He ' s got a real career at Fox News or CNN <| sep |> Shouldn ' t there have been a sideline penalty on the return team . One guy ran all the way to the end zone . Iirc you have to stay within the 30 s <| sep |> Glad I don ' t live up there anymore . I used to live in Northgate , Pinehurst more specifically , and our power used to go out pretty often . It was weird how vulnerable our little area seemed to be . <| sep |> Thank you for your answer ! It gave me a lot to think . I hadn ' t considered his point of view you ' re right , he has supported us million times more than his parents him . Still , I feel he has never explained this point to us . He has made vague promises to make sure we wont need anything and we can study in peace not worrying about money so much . He might feel his contribution is enough , sure , but it ' s not more than is usual for our country , our culture . It ' s very common to parents to give some money to studying children , but students still need the loans . The way he speaks about paying for our education gives the feeling he paid it in full , that we got a free ride all thanks to him . When he was in his 20 ' s , his parent didn ' t support the idea of him going to schools . He could have gone still , because the benefits were basicly the same . He would have had to take loans , but the cost of living has changed and benefits haven ' t so much since then so even with the support from my parents I ' m at the same standard of living he would have been with just the benefits and loans . He made the choice of not wanting debt at such young age . He did study in his late 30 ' s , but he did it in the evenings , with a full time job . I ' m not saying it wasn ' t rough , with me and brother being around 10 at the time , but it was before the divorce and both my parents worked , so we were doing okay . He didn ' t need benefits or loans at that point , obviously . I will have to think about his point of view more . I might have a conversation with him privately about my disappointment . Still I feel there ' s no justification for him to be telling everyone he has paid for our education , when he has done the same or less than is the cultural norm , and than our mother does without making a fuss about it .