I wouldn ' t go spending any stardust on it . 82 % IV isn ' t great for such a common pokemon , and anyway , gengar isn ' t useful because he gets type advantage over basically nothing . Except maybe buggrass , and those would be better handled by fireflying anyways <| sep |> WHat ' s wrong with Blues ? I have the Razer Blackwidow Chroma Tournament edition and would like to know if this would feel similar . Also , is it available in white ? <| sep |> Textbased dumping is the coward ' s way out , you ' re better off . <| sep |> Let ' s go Cats ! <| sep |> I fully get where you are coming from you sound like a motivated fun guy , but you ' re assuming that your friends view money and life the same way you do . Some people just aren ' t motivated to do things u say you invite people all the time and you have minimal people step up and take you up on your offers . Sometimes having that friend that is constantly trying to do things , and get together , and go out as a group can get a little . tiring to deal with ? Add that to the fact that people are lazy man . That ' s people in general and not just your friends . I put up a poll asking how much money people like be willing to contribute , and the options were between $ 20 and up to $ 100 . Six people responded and the majority weren ' t willing to pay anything . I thought this was pretty pathetic . I would say maybe that attitude is the reason they ' re not upfront with you about it . ? Some people just don ' t want to spend money on that kind of thing , for a million reasons they can ' t be bothered going , they feel broke and can ' t afford it , they are busy . And they don ' t know how to say no to you . So they flake out don ' t reply , etc . I would also take the fact that your friend isn ' t replying to you as that he doesn ' t want to come . Maybe he feels bad saying he doesn ' t want to go so he ' s just ignoring it until he thinks you will forget about it . For whatever reason it is , while I totally get you just want an answer and thats not much to ask for it ' s not at all , I ' m a big stickler on being honest with my friends , it just comes across as a bit pushy maybe and he ' s just not interested this year . Sometimes people don ' t have a reason , they just don ' t want to . I would recommend focusing on your hobbies by yourself , or with your partner , and if you find a friend who ' s motivated to join in then open the door to them . But honestly it just sounds like people are not interested in putting in a ton of effort into activities like you ' re into . When you say I just want to spend my weekends doing things other than drinking , and make good memories . that ' s cool that that ' s what you want , but that ' s probably not what they want . ?