to visit at different dates . Now I realize that a grandparent isn ' t as important but still . Approaching this with a spirit of empathy will help .