I feel like you have to say this as to not offend the parents with people who will be having children soon . <| sep |> huge differences between statesare y ' all REALLY sure you are a nation ? Lived in the US for over 10 years . I ' ve rarely felt that the general sentiment here even recognizes that the US is , above everything else , a country . People are tribal in the sense that they identify with their state first and foremost . It doesn ' t help that part of the foundation of this country centers on an absurd division between states and nation in a way that often puts them directly at odds with each other . The sheer amount of wasted resources when states refuse to cooperate with the nation . <| sep |> This is a great post and very relevant to improving your quality of life as well as your ability to give your women that comfortprotection that she needs plus maybe a bit of adrenaline . Thing is though , don ' t lose sight of the forest for the trees here . There are ' betas ' that are great at some of these things . There are even blue pill beta men that are great at sky diving , riding motorcycles and doing extreme sports that can ' t handle or approach a woman in the right context . These skills and hobbies should be seen as complimentary to your life . Not essential . You still have to cultivate a confident , brave , sexually aggressive character in order to execute on a woman ' s desire to be taken . And here is the kicker . You have to be able to have innate confidence standing on your own . without any of the aforementioned things in this post . That ' s the toughest part . Otherwise your perception of yourself and confidence is only as good as the number of skillshobbies you know or do . And that ' s simply not realistic . I tend to have unique , peculiar ' manly ' hobbies , at least historically . Disc golfing , meteorology storm chasing , politics , model railroading and hiking normal . I also have made working outlifting a new hobby and to me a health necessity . Owning a home has done wonders to give me the incentive to learn household skills , at least on a basic level . Some of it sounds nerdy and is in a lot of respects . I am still exploring things that I can fall in love with and learn new skills at the same time . given what time provides as far as my job , money , other responsibilities , etc . But again . these are complimentary characteristics that should support your personal and sexual confidence . Not make that it .