I shortly explain why in this comment , if you ' re interested . <| sep |> Because I turn down the few girls that are interested in me because I don ' t like them , which I understand is stupid . This is not stupid . If you don ' t like them , you should turn them down . If I ever do like a girl I just become friends with them and find a reason to not tell them how I feel ever because the few times I have it ended badly . This is stupid . Never taking the risk is guaranteeing a life of loneliness . <| sep |> Your average person is not like that . It ' s just that social media and the internet has given everyone a voice and the loudest voices are the ones at the far ends of the spectrums . It also doesn ' t help that 95 % of the media is extremely leftwing so they amplify the already loud voices of the few and make the public , protesting liberals seem like they are the majority of the country and group all conservatives under the umbrella of the few openly racist redneck Trump supporters . In other words , the media makes its seem like all trump supporters or even conservatives in general are archaic , xenophobic racists fighting to end civil rights for anyone nonwhite while the liberals are martyrs protesting for the rights of all and acting as if anyone who doesn ' t support them is part of the former group . In reality , there really aren ' t that many crazy people here .