You have definitely made me think over my opinion of the gauntlet . I have never been in the military or witnessed any other form hazing . <| sep |> spoilers He actually got tossed across the room by Yunalesca while on his journey with Braska and Jecht . <| sep |> I like rTD . I like it because it ' s a fucking containment sub , and if it were banned the cancer would metastasise to other subs . <| sep |> Could be , also just natural variations in personality . I can very impulsive , eg we ' re in a new country we haven ' t visited before and I see a sign for Cobra Village . My interest is wholly fixated on this and I run toward the Cobra Village , with no thought for the fact I ' ve left my husband behind and we haven ' t arranged a rendezvous , have no working mobile phones and no way to contact each other , and I am just gone . I wish I had that freedom I am a free roam tourist as well , but I can only be free when I am with nobody . However , when I am dealing with nonrecreative stuff , I plan to excess . My mother ' s a great planner and she ' s highly organised , and my ADD takes that part of me to a timeguzzling level of excessive planning . The Borderline will use the sounding board to vent , the more emotionally intelligent will use it to reality test , to gain perspective , to understand patterns and try to glean meaning from the issues they discuss . It can be hard to see where debriefing ends and venting begins . Ok , I always felt like our therapist was oddly quick to notice that something was off about my wife . My wife only complains about me during therapy . When it was my turn , I would retell a story in order to get feedback as to what happened . I also now realize that our therapist is waiting for my wife to stop complaining and start talking . It ' s disappointing that therapy is so expensive and that I can ' t pay for many private sessions Couple ' s therapy is already expensive enough .