That is exactly how Unhoard started ! Thanks for your response <| sep |> Actually we know in the conspiracy world who runs Wikileaks and it isn ' t Russia . <| sep |> Good thing the other candidate had no ties to saudis ! <| sep |> Why would you be self conscious ? Every man who has ever lived has jacked off thinking about female friends or coworkers . <| sep |> Not sure why this was deleted but to answer your question yes I ' ve dealt with the same before . I wouldn ' t say that I ' m not attracted to indian girls by any means , but looking at my past relationships I ' ve always been attracted to and dated white girls . My parents and many other members of the community would constantly try to beat the idea into my head of only dating and marrying an indian girl , but I ' ve never been the type of person to stand down or have someone tell me what I can and cannot do . My parents know that I tend to be stubborn and at the end of the day I ' m going to do what I want . Aside from that whenever they would attempt to bring the topic up , I would have a calm conversation with them about how ultimately these are my choices to make because I will be spending the rest of my life with that person . They still don ' t necessarily understand my stance , but they respect it . They ' ll still bring it up from time to time , and I just do my best to appease them by telling them I ' m not ruling indian girls out , I just haven ' t met the right one yet . I ' ve also asked my parents what it is about an indian girl over a white girl , and their response doesn ' t have to do with the color of their skin , but rather the character and value of a person , and whether or not she would be willing to show interest in the culture and traditions . My obvious response has always been that they need to trust me in knowing that the person I choose to one day marry would need to value the cultures and traditions my parents and I to some extent hold dear , and also they the person I ' m marrying would need to make an obvious effort in really appreciating my heritage . Granted I ' m also divorced after having married a white girl who was beautiful which my parents would agree with , but was not a good person based on her character and the lack of appreciation she had for my values and also failed to have a relationship with my parents so I believe lately a lot of the talks from my parents regarding marrying an indian girl come from the fact that they don ' t want me to get hurt again and they ' ve associated my failed marriage with the fact that the person was white rather than her actual flaws .