Yeah , flip ' em off and leave . Your GM is a dick . <| sep |> I was in the same spot about a year ago . I ended up doing it just to keep the wife and family happy . The wife has since joined me in freedomville and parents have found out we ' ve fallen but it bought me time to make a cleanish get away with the wife . She just wasn ' t ready to let go at the time so an extra few months of processing that things didn ' t add up in the church was good . I can ' t tell you what to do in your situation but I ' d suggest looking at the long term consequences of both decisions and going from there . I have a nearly 3 year old that has already forgotten how to pray and doesn ' t care to visit her friends in nursery anymore so it ' s not like any sort of indoctrination is going to do any lasting damage . If you care to talk things through more I ' m happy to help .