awesome ! ! Good job soldier ! !<| sep |> I ' m not an ISFP or ENFJ , but I am an ISFJ so I ' m in a way a combination of both . All types can go together . There ' s no real perfect pair because everyone is different , and therefore also attracts different peopleis attracted to different people . An ENFJ can just as well go with an ESTJ as they go with an INFP for example , and an ISFP might have a really great relationship with an ENTP , even though they ' re usually not put as the perfect couple . It all depends on what you ' re like as a person and who you like as a person . What ' s important is that you realise your strengths and weaknesses and make sure to work on them and communicate your thoughts and feelings . If it feels right you should go for it , don ' t be afraid of what could happen or what might happen or what might not even happen at all , and just enjoy the time you spend with him . Don ' t be afraid to take a shot in the dark here and there .