You still have LOADS of characters to meet and current characters will grow . Save the revival as long as you can , hopefully until you ' re done ! It ' ll make the revival more exciting . <| sep |> Take it to a body shop if you can . Truth be told , iv manhandled ma h doors like this back into shape well , close enough anyways , just gotta be careful . I roll down the window , place my knee against the door panel and pull the top of the door to me just a bit . Little bit at a time till you get it good . An old truck was to try to slide a notecard along the weatherstripping when the door is closedifnit slides easily , it needs adjustment <| sep |> Notice how the camera zoomed on his face to keep it out of view ? <| sep |> Any advice would be much appreciated ! I think you need to see the video to get a better sense of the context of what happened . It sounds a bit like she was kissed unwillingly if she said your name and slapped him , and she would have seen that as well . yet she chose to tell you she cheated instead . Regardless , basically you have a GF who enjoys telling you about other guys who flirt with her , how hot they are , to get you jealous and get a reaction out of you which happened enough that it ' s a habit , and now she crossed yet another line . It doesn ' t sound like she ' s much of a catch mate . I ' m torn between understanding the situation and the notion that in an LDR trust is one of the most important things to have next to communication . Respect should definitely be right alongside both of those too . Now , it ' s good that she immediately came clean to you about what happened , many others prefer to keep it secret . Some folks would say that should count for something and they ' d be right , but not really towards the relationship . More towards her own selfimprovement . You asked her to drink responsibly , and she didn ' t . Honestly , it doesn ' t look like things will end well for you if you decide to stay . But , that ' s your choice mate . If you want to continue with the relationship , you need to communicate about all this , about boundaries , and so on . She needs to show you that she ' s willing too , and go above and beyond at winning your trust back . Curbing or stopping her drinking should be very first step at this point . Approach this in a way that lets her decide what to do don ' t suggest these steps to her , she needs to offer them to you . That ' s the only way to see if she ' s serious about the relationship and serious about working things out . Understand that if she really did cheat on you , and you decide to forgive her quickly without any meaningful consequences or measures in place , she ' ll see that a defacto permission to cheat . Then , things will just progress in future , because hey , you ' ll just forgive her anyway .