But I ' m genuinely curious as to what you would propose to the situation where a woman want an abortion but the man doesn ' t ? How is that settled or governed ? <| sep |> 16 years old and can down more alcohol in one night than you have ever drank in your life . <| sep |> Not having something that you desperately want , while everyone else has itWhy do you think that is ? Is it a grand conspiracy of everyone else in the world intentionally keeping at arms length from you , to drive you mad with frustration and unfulfillment ? Do you have a glowing sign above your head that only you can ' t see , that warns people away from you ? Or is it . you denying it to yourself because you think you will only fuck it up if you try to socialise ? You wake up sweating from another nightmare where somebody you were friendly to looked at you like a twoheaded monster and screamed to the staring masses DID YOU SEE THAT ? THIS FREAK TRIED TO BE FRIENDS WITH ME ! ! Unless you really are the Prime Unlikeable and embody the perfect form of a person nobody can stand to be around , there ' s really only your overwhelming aversion to being hurt that ' s stopping you .