Sorry buddy , I ' m not american . <| sep |> Huh . Drugs had nothing to do with mine . When we were dating she was perfect . It seemed like night and day after the honey moon . She stopped working , dropped out of school , didn ' t cook , didn ' t clean , didn ' t really do much other than watch tv . One day she said she wanted kids and I looked around at the state of the house and realized 3 things . 1 I was actively looking for extra things to do at work where I was on a salary instead of coming home . 2 At this moment I would not want this woman to be the mother of my children as they would expect this for their relationships . 3 I wasn ' t happy anymore and nothing I said or did would motivate her to make changes . <| sep |> He ' s not a terrible passer . He ' s been better recently than Elneny while still being better defensively . The benefit we gain defensively outweighs the detriment from his passing limitations . And he ' s not exactly relied on to score goals is he ?