Late to the game but I have friends that bought the exact same couch that I have . In the same color . It ' s just a couch from Ashley ' s Furniture , but it ' s weird going to their house and seeing my couch . <| sep |> Actually if you look at actual numbers , the pedophiles that do actually comply with their urges are not a majority . In fact most do know it ' s wrong , but can ' t get the help they need due to the massive knee jerk reaction that happens if you even state you have a sexual attraction to children to a doctor or psychologist . That they are required by the states to do . Now I ' m not trying to defend those who have terribly wronged others , but until our system actually does take all psychological problems seriously . Then the mental illness we call pedophilia will still be a massive problem , and a gross misrepresentation of justice for people who just want to get better but no way of getting help . But hey that just not just a fact . but a fact held up by actual numbers and plentiful reports , and not just a anger fueled rambling .