Ah zut , merci quand mme pour ton boulot ! <| sep |> The reason you couldnt force religion is that you can only do so on heretics , and the confucion religion is part of the very small asian religious group . <| sep |> What is his earliest memory ? Who was the oldest family member he knew ? Were there any family secrets that he discovered about the generations before him ? If someone in the family wasn ' t raised by their parents , why not and who raised them ? Does he know why his grandparents or greatgrandparents emigrated to wherever they emigrated to ? What kind of work or businesses did his parents and earlier generations do ? What were the family scandals that he knew about ? Does he know about any mentall illness , alcoholism , or suicides in the family ? What does he remember about family gatherings like Thanksgiving and Christmas and reunions ? Who came , what food was served , who the best cooks were , who could always be counted on for a laugh ? What would amaze his own grandparents the most about today ' s society , culture , or technology ? Why ?