You know when you ' ve been living together for a while , people get lulled into a sense of complacency with the topic of marriage . I ' ve seen people live together for years with kids and they ' ve never even brought up marriage . If it ' s something you want then you should definitely talk to the guy and let him know how you feel instead of hiding it to assuage feelings . If he isn ' t ready for it or doesn ' t want it then maybe , just maybe it ' s time to move on , if it ' s something you want . <| sep |> For $ 40 you can buy both and decide for yourself . I know it ' s easy for me to spend your money for you , but honestly $ 40 is hardly even money these days . <| sep |> Also , it seems you just randomly spam posts here and in rdiepiosuggestions , I assume you ' re banned from rdiepio ? That ' s a good thing , I hope you get banned here too .