As long as he doesn ' t play the Pens , sure ! <| sep |> No mRNA proof of that , sorry . <| sep |> Dick on fire . <| sep |> I had my first psychotic break down , leading to hospitalization , over Christmas at my grandparent ' s during a family gathering some years back . Before going there I told my mom that I didn ' t want to go because I didn ' t like the pressure of everyone gathering in a house for a period of time and me not having my personal space . I knew it would stress me out but had no idea it would lead to psychosis granted it was a latent mental illness and would have happened sooner or later , but the gathering was definitely a catalyst . My mom sort of pressured me into going and later felt bad after my hospitalization for doing so , but how would she know as I never showed any signs and thought it would be just a temporary discomfort and would go away . So I definitely understand your anxiety . However , if you don ' t live so far away , just joining for the thanksgiving meal would be nice and you don ' t have to stay that long , and if you live far you could still book a hotel at your family ' s city and just spend a couple of hours and then unwind in private .