Cutting off my abusive family . I now spend thanksgiving with my friends . <| sep |> Bird has the aux cable <| sep |> Can I be adopted as well ? <| sep |> This book should be more famous . . and a movie . <| sep |> Super strange . I would go directly to her house and make sure she is still alive . But if she isn ' t interested in being in the wedding , so be it . Bridesmaids are supposed to be your support system , so if you know of someone willing to step in , I would ask them . However , I don ' t suggest asking just anybody to be a bridesmaid just for pictures . I knew a girl who had four bridesmaids and she didn ' t even know two of them , they were friends of her friends . It made for cute pictures , but I remember it was also super awkward for her to try and make friends with her own bridesmaids . I haven ' t ever seen her with those girls since .