I personally never did . <| sep |> The life written by casquis i know its a fanfic but bloody hell if it is good , would make an interesting series <| sep |> This will vary according to your local community and interests , but . In my 3 years on Fetlife , I get the most out of it when I treat it like Facebook . Check for events , keep up with people I ' ve met and very occasionally , an interesting bit of writing or a nice picture will make it ' s way onto my feed . Other than that , I find meeting people and actually learning things will generally take place offsite . <| sep |> No , because I ' m not an animal who puts on my lipstick while squatted over the toilet bowl . <| sep |> THIS is why I ' m not worried . Even when it ' s in your face you continue to think this way . Dems aren ' t smart enough to change to win an election . MAGA