There are two equally valid stances in your situation . Th first is the obvious one . You don ' t like it . Well , don ' t do it then . All over on the other side on the scale is the other one . He likes it , so you should do it for him . Your preferred stance is and should be the first one . He is somewhere deep within leaning towards the second alternative . You need to figure out if there is a way for you to lean over more towards his side and I ' m not saying that you should do it often or even if you should at all now and then and enjoy doing that for him . Because that is the key element to it . Unless you enjoy it , it will do more harm than good for you to do it . Enjoy it or don ' t do it . You can read the other posts about various alternatives you might have forgotten to think about in your distaste for the general idea and see if you can bend your mind around a situation that would work for you , or if you can ' t . Remember that if you feel uncomfortable having him in your mouth , you can always try to do things where he gets to experience your lips and your tongue without actually being between your teeth . I ' m not saying that this should work either , but it very well can . Either way , he needs to know that he will ruin everything for himself if he tries to push you into anything . So go have that talk with him . And then pick an occasion when you really feel like trying instead of an occasion when you really have to convince yourself that it is a good idea . If you want to do this , it has to come from a genuine joy in doing it . For whichever reason you can find . But that is key to it . Enjoy it or don ' t do it . Then when you enjoy it , come back and we will give you all the pointers you need to get good at it .