Say goodbye to three years of your life lol . <| sep |> And thus , Freddy Benson is born . <| sep |> There ' s this expression about beggars not having the ability to be choosy . <| sep |> I thought if you shaded a 2 nd time it would cancel the original shading . can you shade both underneath and outside ? <| sep |> It ' s not about taking care of you , it ' s about having a family . People who care about you and return the love you give them . People who will share their life with you as you grow old . Not many people give a crap about elderly people outside of their family , and how exciting do you think your day will be once your friends all are occupied with their own families ? It ' s about improving the quality of your life by improving the quality of your family ' s life . Sometimes the risk seems great until you start noticing the reward .