One girlfriend of a month suggested we have sex , without the condom this time . She had earlier revealed that she also had an STD but did not think it would be a problem if we loved each other . I continue to use a condom , to which she complained that I was obvious not in love with her . It turns out she was trying to make get her pregnant . The girl before that started having an affair . I came home . Found them together and quietly left before they realised . I came back later when she wasn ' t there . Packed my stuff and left . The girl before that often broke into screaming fits at irregular times . Usually at the tv , but sometimes at me , usually for telling her to calm down . The girl before that had been having an affair for a number of months . Fool me once , shame on you . Fool me twice , shame on me . The girl before that was emotionally abusive and began to exhibit violent behaviour . However , the last time I dated , the girl I thought I knew lived alone with four cats bigger than she was , she had Star Trek figurines everywhere with a fixation of Jon Luc Picard , slept in the lounge because her two bedrooms were full of garbage . a lounge decorated with two coffins , one of which once had once been buried with an actual human body part . We broke up becuase she did not like that I earned a great deal more than she did , and she was strangly angry about it . various other strange behaviour indicated that she was not perhaps the best fit for my quiet spoken self . It occurs to me that my type of magnet attracts crazy women , and so that is why I ' m not in a relationship . That said , if my piano teacher was interested .