I can relate to that i do love not having to answer to anyone but myself . the fact that you can just do what you want when you want is easily the best bit about being single . equally , i miss the companionshipsex as well . I was the other side to that coin though she wanted sex far more than me , it started to turn in to a chore for me and then she felt she was unwanted because i rarely initiated . still , as much as it felt like a chore at least i was getting some . It ' s good that you ' re content with where you ' re at . I kinda wish i could be like that i just know that being single means i pretty much act like a selfish dick because i can get away with it . my last relationship definitely toned that down and made me more considerate and a bit less standoffish . although , ultimately i know i want to have my cake and eat it , i just want the good parts of a relationship without having to deal with the tough bits .