I love this cast too . But i think people would label Zeke and Bret as villians . <| sep |> Her behaviors are immature , even for her age . Grabbing your phone isnt ok , but if I were you I would be far more concerned about her threats to leave , you ' re on your last warning , etc . Those are ways to hold your relationship hostage to make you give in to her . It ' s bordering on manipulation and can lead to emotional abuse . You didn ' t know her before you moved in with her and now you are seeing her true character . For yourself , if you raised your voice , that ' s not ok either . Make sure you ' re the calm one during arguments so that her behavior is the obviously not ok behavior . And think about if you want to date an immature person whonuses threats to control you .