You ' ll get there What field of work ? <| sep |> me too . Still got 16 though , can ' t take that away from us . <| sep |> My mantra wasis Embrace the pain , because it hurts like fucking fuck , and hiding from the pain just makes me sad and then I internalize pain and take it out on myself ' and then I can heal from it better <| sep |> My SIL had this prob with her middle son , one morning she just lost it and finally said ' ENOUGH ! !! This is disgusting , I shouldn ' t have to deal with this any more '. Turns out the problem was that he was just too lazy to get up and pee . He had one accident after that conversation and then never wet the bed again . Upon telling her friends , it turned out a few of them had this exact same experiencescenario with their kids .