Just perfect in every way . The guy or gal that gets to lie with you is too lucky for words . <| sep |> How the hell do you survive that ? ' n boer maak ' n plan <| sep |> Thank god lol <| sep |> Conchis from the Magus . <| sep |> Well what you said about a family members can apply to fellow countrymen , you pay your taxes to support them and you communicate interact with those people on a daily basis . Anyway to reiterate on what I meant , people won ' t necessarily support a fellow countrymen , more often they will support people of a similar or the same ethnic group . The reason why countries exist today is because the people of a certain land put their trust into a leader who can protect their people ' s values and land from foreigners who could potentially put them at risk . These countries were often developed to protect an ethnic group , although there are many exceptions to this . The reason why I disagree with your statement that people will support those within a border is because often people within a border will not support and even hate some groups who they share their country with . For example you would be hard pressed to find a Han Chinese person who would give their support to a Uyghur person in an international sports event , or an ethnic Russian won ' t be as supportive to ethnic groups like Tatars and Siberian ethnic groups . This type of thing is massively widespread in Africa , where the borders of most countries don ' t match up with ethnic groups well at all , and so now that ethnic groups who were historically strongly opposed to each other share the same government and country , there is widespread conflict . Just recently at the Olympics an Ethiopian runner faces punishment if he returns to Ethiopia due to a political gesture that he used in opposition to the treatment of the Oromo people there . runnerprotest If it were true people supported those from within the same borders as themselves then he wouldn ' t be facing this kind of backlash from who I can only assume are other ethnic groups from Ethiopia .