That ' s not at all relevant . That ' s just the name of the newest incarnation of the English women ' s 1 st division . It ' s no more of a new league than the premier league was in the early 90 s . Just a rebrand . What I believe usuperduperly 1 is talking about is the creation of top proffesional league system from basically scratch . The most relevant example of this would be the Aleague . <| sep |> No man can eat fifty eggs . <| sep |> In your first reply you have said that you cant really excuse what she did then in this post then you say she had good intentions . Social issues do not excuse this kind of behaviour . You obviously want to shift all the focus onto your asshole ex so I will play along . Even without these messages , he was an asshole . If it bothers you this much still you ought to go to a therapist about it and work on it . I also doubt they will make light of your friends actions but hey I am just a faceless internet bod so wtf do I know . You should have called her on it at the time . You should have said fuck NO I dont want to read these messages bad for you but also how inappropriate in front of your CURRENT partner . Making fun of exes is one thing Jesus do you remember Bob you dated , christ his teeth and breath I cant believe you ever let him kiss you and so forth yeah we all do that . here lets read messages that will transport you magically back to the worst part in your life , chip at your self esteem and remind you that I did nothing to stop it what a wheeze that is ! Could you imagine doing that to her ? I could never do that to a friend of mine . Tell me if you received the same sort of messages from her boyfriend , what would you have done ? Would you have not told her either ? And then stood by while she got hurt more and more by this person , all the while saying nothing ?