Got it ! Thanks for clarifying ! <| sep |> I guess I should specify that it ' s the idea of gender as a binary that is a lie . Our westerncolonial idea of only two genders is very limited , and numerous indigenous cultures who had a more accurate understanding of it were victims of imperialism and were either killed off like in the Americas or were assimilated into our gender binary . Also , the idea that gender somehow has to do with what genitals you have is based in bad science and represents a big misunderstanding of biology and psychology . Both sexual and gender binarism simply don ' t exist but they ' re so deeply entrenched lies in our culture that most people have no idea how to think outside that box . In my city , people have started to transcend the gender binary , and I have probably a couple dozen friends or acquaintances who identify as agender or nonbinary or genderqueer . To this INFP , I think this movement represents an awakening as we as humans realize that living in a world of two genders really is just a cultural matrix we could benefit greatly by waking up from . At least a couple of my nonbinary friends are INFP and I think we have a keen ability to know when we ' re not being authentically ourselves man , woman . If we ' re living a lie , we tend to be unusually conscious of it . This makes us great candidates for transcending regressive social norms I can try to find some sources if you want to know more but studying basic queer theory in general is a good start .