Fucking really ? Really ? My mispronunciation of your name makes you feel excluded ? If I was going to exclude you , I wouldn ' t say your name . People with nonEnglish and nonFrench names shouldn ' t get pissy when people mispronounced those names in a nation that primarily speaks those two languages . It ' s like walking into a butcher as a vegan and getting mad when they don ' t have veggie burgers . You know the outcome . I agree that some of us truly suck as mispronouncing some names , but that is part of what happens when you move somewhere that they don ' t speak your mother language . It ' s why I love Chinese immigrants , almost every single one I have met through my job in security has introduced themselves as Hi my name is Xing , but Sean is fineThose brilliant people have figured out the best way to stop us from mispronouncing their names is to give it to us in it ' s anglicized form . That way we don ' t mess it up and they don ' t have to explain 4 times how it is pronounced .