Relax . Relax . RELAX . Focus on how you feel and what he ' s doing . Are you enjoying it ? Position yourself or do whatever things you like to do to feel good . I used to fake it with every guy until I met my current boyfriend . What helped me to change with him was our relationship growing stronger and both of us learning what the other likes . I also suggest masturbating alone sometimes so you can know what it ' s like and just get comfortable with your body orgasming . Some women stop when things get intense and I always wonder why ? Also foreplay and lube if you need it . I find that I need some foreplay for ten minutes before sex to kind of loosen me up . <| sep |> No problem ! I had to reread a lot of stuff english and portuguese to figure this one out .