Any opening can be turned into a gloryhole , let me show you you <| sep |> Everyday . At least a couple of hours . Eyes closed . Ears open . I like to view the music as a painting and it becomes something like a painting when you listen intently to a system with excellent stereo imaging . It ' s very madatative . <| sep |> My nieces are 4 and 2 . They were both at our wedding last month . On Valentine ' s Day early this year my brother took a picture of a heart shaped cookie with my husband and my name on it that she made for us . She understood that he was my fiance and we love each other . I was brought to tears . Your parents are being ridiculous . The reason why kids would be confused is because it ' s being kept a secret from them when they are the ones that will understand most without any preconceived hang ups . I remember when we were getting photos done . 2 different families were nearby and the parents were talking to them . The kids looks at us understandingly . They looked to be around 10 . Both families came forward and congratulated us and said positive things . This is the world I live in and the one I wish for other too as well .