So they dig a hole and just dump the dirt 100 m to the side . sounds fun ! Ahah <| sep |> I ' m so sorry this happened to you . It ' s one of my worst fears about the wedding . I mean , it ' s a one time deal ! It ' s not like you can just do it again to get the shots you want ! I also agree with another user that you should just leave an honest review on everything their business shows up on to warn future brides . <| sep |> Honestly , I think this should be an indicator that it ' s become a cult . None of those looks are attractive , and they all make the person look like an all out miserable person who most people would go far out of their way to avoid any interaction with . Yet they ' re doing it for some reason . It ' s to do with how in group out group , black and white they see themselves . They ' re basically wearing a uniform , which shows dedication to the group . When the price of showing dedication is every single person who isn ' t part of the groupcult will find you repulsive and want to avoid you , something ' s off . Like , your dedication to the group it is getting a little too strong when you ' re willing to strain relationships with every other person in your life by dressing up and playing the part of some angry monster who ' s out to make a scene or start a fight at all times .