I have a i 74790 k MSI G 45 Z 97 Gaming mobo Corsair Vengeance Pro DDR 31600 RAM combo for $ 400 shipped <| sep |> I am dealing with the abusive family issue with my husband right now . I grew up with seven siblings and literally hundreds of cousins . I now communicate with one sister and have three cousins on my Facebook . My husband ' s family is as bad or worse than mine , but he still believes the lie that he has to be loyal to them because they ' re his family . It ' s literally destroying our marriage because I will not tolerate these people around the children . He told his mom he ' s going out of town for a few weeks to earn some extra money before Christmas . In the same conversation , he mentioned that he had some problems right now . The only question she asked him was how much money he ' d be bringing back even though she still owes us $ 40 which he and I fought about because I told him I won ' t help her out again . I ' ve actually heard her argue that she wasn ' t abusive because I never punched you kids without good reason .