I ' m looking to settle down in the longterm , but not really marriage as It ' s a big responsibility . I don ' t put a timeline on it though . I mean , I want something serious , but if it only lasts a year because of certain issues that pop up that ' s totally fine . I hate casual sex and don ' t involve myself in casual dating if there ' s no hope for more . I ' d rather we be upfront about what we ' re looking for so we don ' t waste each other ' s time . I won ' t call you a horndog or think less of you for being blunt about wanting something casual , I ' ll just state we are not compatible and you should look elsewhere . <| sep |> Just think how many tendies he can afford now . <| sep |> So ? Still wouldn ' t change the fact that Coquelin would be chasing shadows . Harry Arter will have to do then .