I ' ve tried loving others and got hurt in the process . So if you ' re going to run out there with a campaign to heal the world and be the change , be sure you leave a little room to have patience with yourself . Be sure you ' re open to the possibility that not everyone is going to respond in kind . Most people don ' t care , and why should they ? You ' re views of spirituality and how the world should be has nothing to do with them . It ' s an idea in your own head . It seems easier to me to love myself first and allow that to take root before going off to help someone else ' s hatred . I can ' t change what I don ' t know . Letting love into the places where I hate myself is where the real groundwork is . <| sep |> Lol , I was thinking of Rollercoaster Dreams .