The Chinese for example are incredibly insular generally they have a small and tight innercircle , mostly of family , and maybe a few friends . If you are in China and you smile to a stranger and act outgoing , they will distrust you , because outgoing people are perceived as unctuous and to be distrusted like you have something to gain from that interaction and it ' s not just neutral . This is true in other cultures , though not just in China . <| sep |> I have the exact same problem ! I cry for the silliest reasons , whenever I am just mildly stressed . I feel empathic for pretty much everything . I have cried because the thought of ugly fruits at the supermarket getting thrown away makes me sad . I am also vegan lol . But it has been like this since I am a little child . This is so , so annoying .