Actually that was distance between crew changes and refuelling coal . Water stops were more frequent , about 3040 miles IIRC . <| sep |> Then let her leave . Seriously . Sounds like she refuses to be near your family for either no reason , or a very petty one , and not only that , she is attempting to isolate you from your family , which is controlling and abusive behavior . Then she has a tantrum and rolls around on the floor ? She sounds severely mentally unhinged . She needs therapy stat , and if she won ' t go , then you should go without her to navigate having to put up with her . <| sep |> there is an error adding you as a friend , maybe you can try <| sep |> It was over on Monday . <| sep |> Interesting take on the Dornishman ' s Wife . I always imagined it as more of an upbeat , celebration of my awesome life kind of song , rather than a sad lamentation of death .