Your first thought is that women will lie about rape . In a rape fantasy yes , the FIRST thought any MALE HUMAN BEING will have is whether their partner will lie about it later and use it against them . That is exactly why the fantasy is controversial in the first place . The fact that you think women can ' t lie , is amazingly stupid . I don ' t want to bother to linking statistics and shit . Statistics ? you mean more lies ? That ' s very stereotypical of you . How do you know a statistic is truthful , if we don ' t know who lied and who told the truth ? But you don ' t need a rape fantasy to falsely accuse someone of rape . Any sex would work . Semen in the vagina , go to the hospital , get a rape kit , and take him to court . So really , if you ' re scared , you can ' t exactly fuck anyone , can you ? It ' s almost like , the law is sexist against men . Or you could accept that women really don ' t lie about rape that much . How do you know ? What if there is a large plurality and percentage of women who are lying ? What if it ' s 15 %? What if it ' s 25 %? When does it become unacceptable enough for you to see the dangers in rape fantasies and complain about dangerously sexist laws ? And the amount of rapes where the rapist is actually convicted ? Around 10 % iirc . That is probably not even close to accurate . Many innocent lives have been ruined , over accusations in court , even when acquitted . Maybe don ' t fuck random women ? How do you fuck nonrandom women ? Every person you meet in your life is random . It ' s not like they are all related to you . but you can ' t let fear rule your life . How about change the law ? How about , until the law is changed , no fantasies or rough sex ? How about documentation must be signed and witnessed before sex ? Why should any man risk their livelihood , because of these unfair , sexist laws ? based on your comments about how you can ' t take consent back , I ' d be inclined to trust them . So you admit you love it when people lie about rape . Maybe you ' ve done it in the past . judging by the way you are hostile to the idea of women lying . how you can ' t take consent back , If you can take consent back , then consent is meaningless . How about if you get raped , you should defend yourself , use a weapon ? How about you don ' t go near anyone you don ' t trust , that way , only trusted people who won ' t rape you are there and you can ' t just accuse them , because they are trusted people ? oh but trusted people do rape . so perhaps the better solution is women need to defend themselves , not rely on prosecution by courts . If you ' re having sex and can ' t verbally revoke consent , there should be a gesture or something that functions in place of a safe word . If you ' re having sex , you shouldn ' t be able to just cancel sex . Just get it over with , and if you didn ' t enjoy the sex . how about . i dunno . say ugh that was bad sex and find a better partner next time ? If you ' re being suddenly hurtinjured while having sex and urgently need to cancel sex . how about , charge them with assault ? Make sure to leave enough marks on the guy so that we know you tried to defend yourself and aren ' t just having a moment of regretting sex so you decide to lie . If there is no legal guarantee in whether or not someone will be accused or rape . then how about let ' s not have sex until that law is fixed so that both sides are guaranteed safe sex ? Or how about , if you get raped , don ' t go near that person again or defend yourself and don ' t bother trying to get convictions on first offenders because we can ' t really tell who ' s telling the truth . We can ' t just rely on the only witness being the very accuser . Once that law is changed in that way , then everyone will be free to do rape fantasies and rough sex . because there is no danger . Repeat rapists get convicted . A misunderstanding doesn ' t lead to a rape case . A regretfulsex doesn ' t lead to a rape case .