Last relationship ended four months ago and I sort of don ' t feel like getting cough in another one because honestly every relationship I have been in was stressful and emotionally taxing . Instead I am taking all my new found extra time to work out , find new hobbies and better myself ! So far I have lost 28 pounds , losing weight and gaining muscle means I need a new wardrobe so I have been getting into fashion and experimenting with new cloths , grew a sweet beard and got a new haircut ! Long way to go til I reach my goal but after Christmas I ' ll be joining a gym so that might help with progress ! Also extra time means I can pick up hobbies and the one I chose is cooking and cocktail mixing ! So hopefully soon enough I ' ll be able to make some delicious and healthy foods and great cocktails to have after ! TLDR Don ' t really feel like getting a relationship , instead am working on bettering myself .