It ' s not noticeable , not even when I go out of my way to check for it . <| sep |> If you have an idea of things he already has or was looking for that ' d help us recommend more spefic gifts rather than generic deck box . My recommendation would be a custom playmat . You can get them made from certain stores or online . It ' s a really useful gift and can be really personal depending on what artwork you choose place you both visited or old memory <| sep |> Thank you everyone for the kind words . Our son was a little early at 37 weeks and will still be in the special care nursery for a few more days under dr care he ' s gonna be just fine just needed a little more time so we ' re going back and forth to see him . Being home is hard and I was so hoping she would be here for pictures . That little runt was the joy of my life for 10 years . She had cues to let you know what she wanted , if she was thirsty she would lick her chops , if she wanted her kibble she would circle , and if she wanted her goopy eyes cleaned , she would dramatically wipe them on whatever was closest to her . Guess what she wanted here TvyfRqjoPTA