We had to cancel plans this Saturday night , where my best friend and her boyfriend invited us over to party at her place . Actually , you didn ' t have to . I agree with uRitaflyin . You should go with your best friend and her boyfriend and get some rest . Why are his friends a priority over your friends ? Any advice on how I can approach my husband ? I ' m going with Elaine and Puddy . This way I get a break from 4 straight nights of entertaining , and let them do the entertaining . If you want to come with me still , you ' re welcome to . Unfortunately , informing me the last minute on Monday night that George Costanza wants to come over with his girlfriend Susan is not enough notice and is unfair to Elaine and Puddy , and therefore I have reached out to Elaine and informed her I intend to honour my previous commitment to them on Saturday night with or without you . So you can stay and entertain George and Kramer and their SOs , and I will go alone to Elaine ' s , or you can cancel with George and Kramer and inform them we had a previous commitment and come with me to Elaine ' s . Unfortunately these are the only two options I am capable of at this time I do not intend to wear myself out during a holiday that should also include some rest and relaxation for myself as well .