There ' s a couple right here offering <| sep |> Yea , nobody actually cares about this , 99 % of us realize that he cant go yea im completely ok with people hailing me as hitler reborn , who the fuck actually expects him not to disavow <| sep |> Was there ever a list ? <| sep |> The words pressure and have a child do not belong in the same sentence . Especially when you ' re not the one who ' d have to undergo the tremendous physical toll that childbirth takes on women . And if you think you ' re on the verge of being too decrepit to handle a kid now , how do you expect to deal with puberty in a decade ? Or do you not see that as part of your job as a father because it ' s not playtime ? If your wife doesn ' t want kids ever , then you ' ve got a problem . But even then , the solution is to walk away rather than set up a situation where everyone will be miserable and resentful . As it is , just give her the chance to finish out her early twenties like you did , and calm down about your impending mortality .