I honestly talk to more teachers or staff than students , especially this lady who works for the '' Student Services office '' and she ' s amazing , I go see her and talk to her for maybe half an hour every school day she ' s there , so there ' s that ' but thank you so much i appreciate u <| sep |> It seemed weird to me too . I just asked her spontaneously one day if we were going to change our FB relationship statuses , and she flipped out . After that I had to find out what was going on , and her behavior spiralled . Eventually it got to the point where I wasn ' t allowed to ever meet her male friends or parents , where I wasn ' t allowed to call her , and where she was cancelling our dates every Saturday night . Of course she ' s the victim though . She keeps talking about how sexist and controlling I was , because if I didn ' t need so much attention everything would have been fine . . We hadn ' t spoken on the phone or seen each other in person in almost a month . I don ' t believe I ' m needy for wanting to see my girlfriend at least once a month . I waited for hours every weekend when we had dates planned and she ' d send me a text two or three hours late saying she got a headache and decided to stay home . She acted like I was such an asshole for begging her to stop treating me like this , I don ' t really know how to even feel anymore . I feel like I ' ll be an asshole if I even want my next girlfriend to hug me sometimes .