urge your state legislator to pass this if it has not and tell your friends in other states to do the same . We should fix this with rule of law , not rule of men . <| sep |> So you mean you have to say Yes I do , then wait for him to instruct you to show it to him ? Damn , it ' s like you guys are written in C or something . <| sep |> I ' m so sorry . Perhaps you did make her feel abandoned but it sounds like she killed herself for other reasons but blamed you to justify it . IT DEFINITELY WAS NOT YOUR FAULT . it was her actions , and you did what you could . I ' m proud of you for calling them , and for not giving up on your own life afterwards . <| sep |> rrelationshipadvice might be able to help you out more than I can . I ' d say that the fear is natural she means a lot to you , after all . There ' s noone that can tell you they don ' t worry at times . She ' s very open with you , which shows that she trusts you a lot . Noone would put that much trust in an individual if they couldn ' t be trusted themselves . Don ' t worry about anything , just enjoy your time together