what ' s your gt <| sep |> I can completely relate , its so difficult to find really good products that absorb everything , so often a combination can be good . I use a menstrual cup , but I came across a brand called Modibodi which is like ' period underwear '. And they have all different absorbency levels from light to heavy which is arriving in a month , I ' m already on the waitlist ! So i wear the cup and the protective underwear in a moderate and find that I don ' t leak at all , you don ' t even notice you ' re wearing it , they just feel like normal undies , but its such great peace of mind . You should definitely check them out categoryunderpants <| sep |> Im so scared my daughter will end up with one of these bc she was born with a pilonidal pit . I am so OCD about that thing that my kid is almost 6 and I still wipe her ass so I can be sure it ' s clean