Most people are selfish , inconsiderate , and clueless . It ' s actually making me feel pretty good , constantly having my viewpoint reinforced like this . Please , keep commenting . But tell me how you really feel . <| sep |> The holidays are coming earlier and earlier every year . <| sep |> besides the overall tone of ass kissing spez and claiming moral high ground ? The last comment . That was the damning one . <| sep |> So , my ex dumped me back in January for the same reason . We had been dating for 4 years , and I really thought I was going to marry her . It ' s been a rough year . But here ' s my best piece of advice Spend as much time as you can with your friends and family . Spending time by yourself can sometimes be therapeutic depending on your mood , but a lot of times after a breakup it can only make you more sad . Your friends and family are there to remind you that life moves on , and you ' ll always have them by your side . Hang with them , have a boardgame night , go out and HAVE FUN ! You deserve happiness . It ' s going to suck for a while , but remember You don ' t miss her , you just miss that feeling that came with being with her . With the right attitude , you ' ll find someone way better for you You got this .